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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Share Your Interview Experience by Farfalla(f): 4:41pm On Apr 18, 2023*

Juliearth:
What an experience! What if the delay and toxicity meted at you were deliberate to test your patience?

Allow me to differ! Displaying toxicity to test a candidate's patience? C'mon! That interviewer displayed pure nonsense. Very unprofessional behaviour.

An interview generally serves two purposes for both the interviewer and the candidate;
1. Is the candidate a right fit for the organisation?
2. Is the organisation a right fit for the candidate?

1. As an organisation you want to know what skills the candidate has that are relevant to the post. Do they have the relevant experience? If not, do they have transferable skills from their previous work experience? Are their salary and benefits expectations within your budget? What is their approach to tasks? Do they have a clue about what is required of them? Have they done their research about the organisation? Can they explain the gaps in their CVs? Are they switching careers? Are they switching industries/sectors? If so, try and find out why? Do they respect people's time (punctuality)? How do they communicate -- how do they pass across their points? Do they come across as abrasive? Unsure? Timid? Blunt? Diplomatic? Shallow? Intelligent? Level-headed? Are they the think-then-respond type? You also want to know what drives them? What motivates them?.....etc.

2. As a candidate you also want to get more than just a glimpse of your potential job and employer. Are you being interviewed for a new position? Is it a replacement? What is typical day like in that role? Is it an ambiguous role? Do they value people's time and money? Do they conduct themselves professionally, or do they conduct their affairs like agberos? Are they casual? What is their tone like? Do they weaponize fear? Do they display "muscles" during interviews? if yes, fear is probably a tool used to drive their organisation. What are their working hours? What are their working styles?.... I could go on and on.

Any employer who uses bad behaviour to "test patience" needs to review their HR policies. I'm glad she turned them down. If someone shows you who they are, believe them. I am an example of somebody who walked out of a toxic work environment. Yes. I resigned. Let those who get turned on by toxic people seek them out. I have also turned down a job offer because they were dishonest about their renumeration. They displayed a particular juicy figure in their call for applications, only to turn around and tell me that the salary -- which they themselves announced -- does not fit into their budget. Those 1969 interview tactics administered by semi-illiterate village champions need to be completely eradicated from the face of the Earth (along with those long, fake fingernails that resemble miniature swords).

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Romance › Re: I Slept With 155 Prostitutes by Farfalla(f): 1:06pm On Apr 18, 2023

Klass99:
Lol 🤣. They will be alright las las

Let them keep deceiving themselves that they're not emotional. 🤣🤣🤣

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Romance › Re: I Slept With 155 Prostitutes by Farfalla(f): 12:57pm On Apr 18, 2023

BiGVEEN58:
You can't follow an average young Nigerian girl with logic. It won't work. You have to bend or pretend to be foolish

You don't get it.

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Romance › Re: I Slept With 155 Prostitutes by Farfalla(f): 12:49pm On Apr 18, 2023

Pussykills:
The problem right now is that I don't have that much feelings for the new girl I'm dating. Since she's been in my life I have been able to stop but I noticed my soul still longs to experience that feeling of getting high and banging a hoxx.

This is not the first time, my past relationships ended because the feelings weren't there.

What would you suggest? Does sleeping with many partners make one loose the feeling of love? I don't get it, I can't even love, it's not just there.

What do you need LOVE and FEELINGS for?
LOGIC is all you need.

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Family › Re: Should I Divorce My Husband Because He Is Sick With A Terminal Illness? by Farfalla(f): 11:32pm On Apr 17, 2023

MadarasBlade:
Very good. Then i wonder why women get angry when men cheat because they look unattractive after giving birth.

I don't see the relevance of your post to my submission. The dude I was responding to claimed that women are selfish and I was only clarifying to him that selfishness is a human trait, and not necessarily specific to women.

To respond to your query, I guess the women get angry when men cheat for the same reason men get furious at paternity fraud.

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Family › Re: Should I Divorce My Husband Because He Is Sick With A Terminal Illness? by Farfalla(f): 7:02pm On Apr 17, 2023

Creamypie:
no mind am. Women are naturally selfish and scheming. They are like sirens. They rotate according to financial circumstances

Human beings (in general) naturally pursue what benefits them, yourself included.

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Events › Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by Farfalla(f): 5:42pm On Apr 17, 2023

In my culture the bride's family will shoulder that responsibility.

Celebrities › Re: Toke Makinwa Flaunts Her Curves In Sexy Bikini - (photos) by Farfalla(f): 5:31pm On Apr 17, 2023

BRATISLAVA:
Farfálla, behold!

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Romance › Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by Farfalla(f): 4:10pm On Apr 15, 2023*

folake4u:
Kai. You went through a LOT.

I'm glad you're out of that also.

He also went through a lot I want to believe. E no easy to dey walk around as a man knowing you can't satisfy woman.

It happened a long time ago though. I'm in another stage of my life.

Romance › Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by Farfalla(f): 3:48pm On Apr 15, 2023*

folake4u:
That's really terrible. I'm sorry about that.

Seemed like performance anxiety at first but when things got worse I knew it was time to end it quickly. I would always wonder why the man was so insecure. He never wanted to even see male acquaintances around me. He also wanted to "befriend" my small clique of friends so he could monitor me through them. I later came to understand the source of his insecurities. embarassed

Family › Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Farfalla(f): 3:11pm On Apr 15, 2023

ednut1:
Wife or children even tho most women dont make their husbands next of kin

So this is no longer a secret? grin

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Romance › Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by Farfalla(f): 3:05pm On Apr 15, 2023

folake4u:
Oh dear

It was terrible.

Romance › Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by Farfalla(f): 2:45pm On Apr 15, 2023

folake4u:
Ah. Say it na.

Erectile dysfunction.

Crime › Re: Human Traffickers Go Wild As Uk-based Madam Writes Shrine, Vows To Destroy Victi by Farfalla(f): 2:27pm On Apr 15, 2023

folake4u:
I say an Amen on his behalf. 😂😂

Folake...!!

Romance › Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by Farfalla(f): 2:17pm On Apr 15, 2023

If I'm to be really honest about what killed my feelings for an ex I'll appear petty, as it was something beyond his control. lipsrsealed

Crime › Re: Human Traffickers Go Wild As Uk-based Madam Writes Shrine, Vows To Destroy Victi by Farfalla(f): 12:46pm On Apr 15, 2023

KnowledgePower7:
Women are the most wicked creatures on Earth.
See what a woman is doing to her fellow woman.
Na still women dey traffic themselves into prostitution
All of these prostitutes get MADAM
Na woman be oga for prostitution
Na them go still say men are scum
But will traffic themselves for men to knack.

That's why I laugh when I see girls doing women power and supporting women
Women are their own worst enemies

Women will backstab their best friend and watch her die off.
Women that will be jealous of their bestie Just like that..

That's why I don't chase women
Or do any stupid love with women.
Their wahala too much
I bang the shit out of them and dump them for the stupid simps that will suffer forever trying to please them.

May you heal from your hurts.

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Sports › Re: Achraf Hakimi's Wife Filed For A Divorce, But Found Out He Got No Property by Farfalla(f): 5:32pm On Apr 14, 2023*

godwon01:
It will pain her. Misfortune lady Hakim na proper African man. A lesson for everyone.

Nothing about him indicates a "proper" African man. undecided

Sports › Re: Achraf Hakimi's Wife Filed For A Divorce, But Found Out He Got No Property by Farfalla(f): 4:26pm On Apr 14, 2023

Romance › Re: Isoko Man Leaves A Beautiful Young Lady Heartbroken And In Tears by Farfalla(f): 4:12pm On Apr 06, 2023*

She's young. She'll learn. cheesy

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Romance › Re: Nigerian Bride-To-Be Visits Married Boyfriend For 1 Last Sex Before Her Wedding by Farfalla(f): 7:01pm On Apr 03, 2023

Married boyfriend must exercise his polygamous by nature rights nau. grin

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TV/Movies › Re: Tsatsi Evicted From The Big Brother Titans House by Farfalla(f): 9:01pm On Apr 02, 2023

Klass99:
Oh...okay. Ebubu I know is Nigerian, I didn't know Kanaga is Nigerian too. The name sounds South African to my ears.

He's Nigerian.
Oh yes! Yvonne too made to the finals.

TV/Movies › Re: Tsatsi Evicted From The Big Brother Titans House by Farfalla(f): 8:53pm On Apr 02, 2023

Klass99:
It looks like the Khosi a lot of viewers/nairalanders hate is going to win . So, no Nigerian made it to finals?

Kanaga and Ebubu made it to the finals.

Romance › Re: Married Men Sleeping With Married Women. by Farfalla(f): 7:19pm On Apr 01, 2023

lavylilly:
Absolutely, imagine a broke Nigeria graduate

Married men and women rarely seek each other out for financial benefits.

A former married colleague once told me that he usually prefers to have illicit affairs with married women because they have realistic expectations, unlike single girls who will start pestering the man to divorce his wife or pressurise him into marriage with that "our culture allows polygamy" nonsense.

And since logic dictates that he must be polygamous by nature, guess who he'll hit on? Another man's wife. grin

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Romance › Re: Married Men Sleeping With Married Women. by Farfalla(f): 5:12pm On Apr 01, 2023

lavylilly:
Is this supposed to be news. True some of this married women throw themselves to these men

And these men are just too helpless to reject the advances of these married women. Yes?

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Romance › Re: Why Are You Obsessed With ‘nyash’, Will It Pay Your Bills?” – South African Lady by Farfalla(f): 5:03pm On Apr 01, 2023*

JBoss25:
Only clowns will be obsessed with fat buttocks full of shit

BRATISLAVA, may I have your attention please? grin

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Politics › Re: Which Kind New NL Font Be This? by Farfalla(f): 2:23pm On Apr 01, 2023

GloriousGbola:
You are threatening our leader whose interest is reinvigorated.

Bi kiaful before he sends you to gulag

It angers me that I've been fooled 3 times today! Seun was the third person to fool me. angry

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Politics › Re: Which Kind New NL Font Be This? by Farfalla(f): 2:00pm On Apr 01, 2023*

Seun:
Happy April Fools Day!

I had to repeat my old stunt due to limited time.

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Politics › Re: Which Kind New NL Font Be This? by Farfalla(f): 12:11pm On Apr 01, 2023

Come on Oluwaseun Osewa! angry

Celebrities › Re: Yul Edochie's First Son, Kambilichukwu, Is Dead by Farfalla(f): 12:00pm On Apr 01, 2023*

Successfulben:
I am old enough to be your father, idiot.

I can assure you you're not.

Nonetheless, being mature in age doesn't mean that you'll always be right.

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Romance › Re: Lady In Shock After She Got Dumped By Boyfriend For Not Flushing The Toilet by Farfalla(f): 11:57am On Apr 01, 2023

Nothing makes me angrier than filthy toilet and bathroom habits. I like to see clear water and a sparkling white toilet bowl before I use a toilet and I must leave it that way! How does one "forget" to flush the toilet?

I don't know which one is worse -- not flushing the toilet or announcing her lack of proper toilet etiquette to the world.

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