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RomanceRe: I Saw My Neighbor On His Knees Begging A Girl To Accept Him For Relationship by Farfalla(f): 7:38pm On Mar 30, 2023
bisqit:
are you free this weekend?
No.
CelebritiesRe: Yul Edochie's First Son, Kambilichukwu, Is Dead by Farfalla(f): 7:37pm On Mar 30, 2023
pocohantas:
Too fit? That is a new one.
Yep. A certain chauvinistic moniker implied that May needed to stop going to the gym so she can get "fuller" like her co-wife. I'd fish out that thread if I wasn't so exhausted.
PoliticsRe: An Imperfect Democracy Is Better Than A Perfect Military Dictatorship - Omokri by Farfalla(f): 4:33pm On Mar 30, 2023
Democracy is overrated.
CelebritiesRe: Yul Edochie's First Son, Kambilichukwu, Is Dead by Farfalla(f): 4:27pm On Mar 30, 2023
Successfulben:
If you think Yul Edochie has no hand in his son's death then you are MAD and you deserve to be taken to the psychiatric. May Edochie should file for divorce asap, am sure she has learnt her lessons the hard way. First she was fighting to save her marriage, now she has lost her first son. She finally lost the battle. To the rest of you gold-diggers who think it's only the man that have to suffer to labour so you just walk in majestically into his rest, well I hope you learn from Mrs May Edochie, I pray you marry the man God has ordained for you from eternity because there's a man for every woman. Money is not everything even in life. Don't be blinded by glitters so you won't end up with a RITUALIST. A word is enough for the WISE.
Will you shut up!
RomanceRe: I Saw My Neighbor On His Knees Begging A Girl To Accept Him For Relationship by Farfalla(f): 3:53pm On Mar 30, 2023
ozile1234:
I will keep this post updated wen the relationship finally kick start.
Amebo. You're also a simp.
CelebritiesRe: Yul Edochie's First Son, Kambilichukwu, Is Dead by Farfalla(f): 10:08am On Mar 30, 2023
pocohantas:
Your brothers say she no dey submissive. The usual excuse after messing up a good thing.
Another one even said she's too fit, that's why Yul had to stray. You can never win with these ones.

I can't even begin to imagine what they are going through right now. I can only wish them God's grace. Chai..!!
CelebritiesRe: Yul Edochie's First Son, Kambilichukwu, Is Dead by Farfalla(f): 9:57am On Mar 30, 2023
Ikea81:
In Igbo tradition. If you leave your husband without proper separation/divorce and return of BP, and you go out to be living with another man. Your first child will be having constant seizures.

I can bet it was not his first seizure, the warning has been there. They just paid for the consequences of their ego. All those supporting the married woman to stray. Una don see ba?

I am not saying Yul did well with his actions. If you can't respect yourself and keep your dick in your pants or cheat responsibly and you get a woman pregnant. The only honourable thing to do as an Igbo man is to claim the child and pay her dowry. After this slip, the wife should have learnt to forgive and make their home. See where pride carry them reach now.

Don't argue this culture with me. It's true. She is seeing another man consistently now. The son just paid the price. Let her family return the bride price, and cleanse her. You can't be married and live with another man. Na abomination. Feminist make una leave me this morn. I dey go ndi ichie meeting.
Shut up...!!
CelebritiesRe: Yul Edochie's First Son, Kambilichukwu, Is Dead by Farfalla(f): 9:45am On Mar 30, 2023
Oh dear Lord no!! A parent's worst nightmare. cry
FoodRe: The Bushmeat My Dad Caught At My Village by Farfalla(f):
Mrvictorwrite:
This looks like Alligator. Alligators are amphibians tho.
Are they not reptiles? undecided

CrimeRe: Man Arrested For Allegedly Raping 9-Month-Old Baby In Lagos by Farfalla(f): 6:01pm On Mar 29, 2023
Some things you read online will make you weep. Chai!!

Our Father in heaven. Protect our children. 🙏
FamilyRe: What Rightful/peaceful Way Can One Divorce A Partner? by Farfalla(f):
Dearlove2me:
Legal practitioners in the house?
Experienced people in the house,
Pls, help out with this informations.
What rightful, peaceful way can one divorce a partner without violence?
For a marriage of three years, how can one go about with divorce?
What are the procedures and duration?
How can one do it without turning to an enemy, but just move on In a separate direction?
Thank you
Did you have a civil marriage? A common-law marriage? A church wedding? A traditional marriage? A combination of 2 of the above? That will determine the manner in which you'll go about dissolving the marriage.

The duration of the divorce process may be determined by complexities such as;
1. Type of marriage
2. Presence of children (biological and adopted)
3. Presence of prenuptial documents
4. (Linked to point 3 above) Whether you have shared property/properties (the worst decision most couples make IMO)
5. Cooperation from the other party (For instance, my aunt's ex-husband declined to sign divorce papers for many years in a bid to frustrate the divorce process).

You haven't mentioned the reason(s) for your decision to divorce your spouse but why do I get the feeling you anticipate a possibility of violence? Is he violent?? Keep it civil regardless.

About dissolving your marriage without becoming enemies after this may be determined by factors such as;
1. How aggrieved the parties are -- betrayal, rejection, pain, depression and psychosocial anguish tend to create enemies out of people you once achieved orgasms with. The higher the level of trust, the deeper the grief. That can explain why people become enemies with "good" men or "good" women after a break up.
2. The level of civility during and after the divorce process. Don't expect friendship after throwing Tonto Dike and Nkechi Blessing tantrums.
3. And of course you must expect enmity if you're ending a relationship with him to be with his brother (or her sister if you're a man).

PS: I'm not a legal practitioner, neither do I have any practical experience in the dissolution of a marriage but I do know people who've gone through it and their experiences differed to a large extent.
FamilyRe: What Rightful/peaceful Way Can One Divorce A Partner? by Farfalla(f):
malaria:
Poster go and work on your marriage jare
Don't you think they have explored and exhausted all avenues for a peaceful co-existence or a reconciliation by the time they've arrived at the decision to end their marriage?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Naija Celebrities Who Have Been On This Forum Or Are Still Active Members by Farfalla(f): 11:30am On Mar 29, 2023
labake1:
So funny
I am Beyonce, I am stranded at the airport, I need money for Uber, I will give you free ticket to my concert
Hi Beyoncé? How is Jay-Z? How are the kids faring on?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Naija Celebrities Who Have Been On This Forum Or Are Still Active Members by Farfalla(f): 11:28am On Mar 29, 2023
shantti:
I have a confession to make guys. I can't hold it anymore.

*Breathes deeply*

Am wizkid
Hi Wizkid? Pleased to meet you.
FamilyRe: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by Farfalla(f): 4:48pm On Mar 27, 2023
GloriousGbola:
Yes I am.
Ramadan Mubarak.
FamilyRe: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by Farfalla(f): 3:30pm On Mar 27, 2023
GloriousGbola:
I have a response for you, something about bombass *** but I will not allow a foul wench such as yourself to draw me into corruption in this holy month.
😇😇
I've always known you for your love of explosive **** but I'll leave it at that. Are you fasting Glorious?
FamilyRe: Should A Man Be Forced To Marry A Lady He Impregnated By Mistake? by Farfalla(f): 10:29am On Mar 27, 2023
Which one be 'impregnating someone by mistake'? Every adult knows the repercussions of having unprotected sex.

And no. No man is obligated to marry a girl for the sole reason that she got pregnant. Just make sure you're a responsible father, making it very clear to the girl that you'll be in her life as a co-parent and nothing more.
Foreign AffairsRe: Hichilema: We Do Not Support Gay/lesbian Rights, Zambia Is A Christian Nation by Farfalla(f): 1:02pm On Mar 17, 2023
Horokrox:
Well said👍👍!Also countries like Lietchenstein have a gay president and it's amongst the richest countries
Could this be a mix-up? And that you were perhaps referring to the Prime Minister of Luxembourg?
PoliticsRe: Message From President-elect Asiwaju Bola Tinubu by Farfalla(f):
Gangster1ms:
That stolen mandate must be returned..
Jagaban wey dey fear actual result.

This was KENYA elections, which cost them N158bn!

The Portal was updating LIVE as Kenyans Voted 6 months ago

BUT in Nigeria, as soon as they realized that LP was winning, they immediately SHUT the portal.
Abeg abeg abeg. Do not use Kenya as a model for illustrating electoral transparency. Kenyans are experts at stealing elections, an expertise they brazenly brag about. If there existed an Election Rigging World Cup Championship, Kenyans would always clinch the trophy. Walahi.

That "live" transmission you're talking about was just meant to give a semblance of electoral integrity and transparency. A very popular media channel transmitting results (from the ground) had their portal hacked into, with the election thieves hijacking that portal and brazenly transmitting their own cooked results-- FROM THAT HIJACKED PORTAL! This media firm was compelled to create another portal to continue transmitting the real results. 🤣🤣🤣

There were 2 portals relaying live results from that particular channel;
-- one transmitting the real results
-- the other transmitting manipulated results

It gets worse. The portal of 'the Kenyan INEC' (known as the IEBC) was also hacked into and that so-called "live transmission" was nothing but manipulated algorithm fed to the public. It was some deep, high-level cartel shît involving, among others, some contracted Venezuelan hackers who got access to the 'Kenyan INEC' servers 5 months prior to the polls. Live transmission means nada if the transmitted figures are doctored.

Candidly speaking, Kenya can never be a country to look up to for election mata. Leave them out of your examples. They are rotten to the core. The only thing Nigerians can learn from Kenya is how to steal elections meticulously. Your own rigging was too crude naa. 🤣🤣
FoodRe: See The #4'550 Meal I Bought At Chicken Republic This Morning. by Farfalla(f):
pocohantas:
Iyatola has been on this for years.
He is also Hamachi and a host of accounts.
Years back, he had an Imabong account that he used to chop a guy in Sexuality section. The guy sent money, thinking it was a girl and with hope of them meeting for intense knacking.
🤣🤣🤣

Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f):
Klass99:
At your last sentence, no please, don't go there. Nothing you say will make a difference, others before you have tried and it didn't work. Not because I am stubborn or set in my ways, I just can't feel in my heart and soul what the majority of you do. The lady below gets me and I get her, but folks like you will never understand us, so don't go there.
That's alright Klass.
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 10:30am On Mar 12, 2023
cococandy:
That’s why I don’t judge ladies who smarten up early in life and play their games better than them. grin
cheesy cheesy
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 10:04am On Mar 12, 2023
pocohantas:
I would never understand this part! Here on Nairaland, they are so good at spotting bad women like me. Leave me for my man and face your good woman na! No way!! God abeg.🤣
They know you're not a "bad" woman Poco but you'd have it easier with them if you were struggling financially, not when you're using AC to dry pant. grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f):
cococandy:
This. 100% this.

Because if they wanted, there are women who are interested in them who they’ll never give the time of day. They never focus on loving and appreciating their “good” women. They want the “bad” ones to turn around and become what they are not to please them.
Exactly why gold-diggers are their worst nightmares when they're broke, but their favourite species once they acquire a semblance of wealth. Let him acquire just a little money and see him change his spec from "homely" to "glamorous". grin

The picture below summarises their self-serving nature.

Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 12:09am On Mar 12, 2023
folake4u:
You're ALWAYS welcome Mami.

Lol. I'm a pleasant person actually. Good vibes and chill. grin grin

Thank you very much for the wishes too. O appreciate it greatly. 💖
wink
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f):
Klass99:
Lmao 🤣. My personal favourite is when they try to emotionally blackmail or manipulate you with bullshit like - you can never find another man who will love you like me.

In my mind I'm thinking........Alaye abeg shift go front, make I see road, to pursue the dreams in my heart which do not involve you. I feel no regrets for turning down the first man who proposed marriage to me right after University or the others after him.
One word - Entitlement. 😂😂
They feel entitled to the affection of the woman they desire, but feel that the woman should forego her desires to accommodate them. What he wants should matter, but what you like should be swept under the carpet. When you fail to accommodate him in your life that's when the rage and the bitterness begin to creep in. The subtle threats of Shiloh, menopause, Isaiah 4:1, and lately the Paris lady (🤣) are all forms of manipulation meant to coerce unwilling women into picking and eventually mating with their undesirable selves.

A major Redpill tenet clearly advocates for men to stop pursuing uninterested women and go for those have a strong interest in them, but will they listen? No. They want to "follow their hearts" and pursue Nengi by force, and then get furious because she wants Mbappe. 🤣 I'm more of a redpiller than they are. Feeling entitled to another person's attention and affection will be the death of some of these men.

I love how my life has remained mine, blissfully unencumbered by children or men. They assume all women live and die on the hill of marriage and kids. Right now home ownership is what I desire, I wish I had focused on that sooner when our economy was good.
About this -- I respect your decision, so I'll not take it upon myself to try and talk you out of it. Or can I? 🙈
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 7:27pm On Mar 10, 2023
Bullythebully:
is him o
I recall having a conversation with him where he declared that trouble awaits me because, like all women, I live in regret of rejecting a good man. grin

Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 6:16pm On Mar 10, 2023
Bullythebully:
I am saving this here sisters,as the thread I created exposing the popular troll and bully of women has been deleted.

Whenever he tries to harass or sham you ladies or trouble you,remind him of being a failure in his 30s
Is he not the virginity dude? grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 6:07pm On Mar 10, 2023
KanwuliaExtra:
Thank you sooooooo much. grin
wink
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f):
folake4u:
Happy International Women's Day to all women and my amiable pinkpillers. 💖💖💖

I celebrate all women. Happy International Women's Day again. 💜💜💜

Cc:
Fárfalla
Thank you Folake, though I'm a bit late to the party. I celebrate you too. I always imagine a very pleasant person behind your moniker. 🤗

Happy International Women's Day to all the women given mention (didn't want to quote the entire post). Peace and good health be upon you all.

I also want to give a special mention to KanwuliaExtra, BRATISLAVA and CHoccolaTE. May your days be merry. 🥳🥳
RomanceRe: Will A Nigerian Lady Drop Dead If She Pays For Her Transport While Visiting A G. by Farfalla(f): 12:17pm On Mar 04, 2023
advanceDNA:
All women see everything they do with a guy as favor..even the sex u will both enjoy, hence, the mentality that u must pay for it all...
Not entirely true.
Sometimes the sex is terrible.
RomanceRe: Should I Tell My Bestfriend That Her Boyfriend/fiancee Sleeps With Dead Bodies? by Farfalla(f): 12:05pm On Mar 04, 2023
@ justyhere, if indeed your story is true, send an anonymous e-mail message to your friend about the filth you've discovered on her soon-to-be husband. Advice her to investigate the weirdo before walking into a marital union with him. If she still wants a necrophiliac for a husband, na her own wahala be dat. You'll have done your bit of passing across the message to her. I won't even rule out the possibility that she's already in the know about what her man does with cadavers.

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