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ubunja:
can I add something?

A girl knows the first few seconds of seeing a guy if she'll fucc him or not. The moment she lays eyes on you she has decided "this one can get it!" or "pass!" - Even though you never asked, even though you don't even want her, even though you don't even see her, even though the circumstances are not sexual (eg at a funeral) - - - but she has already made up her mind about you. You can visit a new church and they ask you to stand up and introduce yourself, and the moment you stand up women will be deciding if they can let you fucc or not!! Every female you meet whatever the circumstances, she's making that decision about you. Not necessarily planning to sleep with you, but filing you either under fuccable or non-fuccable.

So talking to a girl and getting her to bed is not really convincing her to do something she didn't initially want, but more about her doing what she decided on the first place. Hence a girl who likes you will let you hit without so much as a pick up line.
Blessed is that man who can work out which category a woman has placed him in.

The Lady I sexed last. Everytime I just remember the first day we met, I used to laugh at myself because I remember her face then, she might just be thinking about us in bed and I'm just talking and telling her about the place. I never thought about sex because of the environment until she started giving me the vibes. I caught it and we did it though she makes it seem I initiated it which I didn't argue or pretend not to know.

ubunja:
there's a reason why in the red pill you GIVE a girl your number,,, you don't take it.

It may seem counterproductive and a long shot to give the girl your number and not take it,, but you're avoiding this very scenario. Give a female your contacts,, if she likes you enough she'll call you or text you. If she does none of the above, she never liked you. You forget her. But because you are the one who took her number,, you will find out she never liked you after 20 missed calls, 5 ignored WhatsApp texts and everything.

TRP is golden. It's rules may seem stupid. But they produce better results all around.

We learn everyday. It's true though.

jojo2023:
Hello,

Please hide my identity. My name is Rachael (not real name). I work as a restaurant supervisor in one of the big fast food restaurants in Lagos.
About three months ago, a customer demanded to see the supervisor because he was unhappy about the service that he received from one of our service girls. I was called in to calm him down because he was really upset.

One thing I noticed about him was that he was very handsome. I made sure he got a replacement for what he ordered for and promised him that the mistake will not happen again. He smiled and said because of me, he will keep coming because he has initially decided to stop coming to our restaurant.

I gave him my number to call in case there was any issue in future. It was after then that I started noticing that this guy comes to the restaurant almost 3 times a week. I was fascinated by his good looks. And anytime he came, he would ask of me. We gradually became friendly. I used to joke that he eats too much in the restaurant, that he should try and invest in some home cooking. That was when he told me that he a bachelor and does not like cooking.

His name is John (not real name). John and I chatted anytime he was around. I started noticing I was developing feelings for him. We would chat on WhatsApp …. he is very funny and easy to talk to. He never asked me if..

https://livelystones.ng/2022/02/02/true-story-i-am-in-love-with-a-customer-but-he-friend-zoned-me/?fbclid=IwAR3SqV1sUS2l4-Hy_J7hulVLO7ia0XdEJRYZJGBMkGrqsacCZrmF0Lq984w

I guess this not the John you claiming to be very handsome because he looks very much like me and I expected to me more handsome than this.

This isn't true. The girl is in 300 level while I'm in final year,we are in the same department. She confirmed it with her mouth(chat) in their group chat that it was just a case of bullying taken too far.

Eben91:
Watching porn is hardest addiction to quite.

Really? How about you try drugs?

dominique:
There I was thinking your so-called fiance had some sort of terminal illness till I got to the part where some pastor predicted death on a person he has never met before. And you believed him? It's either that "anty" of yours doesn't want you to marry your fiancee or she wants you to remain single. Better use your head, a strange pastor predicted death on your fiancee and you were so quick to believe. That shows the kind of shallow minded person you are. If I was your fiance and I find out that you're visiting strange pastors because of me, I would never want to have anything to do with you again.

If you aren't close minded or shallow you would read that it was the fiancee urging her on to visit the pastors.
The comprehension level of people are really deteriorating at an alarming rate.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Where did I say ritual isn't real in my comment?

Well that's what you believe. From your previous post. You already saw my post so fast.
I apologize though. It seems the OP was a Bastard and lied. So I'm sorry. And I modified and erased my earlier post

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FTC. I hope this gets to front page.
Welcomed back Sourcerer. Let me go read the post.

Winnerly:
Your story is very similar to those of us in the field.

Comrade i assure you, even if she gives you that number, that’s not the end of it. You will call and she won’t pick up, and won’t return your call. That’s their first strategy to break your frame.

Then you will call again, and feel lucky when she picks. Then the whole placing her on a pedestal thing begins because unconsciously, you’re happy it’s a real number she gave you and won’t wanna screw

Like the bitch I had an encounter with.
I called after 3 days of collecting number. She didn't pick I felt because it was late. I dropped hi on her WhatsApp, she replied after 3 days. I fvcked up though because I sent her a message after 3 days instead of 6. It worked tho becos she replied immediately. I asked her why she didn't pick my call she's telling me because I didn't ask her. Like really? I should ask you before I can call. Like I ask you on WhatsApp you reply me after 3-5 days if I can call or not? This girls have guts. I told her it was supposed to be I call her, she picks her call and I introduce myself (since I didn't give her my number) boom! Matter solved. She said boom! That's not how she does her thing. See what these simps has caused for men that still has sense and penis with urges. I forgot about her Sha. She's pretty though but not that attractive. No breast, flat ass.

Charlieluvboy:
Hello guys.
I met a gal dec last year but didn't communicate with her till today, i called her this morning and i had to introduce myself, later in the evening gave her a call again, while talking with her, she said she's busy and would call me back when done, which she never did, i wanted to call her back but restricted myself from doing that so i wouldn't be a simp. How do i go about this?

Forget her, she's not interested.

richkal:
I can bet it with my left ball that this conversation doesn't last up to 5 seconds this approach is too shallow. No Lady will give you her details with this kind of weak approach unless you are Wizkid, Davido, Burns boy etc. The approach has No substance cos you don Ooze Confidence ( yes, you bailed too quick).

Let me ask you something, Is this the reason why you said you will never approach ladies again? With this kind of weak frame, you are still going to fail if you receive green light from any lady, because YOUR LIVER WILL FAIL YOU when you want approach due to inexperience.

Please don't say that though I don't want to cold approach anymore but the 2 girls I approached last, I just went "hello, what's up", after replying I just go can I have your number. While they typing that's when I ask for name to know what to save it with (I'm never saving a number with Nickname anymore) though it never last though but I got the numbers.

Aaron12:
Alaye, which one is warm approaches

Warm approaches is a friend (male or female) or family recommending you to a girl. The game is already 20% tilted to your favour, you only need to finish it off.

Itzlinda:
Please unless you are good looking with a decent social skill, don’t listen to anyone that tells you not to do cold approach. Be it ubunja or anyone else. These guys are already skillful with girls. Your realities and stage are different.

The only way many of us were able to cure approach anxiety and socialize with girls is through cold approach.

Please how can you tell a timid and average looking guy to wait for green light from a lady when even ugly girls only crush on handsome guys ? You will probably die virgin if you expect a green light from a girl and you aren’t good looking.

The truth is girls want guys to toast them, that’s why they spent long time on make up before they go outside. Because they are looking to attract your attention to them.
They want someone to talk to them, you may not be the type of guy that she wants to be toasted by, but she definetey wants someone to toast her.
How do you find you aren’t the type of a guy she wants talk to if you didn’t make the approach?

Abeg unless you are good looking or naturally good at socializing with girls, please hit the streets and make that cold approaches. That’s the only way you develop your game.

Forget it bro. No man is Ugly only if he chooses to. Make money and see how that ugly guy will be transformed. You know there was a time people around me (my friends and siblings) says things like the guy no fine e just fresh, na just money make am fresh, but I always tell them whether it's due to money or not, fine is fine. Fresh is attractive you know. If you have money even if you are ugly, a nice haircut, a sculptured body, white teeth, dark and clean beards will greatly improved your looks. Though I receive compliments here and there about my looks but I always felt I'm not that good looking for a girl to woo me but within the last five years I've been given a lapdance in a party by a stranger (the hottest girl in the party) approached by 2 girls(they weren't strangers though) infact so many greenlights I didn't know we're greenlights then. So what's my point? Though I can say I've got some looks but a guy who isn't facially that good-looking but can do all those things I said up there will have a higher sexual appeal than I had or currently have now, so if I can get greenlight anybody can get it and nobody will have to die a virgin unless he chooses to (respect to Martinez)

I've been wanting to talk about this cold or hot approach but I've been lazy.
Ubunja was right, Tonnyray even though cold approaching isn't redpill I will have to admit you are right too.
I think the problem is Ubunja doesn't want cold approaching to be called redpill and I don't think Tony is even claiming it to be redpill. Do what works for you.
I was expecting people to talk about warm approaches. That on his the best as Ubunja as reinterated. That's the one I want to do now. Cold approaching isn't for me. Yeah I'm an introvert.

sajmark:
Fall from grace...

One of my dreams, to be on a FIFA franchise.



But, this is really getting too much. How somethings we consider little could really bring someone down.

luminouz:
I don't get you bro.

You mean this c....fish looking mudafucker wants a man using ABOVE iPhone 12 Pro Max??

Your question isn't complete.
...... ABOVE iphone 12 pro max that will one day needs female head for ritual?

Trust me those that make money with sweat and not with fraud will go for girls like that, that are economically engaged like really into high intellect business or she most be very hot to ne identify as a trophy babe. But some simps with money and low self worth can show up though.

phintohlar:
And have you forgotten you came out of that same virginia wey you do mouth like shit dey insult, i just say lemme remind you should incase you've forgotten so soon. Oni yeye

Is that you on your profile?

YungMillionaire:
By the time they are done with this boy he will be selling puff puff under the bridge after his release from prison.

Bro. If na me, thought e no fit be me because I go get sense if I get chance become professional. But assuming na me, I go just carry small money I don make which na big money on average sell the expensive cars find one Africa country to start my life all over again. But forget him na celeb, if he no go prison he will resurrect his career back. They will forgive him as he his an high value man. Na only prison fit destroy am now.

Did she just say beautiful? I ain't see no beauty there sis.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Keep fooling around after sharing your brainless comment..
Something prompted you to beat a woman?
Say that nonsense when we are done with his case..
You must be a clueless individual to utter this nonsense..
Pls get out with your brainless talk..

Can you please read on Banks. The American footballer that was thrown into prison for false accusations. And after spending more than 8 years in prison and being declared innocent guess what they did to the lady?
Nothing. The guy career gone and the witch wasn't even touched.

True oh. The sex I've had, one was saying nonsense about how I want to kill her, I was silent but I became irritated I just wanted to release and be gone with her but the second one was just a screamer, she was only moaning too loudly which I told her and asked her whether she knows or not that she was moaning loudl.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
I say that regardless of the gender whenever a story looks framed up..
Don't let your despise for women make you sound daft ..

I don't despise them. Infact I love girls. It's you who hate males. Because this story looks more real than today being Monday.
At the bolded you know it's a lie.
But bye for now.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Look stop quoting me to tell me nonsense aiit..if you want to pass a direct message quote the op..

Who are you to tell me if it was a male or if it was a female..
You folks don't think at all do you?

Maybe I will stop when you are intelligent enough not to start your post with "if this story is true" whenever it concerns a female. Because you making it look like females are Angels and we just out to tarnish their image.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
If this story is true then you did the right thing..
Why steal your money and give excuse...as far as you didn't hurt her good..

But note don't tell anyone pls just keep it to yourself..

If it were a guy who stole you wouldn't say if the story is true. Any way as Op should keep it to himself so should the little thief not try nonsense. Because these girls are demons.

I wouldn't be surprised if you don't believe when I tell you a girl once brought her father to me as someone who was the person that just fvcked her and still winking at me to accept the accusation. I was just shocked because I didn't know she has started having sex, and why the sudden appearance of her Dad claiming that I fvcked her daughter and I shouldn't do it again.

Adekunle Gold have said it all in his song "ire".
What we looking for is inside us but we are chasing the external illusion of happiness. We destroy so many things on our way and when we realize that we left true happiness, it's too late because we can't get back there anymore, we destroyed it already. And this shouldn't be with the many tales from culture, monks life and mores of life. When I become rich, instead of wanting to live by going to clubs to drink and dance or those things people believe is fun I'd rather go to one village and build a comfortable house and just live in solitude every once in a while. That will keep me in touch with my core and I will always see life for what it is. Life isn't complicated, it's people in it that complicated it.
Thank you.

thesicilian:
She may have been pushed

I strongly believe this an angle that should be chased. Though you never can tell with these oyinbos. Too much money and using it to pursue elusive happiness can bring them to depression and make them suicidal easily.

shomutuski:
fcking pvssy. man up, ijiot. she will stop you from growing and leave you for a man that has levelled up already, you are not even upto 30 you don they whipped.

chase excellence and women will never let you rest. leave naija oooo

i left last year September and i am touching money i never dreamt of, i take care of my woman better and my family and i am sure my babe is glad i took the risk to come out here. last year i spent my xmas in budapest, this year summer vacation nah for uk.

there's always room for improvement for men cus we age like wine, remember the story of the lady that wanted to travel out. you see the backlash that was meted out on her bf? you better jaaapa and help your family. omo odee

my woman is coming in to eu this year and we go run am 50/50, if the relationship cut i can pick from a billion more now, i have built my character and finance to that level. strive to be a king and always be a value man, she no go ever leave.

even if she did, your life is always good, you gave her a taste

Shomu., I hope to be a foreign country before year ends.

posty56:
From greenwoods mother herself, yet emotional niggas here will be crying more than the beraved, , I am not pro greenwood or anti greenwood, I am just telling you there's is evidence, if you like carry the thing for head like gala I no go answer you

Can't you guys read? She's not Greenwood's mother. She's talking about her son that's in a premier league football academy not Greenwood.

helinues:
HT Burkina Faso 1 - 0 Tunisia

I love all those long passes from BF players.

In the last 3 AFCON ,BH have produced Talented and skilful players like Patrioca not sure of the guy's name but those who have been watching the past AFCON should know

Pretroipa. Great dribbler. Better but less popular than Bance. I guess it's due to the latter ugly face.

AAA593:
Tunisia team is very ordinary

Very ordinary. A team that one only one match in group stage. Beaten by Mali and The Gambia. SE disappointed me real bad.