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Business › Re: Access Bank To Shut Down 346 Banks Nationwide (List) by Femeto: 11:35pm On May 02, 2020
munachiso58:
i transfered my money to another bank 30 seconds after reading this.
what am i??
A realist.
Business › Re: Access Bank To Shut Down 346 Banks Nationwide (List) by Femeto: 11:33pm On May 02, 2020
Shey dem dey mad ni? They would lose customers for this. You cant be closing your branches in strategic places.
Health › Re: Shehu Sani: If Kano Is Not Safe, No State Is Safe by Femeto: 9:31pm On May 02, 2020
Story.
Crime › Re: Adoki Joy, UNIPORT Student, Raped And Killed By Kidnappers (photos) by Femeto: 6:20pm On May 02, 2020
Very horrific.
Sports › Re: Sani Kaita Celebrates His 34th Birthday Today by Femeto: 2:01pm On May 02, 2020
This 50 years old man. He should keep deceiving himself.
Sports › Re: Sven-Göran Eriksson Rejected Super Eagles Job: "I Was Asked To Split My Salary" by Femeto: 1:58pm On May 02, 2020
Na Maigari wan chop money for the second account.
Celebrities › Re: Chidinma Ekile Celebrates Her 29th Birthday Today by Femeto: 9:45am On May 02, 2020
Go and sign with Mavin let your career blossom. You have the most powerful voice in the industry. Happy Birthday.
Travel › Re: Lagos New Guidelines For Public Transport Operations by Femeto: 9:52pm On May 01, 2020
Bus stop go bloody.
Romance › Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Femeto: 3:21pm On May 01, 2020
Don't tell your mother realtionship done scatter be that.Let are put to bed first then let the doctors write a report for you why she cant breast feed.
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu: Dangote Became A Billionaire Because FG Gave Him Monopoly by Femeto: 2:00pm On May 01, 2020
OBJ made many billionaires in this country Dangote, Adenuga, Otedola etc.
Politics › Re: Oronsanye Report: Buhari Asks SGF, HOS To Scrap, Merge Some Agencies by Femeto: 9:40am On May 01, 2020
We had about 600 agencies at the time of the report but now we have Over 900 so who are dey fooling.
Crime › Re: Kaduna Arrests Aliyu Maikwari, A Cleric For Keeping Girls As Almajirai by Femeto: 6:28pm On Apr 30, 2020
It all boils down to what Sanusi said Poverty and lack of Education in the north is a big problem.
Politics › Re: Deaths: Kano May Have Violated Tradition Through Emir Sanusi's Removal –Babatope by Femeto: 12:57pm On Apr 30, 2020
Which God's dey Kano? You think it is yoruba Land.
Politics › Re: FG Shares N43bn Among 24 States: Kaduna Gets Highest, Katsina, Benue Lowest by Femeto: 11:51am On Apr 30, 2020
Criteria kor. Nothing like that in this country.
Celebrities › Re: Picture Kodak: Video Vixen Dies In Clarence Peters’ Apartment (photos) by Femeto: 11:06am On Apr 30, 2020
Clarence just dey flex am for this Lockdown.
Romance › Re: I Need A Woman’s Opinion. by Femeto: 2:31am On Apr 30, 2020
realdickoflife:
So this has been a long time coming. I am basically asking for opinion mostly from the women folk.
I had this ex that we dated for about 2 years. We both live in the United States. We met in 2017 and started dating in 2018 February. It was love as we were head over heels in love with each other. She was younger than me by about 7 years and I was like a friend and confidant. We took each other seriously. During that time a few incidences occurred that shook our relationship. I will try my best to lay out the story and also underline my faults as I need an honest opinion on if I was right or wrong.

Late 2018 I caught her talking to an Ex and she confessed that her mother being a Jehovah witness told her specifically that she wanted her to marry a witness. We were living together and she apologized and said it was a moment of weakness. She had planned on moving out to live with him. A few months later she claimed she got a job that required her to move. We had a big fight and I forcefully got a check I had written in her name back telling her since she wanted to leave my house she was no longer entitled to my money. She left but we settled things 24 hours later.
We then decided to mend what we had. I kept working and helping her with bills. I tried ti make her a better person educationally but being the young 23 year old gal she was she was head strong. I particularly dont like confrontation and sometimes when we fight I just keep mum in the house or go play video games. Fast forward we had another big issue and I realized she was getting attention from some make folk that made ger act that way. We settled it and I decided to get her a gift. It was expensive almost $1300. Later in the year 2019 We got a new 2019 model vehicle for her. It almost cost me my job as I had to falsify some documents to ensure she was qualified for a Vehicle that was way above her means. Towards the middle of the year she decided to quit her job and come back to my place so we could move out together elsewhere. 2 days after she moved I woke to dress up for work about 5 an and realized her phone kept ringing so I picked it up and it was calls from a guy she always claimed was a friend. I saw the chat and all the plans to move in with him in another state. I confronted her after coming back from work and next thing she called the police and claimed her life was in danger. I explained what happened when the police came to my house and they then said I should let her move out. 3 weeks later I got a letter in the mail saying I was charged for assault. We went to court and both judges on separate occassions Told her I wasnt guilty and they felt her story was false. I involved her mother and the mother outrighlty supported her daughter. I reminded her I have always been there for her. 3 months into the relationship I had to go with her to the hospital has she started bleeding profusely and we realized she aborted for her ex before we started dating. She also claimed she has mood swings from a rape experience at 8 years old that made her go through vaginal repair. I knew all of this when I went into the relationship head first. Now my friends who told me in the start not to date a gal they saw as not being in the same class moneywise and societal wise based on status and experience mock me. Everyone I knew in my area and life knew about us. I had to take all my pictures down from my social media. Her defence was that I was too harsh on her when she had an accident. She had 2 accidents within the space of 7 months and a car I bought for my dad also she also hit it and I had to repair it before shipping to Nigeria. At that point I requested for a 60 day break from her to figure out her life as she kept making mistakes that were costly. She ran to that other guy who consoled her and then planned her exit. I pointed out to her that a man who knows you live with another man and tries to get you to move out and move in with him either has self esteem issues or has no plans for you. My question is where exactly did I go wrong? Lastly 2 weeks ago I called her mother on a whim and the mother picked my call and even spoke to me for 2 hours I was shocked, that told me she either was burnt where she went or it didnt work out. Do you think its okay for me to mend fences with her? I have moved on and I decided to take a break from dating, but the death of a recent family member just made me want to make up with any and everyone I had an issue with.
Japa.
Health › Re: Nurse And Her Mother Test Positive For Coronavirus In Epe, Lagos by Femeto: 6:39pm On Apr 29, 2020
Crime › Re: Man, Wife Pay Assassins To Eliminate Neighbour Over Covid-19 Palliative by Femeto: 3:25pm On Apr 29, 2020
Every body dey vex for this Cowtry.
Health › Re: German Doctors Pose Nude To Protest Lack Of Protective Masks, Aprons (Photos) by Femeto: 1:39pm On Apr 29, 2020
Mad o.
Romance › Re: Help Vanessa My Friend by Femeto: 5:45pm On Apr 28, 2020
She probably had her reason if the two of them are addicts who would help in times of trouble.
Health › Re: Coronavirus: Oxford Vaccine Works On Monkeys by Femeto: 5:21pm On Apr 28, 2020
Dosmay:
Oya make dem run am for humans
Shey you go volunteer?
Romance › Re: I Was Raped Before My Husband And He Wants To Divorce Me Because I Enjoyed It – by Femeto: 2:00pm On Apr 28, 2020
Rubbish.
Crime › Re: Woman Accuses St Raphael Hospital Ikorodu Of Stealing One Of Her New Born Twins by Femeto: 12:24am On Apr 28, 2020
They sold her baby.
Health › Re: Raymond Dokpesi Tests Positive For Coronavirus by Femeto: 6:53pm On Apr 27, 2020
Christianity Etc › Re: TB Joshua On The Mountain Praying For Coronavirus End (Photos) by Femeto: 6:18pm On Apr 27, 2020
God help him.
Health › Re: Babajide Arije Dies Of COVID-19 Hours To 60th Birthday In Lagos (Photo) by Femeto: 6:03pm On Apr 27, 2020
May be started suffering shortness of breath suddenly. This thing bad o.
Politics › Re: Rotimi Amaechi: ‘Buhari Is A Shy Person, Dislikes Public Show’ by Femeto: 2:14pm On Apr 27, 2020
grin These guys just talk any how. A whole president of a country is shy.
Properties › Re: Fire At NNPC Petrol Station, College Road, Ogba (Pictures) by Femeto: 1:53pm On Apr 27, 2020
Zero social distancing. Nigeria has so many problems.
Celebrities › Re: Sleeping With Men For Money: Blessing Okoro Recounts The Day She Went For Runs by Femeto: 1:13pm On Apr 27, 2020
Liar don't believe her story.
Romance › Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting Girls From Troubled Families? by Femeto: 11:08pm On Apr 26, 2020
creolehunt:
I just thought about the girls I've been with and noticed a certain trend. This isn't even about the girls themselves who are excellent human beings, but their families.

First girl I dated revealed to me that the dad died of suspected poisoning and her family were chased out of the family house. Her eldest brother is an area boy while it seems things aren't working out for her other siblings.

The next ones dad was late too, one of her sisters is separated from her husband while the first son of nearly 40 has nothing doing.

The other ones history is that her dad is late too. The eldest sister is cohabiting with a man. They have 2 kids already without being married. Her other sisters bride price was just paid after having 3 kids with a man.

For the other one, her dad is late too, died quite early. The eldest sister is in her 30s and unmarried. Her other sister has 3kids for a man who she isn't married to and now they are separated. Things aren't just working for her people.

The one I just met recently told me her parents are late. Lost both of them to suspected poisoning within the space of one year.

I keep wondering if this is some sort of coincidence.
Its the law of attraction working here.

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