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Maynnations:
Report to her parents or her big sister?
Kindly advise!

Mind your biz

Alwaysachick:
I've been seeing this guy since we got introduced to last May. First off he asked me if I was in any relationship and I said no. So we kicked off got intimate within 2weeks. Happened he was a virgin and that was his second relationship.

He is into me for reasons I can't figure out, but he is very unstable and unsure. Before we got intimate, I felt we were already dating, but after that the constant highs and lows made me ask him again and he said he cares about me, but he is not ready for something serious now. I love to respect peoples decisions and not clingy so I let him be.

He kept coming around, he always needed one help or the other cuz he was new to the area. Sometimes when he ask for help, he says he will pay but for where, I just felt he didn't want to raise my hopes.

I told him off severally, but he kept coming, same high and low, we get intimate once in a while. Personally, I love this guy but couldn't say if it was mutual.

So fast forward to last week, he gave me his tab to help him do some work. So in the course I playfully went to his photos and saw nothing but as an old girl in the game, I went to his recycle and saw romantic pictures with a girl at the beach. The only thing is they didn't kiss but everyother thing termed romantic was in the pictures. That same beach event, but alone, he tagged it on Instagram as " create time for love".

I asked him who the girl was and he told me it was his friend from Abuja that just came him so he was showing her around town. I'm an outdoor freak, I've suggested to take him to the beach but he turns down that he doesn't like the beach.

He also claimed the girl is his friend's girlfriend and that his how they all play with their girlfriends.

Another, was a post of a delivered cake on Instagram to someone in Abuja. Quote" I owe you roses for every breath you take" he said it was to his cousin that she was having a bad day.

At the peak of the argument he said i should stop calling him a liar and I can think whatever I want he doesnt owe me any explanation.

I even had to call his close friend who introduced him which I have never done before to know if he was in a relationship but he said no ofcourse I didn't expect him to say otherwise.

So later the day I sent him a text of appreciation for the decit because he never wanted to commit and never wanted to go.After reading, he blocked me. Its three days now, he is yet to unblock me.

I really want to know if I should just move on or apologise for calling him a liar. Or was I wrong to have concluded he was in an affair.

I want genuine suggestions please I'm still heart broken.

Apologise ke? If you do, I ll deactivate your account. He's a serial liar

Abeg put graphics ....how can I unseen this

When the money finish .....the love sef go vanish

Godmother:
Thanks, guys. I'll take it then. I was thinking the salary was as low as 18k or something.

It the establishment is a school, it can be as low as that.

That was the previous minimum wage anyway

Nigerians and juju

World cup....not even semi final place

Common grammy they cannot win

No Oscar award

No light

Bad roads everywhere

qualityGod:
A friend of mine paid 700k for a piece of land for poultry business but the payment was made by hand not bank deposit.

The issue now is the person that received the money switch off his phone and can't be trace please how can he go about it .

Get another person who needs a land to do business with him.

Don't chase him......let him cool off and gradually he ll fall into your trap

This tumor big o....surgery to the rescue

You almost made me a believer until the Australia contact

Marotzke:
There you go with the entitlement mentality.
Learn to differentiate between investment and helping others.
You invest clearly with an intention to benefit.
You invest a required amount of resources and if possible extract an enforceable contract of repayment.
On the other hand , you help from your excess, ; time, materials, advice, excess clothes, housing etc.
You do not help with needed or investable resources.
So you don't have to belittle your self asking for payback from those whom you gave a little from your aboundance.
The common mistake is that we invest without securing the investment, or calling an investment help.
Differentiate the two and act accordingly.

Do you even know what the discussion is all about? You just jump in and spit nonesense

HolyCaligula:
Except in a movie, it's been so long i saw Americans using military camouflage to perform on stage or even in their music videos.

One thing i know is that even if it's not against the law but the military should be given some form of respect.

Based on the order of the Peaky blinders.

Cardi B

Freethought:
I know a lot of you are going to blaim me buh please let your message to me come with an advise. We are in a state of real dilemma

Few months ago, i opened a thread on how we both found out we were both of AS genotype and how we couldn't stop having sex. Well as against some advices here, we didn't stop having sex until this past weekend wen we found out that she's pregnant.

I remember the month after we found out about the genotype, she told me she told her parents that she's gon get married to me no matter what, they practically begged her not to, telling her different stories of SS children they know

We haven't told anybody about the pregnancy yet . We are scared every single one of them will blame us and think we did it intentionally just to get married.

I love her and I'm sure she loves me too buh this pregnancy, the tot of it alone being SS is scaring the shit out of us.

We don't know what to do

AS vs AS>>AA, AS, AS, SS

Your probability of bringing SS into this world is 1/4. Jist pray it never happened

So, he went back 6yrs

Eye service

This is Super story ....

cheenway:
Please don't judge me. I know I am wrong. I feel guilty already.
My story goes like this. For sometime now and I mean in months, my hubby has changed. He comes home late around 11pm to midnight, passworded his phone,chats, picks calls and talks secretly, loves to stay alone all by himself, he doesn't talk to me anymore, we haven't spoken to each other in like two months and all. He sends the children to me if he wants to say anything to me. I've never had any reason to say he's cheating until this new development. I've tried all I can to find out if I offended him, I've cried, begged, talked, even reported to his brothers and mom to help me talk to him but he will laugh and say there's nothing. He even started sleeping in another room at home. We have two kids, 6 and 8 years old and we live in a 3 bedroom flat. So he now sleeps in the third room.

Now to the issue, I've been sex starved for months and I have been watching videos online to help myself, and I try to keep myself happy.
But this past week, an old 'friend' (we were dating casually then but we never had sex) contacted me through fb and we met after loosing contact for over 10 years. Me, him and other friends of ours at a friend's wedding.
During the after party, we got all drinking, eating, and later cuddly and it happened, we had sex in his car. Truly, I tried to resist but I couldn't help it. He didn't force or pressure me but I lost hold of myself. Now I feel dirty. I don't know if I can move past this. I know my husband's new attitude doesn't justify my actions.
But I'm deeply sorry. I don't know what to do.
Please help me out

A wonderful case of Parte after Parte and Okafor's law

Try and reconcile with your hubby....and go and sin no more. If the walls are not opened, lizard will never go through

Youngkingjaey:
Clean tecno spark 3 for sale
1 month old
Price is 30k still negotiable
Receipt and full accessories
With goodass carton
Only serious buyer should inbox me
Location : I baden
WhatsApp:081 22 9451 47

Na the carton get goodass or the phone?

Yoruba girls too dey bleach

doraozuruonye:
In the world today many are carrying sex on their head, some will even go as far as sleeping with hundred's of men or women, why the world have made sex as a second food that nourishes the body as many claims and there are those who don't even care about those things, i hate some things but the one i hate most is to see men's sexual organ it irritates me more than any other thing in world, not to talk of coming close to touch me with it, left for me i have no reason why i should have sex with a man if not for child birth.

your age?

When I see the handwriting ... i ll write my comment

zexy2030:
Sometimes people may refuse to help you, if u have no value to add to them...do something at no cost to you that they will appreciate then you will receive help from resourceful persons around.
Avoid being perceived as a taker and not a giver.
A giver gives the best he has with cheerfulness, not necessarily cash, or materials...u can offer help if u see a need.
The best form of help, is to assist a neighbour that has no capacity to help u in return.
There must be something u can give.
See that donkey as urself, observe her surrounding and advice itself.

Even those you ve helped before will refuse to help you, when its your turn. Helping people is a decision, a stranger that is WILLING to help is a better than a friend that's thinking about his gain in helping you

AwkaetitiBabe:
Simply take lucozade boost for strength...

lucozade won't give you that kind of strength

Offset is offside

zexy2030:
If you are like this, don't kill yourself, ask for help, lessen the load, or loose the rope and run freely. Only the wise will understand. You can be useful for some other important things.

Nobody is ready to help there.

Ask for help from those that are willing

Aaah...Abomination, Orí Adé ki i sun ẹ̀wọ̀n

dollytino4real:
her yanshes no be here !

yanshes ke? No be 1 she get

"Harcourt" ...A notorious British rapist was honoured with the capital of River state....what a shame!

Tajbol4splend:
Almost all the games are between teams of close ability, which is going to make every single match competitive, as competitive as one is expecting, there will never be without surprises

Very competitive this time around. No free run for any team

Solomon8144:
Hunger bad o

He started preaching while he was still active in Inter Milan. Preaching to prostitutes etc

Matildahenshaw:
You gave us merit... what of demerit?? We should see both sides of the coin to make better judgement, or don't we?

Expensive, heavy

Developit:
Hi Nairalanders, please I need mature advice on this one.

I met this very beautiful girl I used to crush on during my secondary school days last Friday. We had a brief chat and I later asked for her number. She told me her phone isn't good. The screen damaged, and she can't take calls. I asked if she don't have someone I could call her through.

She said I should give her my number. I did, but wasn't sure she would call me. Throughout that day I was glancing at my phone expecting her call. She never called.

The next day was yesterday being Saturday. I was hanging out with friends at a friends shop when a call came in around 9:37 am. I answered and inquired of the caller and lol and behold it was her.

The area was noisy so I asked if I could call her back in the next 20 minutes. I later called her back an hour later. I didn't want to look desperate.

She was on another call when I called. I tried 3 times and her phone went switched off. I comot my mind for her matter.

About 2 hours later a call came in from another number. I picked and it was her. She said her phone went off, she borrowed phone from a friend and the battery died. Now she's calling from her sisters line.

I said okay and we spoke a little lengthy (I called her back). I told her I used to crush on her back in those days but was very scared to approach her. But now man has wisen up I would like to take her out on a date and get to know what's going on with her life.

She was glad and accepted the date. She told me though she have somewhere to go that yesterday so we need to hang out in the morning or probably evening time. I said tomorrow we tell.

Early morning while I was in bed she called and told me I should come to her place. I was like our place? Your parent nko? Won't the frown?


She told me her mum traveled outside the state, and her dad is off to work and would come back till 7pm. I was happy though surprised she invited me to her place on our first official meeting.

I came she cooked for me and we eat. She bought beverage drink etc. In fact she treated me well.
Then she told me I'm looking handsome these days. (Well, God created me weel. I be fine boy for real.)

Funny thing was when I can she was wearing her night dress. A short and shoulder slim cloth not covering her stomach. She was always touching her breast like it was itching her. She started rubbing her stomach like someone who over-feed.

I made a move and touched her stomach and she acted cool with it. She lay on my laps acting like she's sleepy. (I like her a lot and won't want to go to bed with her on our first meeting)

In fact, a lot happened. But then she begin to complain of being broke. She would say it and say it again. Until I gave her 1,500 cos I really want something seruous with her.

We planned to go to the movies this week, but with her compalin of being broke I have been thinking. Is sh up to something.

Please advice me....

You didn't pay for the food and drink but because you dropped N1500 now, you are having a second thought. Are you a stingy handsome man?