₦airaland Forum

Unique357:
In brief, I am a male married with 2 children, my daughter is 8 and son is 5. I also have my niece 11 and a house help 15 staying with us.

On Monday I gave my wife Christmas shopping money to get foodstuffs, hers and children clothing including our house help.

Yesterday my wife went shopping, she bought clothes for herself, our children and nothing for the house help. She claimed that the girl doesn’t need any clothes for Christmas as long we feed and send her to school, the rest is her parents' duties. The girl in question is my wife's relative from the same village. This girl is so nice to our children, she is like a second mother to them despite her being just 15, I have never had any problem with her.

I was mad at her that I told her, if she cannot treat another woman's child well then she doesn’t deserve to be a mother, yes I did said some harsh words to her because of anger. She accused me of sleeping with the little girl which I told her she is mad and she couldn’t stop crying the whole night. This morning she didn’t make my breakfast and refused greeting me back.

Please house let me know if I overreacted

Now that you know your wife's opinion concerning her. Anything you want to give to her, give it to her directly. Don't discuss the issue with your wife anymore cos she ll never change. Some women are wired that way

Bola146:
Hummmm... Why not cut his kini

That's what is still keeping her in the man's house

When the dick is good, women condone all manners of stupidity from men

The forth pix though

CHESTER48:
same as every Nigerian

You must be a joke

crash12345:
lol,nobody is fighting for British citizenship. I am a Ghanaian first before everything buh you don't diss our pronunciation and accent cos as I said,the British had been with us for over 300 years since 1471 when they came so we easily adopted to their way of speaking their own language and so the way we pronounce our words are very similar or even same as that of the English or British person. Pastor,doctor and mom are pronounced pastar,dactar and mam and that's a fact with the phonetic sounds I showed you.

But the British don't pronounce them that way. Are you more British than the Queen

CHESTER48:
please I don't know what Igbos lack. Tell me.

oil is pronounced as oyel

AwkaetitiBabe:
He should come and start in my area... Aswear those mosquitoes are assassins

clear your drains

Snowale:
Seems you know nothing about how competitive MBBS is. I have seen people with better score, who were not admitted. 3 aspirant per state*37 states=121, they can't admit more than 120, and she is the 7th best, apart from that they have school of matric graduands who should be admitted, there is ELDS and catchment areas, and international students

Until you bring out Niger list of 302 and above scores, you are just misfiring

chewwie:
Let me get this straight. So if a boy or girl from Borno or Yobe scores 201 as the highest in the state, he or she will get into MBBS ahead of a girl who scored 300+ because of quota, diversity and inclusiveness? What baloney! Total malarkey! Where is the reward for her hard work? She would have easily sat for her WASSCE, cheated, made 6 credits, and enter road forking all the boys in Niger state, get pregnant abort, spread HIV, and constitute nuisance, but no, she decided to work hard.
The incompetence in our educational system is grossly alarming!

Its a shame, that's what our educational system has turned into

Snowale:
I use to think yoruba's are smarter than other tribes, seems you are an exemption. The post said she is the 7th best from Nigeria state with 302 and that is verrrry possible.

Ode! Bring out the list of first six candidates that scored over 302.
You are just low in quality up there

His close competitor should be Salah not Marhez. Algeria winning Afcon had little to do with Mahrez

harmonyAris:
Onisokuso omo eran

She has tasted and see the difference.

LadyBeee:
Hi all,

I'm here again o with another issue bothering me. Please i need your candid advice so that i don't enter one chance or get scammed.

There is this guy I met recently on Facebook in one of these dating groups. Someone posted that all single ladies who re ready to get married should comment "hi", then a guy interested in marrying her should reply her. I commented, then a guy replied me. We got chatting. He requested for video call, immediately he saw my face, he fell in love, said i was so beautiful and insisted on seeing me right away. He drove all the way from Lekki down to my base at the mainland.after we talked, he insisted on knowing my house that same day. So we went to my house. Since then, he's been coming around. He always comes with his car and so my neighbours alwsys know if he's around after which he'll take me in his car to one of the eateries or bars. We hang out a lot. He even suggested that I should start learning how to drive with his car, so he comes every once in a while to teach me. He shows me so much love. The last time he came around, he bought me clothes including two identical polo. He insisted that I wear the polo while he wears his so we hang out together. Places we went to, people were just admiring us as sweet young couple. This guy keeps saying we both have to leave this country and travel to Canada come next year June. He said i should start saving towards that and he's also going to sponsor most part of the processing. Honestly, we have not had sex since I met him. He keeps saying that we won't have sex until after our marriage. I've tried in some ways to test his dick to see if it will rise and and found out it is in perfect condition. He's also aware that I have a child out of wedlock. I got the shock of my life today.there's a much better job opening in one company who I know the CEO in charge, since I wanted the best for my man, I requested that he should forward me his CV so I can send it to the man. When I viewed his CV, his relationship status says "married" when I confronted him, he said it's because the former job he applied for needed someone who is married and so he edited his CV with the status. I don't believe him at all. I have never been to his house before. each time I ask him to take me I to his house, he keeps saying he will take me there when the time is right.


I don't want any insult please... if u insult me, I'll face u

I will insult you. You are dating a man and you ve never been to his house before? you don't know any of his relatives or a friend that knows him? Are you under spell or your singularity status is not allowing you to use your brain.

Why the rush! Why is everything happening so fast....slow down girl. Like the popular saying goes: ITS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE....Beware!

olamariamjonez:
Nigeria is one of the worst when it comes to english speaking. But, nowadays most of parents don't want their children to speak their native language.
I want to know the countries in Africa that are colonized by British, that speak correct British English.

None.....you cannot separate a man from his mother tongue

The way an Indian man will speak English is different from Africans cos of mother tongue.

Even Americans have to create their own English cos they found challenges with British English and that give birth to American English

harmonyAris:
I'm past teenage and ve had two not so quite interesting relationships. The last one somehow end up with me falling in love with and having my first time lesbo sex with my bf older sister. We agree it was a one time thing but I can't get my mind off her body caressing mine. She was so mature and loving. But she insisted that was just a one time thing. But deep down I wanted more. What can I do pls

Give a dick a chance in your life

grossintel:
I have something paining me so much, and for this reason, I'm seriously reconsidering settling down. My girlfriend and I have been together for a while, and even though we plan to get married soon I always see reasons to hold on. Marriage is not something you really rush into, honestly, it might look good on the outside but inside it's something else.

She used to be a student and come visiting once in a while but now she's done with school and has been around for a month. This is the longest time we've ever seen since we started dating and now I'm getting the vibe of what it feels like living with a woman. In fact it's better she's away and we see like we used to.
There are so many things I can't do anymore, simply because she's here. I can't play my ps4 in the sitting room anymore, as soon as I have the time and decide to, she's already there watching Telemundo or some other channel I can't relate to. When you tell her to switch to something we both have interest in she'll nag about how I don't want her to have a good time. When I insist I want to play games or watch something else she'll just leave the sitting room and enter the room and lock herself.

I had a talk with her, and she suggested I move the ps4 to the guest room, I have a 32 inch TV there, and a 60 inch 4k UHD in the well-furnished sitting room. I just looked at her as she said this while sipping Fresh Yogo with a wide smile. How can I live like a church rat inside my house? I can't keep something and it will still be there when I return. I can't eat what I want, it has to be what she wants or she'll cook it anyhow and give me.

She said we need 30k for feeding, no problem as long as we eat well. But when she go market and come back, I was looking for money one day and asked her if she had, she asked me to check her purse and I saw 1k everywhere. When I asked her she said it's her savings.

I'm here because these whole thing is paining me, if it's like this, then imagine how it will be when married forever. I spoke to a friend about it, and he said I'm too soft on her, that if I tell her something and she refuses then I should hit her. That's a no-no for me, I can't do that instead I ask her to leave. Please married people, how do you deal with women? It's driving me completely nuts.

See you....you never see anything. When you start having children, you ll start watching cartoon network etc

Too many deaths this last hour of dec

prodigyevans:
Who will believe that in a state as NIGER, that we have over 7 persons that scored over 320?
This is just a silly way of exonerating themselves from outright nepotism!!!
Hiw many candidates can score over 320 in jamb nationwide let alone, NIGER state where we are believed to have over 7persons score over 320

Let them continue with their lies

ayoblinks:
See how this people dey make pagans disrespect church, can this happen if it was the days of the early church presided by Paul?

Hypocrite .....Jesus, Peter and Paul weren't deceptive in their approach

kiddkash:
during using pilex, reduce your intake of bread

Pilex no dey work. Agbo jedijedi all the way

flexyrule:
Looks like the okoto Akoto we used back in the days at University of Ado Ekiti.

fixed

davit:
So what of scanner? OBD 2 scanner, without it your list is not complete.

A scanner tells you about a problem, it doesn't fix it. Car issues detected by scanner are not quick fix issues

Grupo:
COZA wants to use Davido to do image laundering.

They want to repair their bartered image

peasy90:
Hello Nairalanders, What if someone fakes a B.sc and Transcript and gets admitted to study for Masters in the Nigerian University, but in reality he has HND (Upper Credit).

Will Employers in subsequent years on seeing the CV with HND and M.sc suspect any foul play?

So employers go as far back as verifying SSCE cert

Canada2021:
I have assisted her in more situations than she has. I just dont want to relate all what i have done for her. And like i said i just got a job this month and will be expecting my first salary at the end of the month

And that gives her the excuse to turn to a LIAR. That's disgusting

These can be term as love making .....no connection at all. More like a severe sex

Honda crew: spare ball joint

Maynnations:
As in?

Ignore them

BBmanna never reach here

Maynnations:
Money money money and more money

It must be your ear.....your dp says it all

Ounje Apostle