₦airaland Forum

JONNYSPUTE:
.....Why would they speak up?

If na fatonyibo fake rape case now, you for don see them.

fitinwell:
MOST CARS DON'T JUST BREAK DOWN.... THEY GIVE A WEEK OR MONTHS NOTICE..

JUST LIKE MALARIA

Awkabigboy:
-Let's say when your wedding date was so close or on the wedding day

-When you were returning for Christmas

-When you were taking your kids to school

What did you do esp when there was no solution in sight

Lamasta:
Who are the key players out injured
Lukaku played
Pulisic played
Ziyech played
Mount played
Who else again abeg tell me

Mercychen:
Hi fam.

Something has been bothering me of late and leaving me emotionally and mentally stressed and drained for the past weeks and I'm cut between the devil and the deep blue sea.

There's this bro we're trying to see if we can work things out. though, I never really wanted anything relationship again or at least for now until I'm decided later in the future on what I really want for myself.

Before, I delve into the main discuss , let
me quickly highlight how it all started.

Some months back, My publisher came to deliver the books I ordered for. So while sorting the books, he just got teasing me like " Babes, na wa o. What's up with your romantic life now?. I've never seen you pulling with anyone. It's always work, biz Money money money I see you pursuing. Lol... I just told him, guy, free me abeg and I went on counting the books at the boot of his car.

He now walked up to me and said, on a more serious note, what is happening? So I told him it's a personal choice cos I dont have the strength for relationship brouhaha now. He agreed with me that truly its not easy and even as a married man, he too feels the heat but the good thing is, he married in the Lord. So I should choose wisely from among the brethren.

So he said, he has this family friend, an eligible bachelor, who wants a decent lady and I'm the one that comes to mind each time the guy mentions it because since he's be dealing with me, he can vouch that I'm a very honest, hard-working and decent lady. So he would want the bro to have me.
That was how I got to meet bro.

Now fastforward to the main reason of this post.
There was this particular day we tripped out to cool off and discuss about US. So we got talking and planning on how to build our home in a way that we will not be caught unawares with some setbacks and unplanned responsibilities. So the issue of children came up and I suggested we have only one, which he reluctantly accepted after much convincing. So we tried to look at ways we can maintain that decision and I suggested a vasectomy. citing the possibilities of health risks (as a result of mismatches ) and failures that might occur if the family planning is done on me but with vasectomy, no issues. He looked me in the eyes and said, "my darling" no!

I was dumbfounded.... And became a little worried because, if he has no plans of having more children, why would he kick against the idea of a vasectomy?

If we are going to be one and follow one course, why shying away from a plan that will benefit us as a couple and a family?


Could it be, he only agreed to have one with me and plans to have more else where?
Is vasectomy a life threatening condition?

I was still trying to wrap my head around his refusal, when he said, it will be done on you ( the family planning). That instant, I felt all alone, like im on my own. So I told him I needed to cool off, and he said feel free.
I left the tent and went to the waters prentending to be playing with the water. He came and dragged me out of the water. we strolled without a word and I asked him to take me home. He did.

He called when he got home. I was cold to him so, he promised to call again but since then Ive refused to pick his calls or reply his texts.

The big question is ..
WHY DID HE BLUNTLY REFUSE A VASECTOMY?

COULD HE HAVE ULTERIOR MOTIVES?

IS IT NOT BETTER TO OPT OUT NOW THAN PRETEND I DIDN'T GET THE MESSAGE AND END UP IN REGRETS?

WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A MAN KICKS AGAINST VASECTOMY?

Scientists:
Thanks to God that i am strongly built.

Back then in my kpako school, Not only will i fight you with my league of friends, i will also report to Uncle Eze and my Mum.

I remember when Ikebundu my rival on winning over Chisom tried to bully me as my senior in other to forfeit Chisom for him, Na School library fight started, and na Model two primary school Aba field it ended. It was a wonderful battle for supremacy Sha.

Shout out to Chukwuleta

nairavsdollars:
Femi Adesina is a fine writer. Only that defending Buhari turns someone to a different thing entirely

NovesaTillie:
I believe her. I have also never slept with a man for multiple orgasm.

TMusicP:
Nigerian music has grown to a tally every single music firm around the world dream to attain. In recent years, it has also dished out multiple top-notch artists who have been pushing the image of the firm based on how they deploy classy music that has dominated several major music charts.


Ranging from the rap genre to the singing curriculum, they have been able to convince the world to believe in the beauty of Afrobeat.
Just like we have enjoyed great music from the Nigerian Afrobeat Maestros for decades to date, the year 2021 is not an exception as we have been thrilled to several hit songs from different Nigerian Afrobeat professionals.

In this article, we would outline the 10 Best Nigerian Songs of 2021 so far having experienced the thrillers they have trailed in the Nigerian music industry and world entertainment mass as well.


LADIPOE – Feeling

The song tagged "feeling" is originally owned by Ladipoe, A Mavin record signee who is known famously for his rapping qualities).
The Nigerian songwriter and rapper who is barely known as Ladipo Eso was born on 29th April 1992 in Lagos where he grew up and acquired his education before venturing into his musical career.

He rose to prominence after releasing his debut song, "Feel Alright" which attracted a huge number of recognized record labels. He was signed to Mavin Record Label where he reformed his career and established it as an enhancing one. He has received a Headies award for the qualities he deployed on the song, "Know You" featuring the Nigerian singer Simi.

His song, "Feeling" featuring the Nigeria fast-rising singer, Buju also emerged to be one of his biggest songs following the qualities he and Buju deployed on the song. It was released in the middle of 2021 by Ladipoe. It topped several music charts hours after its release. Ladipoe and Buju outlined the beauty of good vibes and feelings, declaring publicly that no bad vibes should exploit their feelings on the song, "Feeling."


Ruger - Bounce

The young Nigerian maestro who is barely known as Michael Adebayo and popularly known as Ruger also gave Nigerians and the world a taste in good music with his single tagged "Bounce". He was born in the year 1999 in Lagos where he grew up and acquired his Primary and secondary school education. His musical inspiration spanked early following how everyone around him discovered his extraordinary vocals.

Don Jazzy made it pretty much susceptible for him and signed him to the Mavin Record Label through the efforts of D'Prince. The young lad didn't hesitate to prove his qualities by releasing his debut EP "Pandemic" which dominated the music charts. One of the hit tracks tagged "Bounce" in his Pandemic track-list emerged to be everyone's favorite amidst how they jammed to it. "Bounce" is so far recognized as one of the greatest hits of 2021 in the Nigerian music forum.

He expressed his nostalgia for his woman's beauty and described his urge to have a taste of it on the song, "Bounce." Couples around the world always promote the single for its love growth status.

Rema – Soundgasm

Soundgasm, a song by the Nigerian singer, rapper, and songwriter who is currently identified as the face of Mavin Record Label also earned its place as one of the hit singles of 2021 in the Nigerian music charts. Divine Ikubor who is famously known by his stage name, Rema was born in 2000 in the vicinity that represents mostly penury and struggles. He grew up in Benin City and acquired his education in that city. No single doubt, his musical aspiration began so early that he managed to release several songs with his partner and friend.

Don Jazzy discovered him by the effort of D'Prince and offered him a satisfying opportunity which he grabbed and reformed his musical career into an enchanting one. He released several hit songs ranging from "Dumebi,", "Spiderman," "Bad Commando," "Alien," and "Iron Man", his single that attracted the former president of the United States of America Barack Obama who added it to his summer playlist) and this promoted Rema's image and soared him to the top.

He maintained his peak and deployed more hit songs to his status. One of these hit songs emerged to be "Soudgasm." The song Soundgasm is confirmed to have earned its place as one of the greatest hits of 2021. Rema in the song described the beauty in women's bodies and outlined the beauty of sex. A Lot of couples enjoy the song while making out.


Omah Lay – Understand

The Nigerian professional singer, Omah Lay has dished out a hit song tagged "Understand" which is recognized as one of the songs of the year 2021 in Nigeria. Omah Lay is a Nigerian solo artist who rose to fame with his single "Lo lo" which he released in 2020. He began his music career as a recording artist before transforming his status to a songwriter and singer. His music-producing qualities also assisted him to find his sound. Most of his hit songs were produced by him.


The song "Understand" was released recently in 2021 by Omah Lay after he had forced the fans to anticipate a Jam. It did become a hit after its release. He conveyed his haunted nostalgia over an alleged heartbreak his girlfriend impeded on him in the song "Understand." To date, understand is recognized as the Nigerian top 10 hit song of 2021.


Buju – Outside

Buju who is recognized as one of the 2021 Nigerian artists break-out had his single "Outside" registered as one of the hit songs of 2021.
The young lad was discovered by the Nigerian Grammy award-winning star, Burna Boy who signed him to his record label and offered him the opportunity to prove his class. He did prove his class and emerged as one of the new thrilling names in the Nigerian music firm.

His single, "Outside" released in the early days of 2021 dominated the music chart through the qualities Buju deployed on it. He sang more about his life struggling days and the reality of the song which have earned a place in the hearts of the Nigerian musical enthusiasts.
Currently, Buju is a solo artist. He refused to renew his contract with Burna Boy days after it expired.

Lojay – Monalisa

Lojay also is recognized as one of the 2021 promising break-out artists who has dominated the Nigerian music charts already. His single, "Monalisa" has undoubtedly earned its place as one of the 2021 greatest hits. He released the song in the mid-year of 2021.
The young lad began his musical career earlier in his teens looking out on the qualities of the Nigerian Afrobeat King Wizkid that reshaped and transformed his peak into a satisfying one.

Also, his vocal is identified as the pinnacle of his success in the Nigerian music firm. "Monalisa" to date, is still cited at the top 5 best songs in Nigeria on Audiomack.


Joeboy - Sip (Alcohol)

Joeboy, a Nigerian singer and songwriter whose real name is Joseph Akinwale Akinfenwa-Donus. His song "Alcohol" has been registered as one of the top 10 Nigerian hits of 2021. He was discovered by the Nigerian singer and songwriter, Mr. Eazi who offered him a satisfying opportunity that enabled him to reform and establish his status. He rose to fame after deploying consistent hits to his name. He is currently recognized as one of the best Nigerian young singers who have earned their place at the top.

"Alcohol" on its release date, dominated social media, most especially, TikTok. People found thrills in sipping different kinds of substances to ease their pain. In the song, Joeboy urged his fans to forgo pains and sip some alcohol. He also expressed how alcohol eases his pain and demeaned his attention towards troubles in life.

Fireboy DML – Peru

The face of YBNL is owned by the Nigerian great rapper, Olamide who has also dished out a song that has earned its spot as one of the greatest hits in 2021. Adedamola Adefolahan who is popularly known as Fireboy DML rose to fame after the Nigerian rapper, Olamide discovered him and offered him a golden opportunity that transformed him swiftly.

His single tagged "Jealous" earned him a tremendous fan base which pushed him to release the iconic album tagged "Apollo" that bagged him over 4 Headies awards in one night. Through his thrilling qualities, he released "Peru" as a leaked song condoned by his Boss Olamide. Despite being released unannounced, Peru become the Nigerian number one song within some hours. This had further proven the qualities of the singer.

Fireboy announced his peak and prosperous status on the single "Peru".

Adekunle Gold – High (feat. Davido)

The two Nigerian maestros, Davido and Adekunle Gold bonded and gave out the sound of the year 2021. "High" is originally owned by the Nigerian singer and songwriter Adekunle Gold who also has proven his worth in the Nigerian music firm.

He bonded with Davido and dished out the song titled "High". A few days after its release, Nigerians streamed it massively via the thrilling sentiments it deployed on them and the song soared to the top. "High" has topped many charts since it was released describing the class of Davido and Adekunle Gold.

The duo in the song outlined the blings they displayed at the club and the beauty of women.

Ayra Starr – Bloody Samaritan

'Bloody Samaritan' by Ayra Starr has not impacted only Nigeria but has thrilled enormous numbers of world music enthusiasts.
The young star who was signed and unveiled by the CEO of the Mavin Record Label, Don Jazzy was born in 2002 in a music-attached family. Her music information erupted earlier at her tender age. She began singing at the church, the public, and many concerts before Don Jazzy discovered her.

Since she was unveiled earlier in 2021, she has proven her worth by deploying many hits. So far, she has debuted her EP and Album containing several hits.

"Bloody Samaritan" is recognized as one of the hit tracks of her debut album titled '19 & dangerous." She condemned Hippocrates and bad vibes on the single and earned so much passion from her fans. They streamed it and it emerged as one of the biggest songs of the year 2021.

Author: XclusiveLoaded

Maxymilliano:
I hope Lagos state government will not submit another white paper for peace movement

festacman:
If you were Gov. Sanwo-olu on 20.10.20 in the heat of EndSars protests with the structure of Nigeria Police in Lagos totally broken down and total lawlessness staring you in the face, tell what you have done in that moment of uncertainty and desperation to steady things quickly before it deteriorates more?

I have thought of this and I kept wondering.

You know what? Gov. Sanwoolu will not walk alone! But they LL work in shame

Flamemignon1:
And why is this news? Same sex marriage happens every time

Witnesstony28:
I am faced with the choices of staying at my present place of work or doing my bike business full-time.

If you remember I narrated how my place of work is under paying me (30k/month) and I was able to save 10k on monthly basis from it and I got a loan from my girl's mum and added to get a bike to ride after work (a secondary School).

I stay in the School compound without paying rent and others utility bills.

So on the 1st of this month the owner called and told me that because of the School reputation, they wouldn't want their teacher doing bike work and that it's either I resign from the School or drop the bike (alternatively I should find someone's going to do the bike business for me and bring me returns).

At The initial point I wanted giving it to someone, but on a second thought, I decided to do it by myself cos one person I asked to do it was telling me he will pay 1k/day meanwhile when I go out after work, I normally make like 2k - 3k from 3pm to 6pm and the guy is telling me he will remit 1k for working from 7am to 6pm.

Now I need advice on this. Cos I have been thinking of quiting and focusing on the bike work for the moment. I make way pass 6k on a good day but at that school we are paid 1k/ day.

My only challenge now is getting accommodation to pack out and focus on my stuff. I have also thought about entering into transport business since I started this bike work and I also intend going into delivery business too.

Pls what do I do?

Lalastica pls can you help me post to FP so I could get more opinions.

Thanks .

Geminiboi:
What hype? He has been United's best player this year.

Kriss216:
Pero should learn to be calming down.

This thing never reach to dey call Linda stupìd.


All these evening newspapers sef

FreeStuffsNG:
Oh oh! Those are the women Dr Olunloyo was referring to in her #419Massacre DjSwitch thread. She said one of the women told her that they were paid N5000 by a politician and activist she will name soon.

Inno4ly:
NECO is yet to pay me my marking stipend even when examiners using same(access bank) bank as me has been paid. Please nairalanders I need your assistance. What should I do?

NGpatriot:
This is the maturity the useless sorosoke hoodlums missed and did not get, advocating for peace is a plus, not a minus, and it doesn't change you or take away your personal values, ideals and beliefs, it doesn't and shouldn't stop or take away your activism.

Rejecting the invitation with venom, crude and crass utterances and insults reeks immaturity, lack of self-worth, bad societal manners and home training.

Sanwo Olu outfoxed them, they should have called his luff, but fell into his trap.

Lagosians in their tens of thousands will join the governor for a peace walk while the sorosoke immature and brainless toddlers watch on TV regretting their puerile actions.

OJEEMAH:
You've been dropping too many singles lately. Pls, when should we expect the full album?

It seems to me that you've be scouting the internet looking for news that will either put Messi in a bad spot or probably steal the spotlight.

You have been defeated already. Kiss the truth and move on as this silent vendetta to assassinate, slander and discredit Messi's character won't erase or rewrite history.

You and the MODs have repeatedly shown bias and prejudice towards Messi but it didn't stop him from winning Copa America in grand style and also deliver the final punch to you haters by defeating the Almighty Lewandoski in the Balon D'or race.

You should know by now that nairalanders are not eligible voters and all efforts to rub Messi's achievements in the mud were proved futile by highly respected journalists cross the world. This was how they supported GEJ without PVC in 2015.

One goal from Ronaldo is enough to generate multiple front page materials but same MODs find it extremely difficult to push same content about Messi to FP. We know this and we have complained severally but the Pro- Ronaldo MODs have refused to make any form of adjustment.

Its no longer a secret that to make front page, all you have to do is carry out smear campaign against Messi.

Thierryjay, Unbitchable, Mangekyo, Numerouno94, Johnnypalmer, kilishihunter, Oyatainer, paulolee.

faithfull18:
Okay, doesn't work for most, not advised esp. our Nigerian men.

Magnoliaa:
Okay.

Congratulations.

I have shot my own in quite a few guys' DMs too. Lemme just sit back and wait for the returns on my investments. Hopefully they get hit and bleed back to me.

Kingcalls:
Messi fans are the dumbest set of fans in history of fans movement....them plenty for Nairaland...no difference between them and those almajiri that think buhari is the greatest creation by God ...they think alike , they act alike and they comment alike , logic zero, critical thinking zero, intellectual conversation zero , constructive arguments zero

Jostoman:
this is a fake prophecy

Malory:
This year's stolen award has tainted all the previous awards won by Leo. It shows he is curropt and a petty thief and Guardiola supporting him equally means he is a big thief