Education › Re: Letter Written To My Wife By One Of Her Students by femi4: 3:56am On Nov 22, 2021 |
phemmylink: My beautiful wife who is one of the beneficiaries of Batch C NPOWER teach. She told.me they gathered together and told her they have a letter for her.
What's your say? Basic 5? Your wife has a lot of work to do. At that level, at least the spellings should be top notch |
Music/Radio › Re: 'Thankful': Queen Kel & Davido Sing To God In A Gospel Song (Photo, Video) by femi4: 10:14pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
Amotolongbo: Ijo ti wo inu aiye. Bro David now  In this case...Aye lo wọnu ìjọ |
Romance › Re: Why Are Women In A Rush To Get Married? by femi4: 10:13pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
Moreign001: Hello Guys, Good Morning and a Happy Sunday to you all.
I don't know how concise i can be, but I will try.
I just graduated last 3 months, with my girlfriend who's now my ex, and she's 26yrs of age while I'm 28yr.
We started dating from our 200level till yesterday, (that's approximately 4yrs and counting...). We were ideal together, we were well known in school, to an extent where her friends and mine kept asking how? And wishing theirs was like ours..
She promised never to leave, and she please everyday that I should never hurt her. At times we jokingly talked about our future kids which is now a never happening fable.
So after we graduated, she travelled to stay with her aunt, we do check on each other everyday.
Last month.. She called, and said her friend needs an advice, that she and her date just graduated, and that another man is asking her out, and she's thinking of dumping her guy since he's not ready, and that the newly known man is ready to pay for her marriage rites. Immediately I knew she was the one in the story, because I already had several dreams were she left me. I pretended, I told her to tell her friend to "Follow Her Heart".
Last night she called, and said there's something she wants to tell me, I responded, "Is it what I already know?", she asked what? I told her she's getting married soon, and she said yes! I was speechless. I asked her for how long has this been going on, she said it started when she came to stay with her Aunt. We spoke, and I congratulated her, she started crying, I ended the call, sent her a good luck text.
This morning, she called and said she couldn't sleep last night. I asked her why she did it, why she decided to get married, she said she doesn't know. I asked if she likes the guy, she said yes. She couldn't stop crying and was saying I shouldn't leave her, while she's the one leaving me. I was totally down, but I have crazy friends. I WhatsApp a friend, told him what just happened, his words boosted me up. He said, " Support her, we move, no be God leave you". That was enough, but it's hard, really hard to move on without her, and she said the same thing and kept pleading I shouldn't leave her. Now I'm asking, if I was the one who had left, what would have been the story? That I used her and dumped her, because this has always been used against the guys. Why are women in a rush to marry? They don't even add value to themselves, I'm now 80% in agreement that marriage is one of the greatest achievement for a woman, maybe in Nigeria. Welcome to outside World You guys promised yourself heaven and earth while in inside world (on campus). Unfortunately, the relationship couldn't withstand the first challenge of outside World. It's time to move ahead and concentrate on building yourself before going into the next relationship if you don't want a repeat episode |
Education › Re: What Is The Right Answer? (Photo) by femi4: 9:53pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
Adebayoadekunle: A. 0, any number raise to power 0 is 0. Show me your maths teacher |
Education › Re: What Is The Right Answer? (Photo) by femi4: 9:49pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
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Celebrities › Re: Eucharia Anunobi Blasts Those Posting Account Details Online To Get Funds (video by femi4: 9:40pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
She should mind her biz..How many people she don help? |
Politics › Re: Atiku Hails Davido For Raising Funds For Charity by femi4: 6:48pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
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Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage steps out In Burberry Head To Toe (Photos) by femi4: 6:44pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Different Dates Of Birth On IPPIS And BVN. Any Salary Payment Problem ? by femi4: 6:44pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
neoclassical: Please house, if the date of birth on someone's BVN is different from the one he used during IPPIS capturing, as a new employee, will it affect his salary payment ? No, you can always update it anyway |
Romance › Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by femi4: 4:25pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
Nuttella: But were the signs not there for her to know he is married man?
May the Lord comfort her. If the wife is in another town, it LL be difficult to notice any sign |
Romance › Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by femi4: 4:24pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
FutureIsFemale: Men are terrible.
Please lawyers in the forum. Help me reach out to this lady on Facebook. Her phone number is on her Facebook. Let's try and make sure this man is locked up. Why waste someone's time?
Let's use him and teach other men a lesson. Thank you.
And may God Almighty punish any man who does not have intention of marry a lady but uses marriage promises to sleep with her. May he die miserably. Is it a crime to marry more than one wife |
Science/Technology › Re: Do It Yourself Thread: How To Install A Ceiling Fan (new Room Or Old) by femi4: 4:20pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
youska: I need answer to this too
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Family › Re: Is It Too Late To Start Looking For A Wife At 36 Years Old ? by femi4: 3:21pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
BestRicePlug28: For your mind u don talk sensible thing o You are not reasonable |
Family › Re: Is It Too Late To Start Looking For A Wife At 36 Years Old ? by femi4: 3:07pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
oldienavie: I clocked 36 years 2 months ago, I look fit for my age compared to many Nigerians(I realised most Nigerians dont pay attention to their physical fitness). I have been outside of the country and just got back with the aim of trying to get a wife. Am I too old to expect to find a decent woman ? What suggestions do you have with regards to getting a good woman in the shortest possible time ? Thanks all. You have inferiority complex..... Your age is already affecting you |
Family › Re: Son Surprises Okra-Seller Mom With Birthday Serenade At Lagos Market (Video) by femi4: 2:57pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
Bola146: God bless all Wonderful mother's out there. And fathers too I hope he celebrates his father like that too |
Sports › Re: Sergio Aguero Retires From Football Due To Heart Problems by femi4: 1:05pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
Wise decision...won it all at club level except ucl |
Christianity Etc › Re: 10 Shocking Bible Verses On Ponzi Schemes And Fraud by femi4: 1:02pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
hopefulLandlord: OP dishonestly changed many of the verses to fit his agenda. if you don't believe me just Google each verse and see. for instance *Proverbs 13:11* doesn't say anything about "get rich quick"
I guess lying is okay, so long you're doing it for Jesus. isn't that what most preachers do anyways? Read from New living translation
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Christianity Etc › Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by femi4: 12:56pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
Polynek: U are still speaking in parables? Can u go into details pls Oh! You need details Your mission in Church is for the following reasons: 1. It was a command from God 2. To unite the body of Christ even as we worship God together. 3. Encourage one another and build our faith 4. Share with one another materials, spiritual knowledge and otherwise. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by femi4: 12:06pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
shegzbillionz: sorry for you and your spiritual literacy.... Indeed , my people perish for lack of knowledge |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by femi4: 12:04pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
Polynek: Can u explain wat is like to be a spiritual LITERATE pls? Not knowing the reason for going to Church is illiteracy in the spirit realm |
Career › Re: Can An Employer Be Sued For Paying Less Than 30k Minimum Wage? by femi4: 9:20am On Nov 21, 2021 |
Talk2david1: Good evening nairalanders. I need an answer to the above question most preferably by the lawyers in this forum. Sometime ago, the President signed into law the new minimum wage of #30,000 but some employers especially private school owners still pay their staff as low as #10,000 monthly. Even here in calabar some weeks ago, the street sweepers were protesting for not being paid their '#7,500' salary for 6 months. My question is, Does the #30,000 minimum wage apply only to government workers or are private employees suppose to adhere to this law also? And in a case where you work in big Private school that makes up to 70 million in a term, can You sue your employer for paying less than the minimum wage without loosing your job or being fired? You can't sue them if you already agreed to less than 30k in your letter of appointment by appending your signature |
Christianity Etc › Re: Which Position Do You Prefer To Sit In The Church? by femi4: 9:13am On Nov 21, 2021 |
seunlayi: Every church have their own seating arrangement that matches best with their way of worship. With the options available, from theater seating, pews, in-the-round and even removable seating arrangements, within the church there’s no doubt that the seating style and arrangement that a church chooses sets the tone for the overall worship and personal service experience of worshippers...
Many worshippers won't bother on which place or position to sit in church to get the best concentration but simply comply with whatever instructions the church Ushers\Wardens etc gave to them.
But for some (inclusive me), sitting position really matters since I hate distractions especially when sitting behind youths, at the rear area of the church, etc.
Also, many prefers to sit at the rear part of the church, not because they came late, but to have proper view of whatever is happening in the church (set awọn monitoring spirit), , some will always be outside the church as if they forgot something at home..... But no matter what, the position the Usher directs us to should be appreciated
For you, which position or part of the church do you prefer to sit?
Let's rub minds together. Together we must make it to Heaven and reign with christ Externally Anywhere....your blessing is not a function of where your seat is located |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church by femi4: 9:12am On Nov 21, 2021 |
Nahunger: Many Christians have backslided from attending church service due to one reason or the other.
I am no here to judge, I only wish you can tell us your peculiar reason and hopefully someone might be here to advice you on what to do.
No one is perfect, we all learn from birth to death always have a open heart to the endless possibilities been alive. I ve not....only spiritual illiterate stop going to church |
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Sexual Immorality The Devil's Last Card In These Last Days? by femi4: 9:08am On Nov 21, 2021 |
Onyiiobi7735: I have observed so many happenings around me in this world pertaining to Sexual immorality.
Fornication,adultery and rape are daily increasing at an alarming rate in our world today,with so many of our youths,married couple including even clergymen entangled in the deadly web.
Constantly we hear news of a pastor raping a church member, father raping his own daughter, married men and women having sex outside the marriage, and so on;and this has brought untold troubles on the society.
And to add to it all,the proliferation of PORNOGRAPHY in all its diverse genres_Gay porn,lesbian porn,Bisexual porn,straight porn and so on has further fueled the raging fire of sexual immorality consuming our world today. The question is why is sexual immorality so effective and potent a weapon for Satan in destruction of souls and destinies? So many souls in prison today worldwide are there due to sex related crimes,and many have passed away due to that.
Why is it so so powerful? Sodom and Gomorrah were destroyed along with their thousands of citizens in matter of minutes, all due to homosexuality and bisexuality(Genesis 19:1_29) And this is what governments of developed nations are legalizing and giving public appraisal today.
Lucifer really has great power,and we often underestimated his capabilities. That's why he is such a dangerous enemy.
It was sexual immorality that led to a civil war that almost wiped out the tribe of Benjamin in Israel(Judges 19,20).
The people of Israel lost 24,000 souls due to this terrible cancer on their way to Canaan at Peor in the valley of Acacia;when they began to worship Baal (Beelzebub) and have sex with Canaanite women(Numbers 25:1_end) Baal is worshipped as a fertility god,through sex with temple prostitution,alongside his female counterpart, Ashtaroth.
Today, the Devil is still doing what he has always done, but this time he is employing technology to do so to create Pornography,intimacy gadgets,sex change surgery and so on. The devil really counts on sexual immorality. No....other cards are being used as well. Stealing, killing etc |
Sports › Re: De Gea Criticizes Man Utd Players After 4 - 1 Defeat To Watford by femi4: 8:25am On Nov 21, 2021 |
AYNL: Ode why should a striker defend if the team get a chance to counter,who should they create the chance for? y'all just watch football because it's entertaining,you don't understand it,and how it works Fan boy ...you are sighted. You and I cannot have such viewing center conversation |
Health › Re: My Boy Paid 50k and Collected Free STD... by femi4: 8:02am On Nov 21, 2021 |
advanceDNA: What’s your point....Cos I’m not sure you got my own point You didn't get mine too . |
Health › Re: My Boy Paid 50k and Collected Free STD... by femi4: 7:56am On Nov 21, 2021 |
advanceDNA: No be like 50k.... No matter how thirsty you are... you cant buy pure water for 2500 naira.. when you are not in Sahara desert about to die Not when the price is controlled. We used to buy same pure water for N1 at a point in time |
Sports › Re: De Gea Criticizes Man Utd Players After 4 - 1 Defeat To Watford by femi4: 7:48am On Nov 21, 2021 |
AYNL: what every football player does kicked the ball,played some shot and create few chances I can bet you don't know he assisted man utd only goal yesterday Olodo, we are still on defensive duty yesterday....what did he do? How did he assist the team defensively yesterday |
Celebrities › Re: Juliet Ibrahim, Whitemoney, Ayo Animashaun Shine At Africa Women Impact Summit by femi4: 7:09am On Nov 21, 2021 |
FutureIsFemale: Who is currently acting as the USA President?
Who is currently the DG of WTO?
What is the Future again?
The Table Has Turned.
God I thank you for making me to witness these. Thank God, you said "acting" |
Sports › Re: De Gea Criticizes Man Utd Players After 4 - 1 Defeat To Watford by femi4: 7:05am On Nov 21, 2021 |
AYNL: it shows you're just a hater go and watch the Leicester game, Atalanta, Tottenham and see where he was even defending corner I know your hatred won't let you see all that start watching football with your eyes What did he do yesterday? |
TV/Movies › Re: Gulder Ultimate Search: Opeyemi Samuel Ishmael And Tobechukwu Okoye Evicted by femi4: 7:05am On Nov 21, 2021 |
suffering: I know a few will port to BBN in future. This show na sleeping tablet and sanctimonious Nairalanders aren’t doing their part in promoting it.
Where is fahdiga who promised to watch and comment on every episode? He’s gone silent. Na una way. Don't mind them They asked for the show to come back that they are tired of BBN. Now , they are no where to be find |
Sports › Re: De Gea Criticizes Man Utd Players After 4 - 1 Defeat To Watford by femi4: 7:01am On Nov 21, 2021 |
AYNL: why should a striker contribute defensively when did you see Harry Kane,lukaku,lewandowski,and your cow defend like it's their duty Ronaldo do drop deep and even form the wall when our opponent get set piece to take hatred will kill una se olohun Lukaku , Drogba and Harry Kane always assist the defense especially when there is a Corner against their teams. Ronaldo does even mark upfront like lewandosky. He contributes nothing defensively in every area of the pitch. Man U need more ball winners |