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Romance › Re: Who Needs A God-fearing Girlfriend With Ashawo Vibes- Lady Advertises Herself by femi4: 5:28am On Mar 10, 2021
Ashawo vibes: 95%

God fearing: 5%

Choose wisely guys
Romance › Re: See How A Lady I Want To Marry Responded To Me. Photo Inside by femi4: 5:21am On Mar 10, 2021
You no get money but you wan kiss.

No kiss for poor man
Celebrities › Re: Piers Morgan To Leave Good Morning Britain Following Meghan Markle Row by femi4: 5:14am On Mar 10, 2021
Pierce Morgan the talkative
Health › Re: What Is Causing The Too Much Heat In Nigeria? by femi4: 5:04am On Mar 10, 2021
Nuttella:
Been sweating like a christmas goat, heat rash don scatter my hand, thanks to dusting powder that has been healing it.

The kind of heat that bends neck. cry.
same here, my hands were attacked first
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: 10-Man FC Porto Knock-out Juventus From The Champions League by femi4: 4:59am On Mar 10, 2021
Ademola47:
But something seems mixed up.
Since they played 2-1 after 90 mins making 3-3 on Aggregate, I expect them not to use away goal in the added time.
says who?
This is champions league not laliga or facup
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: 10-Man FC Porto Knock-out Juventus From The Champions League by femi4: 4:58am On Mar 10, 2021
Pirlo Out!

Ronaldo is finished
Business › Re: Flutterwave Raises $170 Million, now Valued at Over $1 Billion by femi4: 4:57am On Mar 10, 2021
Hope you won't disappear like wakanow
Romance › Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by femi4: 6:27pm On Mar 09, 2021
StacyO:
Please read through.


I'm actually in my early twenties,not that I'm too old for marriage anyway. One of my top clients who I'm trying to polish out a business with, went ahead to arrange a mini impromptu by fire by force relationship for me and his brother.

Like bethrothing someone to someone else without their full consent.

It was a men's arrangement cause, I was surprised how they all came to that agreement.


I tried breaking up with him the first time and he told his brothers about it. Guilt almost finished me cause,I was blamed for the excuse I brought up. His uncle who is in charge of the contract brought us back together again.

The main issue now is that I want to break up with the guy once and for all but,I don't want to hurt him and I still have to save the contract at hand.
The guy is very much attached to me already and I won't fake it,I'm equally beginning to feel butterflies in my stomach.


I want to go about it in a very simple way. So that at the end,we all go our separate ways happy.

Any idea is highly welcomed. Serious and mature minds please.

Thank you.






Modified:: I told him my own part of the story and my reasons of not wanting to be in a relationship with him.
I'm not ready for any relationship now and I dont like him. Most importantly,I dont want to chop his money while deceiving him.

He is still not accepting reality but,I'm sure with time,he'll move on.


PS: His uncle isn't aware of this yet and I begged him not to tell anyone.
You ve done the right thing. You ve defined the relationship, It's now left for him to stop deceiving himself or continue dating himself
Education › Re: Girl Draws Her Teacher To Celebrate Her On Women's Day In Jos (Photos) by femi4: 6:17pm On Mar 09, 2021
Ojuju calabar
Health › Re: Prominent Nigerians Who Have Taken COVID-19 Jabs by femi4: 6:11pm On Mar 09, 2021
Uprightness100:
Congratulations to them all!

As for me, I am Confidently and Fully Vaccinated by the Blood of the Lamb, The Blood of JESUS!
That is where I stand for life or for Death!
Praise GOD!
Illiterate
Celebrities › Re: Olakunle Churchill And Rosaline Meurer Welcome Baby, A Son - Churchill Junior by femi4: 5:34pm On Mar 09, 2021
A powerful 2mins man
Sports › Re: Rohr Invites Sadiq, Uzoho, Musa, 21 Others For Benin, Lesotho Games 21 March by femi4: 3:24pm On Mar 09, 2021
Wetin Musa still dey find for SE
Family › Re: Reno Omokri: I Don't Know If Polygamy Is A Sin by femi4: 2:54pm On Mar 09, 2021
TroubleMaker47:
Polygamy is NOT a sin.
King David, THE MAN AFTER GOD'S HEART WAS A POLYGAMIST!
King David is not the standard. If you commit all errors committed by King David, you might not be as lucky as him

The scripture below won't work for polygamy

Gen2:24
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh

1+1 = 1 not 1+2 = 1
Foreign Affairs › Re: Prince Harry & Meghan Markle Interview With Oprah: Top Takeaways (Pictures) by femi4: 12:16pm On Mar 09, 2021
Kriss216:
This Harry is just a SIMP.le guy!


How can you abandon royalty and your family for an over used kpekus that left her 4 year marriage?

The love of a woman taste as wine and last only for a while, but, the love of a family last forever!
Stop contradicting yourself. There is a difference between a woman and a wife
Properties › Re: My Landlord Gave Me 6months Quit Notice When My Rent Will Due In 6months Time by femi4: 11:59am On Mar 09, 2021
9jaRealist:
The last of the letter was gash....

However, a lawyer is merely an agent of his client, so he is not doing anything (much less “eject” the tenant) other than serve notice of his client’s intentions in respect of the property. Furthermore, the client is NOT “ejecting” the tenant either. He is merely essentially saying that when the rent runs out in 6 months, he has no intention of renewing/extending the tenancy agreement. The court cannot stop a landlord from reclaiming his property after the expiration of a lease term (if he had served suitable notice as per the lease agreement).
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Expiration should be Aug 31 not Aug8
Properties › Re: My Landlord Gave Me 6months Quit Notice When My Rent Will Due In 6months Time by femi4: 11:57am On Mar 09, 2021
Enasuarez:
Don't be moved by that cheap warning from him and his hungry lawyer. Wait till your rent expires on the last day in August. After the expiration, you're entitled to 6months grace, after the 6months elapses, you can take additional 3weeks. Never allow any mugu lawyer intimidate you because you don't know your right. I fought my landlord and his lawyer when they came for quit notice when my rent had not expired just because I told him that he (landlord) has not been paying his NEPA bill and when tents contribute their money for monthly NEPA Bill, he'll collect the money and eats it and when NEPA comes for disconnection, he'll give them #500-1000 for them not to be disconnected. I quoted the tenancy law to the lawyer and explained it to him.....He became dumbfounded. Bro google lagos Tenancy Law and read it just to know your right as a tenant. If you dey do liver cuttage, dem go chop you.
Most landlords are terrible
Romance › Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by femi4: 8:23am On Mar 09, 2021
Daytonbale:
Please sorry for my grammar and long write-up

Good day there is something that is disturbing me and I want to seek for advice here.

There is a girl that am dating we started dating 3 months ago , we love each other she is so amazing I love everything about her, she care about me, and love me too.

she do come to my house but I didn't want to rush her about sex , I only cuddle her, romance her ,kiss her.
Three weeks ago she lost her phone and there was no way I can communicate with her , it's was so disturbing that I have to communicate with her through her sister phone.
So I decided to get her a new phone since she is not working , I bought her the phone and I gave her my spare sim to use for the mean time since she cannot retrieve her Sim due to NCC directive.
But ever since I gave her the phone she change , she like coming to my house with her sister Everytime it's piss me off I told her I don't like it,

Although she came with her sister just once before she lost her phone ,
Now sometimes when I call her with the phone I bought for her she will busy my calls without telling me any reason.
The most Annoying one is that when I ask her to come to my house she will promise to come but she will later fail to come.

She do show my love now but not like before again

Now what should I do , should I collect my phone back or I should I leave the phone for her and cut off the relationship .

please advise me

Note below
Am Christian she is a Muslim I live in the North
Maga....she's just not into you
Romance › Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by femi4: 7:59am On Mar 09, 2021
Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care,I just need ur honest opinion,and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet,she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone,she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp,I don't care,but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak,but I love her so much, the first time I saw her,I nearly lost my balance,I started having a breaking voice,when talking to her friends,I really love her,and no one should talk about any redpill here,

but today, I got frustrated,I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff,I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend,I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
but still,she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.
Don't give her attention, ignore her. Let her see what she's missing. Let her see reason she should go out with you. If you know her friends, get friendly and playful with them to make her jealous.
Romance › Re: He Is A Cheat, Yet Won’t Let Me Go by femi4: 4:45am On Mar 09, 2021
AdesewaAde:
So recently, I’ve been having this feeling that my fiancé is a cheat, I’m not a type of woman who do choke my partner or check his phones cause I respect his privacy, even though he has always been checking my phone, going through my social media accounts and all other things, sometimes he will use my fingers to unlock my phone while sleeping just to go through it.

We’ve been dating since 2018, we became best of friends and our families are cool together, he is caring and jovial, he doesn’t hide things from me most especially financial issues, our social lives are almost the same, in short we are good together. We planned to do our engagement last year December but due to the way things were last year we postponed it and decided to pick another date, though I now spend half of my days at his place.

Fast forward to January this year, I started seeing some red signs that he is a cheat, many times I took his phone to unlock and go through since I know his passwords but I will drop it again cause there is no way I will check his phone without seeing things that will tamper with my peace of mind, since then, I’ve decided to open my eyes and ears more wider.

Later on , I discovered that anytime I am around, his phones were always on airplane mode, he only works on system, my heart started asking me different questions but I kept calm and I continued with my quest to catch him red handed, though I confronted him that he is cheating but he laughed at me and said 95% of men do cheat but he is among the remaining 5% that doesn’t.

Last month, we both decided to go on vacation, it was then I saw that I was actually in a relationship with a dog like person. There was a particular number that kept calling him, maybe he forgot to put the phone on airplane mode, at first I overlooked it but the number kept on calling about 59 times, it was then that I decided to pick it up and I heard a female voice, she said “you asshole, so you decided not to pick my calls because she is around, come online, I left you a message there” my heart skipped, who was she referring to as “she”? It was then I decided to unlock his phone for the first time and I just wish I didn’t do that, my eyes were heavy with tears as I was reading all sorts of conversations between him and different girls, not one, not two, not three, about ten of them, some even sent him nude pictures, he already bleeped some, some are still under format, two of them are new preys. I cried, many of them even know me, one even referred to me as his witch, I wept bitterly, I was on this weeping when he entered the room and saw me crying, all he could say was that how will I touch his phone in the first place.

He later apologised, after the much argument, I started parking my things to come back to out state, I told him I am done with the relationship, he started laughing at me and started shouting at the top of his voice “ babe you must be crazy, you are definitely out of your mind, how on earth must you think you can leave the relationship that I summoned up so much courage to ask you out? Listen woman, even if I cheat everyday, I can’t leave you, the truth is I will always cheat, I will apologise if been caught but I can’t ever place any woman above you,vI met our pastor in the hotel with another babe the last time I went to hotel for quickie with one chick, if pastors do cheat, who am I not to. At least you have the key to everything I have, if my parents can’t reach me, they will deliver the message to you, are you hungry? Are you looking rough? Do you want sex and I denied you? So what else should be your problem with me cheating “

I was short of words, he wasn’t even remorseful, I left there angrily and he kept calling, later he called his parents to explain the issues to them and they called me and pleaded, to make the situation worse his mom also said all men cheat. He has been threatening me that he won’t allow me to marry any other person, guys I’m really confused, please what can I do now, I don’t want to spend the rest of my life with a man who doesn’t have taste.
If he threatens you again, get him arrested. Nonsense! What effrontery
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Vs Everton (2 - 0) On 8th March 2021 by femi4: 9:06pm On Mar 08, 2021
A1Emerald:
How EPL clubs plus Atletico Madrid sees Chelsea now..!!
Fusion avengers
Education › Re: Pls Help Me Name This Chemical Compound by femi4: 5:46pm On Mar 08, 2021
Yewandequeen:
Quote me anywhere, the bolded is totally wrong.

When you quote more than one attached group of the same family it is a must you add the prefix be it di-, tri- etc

You can't say 2,3- methyl... Its is wrong 2,3-dimethyl.... Is correct

2,3,4- trimethyl correct... 2,3,4 methyl is wrong

There are 2 carbons carrying methyl group thus the prefix should be Di- you cannt omit that and say the nameis correct no.
Excellent
Education › Re: Pls Help Me Name This Chemical Compound by femi4: 5:44pm On Mar 08, 2021
GreaterFuture:
pardon me bro, but How many degrees do you have bro?
Seem your comment on Some technical topics over the Years here on NL, or are you a Science teacher?
Science & engineering
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo Takes COVID-19 Vaccine (Pictures) by femi4: 2:35pm On Mar 08, 2021
donnie:
See this one... So to you, you just made sense? Is there a Nigerian made vaccine?
Odẹ! Your initial post was about propaganda going on about vaccines that arrived Nigeria last week
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo Takes COVID-19 Vaccine (Pictures) by femi4: 2:31pm On Mar 08, 2021
Preacherrr:
PETER WAS NOT EDUCATED BUT AN ORDINARY FISHER MEN YET CHRIST CHOSE HIM AS ONE OF HIS APOSTLES. INFACT THE APOSTLES WERE CALLED UNLEARNED MEN in Acts 4:13. PLEASE GO AND DISCUSS POLITICS AND LEAVE THE MATTERS OF THE SPIRIT TO THOSE WHO ARE SPIRITUALLY MINDED AND CALLED OF GOD.
Mister, I m referring to spiritual education
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Chinwo Shows Amazing Dance Moves At A Wedding Party (Video) by femi4: 12:14pm On Mar 08, 2021
Mercy n Beret
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo Takes COVID-19 Vaccine (Pictures) by femi4: 12:13pm On Mar 08, 2021
donnie:
I expected this. They hope everything will now "return to normal". He hopes the crowds, services, tithes and offerings etc. can now resume without hindrance. Oga, normal is long gone!

Those whom you've now officially and publicly submitted yourself to have been in charge of your lives and your so-called churches all along. So we're not surprised.

We hope to also see photos of Pastor E. Adeboye, Sam Adeyemi etc. Blind leaders of the blind.

The Covid19 compliant pastor poses for some shots.
Olodo

Ashimolowo resides in Uk. No link with vaccines in Nigeria
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo Takes COVID-19 Vaccine (Pictures) by femi4: 12:11pm On Mar 08, 2021
kingxsamz:
I thought the vaccine was the plan of the Antichrist. How come pastors are now taking the vaccine?


You're definitely one of those who believe 5g causes coronavirus. undecided
Those are words of spiritual iliterate pastors. Matthew Ashimolowo is educated
Phones › Re: 5 Things To Consider Before Buying A New Phone. by femi4: 7:04am On Mar 08, 2021
Replace no2 with processor

Processor is the life of any smartphone
Celebrities › Re: Coming To America 2 Premiere- Lady Bashes Naija Celebrities by femi4: 7:02am On Mar 08, 2021
The last time I checked, no crime in that
Romance › Re: What Is This My Friend Up-to. by femi4: 7:01am On Mar 08, 2021
lessonsoflife:
I got close to this lady and we were gisting well. I wanted telling her to be my gf but I was not just moved so we remained like that.
One other factor that killed my likeness for her completely was when she said she will stab me with knife if I continue talking about a certain topic she asked me to stop.
Now, she has been telling me of her she wants to go and flex with other guys. I do keep quiet.
Last week Saturday, she told me that she will be going out and won't comeback until Monday. My response was for her to enjoy her life wella and take good care of herself.
But she never went anywhere.
What is she up-to, why throwing up talks I don't bother at all if she goes out or not.
Why telling me boys are asking her out?
Na love be this abi na hook.
You are not getting the signs

She wanted you to feel jealous and ask her out
Education › Re: UI , Lasu And Unilag Made Top 20 Universities In Africa by femi4: 6:45am On Mar 08, 2021
sarrki:
University of Ibadan 7th position, Lagos state university 11th position and university of Lagos 17th made Top 20 universities in Africa
Lautech will not trend here
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Which Is Better DPR Or PTDF by femi4: 6:29am On Mar 08, 2021
1030:
Kindly assist and guide on which of these govt agencies that is better DPR or PTDF in terms of staff welfare if one is seeking for employment.
DPR....dem no be mate

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