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Kriss216:
Thanks for loving her outfit and shoes.

Itumo

achidisucre:
A girl recently shared her painful experience with me on bank fraud. Due to security reasons, she decided not to have an ATM card, mobile transfer app (for Android) or ordinary transfers done with Nokia touch.

One evening, she was tricked into revealing an OTP code sent to her by her bank.

The next minute, a debit of #20,000 was made in her account. She later received a mail of online purchase. She narrated all these to me but I couldn't explain why because I thought fraudulent act can only be possible with an account that has ATM card or mobile transfer.

Please gurus, how possible is it? Someone should please explain.

Lastly, what do you advice her to do? She is confused, should she close the account?

OTP works on account not on ATM cards

yinkus6750:
Now that we have vaccines, start with vaccination for top government workers and let them continue working.. They can't stay at home while tax payers money is been used to pay them salaries.

They are working from home

Bitrus in "coc.k crows at dawn"

Finally bowed to postrate cancer

Image laundry people have taken over the first page

abigail11:
I have been dating this guy for 8 years now. My relationship with him started since my university school days.

Ever since we graduated and started working, I have been expecting him to propose to me, which he didn't.

When I confronted him, he said he needs a tangible source of income first before he will marry me.

His current salary is 60k, yet he doesn't want us to go into marriage now.

I personal told him that we can manage what we have and plan our life together since I'm also working. But he said no, his reason is that he doesn't want us to suffer.

My problem is this:
1. Time is not on my side
2. He want to make millions before he can marry me, what if it takes more years to do that?
3. I'm ready and he is not ready.
Please I need advise. I don't know what to do.

You better start looking for another option. He's definitely a selfish guy. 8yrs is more than enough to know the direction you are going. It's time to move on my sister

tommie1:
I have an issue bugging me and I need some serious advise because I have been very indecisive so far.

There is a lady I'm seeing. She came to my place a few weeks ago and we had sex, first with condoms and later without condoms.

However, I gave her some money to get postinor when she left for her place the next morning.

That morning, I asked if she got the drug when she called to say she had arrived home and she said "yes".

I called her again that evening to ask if she had taken it and she said "yes".

A few weeks later, she called to say she is pregnant.

As I later found out, at least according to what she said, she took the drug the next day after arriving at her home and not on that day she told me she took it. She gave some flimsy excuse as to why she did it but it does not matter anymore at this point.

At this moment, we are considering removing the baby.

While I have been very indecisive, she has agreed to go with whatever decision I take and has spoken to a doctor who will do it this Friday.

However, I am unsure as of this moment if I want to go on with this because even though I am done with uni, I do not think I have gotten to that point where I can shoulder more responsibilities.

I am self employed and somewhat financially okay but not in a way that I can take care of three people, particularly a baby. I was okay as of 2019 until COVID came and turned my life upside down last year.

And believe me, I was really glad I was not married as of last year because I went through hell. Serious hell. The lockdown finished me.

I am slowly recovering (very slowly) and still trying to figure my way out through life and rebuilding what I lost but I am afraid that having the burden of a woman and baby at this point may derail me.

And I really do not know who to turn to when I am unable to provide for the both of them.

What do you guys think? Do I go on with this or just let the baby be?

Please don't kill the baby, that might be an opener for you. Let destiny have its way

Nonsense

Money has no gender

Iatrogen:
So what would you have done when caught in a similarly wrong spot?

hold on to the key of course. You don't give out what does not belong to you without owner's permission.

Zzor:
He seeks so much attention all the time,he's so annoying with his attention seeking habits that I think moderators should do something about it

See kettle...

Twelfthman:
So people choose F? Lol.
Well i am not going back and forth with you on this. This would be my last reply.

Yes they did, our actions or in actions have consequences

A forced marriage don't last. No music group stay together forever.

The jackson 5, spice girls, destiny child, remedies, mohits, artquake, Resonance, plantation boyz, Kush, Infinity, midnight crew etc all sperated at one point or the other

Twelfthman:
Yes I once have carry overs all of which pass in my finals. Carryover no be for animals nah for humans. Learn your lessons, work hard and pass. There is no shame about it

It's for humans that chose that path

The system made it easy enough by providing grade A to E yet you chose F

Anything regarding registration in Nigeria is stress. Nin, driver license, int. Passport, voters card etc

Chiminemine:
Hello guys please I need your help...I think my younger sister is heading towards the wrong path and my mom is only making it worst....

And I also created this thread to know if a 16 year old girl should be given a phone of her own(in Nigeria)...

My sister has started being so interested in boys alot and That pisses me off. A few years back when she was in school, is warned one of her so called boyfriend's who she was kissing back then and doing all sorts of rubbish with(except sex).. Now my parents made her drop out of secondary school at s.s.s 2 to write neco which she passed so she can gain admission into university ( fast)..


For some time now she has been using my mom's phone to facebook and do other stuff which I don't know of.. one time she begged me to use my phone to logging her account which I accepted.. after she was done, she forgot to log out so I took a sneek peek into her account and holy sh*t almost 85% of her friends were males... Her inbox was filled with messages from boys.. almost all of the had to do with relationship and sex related nonsenses... I was really mad because she's too young for all this bull sh*t...

When she was tired of using my mom's phone, she saved money to buy one 6k phone which after sometime, I destroyed out of anger because she was feeling like she is now grow up and all type of those nonsenses... Now she has started looking for a job, going from one place to another on her own with the help of my mom and her phone looking for somewhere she can be working to get money to buy a new phone (I think)... Someone that is about to enter university In some months time...and is supposed to be facing how to study and pass jamb.. because of the job she's looking for, she some how convinced my mom and dad to let her start going for night jamb lesson from 6pm-9pm...but I know that's not her only reason..

The most annoying part is that each time I'm beating and warning her she would start to ask me if she is a (small pikin) And my mom would be backing her

Alot has really happened in our house this past few years That I think she has been learning from... I'm the first son and she's the second.. I have warned her that I don't want to see her with my mom phone again... Guys please what do I do??

Be close to her and explain the dangers of that stage to her

Change your Church

Enísà aka Ẹniola.....the wannabe Nigerian

November24:
Leave that one,it doesn't work at all,they will tell u next time,be vigilant

Exactly, they ll even tell you that it's your fault. I don't blame them, they continue to cash out on both legal and illegal transaction

handsomeyitayo:
remember those days AIT news casters
kishi daramola
jire kolakoforiji
aisha falode
senami okghiomhai
e.t.c
the fist two I mentioned don't see them on air ...
but the lady picture below is beautiful...who knows her?

She's almost beautiful

maikbanj:
Good evening fam. I just want to drop this here even though I feel it's not the right thread. I like the romance forum.

I have a colleague at the office and she lives not too far from me. I have a good relationship with her husband as he's a Yoruba man. It happens she's still a learner and isn't too good driving. Although,she tries and I kinda supervise her but she never listens. She just wants to do her own thing. I end up driving almost every time

On our way back from work today she drove and she wanted to branch at a market to purchase some grocies so she was looking for where to park her car. I showed her a place and she said no that the place was too deep. But cars were parked there. I left her alone and she parked close to a bus stop. When she left,I was just in the car pressing my phone and Task force came and impounded the car. I tried pleading but to no avail. They asked if I was the owner of the car and I said no that it's fory colleague and she was going to be with us soon. The plea fell on deaf ears and they drove me and the car to the police station close by.

I tried calling my dad to know if he knew anyone there as he usually have lil connect but he said no. So I tried going back to where we parked so I could tell her what happend and where the car was. Fortunately, before I got to the gate of the station she was walking like a soldier angry saying why did I let them carry the car and all. And I told her how I pleaded and how they wanted to lessen the tire if I didn't give them the key. Still she was furious and was talking plenty things that got me annoyed that if it was my car would I have allowed them carry it that wasn't I a man to handle them.

The people said for violating I was going to pay 120k. And I just didn't know what to say. So I was like let's call Baba(her husband ), just to know if he had a connect. And she flared up saying what kinda talk was that and all like I was her baby or something. She said things that got me angry and I told her it's indeed not her fault and I kept quiet.

In the end I did some transfers and she gave some amount too.

I have made my decision not to drive her again because I was really hurt with the kind of things she said. And when we were heading home I called her attention to it gently. Yet she was saying why would I have allowed them carry the car that if it was my car nko. And lots of things.

I don't want to ruin the relationship I have with her husband

Please I need to be advised because I have crossed my mind not to drive nor go with her anymore

Go n get your car. You are wrong to handover the key to taskforce. You should have waited for her to come back. You sounded too soft to be a smart guy

Who is the cucumber breast girl, we don't know her in Nollywood

Thread for carryoverers

SA n Hiv

Nonexistent:
Liars. When did primary school pupils start to dey write names of noise makers?

We did in our time. I don't know if you belong to Indomie generation

Useless blogger

It doesn't always work

nony43:
First time mums always make mistakes...
Some made/make mistakes with the food...
Some its with over pampering...
Some do not let their children become independent early enough.

A friend once messaged me that her kid was beginning to have piles because his poopoo was too strong and was constantly so...I told her to feed him Veggies more often and she told me he doesn't eat it...I told her that the decision to give him the right food lies with her,there are so many ways to get your child to eat Vegetables...We just have to find out how to do it...
What were the mistakes you made as a first time mum and how did you rectify it?
What about with feeding?What did you feed your child and how did you trick them into eating well, with being abusive?
You might be saving a mother from her child's drama with your comment..LOL

Talking to them on disadvantages of taking junks as food.
Understanding the classes of food and what is called balanced diet

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

So, to make your hair is a big project that you cannot handle. Poverty is a disease