₦airaland Forum

Tobam7302:
I don't know why I am just different from everyone. For most of my life I have always been the quiet one in any group even if I wish I could also be free like anyone else.

And now I am in the university. I am still the same maybe even worse, I am pratically a loner now. The virtual stuff we are doing is not even helping matter at all.

Before I gained admission I have always hoped that university will probably change me, but I am in 200 level now nothing has changed. It's like I don't have that fast thinking to give good replies to conversations (especially Yoruba ). And my friend is like the complete opposite of me; free with everyone, funny, witty with words and stuffs.

I can count the number of things I say per day. I just want to get better than this and meet new people. I am going to be 20 next year, yet no babe or even female friends. Shey I even get male sef talkless of female.

My parents sef are probably hoping for some changes. One of my Granny's last words to me was 'when will you not be shy again'. I just laughed then but it's really serious to me... No day pass without me thinking about this.

I just envy people that are just so fucking good at talking, especially this funny bangers people do ( I am so bad at this. I will probably just bore the person out).

The worst part is the way people treat you like a kid just because I don't talk the way, I am supposed to. I am just depressed. Anytime I go out, I always come back depressed, why?. When I see the quality of conversations people have and how fun and confident they are talking. My friend is probably tired of me. Phone calls sef na trouble. No one calls me except my parents.


What do I do to be normal, how do I live like others and just enjoy life? I have even thought about taking weed to help me that's how desperate I am.

If you have experienced this before please how did you overcome.This is really draining me. I just wanted to let it all out sorry if the post is long.

all u need is weed, roll that sh1t, light that sh1t and smoke that sh1t, come back here and give us testimony.

UNN- Mr okoronkwo for computer science department. That man get mind give me extra year.

habsydiamond:
The only thing I know about them be say when dem poo e dey smell die.. Like say the yansh dey add different odour from that of those wey no get yansh

it's high time the mods create a section for the kids, too many kids on nairaland.

NovesaTillie:
Keep it up. If you date me and don't make your moves by the 6th month I will leave..........

lwkmd...no mind the simp

Here in Libya, 1 dinner is equal to 1 hundred naira.

Afriqan:
Even as a man, I sometimes feel for ladies, but you can't settle down out of pity.

It's majorly the economy that has prevented a lot of well meaning guys from settling down. A lot of Nigerian women will tell you they love you, but if there is no money, there won't be respect in the relationship, that's why most guys are just staying single nowadays.

But with God, all things are possible. Marriage is a beautiful thing.

Exactly bro, women hardly regard or respect u as their husband if the money is not there, so it's better to stay on your own and hustle hard. Thank God say I be man, I can marry at any age.

Mrkumareze:
Werey pastor...
Righteousnes2 come, the world is ending tonight

Lwkmd no be small thing oh

God please help us Nigerians and punish this chronic lier called Lai Mohamed. This man is living up to his name. This idiot no go die well.

God will disgrace tinubu come 2023

stunnert:
It is called the P.H.D Syndrome ( Pull .Him .Down Syndrome)

It is very common among the uneducated lower class folks

very true, it's prevalent among those with less education.

What of the iroko tree wey full Igbo land. These once dey learn na

So na davido dey lash this girl

donbachi:
Avoid secret places with her.because penis wey get erection,no get conscience.

And,

A naive girl wey love man,no know wetin she enter.until her first abortion.

Nice one

Jemerson:
Church wedding and white wedding are not the same thing.

White wedding = social event after church wedding

you're confused I can see that.

Righteousness2:
If you Claim to Believe in JESUS Christ! It is.

GOD is a GOD of Order.
The Church is the Body of Christ and JESUS Christ is the Head of the Church.
GOD ALMIGHTY is the Institutor of the Marriage Institution. In Ephesians, HE likened the Love a Man should have for His wife to that HE has for the Church.
The Church is the representative of Christ on Earth.
If you claim to Believe in JESUS Christ, it is Very Important to for you to be joined by His body.

oga u have not made any point. Where is it written in the bible that one must do church wedding, if u decide to invite your pastor or Reverend to ur traditional marriage to bless your marriage, is it a crime? You people should stop misplacing your priorities.

Tiwa get sleeve tattoo na

Na now u go know say women scarce.

virginprincess:
If she doesn't call you call her, it as simple as that or you buy her airtime for her to call you, i personally can stay a month without calling anybody maybe she's that type of person.

then relationship is not for u, communication is key.

Mood11:

You are dating her but she's not dating you.
Read the handwriting Bro,
Your babe has another boo.
Move on. If you eventually marry her you will be so alone and unhappy.

Take 100 naira buy Handkerchief you will need it when you see how effortlessly she will move on like you don't exist.

Hahahaha...bros u dey vex oh. It's true sha.

Workch:
Mama, it’s obvious that I am lusting over her, I just want to know if the feeling is mutual.
What’s the worst that can happen?

the worst that can happen is, she's your neighbor to start with, and with that, no more female visitors cos she's gonna keep a close watch, secondly, as a single mom, just be ready to raise another man's child. Lastly, due to the fact that she's living closely with u, regular sex is certain and that will result to another pregnancy.

Bros abeg u, don't fall for that sh1t man, it usually doesn't end well. Am talking from numerous experience. A single mom for that matter, better use your head.

MadamVanessa:



Why do i have this feeling that Anita is even the devil here not Lola

Exactly

If this was never the case before, then I put it to you that your wife is fvckin another man. If u be strong man, do the needful, consult a native doctor.

My face is there, no be big deal

alignacademy:
Thanks for stopping by

Yes, G. A. M Ikekeonwu

You knew him?

I'm a super lion, Unn 010 set. Enugu campus precisely, my roommate used to talk about him.

Datboredberry:
Are you daft? Didn't you read my comment?

Giving the kid of the person you're in a relationship with a gift doesn't mean you're taking care of them... It's common sense and simple decency to give simple gifts... Especially to children.

The STIs you mention, you must have received so many...

But always remember, for these girls you've dated to have those infections, there must have been a community dìck...

It's gross... But I somewhat understand your bitterness. And I sympathize.

It seems like you're a single mom

Gam ikekonwu

Rydermaverick:
If this is a true story then na wa to you..
That gal is traumatized from her last experience and it look like you don't know how to handle her matter properly..
All I am gonna tell you is that she loves you and if you leave that gal she might never forgive you even if she tells you she did..
If only you know what it means for a lady to be abused..guy man take care of that gal and don't allow anything hurt her.. she's not cheating on you..
Show her love abeg for my sake..pls also find a means to take her out of that place she need to be loved..that kinda gal doesn't really need your money she needs affection from you..

this your input no sharp at all, that girl is already collecting d1ck, best thing is for the guy to free her and focus more on alleviating his present financial predicament. Money is the only language ladies understands, so telling the guy to bring her out when he's not capable would only make his condition worst.

Kdon2:
Adulterous woman.

that's it bro, my greatest fear.

I know say if u eventually marry that girl, u will definitely cheat on her, e dey ur eyes.