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CelebritiesRe: Israel DMW Reacts As Doctor Lists Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin (photo) by fimzzy1991: 2:31pm On Apr 25, 2024
From a virgin who got married to a male virgin, I tell you there in no expectations especially when you are true virgins not people that do everything but intercourse.

You start together from zero and build to plateau together. You learn and unlearn together.
No competitors, no comparison just plain heaven.
God is very wise. Marriage is honorable and the bed undefiled
maureensylvia:
Marrying a virgin can bring a sense of purity and strong bond, but also potential drawbacks like increased expectations and sexual incompatibility.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Told Me She’s A Water Spirit (mami Water) by fimzzy1991: 1:24pm On Feb 12, 2024
Run for your life and give your heart to Jesus, except you are prepared for self destruction. Sayans gift adds sorrow

Maks27:
She’s a girl I love very much but our relationship hasn’t gone real far . She told me this of recent with evidence for me to know it’s real and true
What do I do?
She said I shouldn’t hurt her that things will go well for me
I need advice from Matured Nairalanders on this matter


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CareerRe: Should I Japa Or Stay In Nigeria? by fimzzy1991: 12:56pm On Dec 18, 2023
Don't sell your properties to Japa.
If you want to go thru study route, look for a 1-1.5years masters in Nigeria, make sure you get very good scores. Then apply for scholarships abroad to do your PhD. You can settle from there. You'll have both worlds.
I have never spent a dime to study abroad to God be the glory, why should you spend 25million to boost another man's economy?I got fully sponsored masters and PhD, why not you. My house dey standing.
You can sell cars, don't ever sell land or properties that appreciates with time!!
CareerRe: Going Back To School At Age 34 by fimzzy1991: 12:50pm On Dec 18, 2023
Hi dear.
The question is why do you want to study medicine?
Do you have sufficient finances to start at least?
Do you have the time to invest?
Are you married, do you have kids?
You need to ask yourself tough questions on your motive.
If you want medicine because of a deep desire to make a difference in people's lives, great.
If you want it to gain some level of prestige, become wealthy, hmmm, you might be disappointed.
Many of my classmates did medicine for very wrong reasons and either couldn't finish or just didn't use it.

Age is never a barrier to any accomplishment because we're not running a competitive race.
Just choose your path, with God's help you'll get there, no hurries
My advice
Finish the software program you're into till it can sustain you,
Then process the direct entry into medicine.
When we graduated, few of our classmates already were 40 or close, some with 3kids. A lady had her baby and the next week wrote a major medical exam, she passed.
It takes determination but you need to really count the cost because medicine is not for the faint hearted!!!
I wish you all the best
RomanceRe: Two Love Birds Who Are Both AS by fimzzy1991: 6:47pm On Nov 14, 2023
Abort Mission. DONT DO IT. THINK ABOUT YOUR KIDS. Except you can afford IVF+Gender selection[

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Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him
TravelRe: It’s Getting Harder To Move Out Of This Country Nowadays by fimzzy1991: 1:55am On Oct 26, 2023
God have mercy
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sharpman1:
I sent $100 to Nigeria via Sendwave in March 2020 at N374/$.
Christianity EtcRe: No Plan To Retire Now, Says Kumuyi by fimzzy1991: 1:02am On Oct 26, 2023
This is commendable! By the way many research have associated early retirement age with higher risk of death (Here is one https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6524971/).

For those with grievances towards his style of leadership, we are all humans, we are bound to make mistakes, let us give others the same grace we give ourselves.
For those with some problems with tithing, dont forget at one point or the other we belong to associations and to keep things running there is need for some cash flow. You go to this buildings(churches), use the restroom, sometimes are served refreshments, from which place should they get funding, and the person leading without any other source of income, what will he eat and his family. That is why God commanded the children of Israel to make provisions for the priest. It is true a few preachers have turned Gods business to their own means to wealth, but there are some who did not.
Pastor WF Kumuyi is someone who does not care for all these things. By the way many of these things you see some genuine ministers use, were gifted by grateful members who got directly blessed by their ministry.
Let the genuine preachers breathe!!!!!
RomanceRe: Why Being An Adult Virgin Is Embarrassing by fimzzy1991: 4:40pm On Oct 07, 2023
[color=#006600][/color]Dont get confused she is confused and justifying prostitution. Keep your virginity. It will keep you from many problems
Chingyyy878:
I think she’s right ..
FamilyRe: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by fimzzy1991: 4:26pm On Sep 12, 2023
Can you please give me her number privately to talk to your wife ? You're a good man I've been married for 14years also and from experience and, I know she needs help.
Hold on with your plans to divorce please.
Trust God in me, I can help.
Contact me through my email..
I'll remain anonymous we can talk privately on how much info to divulge on how I got to know her.
Sex becomes tough for a woman especially as children increases. It's exhausting. Men use sex to relieve stress while women run a way from sex when stressed. Or see it as an inevitable chore for those trying

[[color=#006600][/color]quote author=ADURA123 post=125671601]Good evening fellow NL members,
My story may be long but pls endeavor to read to the end so that you can make proper suggestions or advice.

I have been married for more than 10yrs now with beautiful kids, my marriage is one that many Young guy will wish to have, but along the the line I don't know what happened things begin to nose dive. In the last 6yrs I discovered that I struggle to make love to my wife, she will either tell you ohh, she is tire or she don't like sex much..this I have endured for all this years with no cheating.
Her qualities are
She can cook
She can keep the house clean
She can manage resources
And she is accommodating to my people
In all this years I have never cheated on her, proudly saying it coz my dad warned me of cheating on my wife rather I should divorce her and go for another wife.

My qualities are
I work and earn like about 700k net a month.
I give feeding allowance and personal total of 100k a month while I invest the rest on a project which she is aware of.
I don't drink or smoke
I don't keep late night
and I am the best friend to her and my kids.
Honestly having talk to her for over 5yrs on this issues of love making and she refused to change, then I have decided to yield to my dad advice and ask her to leave...she is not aware of this plan, but trust me it will hit her.
I allow her to do little job to have her own finance is not as if she contribute anything in the house, but she is claiming stubborn, I love her so much, it will hurt me to cheat on her, something I have not done since I got married to her.
I plan moving to a new place in February, and she doesn't fit into my plans.

My decision between now and December is
1 Avoid asking her for lobe making
2 Continue taking care of her so she won't suspect anything
3 when she comes close I avoid her.
4 February I issues divorce papers and give her like 1m to go get her life back

Is there anything more I can do for her?
Advice me pls...[/quote]
FamilyRe: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by fimzzy1991: 3:45pm On Aug 22, 2023
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what if the poor woman gets rich and later leave you?

Marry a child of God and be one!

talented321:
It is choice' there are 80% chances that a woman who is doing well more than you will take advantage of you except the matured ones''
Christianity EtcHappy Golden Jubilee to the Deeper Christian Life Ministry by fimzzy1991(op): 6:07pm On Aug 13, 2023
Today the Deeper Christian Life Ministry celebrates her Golden Jubilee (50 years).

We celebrate the founder, Pastor WF. Kumuyi for his tenacity, determination to keep to the standard of holiness without which no man can see the Lord.
Join me to celebrate this beautiful ministry!!!

TV/MoviesRe: Unveiling Tola Bolaji, Versatile Nollywood Writer And Director by fimzzy1991: 11:29pm On Aug 12, 2023
A very big congratulations big brother. Many more heights in the name of Jesus!!
RomanceRe: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by fimzzy1991: 1:51am On Aug 09, 2023
It appears you feel the purpose of a woman is to have children and the purpose of having children is for selfish purpose (to take care of you)
Do you consider the many side effects of having children without a properly functioning Family system.
You went further to say, even if the man is married! What wickedness to another woman and her family!!!!
Our values have become so lost, I weep for this generation considering the many likes the author got!!!
Bvlgari:
Dear Ladies,

If you're between 35 to 40 years old and yet no husband is coming, look for a guy you love either married or single and let him knack you and impregnate you.

You need a child that will look after you at old age.

Don't let anyone deceive you, Marriage is not an achievement, and it's not everybody that will get married.

You can still be single with your own child and still be happy and fulfill your purpose here on earth.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Taiwo Odukoya Is Dead by fimzzy1991: 1:41am On Aug 09, 2023
[color=#006600][/color]Just make sure you're ready to meet him. Your believe in Him or disbelief doesn't change His sovereignty.
Please repent, Jesus loves you
quote author=PureFace1 post=124974089]Too Bad his God couldn't save him.

I'm sure he died in a US Hospital instead of Jesus to heal him from whatever illnesses he was suffering from. He did rather watch people masturbate.

Religion is only mean to brainwash and control people, many christians don't want to be christians out of their own free will they are just afraid of hell fire.

A God that threaten to burn you for eternity if you don't do his bidding is that a God or a Devil?[/quote]
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Taiwo Odukoya Is Dead by fimzzy1991: 1:37am On Aug 09, 2023
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Your eyes will soon clear. There is a place called hell. There is a God and He has a house, heaven.
Creamypie:
My question is with all the "prosperity" and "Miracle" teaching, that they deceive people with, what is the ultimate price for worshipping God. Its not the above listed. So what is it? What did Jesus teach as reward for true worshippers that these men replaced with miracle/breakthrough/prosperity? I know 100% he's now totally dust and not in heaven..... The "heaven " they deceived people with.he even died in foreign hospital. Y go to hospital to seek medical care? When heavenly bliss is all yours
FamilyRe: That One Child That You Love, But Will Frustrate You Unintentionally by fimzzy1991:
These children are inventors of all shades of naughtiness!!!
My second daughter was one of such (she's better now). She is very smart, mature, intelligent and mischeavous.
We were living in a story building. And then our pumping machine packed up in a block of 4 rented flats. We manage to fetch water from the deep well, then carry up the long staircase.
In between repairs, when she was 2, she had to poo in her potty. I stayed with her but had to step out in a jiffy, my people by the time I came back, she had poured her poo inside the big drum of water we placed in the toilet.
Oh my God!
That is when you want to throw the baby away with the poo water😄😂
HealthRe: Pls Help A Brother. by fimzzy1991: 2:59am On Jul 12, 2023
This appears to be issues relating to either your lower or upper intestine.
I want to beg you to please look for money, I am actually on my knees, do an upper GI endoscopy first, if nothing then a colonoscopy.
I am particularly worried about the weight loss.
Herbs won't help. A good diagnosis asap will. I am concerned that it's not peptic or duodenal ulcer since there is no improvement with drugs. It might be something more sinister but can be handled properly if diagnosed on time

I wish you all the best
RomanceRe: Marry Your Friend Vs Marry The Will Of God Vs Marry Who You Love by fimzzy1991: 12:05pm On Jun 11, 2023
Then that is her problem. You keep praying and listen for the next instructions from the Holy spirit. No one is indispensable[quote author=alien1 post=123464228][/quote]
FamilyRe: I Want To Run Away From Home by fimzzy1991: 12:03pm On Jun 11, 2023
Please be careful of predators here. Don't go see anyone. If you must, take at least 2 people and inform your family members first. The world is very tricky nowadays
FamilyRe: I Want To Run Away From Home by fimzzy1991: 3:06pm On Jun 10, 2023
Hello dear young lady. I read your story and sensed some sincerity and desperacy.
Inasmuch as you feel you're the most unfortunate person on earth, girl, you still got it easy. You have no reason to run from home, you'll just be jumping from frying pan to fire.
You have a destiny and Satan wants to end it before it starts.

You have a problem, the way out is to look for solutions not more complications.

A little story about me, I was less than 7 when I lost my father, we couldn't feed properly life was hard, saw lots of obstacles along the way, but giving my life to Jesus at age 12 made all the difference. I stuck to Christ. It was rough but I made it. Today after almost 3 decades I have no regrets. I did jamb 3ce because I wanted Medicine but couldn't later on entered with the course I could get and later changed to medicine.

Don't make harsh decisions you will regret later in life, stay calm, restrategize. Learn how to negotiate with your parents, don't be an entitled daughter. Ask for things with humility from your Dad.
You can learn a hand craft, computer programming while waiting, instead of doing jobs that will take so much of your time you couldn't study.
Take a year off if necessary to gather yourself together. There is no rush. After graduation people still stay at home looking for job.

Everyone will have some delays getting to their goal at one time or the other, but the most important thing is not when you get to your goal, but that you got there despite every obstacle.

We're rooting for you, don't take shortcuts. You can get in touch with me, perhaps we can talk more. I am a mother of girls, sure I can talk to you more.
Love you

Girlee:
[I'm pained!
I just want to know "how people run away from home".
I know I've got nowhere to go to and no one to run to but all I can think of right now is how I must leave this house, the negative vibes, the toxicity and hate.

My dad bought so many bags of cement, trips of sand to build his house. How much did I ask for?

I can't do what my mates are doing in the street because I just can't. If not, I just might have been one of those underaged prostitutes or thieves.
God has so much helped me because I've thought of so many crazy things to do but Christ in me won't allow it.

I want to be free abeg!
How do I run away from home?😩
FamilyRe: Urgent Advice Needed To Protect My Mum From Depression. by fimzzy1991: 4:43pm On Jun 09, 2023
She needs to see a therapist, medical psychologist. This is very important before things get out of hand. She could have scheduled visits until she gets out of the fog, so she doesn't sink under the darkness. My deep condolences and sympathy for your mum.

Blackazuma99:
Good day to everyone in this forum, please I am in desperate need of your advice.

Early 2014 she lost her dad, 2016 she lost her only brother (my uncle) and then the worst happened in 2021,i lost my father which is her husband, and since then God has been faithful, I graduated same year, my elder sister got a good job same year, we got our first family house same with other benefits.

But the problem has been my mum, she's always depressed and always thinking, thinking of my late dad, we have tried our best as the children to make her happy, especially me the first son. Please i need advice on what to do, I really don't want my mother to die of depression 😞.
FamilyRe: Urgent Advice Needed To Protect My Mum From Depression. by fimzzy1991: 4:41pm On Jun 09, 2023
Blackazuma99:
Good day to everyone in this forum, please I am in desperate need of your advice.

Early 2014 she lost her dad, 2016 she lost her only brother (my uncle) and then the worst happened in 2021,i lost my father which is her husband, and since then God has been faithful, I graduated same year, my elder sister got a good job same year, we got our first family house same with other benefits.

But the problem has been my mum, she's always depressed and always thinking, thinking of my late dad, we have tried our best as the children to make her happy, especially me the first son. Please i need advice on what to do, I really don't want my mother to die of depression 😞.
RomanceRe: Marry Your Friend Vs Marry The Will Of God Vs Marry Who You Love by fimzzy1991: 2:54pm On May 29, 2023
The bible says there is a way that seems right to a man but the end is death. God Will give you someone you can love. However, because God spoke to you and you obeyed doesn't mean the other person will. So if you go to the person and the person says no, go back to God to get the next instruction. It's the other person's loss but don't hesitate to ask the person because of fear of refusal. However, your presentation also matters. Don't be dry, be creative in your proposal. Sometimes you might start with friendship, and don't appear desperate. Give space also. God will help you. God's plan is the BEST!!!! Speaking from experience after about 14years marriage!

conquerorsword:
Dear Nairalanders, I am at a point where I can say I am ready to marry and who to choose has been an issue.

I have friends that are really decent but no strong feelings attached.

I know the will of God but their Shakara too much and another thing is that them no love you the same way, they will also tell you that God did not tell them anything.


I also have a lady that I am in love with and when people see us, then say we are couples. And she loves me same way.
Please in situations like this what should I go for?
Science/TechnologyRe: Jpmorgan Will Let Consumers Pay With Their Face Or Palm Instead Of A Card (pic) by fimzzy1991: 4:28am On Mar 28, 2023
The bible says towards the end time knowledge shall increase(Daniel 12:4- But thou, O Daniel, shut up the words, and seal the book, even to the time of the end: many shall run to and fro, and knowledge shall be increased). Also, a prophecy was given thousands of years ago that the Antichrist will enforce a certain identification mark on the palm and the forehead (Revelation 13:16-17-And he causeth all, both small and great, rich and poor, free and bond, to receive a mark in their right hand, or in their foreheads. And that no man might buy or sell, save he that had the mark, or the name of the beast, or the number of his name).
Several years ago this looked like a fable, now reality is setting in. Friends, do not let that day take you unawares. Repent today and believe in Jesus, tomorrow might be too late
Abidemi23:
[color=#006600][/color][quote author=Abidemi23 post=122107946]Don't mind him, very archaic and myopic somebody. Is he not already using his fingerprint and face to unlock his devices and carry out some transactions? Since time immemorial, Apple users use their biometrics to authenticate payment online without any marks on their body. But this guy thinks that everything is a conspiracy.
Science/TechnologyRe: Jpmorgan Will Let Consumers Pay With Their Face Or Palm Instead Of A Card (pic) by fimzzy1991: 4:26am On Mar 28, 2023
The bible says towards the end time knowledge shall increase(Daniel 12:4- But thou, O Daniel, shut up the words, and seal the book, even to the time of the end: many shall run to and fro, and knowledge shall be increased). Also, a prophecybwas given thousands of years ago that the Antichrist will enforce a certain identification mark on the palm and the forehead (Revelation 13:16-17-And he causeth all, both small and great, rich and poor, free and bond, to receive a mark in their right hand, or in their foreheads. And that no man might buy or sell, save he that had the mark, or the name of the beast, or the number of his name).
Several years ago this looked like a fable, now reality is setting in. Friends, dont let that daybtake you unawares. Repent today and believe in Jesus, tomorrow might be too late
Abidemi23:
[color=#006600][/color]Don't mind him, very archaic and myopic somebody. Is he not already using his fingerprint and face to unlock his devices and carry out some transactions? Since time immemorial, Apple users use their biometrics to authenticate payment online without any marks on their body. But this guy thinks that everything is a conspiracy.
PoliticsHave You Voted? by fimzzy1991(op): 11:35am On Feb 25, 2023
We all know that voting can't be done online. Have you voted?
Say yes if you have.
We will appreciate you attaching photos of your polling unit.
This is an opportunity to speak up if you see any irregularities.

RomanceRe: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by fimzzy1991: 12:29am On Feb 21, 2023
The choice of who to marry is not a physical decision because God Himself instituted marriage. He said it is not good that a man be alone. Anyone can pretend to be what you want and reveal true color later. The best bet is to ask your creator to direct you and trust Him. If you bought a device you are unable to handle yourself them you can check its manual. So is the issue related to our life. Ask the creator of life, He will guide you. Pray and believe in Him, that is of you have accepted Jesus in your heart. Virginity or wducat8does not guarantee a successful marriage
RomanceRe: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by fimzzy1991: 12:13am On Feb 21, 2023
The choice of who to marry is not a physical decision because God Himself instituted marriage. He said it is not good that a man be alone. Anyone can pretend to be what you want and reveal true color later. The best bet is to ask your creator to direct you and trust Him. If you bought a device you are unable to handle yourself them you can check its manual. So is the issue related to our life. Ask the creator of life, He will guide you. Pray and believe in Him
RomanceRe: Help, This Happens When I’m Sex Starved by fimzzy1991: 6:51pm On Dec 24, 2022
God is speaking to you in parables. Premarital sex will destroy your life. There are many mammy waters roaming around.
Don't join your destiny with destiny destroyers.
Next time might be worse.
Give your heart to Jesus, ask God for the right person for you, marry her first before sex.
I can tell you categorically, if you meet a godly woman, your business will rather bloom and blossom.
I say this from experience.
God bless you


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naijablood:
I started observing this pattern since 2018
I was posted away from my then girlfriend to another state for NYSC hence couldn’t engage in serious relationship through out my service

…But seriously that year was one of my favorite in terms of financial success.
As a serving corper I was also working freelance for two different companies in Lagos. … coupled with other gigs … I was in money.

After service I met a lady and we kicked off a relationship, within 2months of us into the love affair, I lost the two jobs as a freelance was done with service so had to start some money making venture, but was tough, well the relationship lasted four months.

After three months of us breaking up I had a business idea, year 2020, got into it and within two months I made my first million was single for a year.

2021 I met a lady and started meeting … and within a space of 6 months, I was back to square one…

Early this year was tough and depressing, and by June, we were already having relationship problem, hence some space between us.

But from September I notice some positivity, business took off I started saving up and by November I had to buy a property to compensate myself for a hardworking year ..

Now my problem is I’m disturbed , this lady been asking for us making the relationship official .. but I’m scared loosing it all … I keep getting back to the ground when I’m in relationship…

But will I be single for life … I’m just lost.
Foreign AffairsRe: China's Largest Fresh Water Lake Dries Up ( Pics, Video) by fimzzy1991: 9:38pm On Aug 30, 2022
[color=#006600][/color] Thanks for your consistency in preaching the gospel. You'll not loose your reward in Jesus name.
Righteousness2:
Unprecedented rivers and lakes suddenly drying up all over the world.
Even the the Blind , Deaf and Dumb are aware that the world is not normal anymore.

No one in this Generation has an excuse to miss the RAPTURE or Heaven . Because all the Signs JESUS Christ told us will precede His Coming are so audible, loud and clear right before us.

One of these days, there will be a Blast in skies that will shake this Earth. A sound that will Mysteriously take everyone who is Saved and washed in blood of JESUS out of here.
Live Ready People! JESUS Christ is Coming

FamilyRe: 45-Year-Old Nigerian Woman Celebrates As She Welcomes Twins After 13 Years by fimzzy1991: 2:48am On Jul 05, 2022
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Some do it and failed so praise God
thebosstrevor1:
The job of ivf or surrogacy

I believe ivf is the miracle wonder here.
Foreign AffairsRe: Life-threatening’ Floods Force Evacuations In Sydney, Australia (Pics, Video) by fimzzy1991: 1:49am On Jul 05, 2022
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SultanOfPuna:
I remember 2019 when righteousness was preaching End time whenever Natural Disaster happen.

Its now 2022, werey still using Natural disaster to scare his fellow Sheeples.

By the time we enter 2045, he will still be preaching End time.

Mental illness na your mate??
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