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pc guru: Damn this post really hit me hard, i really have some thinking and talking to do.

Geee!!! That hard?!?!?!

ogugua88: [size=13pt]Lol. Mynd has already spoken for me. [/size]

Oya, you and Mynd can speak again

Marriage is not all about having kids, yes, but having kids is an integral, highly rewarding and fulfiling part of marriage. Adopting a thousand kids will NEVER compare with you having your very own, just the same way I'm certain Ogugua will be quite content to prepare her own pizza in her own kitchen than ordering pizza from outside. Yeah you can order outside from time to time but imagine NEVER cooking in your own kitchen when you have all the utensils and ingredients, and only ordering from outside just because you can't stain the white walls and carpet in your kitchen, when you should have put a different carpet and painted your wall a different colour in the first place.

Yeah i know making pizza and making a baby are 2 different things entirely but the 2 scenarios are quite similiar in a way.

[quote author=Mynd_44]You never come?[/quote]I have now.lol.
[quote author=Mynd_44]Now you see where you are missing the point? You are here putting a genotype test and an HIV test on the same pedestal which they are not. What is with the craze about having a child that looks like you sef?[/quote]HIV and genotype are really not on the same pedestal as far as the marriage issue is concerned. Though both are undesirable, i would support an HIV- / Hiv+ marriage before i support an AS/AS marriage. Thanks to medicine, you can still have kids with that woman if you so desire using IVF and even in Nigeria today, its possible for an HIV+ woman to give birth to an HIV- baby......though extreme care must be taken at the point of delivery especially. And it is very possible to live with HIV for several years without it developing to full blown AIDS, infact some HIV+ people are NOT even on antiretrovirals because they don't need it!

I made mention of having your own baby coz almost every parent will tell you that one of the greatest and happiest things that can happen to anyone is to hold his/her child in his/her arms and gaze upon the face of the little one while the little one gazes back at you and stretches his/her tiny hands trying to touch your face....& then watching that baby grow everyday. I will NEVER intentionally deny myself or the girl i love so much that rare gift. It's a case of thinking things through and parting ways in good terms, knowing its for the best. Doing otherwise out of 'love for each other' and then proceeding to stay biologically childless is pure selfishness IMO. If our own parents could well have decided not to have kids because they love each other too much, we wouldn't have been born. Parenthood is a sacrifice in itself, a very rewarding sacrifice. Of course, with a 'genotypically compatible' couple, if God says no kids, at least we would have tried, then we can consider adopting or other means.

You think its easy not to have your own kids and be considering adopting when you are perfectly capable of procreating?? We are not supermen bro. We are humans.

What if that AS partner divorces you after 15 years of marriage, would you look back and boldly say you have no regrets?



[quote author=Mynd_44]Na by force? This is the reason why most of us don't take chance cos we are so attached to things which do not matter.[/quote]So what matters? 'love' right? Ask the several people filing for divorce everyday or those who are stuck in unhappy marriages. People tend to misunderstand love a lot. Love is many things, but believe me, it is NOT stupid and also NOT selfish. Taking chances is good, yes, but even those chances must be well thought out and should only be taken when there's no safer route or better alternative.

[quote author=Mynd_44]And to your question about if the babe is HIV+ or not. The point of taking an HIV test is to see if it makes sense to have unprotected sèx With her or not. If she then turns out to be HIV positive, I have not seen someone who would be diagnosed with a terminal disease and would still hope to tie someone down with him or her. If you really love someone, you would let them go and be happy not try to bind them to your sorrows.[/quote]In the real sense, HIV is not even a disease. & besides HIV patients need love, care and support. You must have read and heard that from numerous USAID and PEPFAR-sponsored adverts. So now you believe that if the vulnerable, in need of support HIV+ lady really loves you, she should let you go right (& she should go and face her sorrows)? But you cannot let someone go to have the opportunity to experience motherhood with someone else she's compatible with?


[quote author=Mynd_44]My point is simple, I will not be marrying her not because I might be infected but because the marriage will be short lived, and before you come at me, if you have been to any HIV counselling session before, you will be told that just cos a person is positive does not mean the person's intimate life is over so this is not about fear of infection[/quote]So why exactly will the marriage be shortlived? some HIV+ people are far healthier physically and in much better shape than some HIV- people...just so you know.

lol. Busy now. Will be back.

ogugua88: [size=13pt]*high five*[/size]

I see you. Good evening

Oya let us hear you... Indulge me *rolls up sleeves & cracks knuckles*

[quote author=Mynd_44]When a relationship gets serious and you start talking about the future, the both of you need to be responsible and take an HIV test. But blood test? Nah......

For me blood group is not grounds enough not to get married to someone so I am not bothered[/quote]Out of curiousity, if after the HIV test, it turns out that your babe is HIV+, will you still go ahead and marry her?

[quote author=Mynd_44]Well if I am marrying, I will be doing so because I love the woman and I want to spend the rest of my life with her not because I want to have kids.

Children are a plus and not the first thing I am looking for else I could as well knock up some girl somewhere.

If we end up AS, i will gladly go on contraceptives and adopt. That even makes life a lot easier sef.[/quote]Wow! We've got lots of awesome men on nairaland o. How gallant of you. So adopting a baby is better than holding your own baby, who may be your(or your pretty wife's) spitting image in your arms, then watching him/her grow and develop to be a better you?

You've talked the talk.....just as several people do. I sincerely hope you CAN indeed walk the walk. Not many men can.

Yes, today I have this topic's time

Thank God i dont need to bother about a future partner's genotype (proudly AA ). But if i were AS and i happen to be in a relationship with an AS lady, then i'm sorry but that relationship has an expiry date already. It's easy to say "we'll adopt", "marriage is not all about kids", "s/he's my soul mate and I can't leave him/er", but is it really that easy

For the adoption people, so because you 'love' each pother, you'll both throw away an opportunity for you both to settle with different partners and have your very own kids (& probably still remain good family friends, maybe your kids could even marry each other in future)?? Isn't that SELFISH?? You think its easy to go for an adopted child when you know fully well that you can bear children?? Go and try it. I hope some people won't father kids outside wedlock and not tell their spouse 'out of love'.

For the contraceptive people, so you'll keep on using contraceptives from marriage till wife clocks menopause right? while parents on both sides will be praying ceaselessly that God should bless their kids with the fruit of the womb. Yeahrite. Even unmarried couples using contraceptives sometimes STILL GET PREGNANT. & when that happens, what will you do, abort immediately? or check baby's genotype before birth and abort if SS? or just wait till the baby is born & be guilty of the absolutely WICKED and SELFISH act of bringing an SS baby into the world knowing fully well that you both could have prevented it?? Mind you, aborting the baby too is also callous in my opinion because you both knew your genotypes before sleeping with each other. infact, the 'good' thing to do is to indeed not bear children at all,......but the point is NA SO E EASY??

In a relationship, Love is not everything, never everything.

i wonder what an AS couple who have stayed childless (intentionally as some people are insinuating they are capable of) suddenly decide to get a divorce after 15 or 20 years of marriage? Guess what that amounts to? WASTED YEARS! people who get divorced often cite their marriages as wasted years but will be quick to point out that at least, when they look at their kids, they know deep down that those years were not wasted. what will freshly divorced Mr or Mrs Intentionally Chidless look at?

Adoption is not for everybody, and I wouldn't reccomend it for someone& especially a couple who are perfectly capable of bearing children. You can never and will never share the same blood with that adopted child. the day that child messes up real bad, just pray this thought won't cross your mind "if he/she was my flesh and blood,s/he'd dare not do such", coz if that thought crosses your mind as a man especially, don't be surprised if you start getting unconsiously angry with your wife.


What's the option then? keep checking the baby's genotype before birth and aborting if SS right? I wish your mental and physical health(especially for the female) Goodluck.

Consciously marrying an AS is an even much worse scenario than marrying a guy or lady who cannot have kids (even tho that too, is easier said than done). Love is essential in every relationship, but if you really think it's ALL about love, then you'll be in for a terrible shock after marriage....in short your eye go open.lol


& then its funny how in some cases, the same people who will go ahead and say they can marry a fellow AS & decide not to have biological kids will also say they'll abandon their bf/gf or even divorce their spouse because of infidelity...since marriage is not by force

Billyonaire: Asari is speaking the mind of an average Niger Deltan. You need to visit the creeks and see things before you can relate to what Asari stands for. No other region in Nigeria would sacrifice its waters, lands and forest for the salvation of the 36 States plus Abuja, and be peaceful when people who are fed with the money accrued from the 'anointing oil' threaten to NOT allow their anointed son to be President in peace.

If Niger-Dela decides to secede, believe me, the North will suffer immeasurably. The only State that is capable of surviving this secession is Lagos State alone and its just the tiniest state in terms of landmass.

Let us all respect the NIGER DELTANS, cos they are the breadwinners, FULLSTOP!

Thank you for further exposing Mr President's inefficiency. So since 'their son' has been in power for the last 3 years, what has he done to directly improve the lives of the people in the Niger delta apart from making the millitants billionaires & increasing fuel price?

Read this sha & show it to the 'others' so they can attempt to come up with answers to the questions.

https://www.nairaland.com/1286622/see-polls-mr-asari-dokubo

Thought provoking article asking critical questions which all the Omokris, Abatis, Okupes & GEJ's praise singers on NL will never be able to answer.


By Chiechefulam Ikebuiro
There are so many questions begging for answers in our dear country .So many of them.

Since the creation of Nigeria successive governments, both military and democratically elected have promised to tackle corruption, accusing the previous government of being corrupt. The question then is, why is Nigeria still ranked amongst the most corrupt countries in the world till today? Why are there still graduates loitering the streets searching for non- existent jobs? Why is the unemployment rate so high? Why are people still dying as a result of road accidents, accidents caused by negligence of the roads by government? Why can I not be guaranteed that the little back ache I have will be cured when I visit the general hospital? Why do my leaders and their families still jet out abroad to get treatment for illness as little as catarrh, while our hospitals are left below standard?

Why was Alamesigha granted pardon? Will he contest in 2015? Picture Alams in the senate in 2015. Why do we still have corrupt politicians representing us- the people, in government? Why are we suffering in the midst of plenty? What has changed since the removal of fuel subsidy and the subsequent increase of fuel price at the beginning of 2012? Were we not assured of significant change after the subsidy must have been removed? Where is the change? What does Boko Haram want? Is granting them amnesty fair? How about the dead and their families? Is there any compensation whatsoever for them? Will Boko Haram even accept the amnesty in the first place? Where and when will they strike again? Is the JTF intelligent enough? If they are, why are there more casualties on the side of the civilians than on the insurgents?

Why does the Aso rock budget have such a large amount of money for food and miscellaneous? Is the food made in heaven? Money that can put to better use for the good of the ordinary man? What is security vote? What in the world is the money used for? Why should one lawmaker in Nigeria earn more than the president of the USA? Why is there erratic power supply even after promises of improved power supply? Why do we not have a single functioning refinery? Why are we even solely dependent on Oil? What effort is being made to develop the other sectors? Why are the elderly dying on the streets, protesting for their(stolen) pensions? Why should they suffer in their youth and suffer even more in old age?

Do we have a national carrier? Why are our international airports not up to standard compared to even smaller countries? Why do we still claim to be the giant of Africa? Why is the average life span of a Nigerian just 52 years of age? Why does everybody want to run away from Nigeria for greener pastures? Ghana is now becoming a better option. Remember when Shagari chased Ghanaians away? The (In)famous Ghana must go? Now we are running back to their country in search of a better life?

Why are there massive failures of JAMB and WAEC?

Why will the current president want to monitor the internet users in Nigeria? Is that necessary? Will that put food on the poor man’s table? Talk of misplaced priorities? Why should the government pay such amount to a firm in another country, even if it had to monitor the people? Money that will have benefited the ordinary man if put into good use. Why should the government even hand such project to a foreign entity? Is that not like handing over your security to another country?

Finally, I want to ask what Mr. Asari Dokubo’s problem is? Some of us supported your cause when Niger Delta was being sidelined. Why, we asked, should the Niger Delta still be very underdeveloped when it provides Nigeria’s revenue? Recent altercations from Mr. Dokubo are not acceptable. What is giving him the guts to threatening the existence of Nigeria? It is so disgusting that in the face of happenings in Nigeria, one individual is coming to add salt to injury. An individual that has been ‘’settled”. What other relevance does he want?

Why don’t you enjoy what you already got? What is the state of the Niger Delta since the current government took over if I may ask? Are there any improvements in the lives of the people of Niger Delta? He was quoted as saying the militants will return to the creeks if the current president does not win a second term. Have they not been paid off in the name of amnesty? In this light, one is tempted to think Boko Haram will one day threaten Nigeria again after they must have been granted amnesty(if they accept). It was also reported that he boasted about the reduction of oil production to ZERO if he gets arrested.

That Nigeria will become history if he is arrested. Talk of being above the law? Who are his backers? On what grounds exactly should the current president get a second term? Is it solely because he is from the Niger Delta? That’s not good enough Mr. Dokubo. Have you asked the man on the streets what they want come 2015? Have you taken time to find out the impact of the current government on them? Do you know if they are happy. Please stop being selfish! Why incite violence with such statements? Nigerians now know better.

They made the mistake of voting by sentiments in 2011, you think they are willing to make the same mistake. We are in a one man one vote era. If Mr. Dokubo wishes to vote the current president, fine. Will he bring down Nigeria if the people decide they do not want the current president come 2015? Let the will of the people prevail. Let the people freely chose who they want to rule them come 2015. If they chose the current president, fine. It’s a democracy after all-The government of the people, BY THE PEOPLE and for the people. Please quit this I-will-destroy-Nigeria-If-Jonathan –Does-Not-Win-A-Second-Term Nonsense!

See you at the polls.

Source: http://saharareporters.com/article/see-you-polls-mr-asari-dokubo-chiechefulam-ikebuiro

Supported.

Sciencs: Can't believe he made such statement even wen he's jst few kilometers away frm d police-headquarters. D speed at which this country is fast becoming a joke is staggeringly disturbing.

hehehehehe. How about the IG of Police declaring Abdulrasheed Maina a wanted man when the same Maina was riding about in Abuja freely with police protection!

mbhs139: As a matter of fact, this is exactly what he said:

"The PDP and the presidency issued the statements in reaction to [size=14pt]comments attributed to Mr. Buhari [/size]on Monday where he said the Nigerian government, led by President Goodluck Jonathan of the ruling PDP, is more deadly than the extremist Boko Haram sect and that any attempt to rig the 2015 election would be firmly resisted.

I wonder what is wrong in this statement. Oh, sorry, what is 'wrong' is that Buhari made it. It should be a shame to all Buhari haters that the only thing they have against the man is his so called religious bigotry and not records of corruption or non-performance. Funny country i tell ya.

nnalove: off point no goodluck no nigeria comes 2015 believe it or leave it huh dat is d truth. Power must not go back to north again.

Why? Compare and contrast the regimes of the so-called north with that of the co called south, both millitary and civillian. Count all the infrastructures you see today and tell me how many our so called south built.


You better rise above tribal and religious bigiotry. These silly leaders you think you are defending do not give a damn about you. All of them, both igbo, hausa, yoruba, south south, etc are busy chopping the money together in Abuja and laffing at you people. they will go back to their constituencies and begin to cause division and mumu Nigerians too will believe them. Obasanjo deliberately shoved the rough end of a pineapple in all Nigerian's backsides (to borrow Siena's phrase) when he selected an ailing northern governor to be president (even tho that one showed no signs of interest) and chose the most incompetent south south governor (Donald duke was there o, even thief Odili for make sense pass Jona) to be his running mate. it was his way of punishing Nigerians who refused him 3rd term and he knew very well that those 2 had absolutely no plans for Nigeria.


GEJ has come and the more left unsaid about his incompetence, the better, but it is glaring for all to see. nigeria was way way better years ago when the So called terrible northerners were in power. I'm not blindly advocating for power to go back to the north but at this stage we need to finally rise above tribalism and look at the candidate and what he has to offer, and not where he comes from. Sentiments have brought us to the sorry situation we are in today,.

Enough with this Buhari said baboons will be soaked in blood jor. First, it was "we will make nigeria ungovernable" that he 'said'. Now that its becoming popular knowledge that it was actually PDP Atiku (or is it Ciroma) who said so, the next thing is to hang him with the dogs n baboons yarns when he was clearly using a proverb/hausa saying (like some yoruba mums & grand mums will say 'maa fi imu e fon fere'*i will use ur nose to blow trumpet-literal translation* to warn you) to depict what will happen IF the elections are RIGGED!

I for one will support capital (yes, i said it)punishment for anyone who dares to rig the elections in 2015 for any candidate or party. This country has suffered enough. The millitary era of the 70s and 80s were far better than this. Ask your parents who were in the university or were working during that period. even Sani Abacha's tenure sef.... story for another day sha.

Don't compare Buhari's statement to this millitant's or Atiku's statements please.


Oh, did i forget to mention that ideally, Asari and Tompolo should at the very least be tried in court for the terrorism they unleashed on the niger-delta in their 'hey days'. but what do we have now, Asari is opening his mouth to threaten all Nigerians while Tompolo is now an overnight billionaire. Nonsense.

[quote author=T-Leo001]@house... How una dey? please can someone make use of SAT scores of 2011? I mean at the embassy and to secure admission.

Do SAT scores have an expiration date?[/quote]5 years I think. 2011 SAT scores are still very valid.



@dkgetmuny, Congratulations

Scarpon: other people from North like IBB, , BUHARI and co should learn from this man not how to steal our money

So how much of your money did Buhari steal as head of state and PTF chairman that Obj & later GEJ searched and searched and were not able to find?

& maybe you need to go back in history and realise you need to be saying A BIG THANK YOU to Buhari for being directly involved in the building of 3 out of your 4 refineries which subsequent govts have been struggling to maintain.


@Topic, Good news a refinery is to be built in Nigeria but I think we should be somehow worried that Dangote (& not the blo.ody government) is the one to build it. Apart from the fact that recent past and present governments have proven to be absolutely lazy to do anything and have resorted to 'privatisation' and PPP, Dangote = Monopoly. Unless we elect a sensible person in 2015, I fear that after Dangote's refinery (which will be of excellent quality and huge production capacity of course) comes on board, two things may happen:


1) By hook and crook, no other private refinery will be established in Nigeria;
2) The govt owned refineries will suddenly go further downhill or govt will suddenly realise that they are too expensive to run & what happens? the Knight in shining armor Dangote wil gallantly come forward and 'patriotically' 'volunteer' to 'relieve''the govt of its 'headaches' and offer to buy up the refineries (at a tiny fraction of the true value of course) after which he will probably just shut them all down/ refurbish maybe 2 out of them and what happens then??


ALIKO DANGOTE will dictate how much Nigerians will pay for fuel....just the same way he more or less currently determines the cement price in Nigeria today & in some way in the not too distant past, the price of rice.



Of course i pray the gloomy scenario I've presented does not happen but going by Dangote's way of doing business and his coziness with the wicked souls & later dumm.ies in Aso rock, i do not think I am completely off point.

May God give us leaders who know what their jobs are and who have the courage & willingness to do them.....coz they damn well have the cash....if well appropriated.

[quote author=Find Out!]aobalog at live dot com[/quote]posted it earlier: aobalog @ live . com

Ignore the spaces.

Again I ask, post the side pics, & engine pics. Is it a 2.8 V6, 1.8 naturally aspirated or 1.8Turbo.

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Hi , Just replied ur PM. U can send a message now. Thanks.


Note tho: Still out of Naija o.....till end of the month at the earliest.

bigfrancis21: Imperiouxx Baba
I've been accepted into the University of Maryland (MS + funding) and the University of Alabama (no funding). I thought i'd inform you specially, as my oga wey you be nau.

Congratulations bro. Just a part of God's reward to you for all the assistance you've been rendering here. His grace & favour will also be upon you at the embassy. Amen. Cheers

Though this may/may not be a vague assumption (as I'm not an auto tech), I think more vehicles are prone to break downs when stuck in heavy traffic (as is usually the case on that bridge for at least 8 hrs out of 24 on d average week day) than when in constant motion.... for a myriad of reasons ranging from:

1) Cars currently in 'push to start' condition whose owners 'mistakenly' turn off the engine maybe due to low fuel or erroneously thinkin the low battery would have been charged up by the (now apparently defective) alternator;

2) Fuel tank empty (dude might have thought he will still be able to 'manage' the car till that filling station in front not knowing that Lagos traffic had other plans for him;

3) 'Overheating' issues which may due to a number of factors (from defective fan/wiring/ defective thermostat e.t.c.) that just require you to stay a tad long on one spot with ur engine running before 'showing face'.lol

4) Some very annoying kick starter issues that only come up when your engine gets really hot and would require you to cool down for your engine to cool down before the car starts again (had that experience a couple of times last year with the family car i used to drive then)

e.t.c. E.t.c. E.t.c.

& OP, diabolical Get serious man.lol

aobalog at live dot com

Nice looking car.

but Picture of the side please (+tyres).
Alloy wheels or rim cover?
Is a factory keyless entry remote included among the 3 keys?

Yvete: Haha! Very very funny, but true. I don't think God will be unhappy, but he might just be like, "its the things I didn't ask my children to do that they worry about lolz ". I always think that a missing couple went to eat away from the cameras.

Lol. I agree. Many have introduced their own teachings which they feed to the 'flock' who in turn swallow hook line and sinker & treat with all seriousness while not bothering to study or obey the teachings contained in the Bible the 'Shepherd' ostensibly preaches from, a copy of which the flock members also own and can study. & this is also not uncommon in Islam tho frankly, one is more than the other.

The missing couples who went to eat would still show up na , but those who have more 'serious business' to 'attend to' may not be seen till after the honeymoon.lol

This is IT!

EOD EX with leather & MANUAL tranny!!!!! No auto tranny issues!!!!

This is a very very very good buy. Happy sales OP.

NB to a prospective buyer: This is the fastest 4 cylinder car I've ever driven till date! Will give many V6 engined cars a good run on the highway.lol. Best balance of speed plus fuel economy.

Will be alerting a few other manual tranny Babyboy/EOD EX lovers

Are we surprised? Afterall, one of the culprits converted Operation Feed the Nation(OFN) equipment bought with govt money to Obasanjo farms Nigeria(OFN) equipment & we still voted him in 1999 & 2003.

The other one more recently illegally & as a sign of insensitivity, took money from POVERTY ALLEVIATION Fund to host Thisday Concert in his state & we still voted him in 2011 & some m.o.r.ons are still asking us to vote him in 2015.

Oh, and in a standard country with sensible legislators in the majority, this report should be sufficient to send the Presidency into jitters but not in Nigeria with Bonaventure Mark and his band of merry legislooters.

awodman: The First Lady’s spokesperson claimed Sahara Reporters is trying to demonise her.

The Presidency has refuted allegations that the First Lady,
Patience Jonathan, was dropped from a State visit
delegation to Namiba and South Africa due to ill health.

The Special Assistant (Media) to the First Lady, Ayo Osinlu, said this is a statement released on Tuesday.
“This morning, we woke up to the latest in the series of
deliberate efforts by Sahara Reporters, both to mislead the innocent public and demonize the First Lady of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, Dame (Dr.) Patience Goodluck
Jonathan.

“This time, it is about the First Lady being “dropped from
President Jonathan’s upcoming official visit to Namibia and South Africa” for, according to their evil imagination,
reasons of “deteriorated” health,” the statement by Mr.
Osinlu said.


“We are however grateful to the “medical gurus” at Sahara Reporters, whose original diagnosis that the First Lady was experiencing a “terminal ailment” has now improved to one that “may be manageable!”

Source:premiumtimesng.com/news/132092-presidency-insists-first-lady-in-good-health.html?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter&utm_campaign=presidency-insists-first-lady-in-good-health

Nigerians are also grateful to Sahara reporters for informing us back then that madam first lady was in a german hospital for an ailment when YOU, Mr. Ayo Liar Osinlu told us that our first lady had gone on a long overdue vacation.

We al know Sahara reporters is never 100percent correct some times but we also know that they are usually on point in most cases and they expose this insincere govt for what it truly is.

Fair enough. Afterall Nigerians have been most insulted and most disrespected under his tenure. The fuel subsidy fraud alone is arguably the biggest corruption scandal ever in Nigeria yet nobody has gone to jail.

The last time Nigerians have been this wantonly slaughtered (post election violence) was probably during the civil war yet all our president and his advisers can do is play politics with it. Yeah I know they sent JTF there but is anyone really monitoring JTF & calling them to account for the atrocities they are perpetrating there in the name of wiping out BH? And how well equipped is JTF interms of weaponry and tactics? How about the other agencies like immigration, what's their contribution so far until recently? What about the innocent nigerians living there, how are they protected? I havn't mentioned the high wave of kidnapping and robbery in the south.

The Pension fraud scam is still there and we are being dribbled back & forth. Maina proudly rides about in Abuja with police escorts and the IG said he has been declared wanted

'Ex' millitants who should be rotting in jail have turned billionaires overnight and are now doing the job of 'protecting' our waterways as if we do not have a NAVY. That's like hiring bank robbers to guard your bank and teling your well trained security men to take a hike.

Ministers who should be lounging in jail are still occupying their positions and old criminals are being appointed into sensitive posts that should be held by technocrats. Infact that we have most of the current ministers in their positions is a huge slap to Nigerians.

A trillion bucks was budgeted for security (more like feeding the ex millitants and their own offshore accounts) and this is April. I'm yet to see or hear of state of the art key equipment costing millions / billions of naira that has been purchased by the govt to aid security.

The 2013 budget alone is an insult to Nigerians and its poor imp;ementation thus far is an even greater insult and a continuous daily slap to the face of nigerians.

People who dare to call the president to account are labelled as haters and blacmailed by the president's corrupt minions masking as special advisers. Let us also remember that this president promised us a leaner government but what do we have? irrelevant, sorrupt and redundant government officials feeding on taxpayers money.

Everything now is concessioning, PPP, privatisation e.t.c. as if previous govts (by the so called terrible northern millitary ) that built & managed roads, bridges, stadiums, other monuments & services(NITEL, NEPA) e.t.c. on their own were populated by supermen from Mars. Yes I agree corruption creeped in and crippled things especially on the service delivery part and I support the privatisation & derefulation of certain services but some things should be handled by the government.

To crown it all, the President told us on live TV in response to our query that he declare his assets that HE DOES NOT GIVE A DAMN!

To sum it all, GEJ & his cronies insult and disrespect Nigerians every single day this country continues to wallow in underdevelopment and therefore any insults directed at his person is justified. let him perform and even his most staunch critics will grudgingly applaud him.

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By sleeping with your lawfully wedded wife/husband, you are actually making God happy. I challenge anyone to produce evidence to the contrary. The 'fruit' anybody should be concerned about giving to God is actually NOT SLEEPING with your (intended) husband or wife BEFORE marriage and preserving your body for your husband/wife.

I don't think God can be happy with you refusing to sleep with your lawfully wedded husband/wife after keeping yourself for so long and especially on your wedding night. Infact if one spouse is not happy with such 'fruit giving' and the other one stubbornly insists, I suspect such person may be attracting God's wrath.

As for those usually tired to do anything on wedding night, well i think that woud apply to those couples who have slept with themselves very well while dating so there's nothing novel about each other's bodies to discover on wedding night. But couples who abstain whie in a relationship, I don't think any amount of wedding partying will prevent them from 'unwrapping' their gifts that very night. I may be wrong sha & I cant speak for myself since I'm not married. Besides, its not surprising when you attend some weddings & when its time for dance dance dance, you'll see the couple dance for just some minutes & after that, they'll be nowhere to be found