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VULCAN:
Read the question again and slowly this time.

To what degree is a pastors involvement in choosing a spouse for someone?

You will discover that nothing you said answers the posters question.

So you are one of the "rush to commenters"?

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May we not enter wrong hands.


When a guy sees it as winning trophies by sleeping with women, he would sure end up with her own blood.

binswoli:
are you saying a man should be submissive to his wife?

Are u saying wife is like a slave to husband?

SirLakes:
If you have all the qualities I wanted, and your family isn't full of drama and troubles, the only thing that can stop me from marrying you is Genotype.


Who be pastor, who pastor help

I am my own pastor by the way

WHENEVER A TEENAGER WRITES YOU QUICKLY IDENTIFY. If u still have father, be endeavour to closer to him to give u life experiences, ......better to learn from ADVISE rather than EXPERIENCE.



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......... infact , if the potential father in-law say no, who be him to stop you to marry his daughter by fire by force.

allthingsgood:
This your ideology is what made nigeria go to the dogs.
Someone sacrificed to make those countries that you look up to what they are today.
When you see someone sacrificing, dont ridicule him. If you cant help, at least dont destroy.
Martins is the hero in this story, not you.

Whenever you see someone dies at road side, pls endeavour to take him or her to the mortuary, I will like to read aftermath of ur story .



In Naija u will die for nothing, ....I say nathing" and ur family would suffer alone if you want to be patriotic all time.

Don't be surprised, Head of service or even president might know about it.

I believe u read how many years he had petitioned last National Assembly before they parked off without solid outcome.


Naija system is damaged beyond repair.

Testiebobo:
I feel discouraged to look at myself in the mirror, anytime i noticed that i dont have a single hair under my chin. Even someone that is sixteen years old is already having one. I dont feel ok. What could be the deficiency problem?

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Hope ur prick usually strong? That's most important things u need to prove u re man at least for now

Toluwanise247:
Who is baba ? That thief

THe best president Nigeria ever had/have. Military or civilian.

From dust u come, to dust, u go back.

nedekid:
While he said is true talk no doubt, but he should also put himself in their shoes, what if he was the relative and his eg brother was the sucessful one?

Before u take responsibilities that are more than what you can bear, think twice ok.

U born more than you can take care and expecting someone to come and feed them for you because he is rich and related to you? That's pure nonsensical!


Money that man owns, he has obligation for his wife, kids and parents. Any other person is secondary oga.

djon78:
Lol even Saudi Arabia the motherland of Islam
Hijab and controlling of there women is even the worst

Even among the wealthy royals of Saudi family
It's the same

True when they visit the West
They try to relax but still that conservative lifestyle is already ingrained in them

Had deep knowledge about Arabs from my classmates 2 of them one was a Canadian Arab grew up in Saudi Arabia, and another Indian Muslim Hussain, lived in Saudi Arabia all his Life.

I and them were very close in college, we were in same class, same course. We did crazy things lol were like brothers. They call me bro till today

They personally told me about Life in Saudi Arabia Even there personal family ones.

Was from them I knew that females in the family are to only relate with there fathers and brothers.
That even a close friend can't see there mother's or sisters

Very controlling environment
I was like wow
That's where I learnt the Arabs having harem of females

So it's there culture
They don't tolerate female liberation. They believe a woman is to be controlled
Northern Nigeria has same outlook on women

I used to see it as mean
But from what I have seen with our women folk
A woman deserves some kind of control
Those that are left to total liberation turns into something else.

That's why even in my personal family
My parents raised my 5 sisters with strict upbringing, learning to be decent right from primary school
Now they are getting the benefit

2 are doctors, one a consultant doctor. All married and responsible in there homes

There husband's don't play with my family because they were raised well. Even there kids behave well

Unlike some of my sister's friends there set girls some still unmarried till today. There was one I knew, while in the uni, she smokes, drinks, was a happening babe although very intelligent. Today she never marry while her mates children, some don enter secondary School


So having a form of control on a woman is not bad.

That's how I am raising my daughter's. They must learn decency and how to be a Lady even now they are small
Raised very responsibly not in a mean way but guiding them in love and dedication

Meanwhile, not only FEMALES that need to be controlled but MALE CHILDREN as well,since both constitute a society, parents should endeavour to monitor and control wards from childhood to a little above teenager, from that age, they can leave with discipline instilled in them by their parents for life.



How would you feel if ur sisters who were trained well, ended up with untrained guys? Or u think is not possible?

......but some Twitter's rats & Nairaland's cockroaches are hell bent for Ronaldo. If not for Ronaldo, it mustn't go to Messi as well.



Anybody but Messi is okay for them!

If I'm a woman, I will draw 2 big broilers on cardboard and write live chicken on top of them ,........ tell my kid to present it for his teacher as his own life chicken.

..LET THE 2 CONWOMEN'S GAME BEGINS!

At least some people choose stone to be their gods! It doesn't stop almighty to be God.

Hilena:
I blame Nigeria youth and the high level of tribalism, nepotism and all that, Person go see black de form say this tin na white because of tribe or religion... Make we continue de deceive ourselves for this country... The sad part is that no one is complaining not to talk of fighting for the masses 😔😔

E go reach everybody last last keep pretending.

What would Obi do different?


I guess the urchins like you following him blindly, would donate dollar to help his govt.



If u re not idiot, what is obedients representatives in both national assemblies doing differently now?

52 different taxes indeed Naija nah hell for business to survive.

How did you guys respond when you hear that extremists kill non Muslims? Happy that infidels reduce!




I remember wen Boko Haram newly started, wen they were going to churches to burn and kill Christians. Muslims in the country refused to speak up to condernm the killings.

Thank God for ur kind gesture, ur types are very rear, some he-goats will be struggling and sweating to sleep with her,even when they, themselves are in marriage and not need her, spoiling her for real potential husband.

Bliss62:



Honestly my deepest respect to Allen Onyeama

But saying a country has no business doing business is a lie.... Big lie


Etihad, Emirates, Etisalat, ARAMCO


It was Atiku and El Rufai that started that nonsense, selling off National asset under Obasanjo's nose


You want to Diversify the economy from Oyel money then you need to have state owned enterprise

Rumors has it that Airpeace belongs Mama Peace from Nigerian loot... but well na rumors





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Before they sold them off, how were they?


The refineries sales Yar'Adua reversed, how are they today?


Oga u better wake up from imagination, Nigeria cannot do any business successful.

Wen you guys at peak, u behave like almighty, forgetting tomorrow is clouded with mystery.



Those that are making wave now, won't learn lesson from you, believing the money would be flowing till thy kingdom comes, if they don't adequately and disciplined in managing it.

They say Nigeria girls are empty upstair and always have nothing to contribute outside relationship stuff, meanwhile, for this post, I checked first 2 pages, 95% of contributions thr are bashing, attack and critical of very good policy.



Is it by bashing is the way to have meaningful contribution in diverse issues of life

Those immigration officials won't like this, they have turned ordinary passport issuance to den of corruption.


Official passport which is not more than 25k , they would be collecting as high as 70-120k for one

He forgot that his leader, "Muhammad" himself surpressed some people and forced his ideology into their throats, by way of punishment, starving, maiming, slavery and even deaths

Ur wife is 22 and u had 5 kids already?



Meanwhile, don't u think u also contributed to ur penury? Having 5 kids wen u don't have good source of income, is an invitation to poverty.

The biggest problem facing you now, Is that it takes grace of God for u lift up financially again, cos of tons of loads you carried on your head and back , which have already turned you to hunchback"

Evolutionism:
I can see the Frustrations of Balabulue's Economy is having a great Toll on your Mental Health

Sha ma lo yaware patapata

Pele shogbo, You will be fine

Is not dealing with you, yet u run to world to announce that u want to be monitoring holes up and down, if u have job fetching you money, will you have time to monitoring girlfriend? You never see anything, ur far far junior will Bleep ur girl, you will jump to flowing river because of heart attack.



O boy, go outside and hustle more, bring home more Money for u to look good, stop having sleepless nights cos of girls

Islie:
https://dailytrust.com/4-weeks-after-kano-mass-wedding-bride-yet-to-move-to-groom-s-house/

U have all these monies, u still joined them for mass weddings.

Meanwhile, since hisbah now know difference" between the couple they are trying to forcefully tie together. Is it not reasonable to separate them for them to go in peace.

Evolutionism:
Mumus just too plenty for this forum and Shiiithole at large.

Hopeless urchins, they shy away from reality but wasting time on frivolous.

If u are not crazy, you won't turn to CCTV and be monitoring woman up and down, time you supposed to use to better ur life, wasting it to monitor.

Coolsat:
If woman help you ehn you don enter shege bdat

If anybody helps you, are you supposed to become monster and rewards him/her by being thorns in his/her flesh?

People (husband or wife) should learn how to manage their marriage wen they are at peak.) Don't let your progress becomes trauma for ur spouse.

IF PARTNERS IN MARRIAGE DO TAKE COGNISANCE OF THEIR PARTNER'S EMOTIONAL TRAUMA BEFORE TAKING CERTAIN ACTIONS, MARRIAGES WOULD HAVE BETTER AND MORE BLISSFUL.

That's why I love Messi, trying hard to be best in all ramifications.(career,marriage, mentorship,even religion-wise)

He left for USA solely because of his "immediate family". Yet, God still remembers him there.


What about Folorunsho Alakija? Still respects her Marriage despite enomous financial resources at her disposal.

Ashawoman82:
sadly it's very impossible for women if such class and promiscuity to ever get broke especially in this country..guy no compare Ur life with woman o cos everything just favours them...look arround u.

Thousands of them are broke and forgotten.

Go and read what Shan George say few days ago about contributing money for fellow actresses.

Did they usually contributing donation for rich person?

Jewessgratitud3:
Who are those ones? By the way I don't watch BBN and know nothing about them: don't read about them either. So I can't say anything.

But u know Anukus? Since he is a man.

Even u don't know BBN, u open eyes to see dressing and lifestyle.

Jewessgratitud3:
It's the innocent wife I pity.
When you're telling some men to slow down and stop flirting, they'll call you ewu. Las las this is how they always end up.

I pity any woman who see her husband behaving waywardly and still clings to him praying for him to change. HIV and Aids loading.

What did u want to say about Ilebaye of BBN? Also wayward Priscilla Ojo?

These people do leave larger than life wen they are at peak, more reasons I hardly pity them wen things crumble for them.

See Ighalo and BBN Ilelabaye doing recklessly now wen things still at peak, 20 years to come if they don't manage the money now effective, they may come to beg latter in life.

Tajbol4splend:
I am a Yoruba Muslim but I have attended a lot of Christians friends' weddings, so I would like to ask.

Is it biblical for the pastor to ask if any third party stands against the Union of husband and wife?

And if anyone should say they stand against it, would the wedding be void and the marriage will not take place, I mean is that the end?

What is the significance of the third party, I mean why should it matter what they think?

.it's not issue of religion but way to conduct marriage in Nigeria, go to registry they will say the same thing for both Christian and Muslims that come thr for marriage.

They are saying that incase if such person married before or for whatever reason which may include deceit or illegalities.

U re not aware of it in ur own religion, because they hardly conduct marriage in Islamic way.