₦airaland Forum

jeromestarks:
Do you know the only thing that wins the heart of ANY woman?

CONSISTENCY!
Be consistent in you pursue of her.
Be consistent and you will get her.
If you can be consistent (even when she fvcks another guy, even when she ignores your call, even when she rejects you, even when she insults you, even when she avoids you) you will win her. Eventually.

jeromestarks:
Can you feed yourself?

If yes. You have no excuse.

Go and marry!

yinkus6750:
Don't know why the house is pushing for the Deputy Governor.
The Governor is back, remains to be cleared if his fit and performing his constitutional role.
The crisis is not about Akeredolu , but about succession moves

Omoawoke2:
I blame civilization, a man should have as many wives as he can. Women have become too greedy and proud and think they should own one full man to themselves. Women are supposed to share one man.

Omobude244:
u made up this story but it was fun reading sha

Bliss62:
What law was violated, or which legal ethics , if the lawyers don't want him presiding over the case they can request another judge

Powerhouse5050:
Nigerian women don't know how to walk away.

Nigerian women don't like to walk away

The title "Mrs" means much more than life to them.

Nigerian women would always search and find reasons to stay.

Most Nigerian women can't live or survive without cash inflow from husband.

The biggest, ultimate achievement of most Nigerian women is to be married.

Thus walking away is not an option.

AfahaAbia:
My ex is always calling and asking me for money... Get in to another relationship na she will be saying she's an independent woman and she doesn't need any man for now! Move on na, she swill say can't she be calling to say hello!

Another ex of mine has been married for 4 years now. We saw again late last year. She's been wanting me to invite her to my house that she bored! Married men please I take God beg Una show more attention to your wives. How can a married woman be telling me she is sex starved!

SenecaTheYonger:
She’s coming to spend the weekend with you? A married man spending the whole weekend with another married woman. Chai. The fact you can’t even see how wrong this is shows how damaged you are. And most unfaithful partners are just like you.

CilicMarin:
Court can't stop a House of Assembly from performing its constitutional duties...The court is overreaction itself..

I expect the authentic speaker and honourable members to ignore this useless order and continue to perform its duty to the good people of Rivers State ...

Khallicopyro:
Sim ask my governor G. Obaseki how he went about this same issue

Flame333:
Next time, before you throw your rocket, you will think twice...



Over 11k dead now in Gaza just because because of your blood fuulish act...


Go and start your rebuilding

Magnoliaa:
It's the Lizzy's Cut & Stitches for me.

That means you sef haven't 'upgraded' her from seeing her as just a mere date. So e be like she nor too rate you, too, because I understand that partners should be very generous to each other, but I cannot imagine asking for money for body cream, of all things, in just a 3-week-old relationship. When I am a working class woman, no less.

I have dated a lady that even when it wasn't working she never asked from me , I did give her on my on volition, meanwhile, I have dated countless of ladies, even though they are working, they start requesting for money for lunch and data , Even before I toast.

Don't you people do any preliminary 'gauging' before going into relationships?


Anyway, I don't really have much to say. Lemme hope my boo, pansophist, will come and do justice to the matter if he has the time.

Godoverevery:
Note- this not a post to bash ladies.

A pattern I noticed with most working class ladies have dated from 27yrs old upward.
At the earliest stage, they claim to be tired of relationship, they are fine without a man.
They are doing fine without a man and in fact if not for pressure they don't mind not getting married...(mostly lies)

They say am financially ok without a man, i bought my phone, paid house rent etc without any man and i can never depend on any man hence why they can never be liability since they are working..(mostly lies)

Most claim to be doing fine during the wooing stage but immediately we start dating things turn out differently from what they claim.

Am dating a lady currently who works for a fashion house on the island...During the wooing stage we actually spoke alot for about 2 months and she claimed to be financially ok and doesn't need a man money. Infact she told me how much she paid weekly which is very decent with free accommodation and feeding.

We just started dating not up to 3weeks and this lady have been making demands which I find very childish and too disgraceful for an adult working.
She always complaining of money despite earning above minimum wage weekly.

This morning she called and i didn't pick........I chatted her up and she telling me her cream have finished and i replied hmmmm.
This a pattern have noticed with most working class ladies have dated......they tell you am an independent woman during wooing stage but once relationship start it just seems they are working and not earning with the way they demand and still be pressuring you with marriage talks.

(just want to know if am the only experiencing this or is just normal)

Note: this the fourth time this lady is demanding from me in 3 weeks and they are embarrassing to me for someone who earns.

overseasnbeyond:
I didn't believe until I got a call last night from my friend telling me the bride's family want him, to make part payment for the dowry since Nigeria hard now.
My worry, why would they be too desperate to let their daughter go on down-payment.?
Do you think he should proceed with the idea?

koboko69:
I dont have time for whataboutism or childish rants. Stick to the topic the thread was created about. We can talk of Hamed Lawan or Lawal or whatever u call him when a there is a topic about him

koboko69:
Read u nor go read.
internal Party matters is different from CONSTITUTIONAL matters.

PuZZyNegro:
I traveled from Lagos to Port Harcourt to see my future in laws family. My girl wasn't around as she's still in Lagos schooling.

I went there with a family member and got them some items like shortcake biscuits and juice.

They offered us food and we ate. After the meeting and normal questioning, we were set to go when surprisingly, this people brought out two loaves of bread and gave us. I told them that the food we ate was enough, that we don't need the bread.

We haven't even gone far when my girl started texting me on WhatsApp angrily asking me why I rejected her mother's gift. That she gave it out of love, this and that.

I told her that bread is the wrongest gift the mother could give me. I am supposed to buy them bread and not the one way round. I intentionally refused to buy bread for them because I assumed bread is an everyday food that people buy and eat, so I decided to go with the package biscuits instead and here they are offering me bread.

If it were something produced locally by them like coconut or something, I can understand but bread?

Please, did I do anything wrong rejecting the bread?

garfield1:
@ Okoi Obono-Obla