₦airaland Forum

I don't want this type of woman, it would be very hard to control such woman.


I want a woman that I will spend my money on, but in which,she won't have entitlement mentality

JAMO84:
No way Onu could have won anything in 1999, even the alliance between AD and APP got like 13m less votes than PDP. Is Sani trying to say APP alone could have won the election or what? Plus Onu was not known outside the SE, even now, many people have never heard of that name before.

If thr is election for regional president, Onu cannot win south east regional presidency.


Someone who contested for presidential primary and couldn't win just one vote. Perhaps, he tot it's by lamentations that politicians win election.

Draslo:
This your use of English Na die.

Kuku type in your native dialect. I'm sure there are Nairalanders who'd understand

Abi oo, my only advise for you is to upgrade yourself in English language.

My grammar is not for secondary school dropout.

By deliberate or negligence you let him escaped, now, you would be spending thousands or million of taxpayers' money for repertration.

DonroxyII:
No Confrontation Nor Pass ....

Simply Whatsup Her From Afar ... Her reaction will determine next action .....

Then I can call her later to throw some banters .. "is that handsome hunk Dude I'm Competing With" .... E don be for me ooo .... ...

Her response will set the next actions but I already lost "Trust" no Matter what .... Just Downgrade the Relationships to FWBs in My Mind & We Move like Nothing Happened 🤷‍♂️

If you know how to work a woman's brain, She will tell you All the Fvcks She Had & The next Series of Fvcks she is gonna have ...

They only lied to Simps & Redpillers for fears of Losing Out But Most Women are very straight with Players(These Guys Don't Judge Them Nor Behave Rash like Thugs if they see Anything "Womanly-Immoral" .....

But gragra, Mumu & stronghead makes many men to lose this Game....

I biliv you know partner can also be fiancee or wife, will you handle fiancee or wife same way?


Meanwhile, anybody treating every girlfriend the way you narrated above,he himself is disgusting, I mean a gutter!

[quote author=Rubyjade post=129403502][/quote]If fiancee or wife, I will enter and greet her, her response may lead to confrontation, but if it's casual girlfriend who normally claim faithfulness for me, I may enter the restaurant and order for food for her to see me, but if it's FWB, I will just pass and would not even tell her.

funkemary:
It takes discipline and grace to stay faithful in marriage coz there are temptation everywhere and if you are unable to control it you may fall victim.

A colleague at work said that suitors far better than her husband are now asking her out and if not that she really love her husband she'd have left him

Tell that ur colleague that green grass not always greener at the other side o!

1.How did she know that, those suitors really want to marry her? Or just to taste from honey in the pot and abandon the pot.

2.Even if she eventually married the suitor, is it every wife that married rich man that really enjoy the riches? Go and ask several women that once married the likes of Dino melaye, Femi fani kayode etc.

3. Which man will absolutely trust a married woman that he snatches frm her husband?

4. That ur colleague, if she finally goes for man that better than her present husband, what will happen when she now meets another richer man? because richer man won't finish til thy kingdom come o!

AND LASTLY, I AM SEEING THAT YOUR FRIEND TO EITHER CHEAT OR LEAVES HER PRESENT HUSBAND IN NEAREST FUTURE!

Friend22:
That's why the concept of monogamy is alien to every sane society.
Unlike we Muslims we do not have problems with marrying more women,in fact it is encouraged.

Polygyny is not about men marrying more women,no, but about women having men who can marry and take care of them.
A society that deceives itself and thinks one man one wife can work is only setting itself up for doom.
These women except their hormones are no longer functioning will crave for a man's attention,closeness,warmth,embrace and even guidance.
It's something they can not do without.
Let's not deceive ourselves.

Is the topic talked about married more than one wife or women cheat in return wen man cheat? And who tells you married Moslem women aren't cheat?


Indeed a religion that thinks one man four women can work is heading for a doom!

Human beings with so much responsibilities on neck, should think properly before embarking on journey and they should endeavour enough to take safety as highest priority. Not even married man!


Several people bound to suffer when breadwinner lost.

[quote author=rolams post=129402445]This is how you rudely make a post that can ruin your career. Look at what you post now? [/quote


Ruin career? Or preventing you to ruin ur life.

rolams:
The post has nothing to do with this your message too.

Abi since religion has taken common sense away from you.

Be expecting you to resume "holy war' anytime soon. I mean jihad!

You don't have ball, yet you are claiming hard guy.


Nothing stop you to claim your sisterhood and see judge does her worse.


Nevertheless, celebrities should learn how not to go against the state when trying to be trending and remain relevant.

With that, it would be very difficult for state to rope you

santaclaws:
Honestly I don't agree with most of Reno's rants, but on this one, I have to agree with him...

Allen Onyeama actually talks too much and I think he enjoys the attention he gets from the media (social media inclusive). Everything happening to and around his airline, he wants to make Nigeria's business but at the end of the day, this is a private business.

The FG has supported him so far, I remember they even refused to extradite him to the US on corruption charges when he first started. He needs to plan his tactics in silence and stop being so loud over everything.

In all the first page comments, only you talked rationality, others thrash.


He has gained enough sympathy not only from govt but also every Nigerian.

I am praying those people won't be tired of his complaints and lamentions going forward.


He needs good PRO and solid adverts to project himself globally

rolams:
This your post has nothing to do with the Op post.

He is telling you that our hypocrisy is second to none, we serve God than middle East that introduce him to us, yet our atrocities, evil and immorality are second to none.

Alhaji, pastor, Sheik, G.O chief Imam prophet and all worshipers.

Juliusganduje:
A big shame on you. Atiku, a man that is already made for life is defending your future, but all you could come up with is to insult him. If you are above 20 and still reason like this, then you are beyond redemption.

Why the same Atiku that is defending ur own future now, not came out to defend your future when his kins man borrowed money to construct railway track to Niger republic?

[quote author=Timoleon post=129395413][/quote]And wen employees also contributed, as a result of his/her negligence.

Is she the one who asked them to be taken selfies and distracted the sailor?

eedimo:
What nonsense.
Where is the movie producer in all of this?
This should be his/ her sole responsibility.

How? Were they going thr to do free service?


If I hire ur bus for transportation and you have accident, must I be responsible for your medical bills at all cost?


Let say you don't have accident, the money you want to realise from it, will you give me?

36STATES:
This is a great project regardless of the toll.
But my instincts is telling me that as soon as the Lagos, Ogun and Ondo part of it is completed, the project will be abandoned.
Projects of this type are usually started from different segments of the road, but this one is only concentrating on the Lagos segment.
The SE and SS part of this project will never be touched. A Yoruba man is a Yoruba man in Nigerian politics.

The entire money they will use to build it at go hope you would cough it for them?

Is labour party not govt of Igbo for Igbo?

Any vehicle owner that cannot pay it, let him ply long long route. As simple as ABC.

airsaylongcome:
It's "technical" but there's something called Cash-backed loan where you use the money (in this case USD) you have in a bank as collateral to take a loan from the bank. It sounds crazy and weird I know. But it's a thing. So what CBN is saying is that Banks can no longer use FX as the Cash collateral for the loan.

It's not crazy, at time when you use your own money to finance a business, you may not serious enough with the business, but wen you have money in the banks as collateral for loan you take from same bank, .....you would sit up and focus more on the business, for you to be able to repay your loan and gain profit.



Your mentality would be that, I'm using someone's money to do business and not my own money.

Just like when you are doing daily/ weekly contribution vs keeping your money in ur bank account.

You will work harder to pay contribution, why u might not so serious when u re taking ur savings to ur account in the bank.

Mess that flat headed man mess around d must be thoroughly cleaned.


When they are loading you into treasury out base on political connect you are laughing and spending our collective money recklessly on columbines and mistress.


It's time you vomited everything you had swallowed.

morgstreme:
You spoke as a young bachelor or just recently married with no experience in these matters...

And talking about Yul and his wife,May,you don't have the slightest idea what really went down..

I say this because I know him and his siblings and parents VERY WELL...and I have spoken to Toby,his elder brother who has told me what really the issue is.

Yul bleeped up...but it had to take May to Bleep up for Yul to Bleep up..

Just take it like that and have peace .

You spoke like a chauvinist and a person that would never be neutral when given judgement, "may we not have someone like you as a leader".

NB. I have councelled and settled disputes of several marriages of those who are older than you. If you like keep on dancing gragra and think you can treat woman the way you like, the consequences would be on you and your children and not me, If you are not mad, you won't be defending "Yul" online, when 95% of his family, coming online to blame him.

When a father blames his son, only an idiot like you will defend such son.

A married woman who is a graduate, working with her certificate, earnings a good income, knows her rights and supporting husband at home.

There is no way you can subject such wife to the way ,18 century's husbands subjected their wives into.


THIS IS HARD REALITY MODERN DAY's HUSBANDS MUST KNOW AND INCORPORATE INTO THEIR SYSTEMs, IF THEY WANT LASTING AND PEACEFUL MARRIAGES.

Nevertheless, wife must also know that, no civilisation can make husband to play second fiddle in Marriage.

With this, compromise becomes Integra tool that can make Marriage works in 21st century.

Meanwhile, every wife knows that husband likely to cheat, a wise husband would do it discreetly in such a way that, even if wife knows,Marriage would still be intact. But foolish would say do ur worse! Before you know, a once a beautiful family becomes object of ridicule in the society (Yul Edolche)

Rowllland:
I am 32 years old, I am the eldest among my siblings (2 boys, 2 girls), My younger brother (2nd born) just travelled to the U.K as at November last year, my younger sister (3rd born) just graduated from the University and waiting to be mobilized for nysc while our last born is still in school.
@32 I still live with my parents, I lost my job for the past one year, things have really been tough for me to the point where I can’t pay my rent, I have to come back to my parent’s house to stay.

Since I started living with my parent, I get lot of disrespect from my younger sister (3rd born) whom I senior with 9 good years, my parent always take her sides whenever she disrespects me. There are some of her behaviors I can’t even type here. They have suddenly forgotten how much I cared for them when things were going well for me.

Yesterday evening 6pm, I noticed she was cooking noodles for herself in the kitchen and I gently told her since there is soup in the fridge why not make Eba for everyone to eat.. in her response she said: she’s tired o. I kept mute, then I said ok just place the water on the fire I’ll make the Eba myself.
After few minutes she was done eating her noodles I asked her if the water was ready and she said she hasn’t boiled the water as she frowns at me,.. out of anger I landed her 2 hot slaps on her face… she ran to her room, locked the door and started crying, she hurriedly called my younger brother in U.K and started reporting me to him, I could hear her crying loud and telling him many gibberish. Even reported me to our last born who is in school.

She remained in her room until my parent came back from church around 8pm, immediately she heard their voice, she came out from her room, flared up and started crying endlessly, talking down on me, she told my parent I beat her up mercilessly, she said I injured her in her mouth and she has been spitting out blood from her mouth… I remained silent as my parent yells at me.

I regretted hitting her, I have never hit a lady in my life. I wanted to even apologize to her but on a second thought I said No becus she don’t greet me anymore.

I stopped reading ur fiction when I got to where you said @ 32 U still leaving with parents.


Meanwhile, anybody (male or female) who still leaving with parents at 32, should expect disrespect not only from younger ones, but also parents, friends and neighbours.

If you're not yet married, it doesn't stop you not to get a room and leave alone, if you want to earned respect from people.

Chinjo2:
^[/sup][sup]God bless Reuben Abati for the wonderful piece. It shows he really understand what happened in Edo state.
From the on-set Obaseki gave so much responsibilities to shaibu. He even made him in charge of revenue in the state. He never saw him as a spare tyre but as a member of his team. Obaseki made Shaibu so powerful.
Obaseki was relating with his deputy with an open mind not knowing that his deputy was working against him from behind. He was using his position to negotiate deals with APC. Even when people were telling Obaseki what was happening he refused to believe because he trusted Shaibu so well. The final straw that broke the carmel's back was when Shaibu took Obaseki to court on allegation of impeachment. That was when Obaseki believed what people have been saying.

One thing I want people to know today is that, it was Shaibu who betrayed Obaseki and not the other way round. Even when Obaseki was asked to drop Shaibu as his deputy and pick a PDP man in 2016, he said it's either Shaibu or no deal. Shaibu betrayed the trust and confidence Obaseki had in him. He mistook Obasekis meekness for weakness.

The team of lawyers are just after his money. They now Shaibu can not win anything in the court. If shaibu is wise which i doubt he is, he should not waste his money going to court.

Your analysis reeks of prejudice.

So, for Shaibu to show interest in gov's seat is what you termed betrayal"

Shaibu started hobnobbing with APC , when he had seeing clear handwriting of his principal, that he didn't favor not only him, but every other person they can called insiders in Edo politics.

Negroid001:
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Max 4 months.
I dey always renew subscription

Meanwhile, if lady declined u and go for another guy .....you will also come here and weep that , woman doesn't know what they want, girls will leave nice boy and go for bad boy.

melodyogonna:
He said he'll answer at a press conference nau

You dnt need to answer, fault finders, witch-hunters and destructive crictics ! For, they will never see anything good, comming out from Jerusalem.

PhillipPHD:
You’re very correct.

It’s not a Queen that makes a man a King. It’s a Kingdom to make a man a King.

However, it takes a King to make a woman a Queen.

What made Elizabeth ll the Queen and what turned her husband, Philips, to Duke of Edinburg?

Sonnobax15:

Marriage isn't for everybody... and marriage has no special book or manual that guides it.... .the earlier you realize that,the better for you....

The way money isn't for everyone and in which it has no special book to guard it.



But I can tell you Marriage has its own rules and if the 2 couples follow the rules strictly, there is 90% chance they will succeed.

navyseal2220:
Had Dr. Onyeama done like Tinubuu and employed mostly Igbo like he did with his cabinet with mostly Yorubas, Ajibola would never have received this opportunity.

If Tinubu doing like his predecessors, ( Jonathan inclusive) Onyema will still be struggling on London route.

Tinubu appointmened Igbo as minister of works, the greatest of all ministries, even though he scored less than 5% in Igbo land.


The cry u re crying now, did u do that during Jonathan time, that loaded Igbo into his govt?

sulakishop:
Sorry about your condition that is making you this bitter, I'm not the cause of your problems and I don't know why you are putting it on me but I wish you what you wish me.

Abi ooo, since common sense faded away from your skull, the next thing is to start barking, after Ramadan expecting you to fully back to street, for bombing and killing for holy war.

kennyz247:
Woman and foolishness no get class..
And d most painful part is dat they away feel that,they are wiser than Solomon..

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You think fellow man can't do exact what the girl did?

If he does ,hope ur comment would also be replica?


It's more than foolishness to think man cannot behave exact manner the girl did