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Domaining101:
I don't have to penetrate before i cum and it's depressing. My own case is even worse than 1 minute man.
I was just passionately kissing my girlfriend and pressing her stuffs in a standing position, before you know i don release
Is it like this for everyone or is it just me?

So many herbal concortiond full town, ask from those that have tested it.

Pls don't don't kill someone daughter ooo

ahnie:
No need ..I don't like going backward,just fast-forward the reply.
Lolx

Why would you? I knew you deliberately laid emphasy on english just defend gender, even when she is wrong.


Only a devil will defend people's actions no matter how bad it's , just because they belong to same gender, tribe or religion.

If you find urself doing that, you are worst than devil and you are heading towards toxic marriage in future, ultimately, it would end in single mother. Thank God people shared their experiences today.

ahnie:
Your English is englishing me sir,would you want me to read your write up horizontally?
Because your English dey one kain
...e ma bi nu sir.

Go back I corrected it even before u jumped forward.

ahnie:
I said it in the other thread...women don't just dump their husbands like that.

We masked our feelings n hatred alot and always wait for the right time to strike, underestimate a woman at your own peril.


Immediately I read the topic,I already knew our bobo was a toxic
Person who must have dealt massively with his wife...some naija men and toxicity.

When you start hitting on your wife she channels all atom of love she has for you to the kids and that ends it all,she may be giving you her body,and patiently waiting for you to slip then she strikes.

If it were me....I would do same to him no hard feelings.

This wife is deadler than husband, infact she is a serpent, the level of blame I gave the husband reduced wen I read the extent the wife dealt with her man, who is also father of her children. In future, how will she stand and face him if occasions call for it.

Did she even think, if she can still need his assistant in future?


Woman will take decisions without thinking twice.


A wise person would have given him last chance in UK to try nonsense before doing that, at least to able to justify her actions .

What the girl did now worse . Which means,she herself, if she is stronger than the husband she would be beating the husband in Nigeria.


Atimes, I dnt blame some guys that are dealing with women mercilessly.

On many occasions, they only respect and loving guy/husband because of what they stand to gain and not real love.


Girls will ask u to come her side, in which after stressing and wasting time and money to see her, she would just off phone or telling u she is not available,but if it's other way round ,just 5 minutes of not coming out, she would be angry and complaining

Ilamina:
I expect less divorce in Islam

Because Islam looks less Westenized than other christainity

But that's not the case

I'm short, i expect islam to be as primitive as other black cultures

In every form of immoral or bad behaviour, Islam worst than all other religions, but they pretend or coerce adherents to look good.



Go to army barracks and see immorality but they pretend as if nothing is going on, unlike Christians that do show it off.

MuslimIgbo:
EVEN USELESS NIGERIA CAN'T VOTE FOR VICTOR OSIMEH

SHAMELESS PIGS

Wen Osimeh himself said before the poll that it's either halland or Messi?

KarinaSlim:
I heard Messi can not speak English.

Is it true?

I heard you cannot speak Spanish.

Is it true?

Yet ignorant would be wailing FIFA do ojoro

Single mother never surplus yet, still looking forward to litter ever nook and cranny.



Go and check statistics of single mothers today, 75% were deceived thinking the guy/man is rich, having entered the marriage, it now down on them that the guy is average or even below average. And for those that rich, after impregnated them, they dump them for their faith.


Go and ask Actress Bisi Ibidapo Obe and Dino MELAYE.

Flesh10:
Shut up. If it was a court marriage they had that man dared not abandon her and the kids.

You have brain but don't reason

If u married, i pity the woman in your house, .. ...."for she married one of beasts in man form. Such woman only leaving in bondage called marriage.

Meanwhile, why should you even married with mindset that the marriage will not last.

Anyway, I have diagnosed and also told you, ur problem in my last comment.

Bye.

Flesh10:
This is where I get angry at ladies and parents that force in-laws to do elaborate church wedding that doesn't protect them or their daughters when what they should be pushing for is court wedding.

I have had serious arguments with ladies who insist that they cannot marry a man that insist that there will be no white wedding.

Whenever I hear a girl say that or their parents say that I shake my head and marvel at their ignorance.

I lost a good friend of mine because of her abusive husband. This man so tortured her emotionally and ended up sending her packing empty handed after years of labouring and suffering with the man, he decided that she wasn't good enough when money came.

My friend went back to her parents house empty and died from frustration after 5yrs.

I remember their elaborate white and traditional marriage all for nothing since her experience I vowed never to allow my daughters marry any man that is not willing to bind the marriage legally.

To hell with white wedding, you can skip it but you must go-to marriage registry and seal the union with my daughters.

Earlier we realize that it is only the court that protects wife's right in the country the better. An average Nigerian man is domineering and has the tendencies that traditional men have.

Abusive and egocentric like what we watch in nollywood where at the slightest provocation the man throws the lady's bags out shouting leave my house, at slightest provocation he hits her, at slightest provocation in-laws meddle in their lives. The court brings checks and balances.

If you misbehave there are consequences both the man and the woman must behave themselves and make their home work else there is a law waiting to punish the guilty party.

What's correlation of wedding with story u narrated? Hope u re not a toxic man oo? A man who will never shift his ground?

Such a man will have problem in marriage, and his marriage failure has nothing to do with "wedding, his own personal behaviour cause marriage failure.

Mysteriousworld:
The problem with women is that they wont listen while the man was warning them... Change or ill.....
Women just believe you're trapped because you married them... Now its too late... Remember how you argued with him, remember how unsubmissive you were while he was warning you... Even begging you to honor him , or at least mot disrespect him... Its well. May you find yours.

In fact, I gave u 70%. Apart from beasts in man form, several times, wives are the one who make marriage toxic, several of such attitudes u highlighted up thr.

when the husband final left, it would now down on them, that, no man can take care of another man's kids like him, and that, ...... other side not always greener as they thought.

Several emotional abusives they normally subjected man to, they won't mention it but claiming victims as usual.

Just look at the single mother of 4 kids that her story was posted on front page , which she wanted to leave her husband for reasons which are not solid enough, if she stepps out and latter realises her foolish action, she would still blame man and exonorate herself.

Chiquitq:
I've been there. Not divorced but separated. It's been over 6yrs. It was easy despite that the relationship was extremely toxic. I mourned for the wasted time and abuse tolerated. I was bitter about financial and material things lost in the course of the union. I was distraught by the embarrassments and insults metted out to my family and friends. I relocated to a new city and started totally afresh with my children. Got a job and started a business.
The man that I was married to was the evil of the earth and a fraudster and womanizer. To top it all, he was grossly manipulative. Being extremely manipulative made it hard for me to leave early or even set boundaries thoroughly.

When you say this your husband left suddenly, I believe you totally. He might be a narcissistic. sociopath. That's what he did to all the women he dated during our marriage. Many did not know he was married. He would promise them heaven, use them and disappear suddenly from their lives. Read more about narcissists.

Don't be in a hurry to remarry and if you date again, don't be in a hurry to procreate. I chose celibacy as a means to be totally free and live my best life. I have concluded that all relationships are challenging judging by other people's experiences and mine. On few occasions, one may be lucky but I'm too lazy to and lack motivation to try again. That works for me but it might not work for you.
Find a hobby and most importantly, improve on your finances and network. You would be fine in the end. Many nights, you would have flashbacks of events and be bitter but time would do justice. Try to have as little contact with him as possible. If he wants to speak to his son, doesn't have to be through your phone. Don't allow him to Hoover his way back into your life because he would just hurt you a second time. Stop listening to gist about him. It would help you to move on.

Many of you usually blind by lust, pressure or material things, before marriage, what u cannot take in marriage do not take it during relationship.

A guy or lady who is narccsist , did he/she suddenly become a narccsist after marriage.

IamANigerianMan:
But your brother Atedola that gave him bribe is moving free, let me tell you, if it is developed country they don't take that evidence , the reason is because the bribe was given for a motive to stop the probe of Subsdy thieve your brother was involved , the bribe was an induction, he never asked of bribe, he was induced , go and check why Ekweremadu was sentenced not because he had a contact of the body but the judge said he was aware and pretend not to be aware...

Even when DSS knew about it? So, in advanced country, DSS can't use civilian to set traps for politicians or anyone whose action is suspicious or questionable?

U guys, I imagine how u re sleeping and resting on tribalistic and ethnicity issue.

HBP IS NO RESPECTAL OF AGE OR TRIBE OK.

Ur sense of judgement would fly out immediately other people who are not ur tribe or religion involved.

Meanwhile, when you want to do business, seeking medical help or education advancement, u forgot religion and tribe quickly.

Nazgul:
The worst is that they're the ones suffering the most.

The average Igbo man I wired to adapt and survive in any condition he finds himself. But you see those scar face people, their case is something else.


Go to states like Ekiti, Oyo, Osun...etc, you'll see poverty in all its Glory and splendor. Yet Igbos are their problem.

More than 99% of those posting account details here on Nairaland to beg for money are yourbas. Yet their all mighty strategist is in power.

Go and check front page, they posted underage of igbo girls that were arrested in Anambra, maybe Anambra not igbo again.

I know u won't find time to ask, because ur mental stability needed to be treated, going by the way one yoruba guy is fuckkkin ur mama, and little money is giving her ,she is not given u from it, and that making u angry and crazy.

........ I will help u by telling u reason,why anambra girls full brothel, poverty has completely swept igbo, a third class tribe in Nigeria, in other to feed, igbo now send their teenager daughters to the street. I think people have tired of their mama pusssssy already.

Millimann:
I think it's the other way round.

Igbo girls allow only the wealthy yoruba men to marry them while the poor ones like you are left to marry the Yoruba girls. Do you see Igbo men going to marry yoruba girls? Mention Igbo men that you know that are married to yoruba ladies. But to the yoruba men, marrying an Igbo girl is like winning the World Cup.

Go to brothel near u and do urself good, Igbo girls litter ashewo joints all over the countries, Igbo girls and women are hot cake for aboki and bambiala


While Abokis beg in the afternoon to feed, he must branch to where Igbo women litter, to select in other to release tension before he crawls back to slum to sleep for the second day hustle.

Instead for Seyi to go back to his own business/job after election, he starts forming big boys up and down in the streets of Abuja.

I just imagine how this guy would be bullying ministers and all other top gov officials just because his dad his the president.

Anyway, I think it's a signal for him and his friends that he should stay clear of his govt. Perhaps, he has warned him privately but refuse to hear words, u re not the only children that president has.

Infact, Tinubu ought to have gone further by telling cabinet members privately, not to give him unnecessarily access to their respective ministries. Either by contracts or appointments If not he would become problematic for top govt officials and by extension his dad.

Aremson14:
All the Balon Dor Ronaldo won he won and no body could object even his staunch enemies. Just like someone said swap Messi and mbape stat they will still give Messi

Check this 2013 statistics and do urself unbiased conclusion.

NB. Ur EGOISTIC IDOL CONTROVERSIALLY TOOK IT THAT YEAR O. AND IN THAT YEAR FRANK RIBERY WON TREBLE WITH B.MUNICH WHILE UR IDOL WON NOTHING.

tell urself truth who truly deserve it.

Is it ur father's money? The mentalist these animals have craving for them is putting nigeria into dungeon further and farther.


If they ask him which work has he done in his entire life aside politics that makes him amass so much wealth now, he won't be able to mention just 1.

Lightway:
Around 56% of Brazilians identify as Black—the largest population of African descent outside of Africa—yet Black people make up just 18% of congress, 4.7% of executives in Brazil's 500 largest companies, 75% of murder victims and 75% of those killed by police.

. going by ur statistics, if 56% are black (more than average) and they are in democracy where number count, yet black still constitute insignificantly minority in executive and legislature,.....Oga who to blame ? The oppressor or oppressed?

Nonexisting1:
They hardly have sense. You went to fucck man with dick as hard as rock after second round and you didn't suspect he was on drugs and could fucck you to death. Well, it had always been the other way round so this is a first.
Gentlemen 1: 0 Vaginarians.

Always blame woman and leave guys who are main culprits........I imagine how ur life would be in real life and I feel sorry for who would be ur wife, provided u won't end up as single father last last.

Beverlyjean:
No one can honestly say Messi was the best player in the last 12 months . A 7 game tournament is not the only football that was played in the past 12 months ... If they say it's all about the world cup, how come mbappe dint finish second ... Mbappe had a better tournament than Messi....was top scorer with 8goals ( 2 penalties included) ... anyone that understands this game knows its all propaganda...

2010 Spain won their first ever world cup , they dint remember that it was all about the world cup . They still gave it to Messi, saying he won la liga and was top scorer in Europe and champions league ... 12 yrs later , halaand wins mancitys first ever treble , top scorer in the league with a new record , top scorer in champions league, top scorer in Europe and they still give Messi that PSG fans booed out of France for failing to help the team pass round of 16 in CL....

As someone rightly said, if halaand won the world cup and Messi won the champions league and ligue1 with psg and was top scorer in both competitions, they will still give Messi...

Fifa and the balon dor are just Messi lickers .... no football player in history has ever received 10% pampering Messi has received in his career ...

Suddenly winning the world cup gets u the balon dor... but it dint in 2010, 2014 and 2018... Messi wins the WC and it becomes a criteria again... if u condemn INEC and support this nonsense award , then u are a certified hypocrite

U re just weeping and I pray u will weep for so many years to come. The only question I want to ask u is.....WHO ARE THE PEOPLE WHO MADE IT POSSIBLE? ONE OF THEM ARE HERE IN NAIJA, ITS NOT FIFA PRESIDENT OR UEFA THAT VOTED....but experts in football all over the world, these people know farrrrrrrr than u guys that only watch football with sentiment and prejudice and above all, you only interested in wen ball enter net. Goal isn't only yardstick to be best footballer.

Do urself a favour by checking statistics for last year and make sure you look carefully for individual achievements.


In an exam u write 3 pages of paper with just 3 points while another student write a page with 6 points, going by ur own analysis, Tisa should give it to you because you wrote 3 pages.

Ordinary qualifications he couldn't push Norway to qualify for both world cup and euro.

Ikaeniyan0:
If this is true, is a stupid move by the governor.

U re the one that stupid. Everywhere his enermy (wike and his loyalists) are getting free money, must be blocked, wen u suffocate people contesting with u, u weaken them.


Several of such projects,are the avenues where they see unlimited money that making them feel like tin-God over governor in power.

Wen he blocked them successfully, Wike's loyalists would be starved financially, and they won't have option than to surrender,and for Abuja Minister, he can't see the kind of unlimited money he is seeing rivers like abuja to throw around.

Ugaboy:
Di Maria won the World Cup, yet it seems like nobody acknowledges his achievement now. With Messi, everyone is bringing up various arguments and conditions to justify his deserving of recognition.

Take a look at Erling Haaland's success in the English Premier League (EPL). Not even Mo Salah was able to achieve such a remarkable record. Haaland aims to break all of Ronaldo's goal and trophy records in a single season.

If you support Messi's victory, it's only fair to support * as well. It's important to use common sense even when you have hair on your head.

Go back to statistics and check individual awards......goal isn't only criteria to win ballon d'or.

Please go and check numbers of,
"man of the match" alone in last season. Not to talk of assists, dribbles, MVPs. etc.


In all trophies Haland won last season, he won them with a "near perfect team". While Messi won 2 of major trophies with average and lower teams, in which he was the player that carried the team.


Have you ever asked urself, about Haland performances in Norway? Norway not only failed to qualify for World cup but also failed again for euro.

Can u say the same thing for Messi at Inter- Miami?


Oga, it's experts in soccer that voted o and not you who always watch with emotion, sentiment and only interested in who score.

zed7:
Celebrities are known for marrying for the wrong reasons. They want flashy girls and don't care if she's a hô or stripper.

All these men who always claim make money and get any girl of your choice, your money can't save you from hôes. The lady has only transitted from a young hô to an old hõ.

There's no such thing as my body in marriage. It's our body, that's why cheating is not allowed. You can't carry our body and start cheating with it. That luxury ended when you got married.

Anybody who is rich before he married, it takes grace of God for him to see good girl who really loves him to marry, the girls he would be meeting before marriage, would denying themselves and pretend to be who they are not in other to have him, meanwhile, adage says leopard can never change her skin.

Wen such lady fully entered, character must display at all cost.



Anybody who want to confirm it.......he should just go and toast random ladies as nobody, along the line, let them know ur Job (just tell them good paying job and see reactions)

CrystalTiger:
This supposed institution called Marriage, smh, make I still dey look am small small anyways ..

If people misuse bible, is bible u will blame or people?

Instead to come out clear that u don't have what it takes to be a responsible man, you are putting ur frustration on marriage institution.

The Prado jeep! Oga only smell it while madam would be the one to eat the goodies.


Yeye bello must disgrace the way Okorohausa disgraced.

Miracle2020:
see this capital fool. Who told you iam an Igbo man, Mr man I am not an Igbo man and I never supported peter Obi. I am a proud northerner from Kaduna state. Why is it that every bad thing that happened to your lineage you will start calling peter Obi? That thing that you voted for, how far now? Instead of you guys to vote for competent you decided to vote for a deranged think in the name of tribe and religion. Online begers. Uwar ka!!!

Stop dancing like mad man in market square, u claimed u re from kaduna, I biliv from region that hell-rufai had smoke life from them,

Meanwhile, who is foolishly voted for tinubu most? (if u think that o). Go and check voting pattern and come back.

Check lagos and osun.
Go to north and see before u come back and continuing displaying ur madness.

Come down south and see shege ur people are passing through in the hand of average people, I'm not talking rich but just average.

Better, not only for you to come clean before public but also for the future of your innocent kid, internet never forgotten, in future ,the very people advising you not to do it now, would dig it to mock you, the kid and even his children.

Sooooo many things that US know about individual globally in which they wouldn't say publicly but they might be acting on it covertly.
Even if Atiku didn't take Tinubu to court, I'm very sure, they would have done underground check in the event leading to emergency of Nigeria president, not only Tinubu but other leading candidate.

With this, the Hamas and likes that USA wants to be destroyed by Isreal. I biliv they know so much about them ,infact, they know several things they will still do in future if they are not decimated. They might not reveal it to the public but act on them.

Meanwhile, for the ignorant who doesn't have access to highly classified information, would be shouting hypocrisy blabla.