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AyobamiOluwole:
So this girl has been coming to my place, eat the best food and all that. I've asked her if she has a boyfriend and she said no. I do give her money without asking her for anything on return because I could see she is not the lazy type and she is really hardworking. I am very much ok with finances and I see no issues with some of her demands.


Yesterday I called her and told her that I'm not happy and that I need cuddle only and not sex(I lost so much Dollars from futures trading that night). She later called and said she will come to my place for that reason. In my mind I was thinking this will go down as sex and all, but I don't really want sex.

All I just needed is someone to cuddle and get distracted with that's all. This is the only time I am demanding something from her.

So she came during the evening time, and later that night we went to supermarket and I got her something's to eat at home for the night. We got back home and everything was going well. We were both on the bed when I reminded her why she came. This is someone I've been doing quite a lot for without even thinking twice out of pity. She wouldn't give in and wouldn't let me know why she can't just allow me to cuddle her.

Mehn, from the loss I had earlier and all that, I got infuriated and called another girl telling to pls come over for the night. Then I told this girl to leave my house since she can be that selfish. I sent her out of my house around 10pm. She was telling me she doesn't have money to go home, I didn't care and I shut my door against her. Though I was scared letting her out on that road and that time of the night but my anger got the better part of me. It was later after getting over the whole thing I confirmed nothing happened to her from someone else.

Pls is there anything wrong with what I did?

Modified: Anger is a bad thing. I am wrong sending her away at that time of the night. This is probably the judgement I'll get 😔

I read so many people commented above me, blaming you, anyway I biiv 90% of commentators are female and for the rest that are male, they lack evil experiences of bad girl manipulations

Wainey:
Don't blame hardship, these people are just betking addicts that wants to use N100 to get 25k in less than 2hours.
The economy affects me too but you will not see me in a bet shop.

On the other hand, This could also be a betting shop that opens 24hours in a very busy place, the people got tired of betting around 3midnight, couldn't go home and decided to sleep there,

Abi ooo only miscreants stays in the betting shop as he is in his own shop or room.


Everybody that sleep in that picture are "daed when they are still roaming about.

Office that is not supposed to have a single budgetary allocation in first instance, infact, this is office that a single director, would deliver effectively.

Yet we are in time of austerity.

The disadvantages of democracy far outweight military governance in naija.

Elohorp:
Uhrobos are very peaceful people

Since all these politicial tumors in Nigeria,when have you heard their names involved

The only time the stand up for themselves,they get killed
Please don't say what you don't know

My observations goes beyond politics ooo, I'm talking about day to day relationships, though, among the four I listed above, they are still far far better than the rest.

Thoughts007:
There's a big difference between defending yourself and carrying out a genocide. why don't they kill the Hamas terrorists only. But they have to bomb hospitals and schools killing mothers and babies. over 30,000 civilians living in that geographical location of Gaza and minding their businesses before now, have been killed.
Even if it was a retaliatory attack, when does enough really becomes enough? I'm asking you because you are obviously an enabler.
This is life my brother and you dont know tomorrow, if a similar situation should happen to you, you will know how it feels and in your next world, you'll have some empathy maybe.

@ ur bolded
......because the terrorists make the innocent people their sheld. They hide inside hospitals and schools.

Even Bible confirms it, when wicked suffering, innocent would also take part.


Meanwhile, if Hamas knows that the life of their citizens are precious to them, they wouldn't have attacked, someone they know it's too big for them to defeat.

No matter the situation, you shouldn't take law into ur own hand! But one thing is for sure.


FULANI.

IJAW.

EBIRA

UROBO.

The first 3 are extremely difficult while the last is moderately difficult to leave with as neighbours/friends/co-workers.

Can you correctly interpret this picture?

Slytiger:
I don't know the guy but I sort of agree with the banner he is holding in the picture attached to the topic. Naija pastors dey overdo. That pastor has several YouTube videos where is is performing miracles similar to that of TB Joshua

And how has that becomes heart attack for you? if he chooses to do such miracles and people choose to believe him, how has that becomes ur own headache?


Society would have peace when people see any how, and not talking any how for things they say.

Why Abure wants to be sit-tight chairman of the party at all cost? Despite all sorts of allegations from every quarters, within and without. If party collapses, you are less concerned, in as much you are the oga at the top.

I think you guys say you wanted to come and right the wrongs of Nigeria?

Yet blinded followers must still following them, so far, the party would marchal their town-man into throne of power

Maybe wen the two rivars die, the body would have peace for sometime, before she starts bussybody" again by another set of rivars.

CodeTemplar:
Fulanis killed a dozen policemen in Ughelli North some two weeks before okuama episode and nobody occupied anywhere to solve any useless case.

Six Bodies of Slained Officers Recovered

Because of that every community should be allowed to kill soldiers until no more single soldiers abi?

Iamicekid:
This isn’t hookup story judging from the picture, the dude has a bicycle so it’s not possible they are having a hookup issue, either the guy mistakenly bashed the girl with him bicycle and her phone or something fell and got spoilt that’s the story here

What of if the guy escaped the very first time they met and the picture is when she latter met him on the road?

STOP TALKING AUTHORITATIVELY ON ISSUES YOU ARE NOT THERE WHEN IT HAPPENED BIKKO.

Ashewo joint members would be able to say much on this matter.

Localemperor:
If El-rufai joins SDP, Atiku flies PDP then Kwankwaso with NNPP where will Tinubu get the Northern votes from?

And u don't think, as a sitting president, that won't be advantage to him?

You forgot how he emerged base on Obi factor!


The way you guys thinking with with rod in between ur legs is worrisome!

SoNature:
El-Rufai cannot be stupid to join another party.
He has to work for Tinubu in 2027 if he has a presidential ambition in 2031.

If not that El-Rufai is a controversial yet popular political figure, APC or LP would have lured him with a VP ticket for 2027.

Rufai won on the popularity of Bubu in 2015.


I wish him to try his own popularity alone in 2027 and smell his shit.


EVEN KADUNA, HE WILL STRUGGLE TO WIN IT MARGINALLY, AND OUTSIDE KADUNA, NO WHERE HE CAN WIN 25%.

Abi oooo, national assembly taking position of executive.

Atimes, I marvel if senator/reps really know the reason why they are in national assembly.


Executive would give policy direction, before you close eye, legislative arm would counter it and ask them to stop.

OUR OWN DEMOCRACY HAS BECOME CRACYDEMO.

Paraman:
He has not suffered at all. He's lucky he's in a sane country like Nigeria, he would have being dead and forgotten by now if he tried the shit he did with Putin.

If Buhari is to be Putin or Saudi's crown prince, KANU would have been killed in Kenya.

When he was shouting up and down like a patient with mouth's diarrhea, how many of you caution him?

Since you guys see him as a freedom fighter, please let him fight to the end. Afterall, Nelson Mandela stayed for 27 years.

Nothing destroys a guy/man as quickly as hook-up/olosho girls, you would think you are having ready made and fast sex, not knowing your money is draining at a fast pace and that you would find it difficult to have serious relationship with woman, before you know you end up as (baba n dagbe) lonely single papa

cococandy:
Y’all are not well

COMMING FROM THE MOUTH OF PSYCHIATRY PATIENT.

Naija women with men spending lavishly on them.



In the eyes of Naija women,so far you are spending lavishly on them, you are good man, even if such man his lunatic in making or ritualist, they are less concerned

Zooposki:
Country will separate faster. I made a call to the universe for the country to divide. People thought I was joking. Yoruba will go with their Northern brothers to form one country.

North West, South West, kwara and parts of Kogi will form one country.

At least,ipob would exterminate you guys faster than expected.

One thing you guys don't know is that, thr are miracles and they are real, but God doesn't just do miracles recklessly, because he himself has given us functional brains to know the right and wrong and he intervene when human intervention cannot rescue the situation again.

The miracle he did for A, he might decide not to do it for B.

When B not getting miracle that A got, he would come out and be telling trash about God.

If you like saying million thrashes about working of God, it doesn't stop him, being Almighty.

If I'm to be in position of brother in-laws and want go public.

I WILL PRESENT IT TO THE COUPLE BY HANDLING THE KEY TO THE GROOM, BUT THE PAPER WOULD CARRY BRIDE's NAME.

if I'm in position of bride.

IMMEDIATE THE BROTHERS HANDED OVER THE KEY TO ME, I WOULD HAND OVER IT TO MY HUSBAND.

all these are needed in other not to bruise egos and to fashion in peace in the marriage, I biliv the ultimate goal of parties involved is to have long lasting and peaceful marriage.

PEOPLE DO BLAMING MARRIAGE INSTITUTION WHEN IT FAILS, BUT NOT BLAMING THE ACTIONS AND INACTIONS THAT LED TO ITS FAILURE.

FalseProphet1:
The spirit of poverty has built duplex on your head, that's why you're reasoning this way. But I'll help you.

Go and buy a brand new bell, then lay your right hand on your head and use your left hand to ring the bell vigorously screaming poverty die die die poverty die.

Poverty die oooo poverty die.

Do it for at least 30 minutes and you'll be fine..

This I have seen.

(I AM NOT THE PERSON YOU QUOTED O)


Thanks God u re talking like Christian. I will advise you to go and read what really caused feuds between SAUL & DAVID in the Bible.

In as much I'm not really going against the idea, but on many occasions, just little ACTION", could "destabilise", relationship, Marriage, family,business,even country.


What the brothers-in-law did, if the two couples don't handle it with "extremely great caution", .....the bride would be sent back to brother-in-law before a year wedding anniversary.(most especially if the husband yet to buy a car)

Well, since teenagers in Nigerian of today, don't want to have a single sweat, but like to be competing with Dangote for wealth.

That's why you see apprentice fanning is boss and you see it as punishment and suffering. In which you must take to media to criticize and attack boss as usual.

I Still blame dysfunctional society that makes it easier for illegal money, even a teenage boy of 16 with no single known job, riding SUV of ₦15M.

lexy2014:
how ill resource control and regional government solve the problem of corruption?

.... you think all these infighting in the senate is to expose corruption? You are far from reality.


The elites in the north only want to destabilise Tinubu govt.

With regional govt or total distegration of the country, no one will be complaining that, my tribe is not in charge again.

That's why we need

RESOURCES CONTROL
REGIONAL GOVERNMENT
or

SEPARATE WAYS.


......because all these wahala from northern elites whenever south is in power is worrisome, Buhari ruled with impunity for 8 years none of them raise eye brow.

dexterinc2003:
In a truly sane country.

The allegations would be investigated.

Not saying this guy is 100 percent clean, but this abrupt suspension and replacement is just sooo fishy.

But then, we are in Nigeria, where anything goes and the Oppressed support their Oppressor for mere crumbs any time and day.

For a sane individual, he himself can do findings. You have phone, Google amount the president presented and compare it with amount he claimed president presented.

Why not south Africa president carries gun and lead other south Africans to go and fight Israel in war front, at least to defend their brothers and sisters in Arab desert.




Hypocrites who bully his African brothers within, but going on international stage to opposite exact thing is doing at home

everythingtall3:
Religion is our number 1 problem in this world. It has really really divided us . How can we be fighting for God when he's the most powerful.

Are they really fighting for God or supremacy battle among the religion's leaders? but hiding under God.

Those I pity most are gaulible followers, who don't even understand themselves not to talk of God they claimed they are worshipping.

SoNature:
The explanation is simple: That girl didn't love him. She didn't even consider him her ideal lover. The moment her ideal guy came around, she dropped all her rules and flipped her two legs towards opposite direction while hitting her back to his sack!

Only a handful of guys/men know this ur simple but mystery revelation, even so called pillars". Women Heart is simple and same time complicated, when u imposing ur self on woman, she makes the relationship complicated, but if she has just 30% tender heart towards you, u enjoy the relationship maximally, sporadic sex inclusive.