₦airaland Forum

SoNature:
Loan kii you there! Every part of this country deserves a place in federal appointments because Nigeria is a diverse society.

When I first read the name I wanted to criticize even though I'm yoruba man, but when I read his credentials, it silent any anger in me.


I think you should stop critical of every appointment of govt, if you read it and you notice it's round peg in round hole.

If he puts any of ur tribe thr, you as a man that attacking and attacking, personally you won't see anything gain from it rather than joy that he is ur tribeman even though it's at detrimental to the nation as a whole.( If such a person is below average)


I think you should start attacking appointments of a government, if you notice the person is average or other tribe are more qualified to hold it

Instead for this man to honourably go to Kogi West and surport any candidate of his choice, he wanted to impose kinsmen at all cost.


If court returns seat of power to Igala people, maybe his eye will clear and his way to EFCC will be wider

Mccullum:
Shameless Natanyahu, he's using the continuation of the war to retain his political office,

if not devil personified that he is, killing armless civilians daily has turned to fighting war on his views,

fighting war with Hamas that has no standing armed forces like army, air force and navy, even he

himself knew that it's an invasion of inhumanity, he can continue his killing of Palestinians but he can't defeat HAMAS,

US intelligence has told him that bitter truth, he refuse to concur.

They knew they don't have standby military yet they started the war by killing innocent Israeli and others nationals!

Wen a dog goes to attack lion in the jungle, I think you should know what the outcome would look like.

Emu4life:
Israel that is the Headquarters of Homosexuality and Alcoholism is the Christian God's Home. No wonder the Pope also approved Gayism and Lesbianism in Church.
It is Finished.

Ooooooh, Meccah is Allah god's home! Don't know your God gods is a physical being,in which his abode is in a particular country rather than heaven, no wonder you are being compelled to serve him like physical being rather than spiritual.

IF YOU WANT TO SPY ON YOUR BOYFRIEND, GIRLFRIEND,WIVE, HUSBAND OR KIDS' PHONES, CONTACT ME.

I think we need it in today's level of immortality and unfaithful, may we not suffer unjustifiably in our relationship ooo

Uzorbaby:
Good evening house, I opened a new account for this issues. This is my ninth years in marriage with 3 kids and since the third year till now the problem I keep having with my husband is infidelity, when ever I catch him he apologises but still continues. Recently I found out he is into a single mother who claim to be a deconess and he opened a business for her and doesn't feel apologetic about it, this same lady when I had not discovered their affairs he sends her his last card and begs me for money. He calls her everyday , video calls her and sends her money frequently.right now I feel faustrated and depressed. I will really love to leave him and rent a house close to my shop but the amount to do that will greatly affect my business if I do that because I just started it 3 months ago. I just need someone I can talk to, gist about normal stuff of life so that my mind can move away from him pending when I will be able to rent a house. I just want to be happy

That's how several men destroy their beauty family and Marriage, in which they would be blaming Marriage institution rather than they themselves, but before you do that, think critically about ur kids, their welfare, and the next man that you urself will start having affair with, will be different from your husband?.........so that, your case won't be like story of a wife that divorces her husband in which she latter comes back and become, the side chick of that husband after the previous side chick becomes full wife.

skj1377:
The man is more or less falling apart. She probably has young lover.

You don't think the husband is sleeping around in which it got to the level she couldn't contain it again, even though she is feeding and accomodating him?


Keep on be one sided base on gender bias.

If people can respect their boundaries in marriages, they would enjoy and the marriage would last

malcom1X:
If a man has money he will find a woman to start a family with but if a woman has money she will say she doesn't need a man anymore..

This seamstress has finally had enough. Or the man has finally been set free.

Guys marry virgin in this life, someone that will be loyal to you so that you don't live alone in your final years of this life.
That is the most painful thing in life.

No allow your wife dey sew clothes for military heads of states dey collect oil wells allocation just for sewing clothes.... You grab?

Hope guys you are advocating to marry virgin, they themselves are virgin too. Moreso,you should also admonish them to "stick and loyal" to the "loyal woman" you are telling them to marry as well.

That's only message that can guarantee peace in marriage and not one way traffick sermon you are dishing out.

Two things likely involved.

1. Mr Alakija going out and sleeping around with different women/girls even to the knowledge of his wife that is accommodating and feeding him.

2. Folorunsho is controlling husband in which the man couldn't tolerate it going forward.

Marriage has principles, if the partners can play the game according to the rules, they would enjoy the marriage, but often time, they dnt want to respect and obey the rules,and that's why marriages are parking up daily.

1. You must learn how to reach compromise between yourselves.
2. You must learn how not to cross beyond your boundaries.
3. You must work hard to get income to power the marriage.

Negroid001:
You've strayed from the main topic. I said a divorced pastor shouldn't be giving marital advice.

Which means, a friend that doesn't have a million in account can't give advice to his friend with 5million in account on how to do business.

A gynecologist who yet to be married not to talk of bearing child given advise for woman with 5 kids.


Many of financial experts giving expertise to business mongus, they themselves are not millionaire.

Coach who never played professional football once, coaching and giving instructions to professional football players at highest level.

mmadu4:
i went to a local brothel with a beer parlor to take a few bottle of beer and feed my eyes immediately i stepped in they all swamped on me .


i couldn't even sit down to order my beer 3 to 4 ladies don surround me

,in their words,, bros u too fine oooo bros i go do u fine . give me 2 hundred naira i go pull off for you .....

i was shocked. last time checked 200 is worthless

has it come to this? na waooooo

anyways i ended up leaving the place cos i felt uncomfortable


naija don cast sha.

Tomorrow if they ask you, you would say girls turn you down for bad boys........see life.

F1re:
What's up guys, trust you're doing fine.

There's this lady(27yo, virgin) in my School, I'm a Teacher by the way(23yo), that became very obsessed with me, we once met at a Tech event where I was part of the Speakers, we didn't talk then, till she came to my School for an assignment, she saw me and reintroduced herself to me, I was like 'oh okay, what's up?' you know trying to be friendly, we got talking about stuffs, she told me she wants to learn how to code and if I can help her out, I said Yes, because I have free time on my hands, so she started coming around and I started teaching her the basics, she collected my Mobile Number and chatted me up, at a point she kind of become obsessed with me, she's always the one to chat me up first, calls me and give me chocolate during our lessons and all, bro i started having feelings for her, but I keep them in check and just flow with her.

She then travelled to Abuja at a point and things slowed down, I wasn't invested in her that much so it didn't bother me much, after she came back we continued our lessons and all, mind you, these lessons are more like 30% lessons and 70% gists(Relationships, Sex, Marriage, Life in general), I'm a good conversationalist so I got her to open up to me and all.

Then something happened last week, which is the main reason I'm writing this, she came to my office and I was sent on errand, I told her to wait for me that I'll be back and all, she said she promised she will, I didn't even ask her to swear lols, but when I came back, I found out that she had left already, it hurt me so bad, I was surprised at myself like why I'm I hurt like this because of this little stuffs.

And from that day till today, she haven't call me, I didn't check my Whatsapp either from that day, because I decide to switch my Whatsapp line due to disturbance of other low value people on my contact list, but the point is, she ghosted me, and she didn't come to work(she's not a Teacher, kind of working with an NGO, so their work isn't obligatory like mine), I didn't call her either because there's no reason to.

Now, the problem is I can't get her out of my mind, I'm a big fan of Stoicism and I've got help from applying some of its concepts in my life, but this time around it's just difficult, my mind will just be wandering towards all the good times we had and the 'Stupid' mental projections I was having in my brain about us, I'll forever not gonna call her or text her though, but I want to forget about all of that and get back to work, like I was before she came into my life.

Also, I've never kissed or touched her, because I've got some principles I live by and I'm currently working on some stuffs that will put me out in public soon, I'm very careful about my reputation, I've also never spend a dime on her, she's even the one that was begging on buying me stuffs when she came back from Abuja the other time, had to decline the offer.

Is it scarcity mindset? I don't know, but I've never been the one to chase girls right out of secondary school, they always come to me, just that right now, I don't have an active social life and I'm all by myself so I don't have any girls around that I talk to.

What do y'all have to say about this.

I'll tag my favorite posters here: Pansophist, Karlifate, luminouz, smartb0y, reminderz, caveadullam, olamoses75, please I could use some of your help, thanks.

I pity you and pity indoctrination that is putting you into mental slavery, from time immemorial, wen man sees lady that he likes, he goes for her, if she accepts, fine and if she turns you down, u re not the first and you won't be the last........for people to be telling you acadabra of reverse nature,......only you would suffer for it in closet.

The lady in question, you are 'now' emotionally attached to her, (which is normal in human anatomy but some people would be playing the role of God that you err) having tried to open her heart for you. If you don't retrace ur step and quickly go for her, another sharp guy will hijack her and I pray the guy would be in ur vicinity in which you would be seeing them like Tommy & Jerry walking up and down the neighborhood, while you, would be turturing endlessly within emotionally.

Brighton1:
do you just called us idle guys? I’m a civil engineer and I’ve gotten lots of contracts to construct roads and buildings.. My guy is now a barrister, he was even working under a chamber before he went for law school and finally he’s called to Bar.. the said elder brother is a Lieutenant in Nigerian navy, he’s has not even seen dry land for the past 7 months, he just arrived last week and he’s reporting to base probably next week. And you’re calling us idle.. it’s fine sha.. let me don’t talk much.

You are angry cos he called you idle? But you can generalise all naija girls as indecent.

You will have peace of mind the exact second that you know all human beings are not the same and that you can't use few individuals you had encountered with, to generalise the whole nation/tribe/race.


Another bitter truth, out 10 ladies that go wayward, 8 are lured to it by men.

You want to sleep with 4 girls per week, I want to do 5/week, the 3rd person wants 6 girls a week,.....I biliv you know the number of girls we are hunting to sleep with are "naija girls", before 6 months pass, u should try to do the arithmetic of girls in the community we would have devoured, compare to, if 3 of us stick to one woman for that period.

We naija men/guys/boys are the one devouring naija ladies, at the same time, we are the one complaining and lamenting about their indicency.


A case of wanting to eat ur cake and have it

Ogiame:
An avoidable death, BUT the notorious SIMP on the poster choose to forgive a community pussy everytime she shares her pussy to her pastors son and boys in the area.

Mind you, this was not the first time he caught the community pussy cheating.

Instead of the SIMP to take the matter to his elders and family members, he went to his pastor who advice him to forgive the notorious cheat.... Now, Erivwin don k!ll the SIMP......


There are so many SIMP's around us readily available to forgive their cheating partners but like a Nairalander will say and I quote; “D€ath to all SIMPs”


No RIP to waste.

No RIP to waste but heart attack loading on issue that you are less concerned, perhaps it happened to ur immediate brother, that is why you know details of how the story went and ended.

Surprising that this man made buhari cabinet

Domaining101:
Idiots. Let him and the wife and their useless son go to hell. After all the enjoyment, traveling all over the world, flying jets and helicopter up and down, eating chicken and turkey, drinking juice, shebi e don end? I Heard it was even cardboard they use in bringing their smelling dead bodies back from Ablord 😂 When the fools where alive, you'll never see them doing anything for poor people, there own na to dey send their children go abroad go school, MIT, Cambridge, Oxford, while our own for here dey strike, let them go and die abeg.

How i wish God can take elumelu and that his daughter next.

I won't surprise if you go mad before you see death, Im also praying that you, together with your family would be able to escape from curse that you are carrying, because It's only acursed person that can be talking the way you are talking.


Meanwhile, even though you will leave your entire life in pain,agony and penury, you will also end in the grave just like him going to the grave now.

jeromestarks:
The husband would have married a virgin woman. He would have escaped death and stayed alive but he went to marry a woman who has been fvvcked and mounted by many men. Now he is murdered by one of the men who fvvcked ( is fvcking ) his wife. Shame on him.

Marry a young virgin woman (18 -23) and get peace of mind and a long lasting home you can return to after work.
Ignore my advice and 9jacover will cover your story.

I doubt if ur age is more than 18, perhaps, ur reasoning faculty is extral-myopic in nature. if not, you wouldn't be talking like toddler.

Every woman is once a virgin, including those in brothels.

The person that is indoctrinating you that virginity guarantees faithfulness, is nothing but myopic minded like you.

Your wife having affair with man even to ur knowledge yet u keep warning the wife and the concubine. What a weakling husband?

WELL, SINCE YOU DIDN'T HAVE STRONG WILL TO SEND ADULTEROUS WIFE OUT FROM YOUR HOUSE, YOUR RIVAL WITH STRONGER WILL, HAD SENT YOU OUT OF THIS WOULD, NOW, THEY WILL ENJOY THEIR ROMANCE UNHINDERED

Soonest, husbands would be having knowledge of wives' side guys, just the way wives knowing husband's side chicks now.

World is gradually comming to an end!

Even if he stays with u and u guys working in same place, you should worry vigilant


Several ladies out there are not into serious relationship, infact, many don't even see guys asking them out and these ladies are desperate to hijack any guy that available

Wen sporadic shooting is ongoing, you still have time to do video, i pray you won't lie flat as a result of stray bullets one day.

Married woman couldnt describe barber's place for you, but prefare to walk you down to his place like Tommy & Jerry in the streets that you & the couple staying as neighbors.

The act rubbishes her husband's virtues as a man already, even if you didn't have ulterior motive.

I doubt if you guys normally thinking what people would be thinking and saying when dealing with someone husband/wife

I don't pity those who wrote glowing tribute for nonsense Tinubu and his heirs are doing, but pity foolish Nairalanders, who eat malnourished 101 daily but still following paid agents to defend oppressors.

First, if Trump or whatever world leaders did that must Tinubu follow suit?

2. I think they say we are in austerity time and that no dollars in CBN to power the economy, yet a growing up adults, with no official engagement, traveling up and down with President, in which it's state that struggling to get dollars to fix economy that is paying for such juncketing traveling expenses.


You ask the citizens to be enduring for your satanic policy while your household and those in govt continuing running state meagre resources recklessly.

Bellotelli:
Is wike now the foreign affairs minister?

Are these people foreign affairs ministers?



Even if you want to go into lamentations, pls do it in such a way that people won't see you as a stark illiterate.

RevenuesBoost:
This illustration is based on marriage grounds and some are saying she should disobey her husband because she doesn't need permission from anyone.

Imagine a Father telling his daughter not to go see her best friend, should she disobey?

Also imagine an elder brother telling his younger sis not to go visit a close friend, should she disobey?

You dare not step out of the house without informing my parents. This is for security reasons, why should it be different with husbands when he is the only person you are living with at that moment?


Many marry for different reasons, some see their husbands as strangers, others regard them as very close friends.
If you are married to a man that is more than a friend to you, you will certainly need his permission for everything because you see him as your guardian in the absence of your parents.


If he says no, don't drag it with him, rather make him see reasons you have to travel, if he insists, then relax.

It's his turn to be with you, your siblings have been with you from childhood, they should miss you more 😂. You'll eventually see them but that time is not the right time, your siblings will understand.


Las las, if you disobey your husband and marriage scatter, na them go still talk.
Just give your husband all the respect he needs and obey him, that's all.

Your advice is for few who have moral upbringing and in which they too, allowed the morality that parents wanted to impact be impacted in them, for others which constitute 90% of the society, ................they had damaged beyond repair.

Husband -parent-siblings-pastor/imam-friends.

Meanwhile, i think the woman just want to cause problem where thr is none in this scenario..

I think, she is calling the people she wants to visit, while want to visit at all cost, even to the level that so many people have been given her toxic advise, perhaps she has ulterior motive.

Cindypresh:
Ladies and gentlemen, behold the nightmare of every agbado thugs.

When the name obi is mentioned, their evil heart skips, their kidneys malfunctions and their brains keep spiralling aimlessly.

Watch them convulse on this very beautiful thread😂😂

While agabo seat on the throne and control the life of destiny of yeast, Biafra waking and sleeping to wail and gnashing their teeth every second.


NB. The likes & mentions on faceless forum that you need to masturbate daily, I pray ur seeds won't finish before you start need them for procreation.

superCleanworks:
After traditional wedding, all this one na just extra showbiz.

If he agrees and they got married, if it comes out to be fraud Marriage in future.......you will also be the first person to come hard on church.



If u want only tradition Marriage, nobody stops you
So, stop lamentating for people that cherish church Marriage.

Stop taking panadol for people's headache,for you to leave long ok.

Anybody carrying his/her meagre income to church @ this time of austerity, in name of paying tithe in anticipation of reaping in multiple ways, his/her head needs to be taken to lab for check-up.


YOU ARE JUST IGNORANCE AND STUPIDLY FUNDING THE FLYBOUYANT LIFESTYLE OF YOUR CHURCH LEADERS.

PureFace1:
You are just delusional, so not chasing women now mean women can easily disrespect me? dude i walk away from women because i respect myself and wouldn't tolerate any disrespect. You are a loser if you don't realize No is No and even if she want you to chase harder who want to be with that kind of shittty woman ? that will keep playing stupid games and wouldn't respect you.

So if you are a champion it mean you must conquer every women and turn your self to a loser and don't respect yourself and lose respect in the process?

I am not going to waste my time chasing a woman doesn't mean i don't know how to handle women when it come to other issues and tolerate disrespect.

You think bickering with women make you strong ? you are still a kid.

I will never be in relationship with a woman that disrespect me, if she disrespect me in the relationship i will end it.

I think ur brain malfunctiond, that thy u quickly forgot that u claimed to be superior in game of women

If a lady say no for the first time ,it means,she disrespects you? Kabiye the first son of tinubu I salute you o!

I say sorry for you and ur foolish gragra alpha nonsense you belong to on faceless forum. They claim bigger boys online but beg for ordinary attention of ladies physically.

Oga, any girl you ask out and open leg for u instantly, she isn't sign of respect for you but a sign that you are totally worthless, because the girl herself is a worthless and that is how she say yes for every guy.

Meanwhile, can u swear with anything good you have that, in ur life,. ....you have never for once re-toasted girls that said no before.

I don't need explanation just swear.

Cerebellum:
Small boy, shurrap there!

Someone is correcting you, still you kept been adamant instead of learning

Abi oooo, COMMING from a teenage boy that sees adults men taking beer and got scared.

Why won't you be talking like like teen that hear girl names and run for his dear life.


When you grow up, this type of discussion we talk about it properly.