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Anything worked seamlessly in other climes must fail when it enters naija.

The demon that cursed naija too strong Sha

As usual they would still blame everything but themselves (politicians).

In the post, I didn't read where OP said phone bible is bad, but only trying to listed advantages of paper bible over phone bible.

........ trust them, every comments up thr are attacking upon attacking, EVEN WHEN THEY KNOW HE IS SAYING NOTHING BUT PURE TRUTH.

Meanwhile, many of them going for phone bible, asked them wen last them opened bible apple in their phone, they would scratching heads.


How easy for people to read bible with full concentration on phone with different social media acounts?

I REMEMBER A DAY THAT TB JOSHUA DELIVERED A MAN FROM PORN ADDICTION, he said the man started the addiction wen he was reading on his phone, from nowhere, nude picture proped up. In other to satisfy his lustful desire, he was looking for more nude pics and videos, before you know,he became addicted until he was delivered.

FalseProphet1:
Most Nigerians supporting rigging today don't know it's effect on the country yet. They think it's by party, very soon they'll learn the hard way that these politicians don't care about them.

This I have seen.

Meanwhile, other candidates that are being shortchanged,are they better?

The labour party legislators in the national assembly, what are the differences they portrait now?

Did they reject SUV and go for lesser vehicles even though they know Nigeria is in financial messy now?


To me, military need to intervene, maybe they would manage the resources better.

Tunagee:
The hookup ladies you met must be from the ewedu tribe?

Thank God u finally admitted that ur women from bia-fraud republic can also fuckkk bambiala provided money involved.

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Persephone1:
[i]"Marry a typical Nigerian Man at your own peril"

When I type these words, it's not from a place of hate towards men ( I don't hate anybody) It is from careful analysis of marriages to Nigerian Men which mostly lack genuine love, empathy and kindness. Nigerian Marriages are mostly driven by "needs" and "means" to an end. Too systematic and unnatural and the one with the highest bargaining chip gets the most benefit.

Our mothers didn't teach us enough about Men. They didn't know either until they got married, unfortunately they are still learning about Men too. That is why the popular saying "Ile oko ile eko ni" (Your husband house is a school) is usually the soothing balm to unfavourable experiences a wife has with her husband. One question I always ask myself when I hear these words as parting words of advice for young wife is. Does that mean she is getting married into a strange,unknown and possibly unfavourable world? Why represent her husband as an unending course? And will she ever graduate and be relieved of painful lessons?. Ask these women these questions and they will shake their heads in mockery but the truth is, They weren't taught enough about the Men they are getting married to. How would they when they didn't know who they are either. To understand another person there must be a certain level of self awareness you have reached yourself. This way you have enough level of intelligence to be a perfect judge of character. But when a woman believe all she needs to be is a good cook and good konji reliever then all she will seek is a man who has Kitchen and bed.


Men are the worst in this joke of an institution. Configured to believe all they need to posses is Financial ability to provide. The upbringing of the typical Nigerian Man is very very wrong. Trained with little to no empathy,kindness, self care, sense of belonging, self love but burdened with sense of responsibility brought up like a robot to "provide" only. Most Nigerian men are robotic minded, unable to connect emotionally without aide yet this men are expected to naturally see their brides as a part of themselves. Wishful thinking if you ask me. And when some men luckily achieve this, the society (Men and Women) mock him. Aside this, they don't readily know what they want and are easily tossed by the society.

We create a society devoid of emotional engagement but want the benefits emotions birth. Compassion and affections brings liberty, a man who lacks these will see his wife as his slave and property, he gets to do with her what he seem best and not what is good for her. We really have a long way to go as a Society.

Nigerian Men make terrible horsebands

My only advice for u is that, go for a man who knows what it takes to be husband (leader of a household and who can manage a unit of family successful) either in Nigeria or abroad.

I will also advise u to check urself and guys you mingle with, in as much we have beasts among men ,but yet there are several good men/husbands everywhere.

All these physical attributes are supposed to placed at backseat when looking for husband.

CAN FEMALE PUT HANDSOME TALL GUYS, SIX PACK FAME AMONG OTHERS AT BACKSEAT WHEN CHOOSING HUSBANDS?

It's Kogi west i pity most, u claimed u re shortchanged by political arrangements, yet u are fielding more candidates even wen u re not majority.

Nevertheless, I want yeye Bello to put to shame, and Kogi west to taste power and at same time, I don't like flamboyant Dino to assume power.


How will that happens? Only by miracles.

dc23:
Very easy lawsuit would make her some millions and get her readmitted with an apology from the University.

Such a condition for expelling her could never be allowed in an university statutes

I guess u will write statue they would be using for them.

Still not yet understand ur gains in chassing clout

Jewessgratitud3:
Exactly my take. The man needs serious inerrogations. What will make a woman living with you commit suicide and you never suspected or noticed any strange moves and reported or taken action before it got to that stage.

When you're living with a man that doesn't care it can always result to this because a man that cares about your wellbeing will notice when you're down and try to talk you out of whatever it is that is bothering you. He'll offer to help and take you for therapy to get the needed medical attention but it seems there's no such relationship or bond between them and they are just living like flat mates. Smh..
So much for the so called marriage relationship.

Whether you're married or not just hold onto God cos only him can take care of you regardless, both in your prime and old age.
Marriage doesn't guarantee fulfilment. Only in God you can be fulfilled.

.....and what about several men that are committing suicide? What should happen to their wife. I guess they should send to jail.

benuejosh:
Go back and watch the interview. Does that look like an apology?

The election in Imo state is clear now that it is between APC and NLC.

Abi.ooooooo, people misinformed other since 1759.

Rizzputin:
Congrats! you have boyfriend zoned yourself. You might think it's a good thing but it's a terrible spot to be in.

Because going on, she'll delay sex. Delay relationship with you and literally waste your time as you try to seduce her.

You don't want to present as a bf material (which you just did) Rather, you want to present yourself as a Hook up Material. Meaning, each passing time she's not with you, she's thinking of you fùcking her.

Being a hook up material gives you an enormous edge over any guy she comes across because while she wants to use other guys for money etc. She wants to use your dìck for her pleasure. Great spot to be in if you ask me. Tonight I'll drop a post on ways you can become a hook up material so keep an eye out for it


Now... I'll break this post down into two. First, your mistakes. Then we'll switch to your next moves.


Your mistakes


- The girl was feeling you at first but you wasted soooo much time she started to doubt her attraction for you. You have to understand that girls want and fantasize about getting swept off their feet in the moment. Getting fùcked without realizing what happened

One minute she meets a guy and 4 days later his hands or fingers is fucking her. That's what she wants and craves. But this experience with her doesn't come from thin air. You have to present yourself as hook up material worthy. That is the essence of seduction. Fast, smooth knacks.


- You wasting time has already raised her doubts about you. Now, you worsened it by having that awkward call with her. At that point her attraction for you took a nose dive.

That was when her attraction for you started to really fade. At first, you were a charming man. But with the time wasting and awkward call, she's assumed you have no idea what you're doing or how to lead her into your bed.

Few things are more painful to a girl than when you raise her hopes up with good game at the beginning then start fumbling afterwards with boring bf tactics like the one you described.

The "babe" thing she calls you is meaningless if you haven't had sexual intimacy with her. Same thing with "My love" or "my husband"

Until your dìck or fingers have mercilessly fùcked her, do not take those name seriously

In fact, that's her signal letting you know that you're deep in boyfriend zone and you better do something about it. Here's the thing, you want her to see you as hook up material. Meaning, when she has that urge to get fùcked, you're the one she thinks about.


- Thirdly, when an average Naija girl says she wants baby girl treatment, she means spending on her. You do NOT want to accept this role.

Of course, you ignorantly fell into her frame (Read, trap) and told her you want to come over and show her. That's why she declined you coming over and even got disgusted and annoyed by it. Because you couldn't understand womanese..

When a girl says she wants baby girl treatment, you have 3 ways to handle it: ignore it, jokingly tell her to find it elsewhere OR use reframe tactics to paint it in another light.. (I'll teach how to do this one in a future post)

- Lastly, you nailed the coffin when you asked if she was dating. I don't know what other answer you were expecting.

She's most likely not in a relationship. And if she is, it's not a serious one. Cuz she's more than willing to get her pvssy fvcked.


Your Next Moves...


Your next steps are pretty simple.

- First, is to change your mindset: Go after sex before relationship. Your biggest problem is trying to get relationship before sex. This is a horrible strategy. And she will continue to string you along while fùcking other guys till she's "ready" to date you.


- Next, do NOT call again. If your business is dependent on going to her shop, then no p. Just be normal, casual, get your stuff and leave.

When you do this a few times, she'll start trying to chase. That's when your next move comes in....


- Slowly reel her back in. Don't make the mistake the first time of leaping happily like a dog on the first sight of food. Calmly reel her in and present yourself as a hookup material.

Because trust me, "I haven't found the man that'll give me the kind of fùck I want" is among the three biggest complaints I get from girls before I knack them.

And if these ones exist then there are many many many more longing to have a wild hook up with a competent seducer

So use this tips do your thing. Who knows, you might bend her over in her shop and pound her.

A fantasy, I'm sure she has

After reading ur long epistle, I went to the guy story to re-read it twice, all these ur rhetoric ......you dull yourself, you are supposed to have fuckkkk her 2-3 days immediately they met, blablah , are just hallucinations and fantasy u re craving for. Not every lady is codeded olosho that u can fuckkkk instanta*.


Two things possible happened.

1. she really liked the guy, but wen she shows affection for the guy in present of her friends, they badmouth the guy, and this made the affection died instantly. (This 75% possibility)

(That's how ladies behave and more reasons they usually missed good guy as husband. They always want to show their husbands off before their friends. Don't forget the guy is not doing white collar job, and also a quite guy. Going by his story)

2. The girl doesn't like the guy for relationship from very beginning but thinking he is "Mr nice"
(the guy said in his story, he is a gentle guy)

so, she thinks she could be drained him, but wen her plans not forthcomming as expected, she now putting resistance to frustrate him.

You forget that many of these people approaching or more than 50 have little or nothing to fall back on wen they finally retired, and they fear they may end up as gateman or watchman after retirement.


A top surgeon earning a million naira in Nigeria, where as, his far far junior, a fresh university graduate would be earning, x5 of his earnings abroad.


It's only politians that are connected to corridor of power, that can give 100% backing not to japa in ur list.


Meanwhile, some even japa basically because of their children, the atmosphere of naija today not good enough for children's upbringing.

We are in jungle if not dungeon.

Oga, go to interland and do findings.

From the beginning of the world, man blame everything but himself.

The first reason for marriage is companionship and second most important is procreation.


The space of wife or husband cannot be occupied by any other person..... girlfriend/boyfriend, concubines, mothers, maid, friends,job and lastly *toxic wife/ beast husband*.


Every intending couple should endeavour to marry good partner, they would surely enjoy blissful marriage and union.

I guess they also want to get back their land that Jewish community in Brazil had forcefully taken from them in years past.

Fuckyoumod:
Yes, Yemi is beautiful and famous with good banging body.
She get money yes, but like it or not, she be evening news paper. Yemi done expire!

Nothing remain for that body again.
At this level, only gold diggers would settle for her. The beauty and sweetness of a lady is in her youth, 18 - 25 years. Yet, that gender won't listen.

Young girls my advice is simple, if you plan on getting married, marry early. Don't waste away your sweetness and youthfulness. forget and stop the plenty shakara, settle down and thank me later.

But if you don't intend to get married, please don't let anybody pressure you into marriage. You don't need it.

Just they enjoy your life dey go. Nothing do you.
But I hope you don't join the men are scum gang, motivational speaker for young girls and feminist movement??

Marriage is not for everybody.

Even if nobody pressuring you, pressure MUST come within, only a mad man would see what his/her agemates are doing, in which he/she not be able to do and won't be sad.

All these marriage is a scam crew or marriage not necessarily supporters, they just saying it because they are still teenagers, perhaps they are adults but for self defence.

Madam tell us u re tactically advertising ur wares for prospective buyers.


Meanwhile, I will advise u to lower ur specs, .......for right men full everywhere, ur pocket andnd fame are the impediments to ur inability to be called married woman now.

Or

NaijaCoverBlog:
Source: https://punchng.com/court-jails-couple-two-years-for-drug-trafficking/

It seems 90% of people caught on illegal drugs related crime within and outside the nation are from east.


Yet they claim victims at all times.

Having more than children u can cater for is a journey to depression and suicidal.

Women should take the warning strongly, the man would japa fast and leave you @ children behind to face the hardship.


How many congos" of rice would feed 9 children?

I imagine the year the "colony of pigs" would have eaten meat last!

[quote author=benuejosh post=126842274]Mumu! I said she has been meddling in issues not for her. And the ending part of my statement i said my comment has nothing to do with the post. Learn to read and comprehend. Igbos and thinking people hate them.[/quote



U don't need to reply clown who only defend base on tribe.

Unical and and toothpick contract are few of her controversial engagements less than 6 months on the seat.



It seems she doesn't have clue of governance.

How would ministry of women affairs, allocated land? Even federal min of agriculture lack such power, it's State government that solely has such power.

benuejosh:
Uju Kennedy will be the first Minister to be shown the way out. That woman seems confused. It is either she is meddling in the matters of another Ministry or she is quarreling. My comment is not necessarily about the post.

True talk, u re following the woman antecedents since she became minister, even ordinary interview on live TV she would be angry in her responses

During boyfriend and girlfriend relationship,when u re supposed to have studied her nagging behaviour, u ignored but focused on different styles she was given you, thinking that's most important aspect of marriage. Now that her nagging has metamorphosed to nasty attitude.

You run to a forum to announce for the whole world.


On more serious note, you haven't been in charge since the relationship began and now she doesn't see u as her superior and someone she should accord respect.

To correct the anomaly, thou it's harder, but you can still, next time she does that, either you sent her parking or you leave house for her, make sure people intervene before you reconcile.


WOMEN ARE LIKE KIDS, THE WAY YOU HANDLE THEM FROM VERY VERY BEGINNING SAYS ALOT ABOUT YOUR GOING FORWARD WITH HER.

During

ecolime:
The true story behind his death lies with the wife, the nurse and that friend.

Every other sensational narrative na smokescreen. Unfortunately, most Nigerians are emotional beings.

Nothing lies behind anybody, there is 95% tendency that he died from wrong admiration of drugs from fake nurse, nobody gangedup to kill him.

A guy of such caliber should have gone to qualified health practitioner for health care.

I tot they say Muslim don't use to involve in miracles

itsValo:
As a young guy, you had a sexual relationship with a girl and you wake up to find out she is dead, what will you do??


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KQD7RCLhg1s

As a young boy, u face ur study/work in other for ur future to be Rossy and not looking for skirts up and down.


Meanwhile, if u wake up and see her dead, get sniper and drink full bottle of the smallest quantity, with that, no case would be established in court on your behalf.

RedAlert08:
They're no different from those attending Adeboye's church.

Even you and me.

Hendrixky:
If not for tribalism and religion that is killing the masses in Nigeria

Tinubu and atiku are both not supposed to get up to 100 thousands vote

Especially that tinubu knowing fully well he was part of Buhari administration and he brought upon on us Buhari's administration
What we complained about and regretted in Buhari's tenure was exactly what we knew tinubu will repeat in his administration if he wins like parkinson disease, old age and sickness
But because Nigerians are too tribalistic the people of South west gave him their vote again.
Sane people are plenty in lagos, abuja and south south who are exposed and not tribalistic reason he didn't win those states

Most Nigerians don’t hate bad government they just feel mad at the government when he’s not from their religion or tribe
That is the reality of Nigeria

We are doomed

What's parentage of votes given to Obi by South Easterners compare to others? Now, compare it with percentage others gave Obi outside South East and others.

Going by ur submission, who is more tribalistic more between south east and south west?


Again! Going by performances, what's different between Atiku ,Tinubu and Obi?

If Atiku and Tinubu not supposed to garner 100k votes, the same thing should be accorded to Obi if not less.

I sympathize with people going to this conman church.

Anyway, sheep would still be rushing to his business center to part way with their hard-earned money for him to look and feel like almighty.

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying to deceive your fellow humans using the name of God who washed His hands off marriage from right after the beginning - Genesis 3 vs 16 - and reminded you in Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 that your marriages are of the world of men and not of the Kingdom of God.

The verses you quoted, how did it against marriage? Just like that guy said, u really sick upstair. I will advise you to give your Bible for Bible scholar to sit you down and purge you off of heresy.


If Muslim see this now, he too would go out and be misleading people.

In Luke, Jesus was talking about the dead who have ressurrated , and expecting to enter paradise, ............now, is dead do marriage? Did they do marriage in paradise?

Even at that, Jesus still not condemn marriage.



If you are impotent or not being able to marry for whatever reason, you should have come clean on I rather than misquoting Bible to cover up your problem.