₦airaland Forum

Cerebellum:
Small boy, shurrap there!

Someone is correcting you, still you kept been adamant instead of learning

immortalcrown:
Women believe in love and are emotional. But what happens to the belief and the emotion when a man is poor or ugly or when he cannot give her orgasm?

PureFace1:
I get better result with less effort and respect myself.

You are the weak and foolish guy here and you can continue to waste your time away chasing women no one care, what did you achieve with all the chase ? You only make the women to think they are goddesses and must be worship because fools like you waste your time on them.

PureFace1:
Even if your game is top notch you are a fool if you think you can seduce every women.

Perhaps i'm more knowledgeable than you to know that it doesn't really worth the effort at the long run when there are plenty women that will dig you immediately out there even if she is playing hard to get i don't have time to waste on women that play stupid games and disrespect my time and I respect myself. i know that i am the prize here.

You are the one that's weak here for not realizing when a woman is just not interested in you and move on instead of wasting your time and resources away. Think about it would she reject Wizkid or Davido or even Portable ?

It is people like you that come online to wail when a woman take advantaged of you and used you. Why wouldn't they take advantage of men like you when you are just too desperate and don't understand what "No" is ? why wouldn't they disrespect you when you worship, give cheap attention, waste your time and chase them around like a dog on leash but in your delusional mind you think you are a gods player or seducer lol, you will hate yourself if you see what these women think of men like you, even if they later considered you it's because they ran out of options and they wouldn't really respect you or treat you well because they didn't really want you in the first place, you were the one chasing them around like a loyal dog.

Think about it would you really reject a beautiful woman that you are interested in and she asked you out?

Would any of these young women in Nigeria reject Wizkid, Davido or any celebrities that ask them for a date ? these women wouldn't even reject a guy with a good car.

Why wouldn't these women later act out and disrespect you when you just wouldn't take the word no, you must respect yourself first before people can respect you. You don't have any value if you think rejection is a challenge instead of moving on with your life, would wizkid or Davido, Asake waste time on a woman that reject them ? because if even a woman reject them they have thousands that will dig them.

FRANCISTOWN:
But the person he calls a friend has refused to help. Which means he is the one who considers the guy a friend, the guy never considered him a friend.

Obainoman6:
There's this girl in my neighborhood, she's very beautiful, yellow skinned and working class.
After very much hi and frequent discussions i told this girl that i really like her and want to boyfriend her and that's when she told me she's a baby mama to a soldier and she's not interested in any relationship for now.
But here's the thing, we connect very well even without words, we listen to the same kind of music, we both listen to radio and we watch the same kind of movies.
Before i even talk sef d girl don dey blush, she's a good girl and shy girl tho not like your typical Nigerian girl like...
I don't need anyone to tell me this girl likes me
But anytime i bring up anything like we being romantically or love stuffs like she gets off.
To be honest i can't even help pretending around her because i want us to be more than friends and i also don't want to be her love slave as well.

I feel like i should just give space or withdraw or even ignore, Please experienced nairalanders i need your honest opinions please.

PureFace1:
No matter how amicable a girl is toward you to the extent of thinking that she really like you romantically as long as she reject you then she's not really interested in you as you thought everything is just in your head.

Anything after a girl reject you is just a waste of time because there are several girls out there even better than her that will agree to your request immediately you ask, you just have to go and find them instead of wasting your time on someone that don't really give a fvck about you.

FRANCISTOWN:
The problem you have is an entitlement mentality. Only weak men have this mindset and if you're not careful, you may never rise above poverty because your mind will be plagued with bitterness , revenge and envy.

Know this today. No one owes you anything. Not your parents, not your friends or siblings. The only person what owes you is your employer. The moment you have an entitlement mentality, that's when you'll start noticing stingy people.

Your friend is rich doesn't make him automatically owe you financial assistance. He has the right to do whatsoever ever he wishes with his money.

By the way, you could be the one who considers him a friend. He could be seeing you as a burden and a bother

BleedGraphix:
This is what we keep saying about stupid men. You just meet a girl, boom you have spent almost a million. This is the reason why we have so many promiscuous ladies in our generation. The ladies have been right on this. It's stupid men that destroyed our ladies.

And as for OP, please smnever accept that man's friendship even if he comes begging. He mocked you by lying that he gave the POS attendant money to send to you. He can kill. He has been having grudges towards you even before he met that lady.

TrustNone:
There's this my guy, we're so close and we share everything in common like eating together, going out to hustle together, gist and relate.
He's rich as he sells lands (real estate) and makes huge profits from it but he's uneducated and can neither read nor write, I usually help him and compose text messages for him and also chats for him on his Facebook account as he can't speak English correctly.

So there's this school I'm currently working, in the evenings when I go to workplace to drop my laptop (as home isn't safe due to recent robbery attacks in our neighborhood) he'll usually accompany me.

Recently he followed me and we strolled together, there's this corper working in our school, she came out and met me, we exchange pleasantries and gisted.

My friend said he likes her that I should help him talk to her, I obliged then smartly did the job but the lady seemed uninterested as he was not properly dressed and blowing wrong grammars with a very local accent.
But after the girl realized how rich he is and the assets he has she finally gave in.

So recently the Operating System in my laptop got expired, didn't have present money to fix and update it, gigs were coming in but no money to repair the laptop. I asked my guy to lend me 5k when I receive salary I'll pay back but he told me he doesn't have but he'll try and help, he requested for my account and gave him, he lied to me he sent it to the POS girl in my area that she'll give me, but till date I couldn't see any alert.
I approached the girl and she told me he's lying he didn't give her any money. He later told me he was lying but there's no money as he's broke. I moved on. Mind you the girl accepted him and they're both dating.

Yesterday I saw the girl with a new Redmi Note 12, I complimented her phone and congratulated her, she then told me it's my friend that got it for her yesterday and also told the her to move out of the school's premises (she was living in the school compound as accomodation was provided for corpers). The guy then rented a new self contain apartment (250k yearly) for her and she moved out and is staying in the new apartment.
The girl told me how he has stocked her house with foodstuffs and giving her upkeep weekly.
Funny enough the girl has a smartphone she was using and never requested for phone from him, he just willingly bought the phone for the girl. Price of the phone was around 140k.

I was sad and grieved how this guy could be so heartless to his fellow guy and close friend but extravagantly kind and so simpishly foolish to girls.
The girl sef couldn't even show gratitude for connecting her to a foolish maga.

On my way back from Church in the evening yesterday, I saw them together at an eatery with sumptuous meals on their table, the girl called me and I just waved at them and passed.
The guy doesn't call me again nor come around my place again as he used to.

I just learnt that if you're educated avoid walking or keeping company with uneducated people and those that aren't exposed, their mentality is annoying.

tiswell:
Sorry Paul,ya only crime is being a black

finallybusy:
It’s a learned habit. Why do men drink alcohol despite most of the beverages tasting bitter? The same situation.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Monogamy is man's invention and it is unnatural therefore allow people to explore different sexual partners

I can't imagine myself spending 20 years with the same woman banging the same toto year in year out

Live life, enjoy a variety of toto and be happy

icankel:
see this one, ur SIMPly telling me u don't understand women, if u start paying those bills u have started no going back. The day u don't do any of them is day u will become a bad person and she must start cheating on u and u can't do anything else she will dump ur ass to the next guy.

ABC101FF:
Your No 1. is so insensitive and a poor man's way of thinking. Pay fees for people when you can afford it, it has its own reward even when you don't get appreciation from the recipient.

PROPEACE:
Many of the people saying "I will pay her school fees" will abandon their siblings and even parents and be screaming "nobody owes you anything" (wicked man's favourite slogan) whilst paying the fees of a strange woman.

Daystar7:
Abeg name the Igbo's and under whose government? Yaradua or Jonathan or Buhari?

SoNature:
If not that APC members love politics more than their lives, these are the kinds of technocrats that should be made the power minister.

Na for APC government lawyer be power and aviation ministers. Those people don't care about development; they are just after the next election!

Tranquility2345:
Anybody wey believe say that Omah lay nonsense was not staged deserves to be flogged walahi. Lazy youths of these days are just so fukking dull, they can’t just use their brains. God help una for this life

Righteousness2:
People should be mindful of what they do.
The devil is out to snatch souls to hell through every available means.

Standing with ISRAEL not Political. It is BIBLICAL.
Standing with ISRAEL is standing with GOD ALMIGHTY.
It does not matter who says what or who makes noise here and there.

ISRAEL is GOD signet on the Face of the Earth.
Fighthing against ISRAEL is Fighting against GOD. You will end up killing yourself.

May you not depart for a devilish cause.

God1000:
Very sad, may his soul rest in peace and may God forgive his sins.

He died a hero no matter what anyone says about him and he died fighting for the freedom of Palestinians.

He sent a powerful message to Israel and his country USA.

I'm not surprised that some nigerians in their usual characteristic manners are making sadistic comments insulting him, may God have mercy on you people.

Xenry:
How do you react to people who snub you via chat and in real life, especially unexpectedly?
For me, I not only snub back, but pretend as if the person doesn't exist anymore. If it's via chat, I'll delete them.
What about you?