₦airaland Forum

Sandralight:
Yes let's blame the victim instead of the evil man.
As usual women are the ones at fault

Keep on blaming the predators, and leave the victims entirely, wen it's preys that are going to the graves.

ivandrag0n:
You have time to waste sha! How can you be responding to a CHILD OF HATE from the SadEast Region of perdition? You should know by now that envy, jealousy and anger are deep within their souls.

Don’t bother with them. Ignore them. Dem Go wail die las las!!!

Before and during election, they put all their eggs in one basket, even after election they still attacking most powerful man that can appoint and remove, yet they want that same man to start loading them in his govt.

Saao:
I'm not impress with his CV at all for that position especially when we have better people than him, anyway the appointing authority knows better.

Mention better people.

Tozocalamity:
When igbo do their own nw una go say igbo are bad but u guys dont see anything wrong with apointing only ur tribesmen into juicy gorverment positions exclusively to run the country and divide the spoil among themselves. others are now spectators.. Ok na. Shithole country

I think, north central and south south should complain oooo

Yugoslavia247:
The things that led to Biafra war was this.

Now they are taking us back to 1950 and 60s

Appointment based on tribesmen.

Which kain country be this.

Now the country will be more divided.

Power has become north for north
West for west

The middle belt, south south the ones wey no get voice. Dem follow us come count bridge.

A leader and drug lord are parallel lines.

Let Biafra start again, who knows if their population will reduce small.


The Biafra that is removed,I don't think you read extent he wrecked naija.


IN AS MUCH I DON'T LIKE LOPSIDEDNESS APPOINTMENTS (that's not how to govern in multiethnic nation) ITS NOT IN THE MOUTH OF BIAFRA WE HEAR IT.

The way teenagers want to become overnight billionaires is frightening.

bnovative:
The father is very literate and enlightened.
There are three types of marriage as recognized by the marriage acts.
1. Customary (traditional) marriage
2. Registry (statutory) marriage
3. Sharia marriage.
Most wedding/marriages celebrated in most churches are not recognise by law, except such place of worship are license to act as registry.
And most Pentecostal churches don't have the license in this regard.
This is the reason some Pentecostal churches will insist, for one to celebrate one's marriage in church, one must go to have a court/registry marriage.
It's the only marriage that is monogamous.
Once anyone fulfilled his traditional marriage, he is married.

The man is enlightened? Even though he has conducted valid marriage for her daughter, yet he went ahead to do the second marriage in the church, meanwhile,having reached thr, he still wants to dictate for church what to do.

That ur man, if he goes to hospital or school, he would be the one to tell them what to do.

If he knows he is the one to do Marriage for her daughter and not church why going to church for same marriage he has done?

You people will never think rationally for once.

Go and learn different between Marriage and wedding. I give u as assignment.

Wen u know it u will know who is doing wedding and marriage for daughter

mrksquare:
Under the Marriage Act in Nigeria, there are two types of marriages that are recognized by the law of the land: The customary and statutory marriage. And the statutory marriage isn't superior to the customary marriage.

So it isn't only the government that can join two people as husband and wife.

Besides, the customary law is even more potent that the statutory wedding.

In my place of Okrika, our highest customary marriage is called 'iya'. This marriage entails tying of traditional mat and also the indissolubility of the union.

The iya marriage doesn't recognize divource. After this rite, if the woman choices to divource her husband, when she dies she would be buried in her husband's place. If she goes out to have kids for another man, those kids are assumed to be the property of her husband. The iya marriage doesn't recognize divource of any kind.

That ur statutory , take it to embassy wen u re going abroad.

That ur statutory take it to court if u have issue in wedding.

Any marriage outside, registry/church or mosque is invalid.

lexy2014:
Read his post again. He clearly answered your question

I will advise you to read and this time read to understand, purge urself from sentiment.

Dancebreaker:
Nope. This is the problem, Always talk of money. I mean our traditional palaces as custodians of our culture (marriage/bride price are part of it)
Should be enough to witness it. So long they have synchronised with modern realities of govt. Simple.

Why would palace be the one to validate marriage? Is palace not under govt.

Do u people even remember, marriage may still bring problem and wen problem arises, u re bringing it to govt?

How will govt solve it, if they are not witnessed it from very beginning.

..... meanwhile, for palace to witness ur Marriage, nobody stop you ok. You are at liberty to invite whoever you want , be it palace or even ifa priest.

Sageez:
I am sorry I disagree with you. The man is not a fool, infact, he is right. I am a Christian. The church doesn't have the right to pronounce them man and wife, what they do is marriage blessing.

The person who has the right to do so is the bride's father. He is the one to hand over his daughter to the man and pronounce them man and wife I.e after he must have completed the traditional rights. Please be careful how you use the word 'fool'

Thanks

Oga, who is right to pronounce them husband and wife?


NB. For u to be christian doesn't make u knowledgeable enough to know right from left ooo

Dancebreaker:
This is where our leaders have failed woefully. Ideally, the local Oba/Igwe/Emir/duke's palace recognised by the Local Govt and Chieftaincy affairs Ministry of bride's paternal homestead/place of marriage should play a big role. A palace official approved by the ministry ought to witness traditional marriages and issue a recognised/valid Customary Marriage Certificate. This can then be forward to govt marriage registry.

So that one can decades later obtain a copy from marriage registry, say kids or grandkids, in the future.

We don't seem to be truly proud of our African heritage or take it to the next level. Eating oha or Ewedu soup, or wearing agbada or Ishiagwu is not how to be African. Anyone can eat any food or wear any clothes but not promote that culture.

But by looking at a core part of culture and make it modern to endure into the future. Traditional marriage/bride price is part of it.

And who told you that you can do registry wedding in ur daddy compound? So far you have money to do it.

If u give registry people good money they will come and validate ur wedding in ur daddy compound. Again we must learn how to obey simple rule.
Do engagement in daddy compound and proceed to registry/church/mosque for validation not yet reduce us as african

That father is a foolish plus stark illiterate.

Why taking daughter to church since you don't ready to abide by simple rule of govt, government do Marriage (not even church).

It's govt that can declare two persons married, not even church, and at that particular time church marriage, govt has ceded such power to church.

Even if not, why did he want to ruin the day of his joy because of irrelevant issue.

Boondocxs:
Against woman again Men are just cruel

Women are too convetous. 2/3 of ritual killings that involving women would have been avoided if they choose not to fall for the baits of convetousness set by men.

Women should be extremely careful with guys they are dating and following.


Showering gifts and money are not wholly sign of being good and nice man

75% of young guys ready to go into ritual these days.

Sign of glory taken from devil.

You will see it but won't enjoy it

Stop misleading obedient, with this , you have pressed their remote bottom, they will go gaga and start attacking and bitting everyone that doesn't align with their indoctrination as usual.

orohbiro:
Halaand deserve both the balloon do or and this award. How can
You win Golden booth at EpL
Win Golden booth at Uefa champions league
Win EPL,corabo and Fa cup, win Super cup, about to win world club cup and not win Balloon do or?
How can u decide balloon do or with a 3 weeks tournament? Crazy this clear rubbery

I can see ur frustration because ur godfather has as already be relegated.

Meanwhile, check goals, assists and stats of the two players.

You talk about trophies one won but neglected the one the other won.

GOAT won trophies from 3 different teams while the other won from one team .

Two of 3 teams that GOAT won trophies with are average and low level teams, (Goat almost singlehandedly won it for the clubs), while the other won it with best assembled team in the world.


And lastly, if u re old enough in 2010 ,I will refer you to that year, coincidentally a world cup year.

Ask what happened between Sneldier and GOAT.

Lastmankc:
That guy just finished you.You don't have reasonable argument to back on

Do urself favour and see the person ur obedient alike is arguing it.

Soyinka said it all, majority of you are mad dogs, you just barking whenever they press botton of ur remote.

maestroferddi:
People who hold this kind of reasoning are very dumb.

It is like an A student who was cruelly failed by an evil lecturer...

When he made a complaint someone started reminding him not to complain since he has had an A in another subject.

So if you take someone to court and he wins the case, it should be that next time your madness drives to take him to court, it will be your to win despite the hopelessness of your argument?

Which kind of senselessness is this?

The way you guys blamed JAMB cruelty in Mmesoma case


Even wen u know student (Obi) capacity not enough to award him credit in the subject, you will still blame lecturer ( Judiciary) for being cruel.

The truth is that the judges , tribunal and appeal (assembly,rep, senator, gov and presidential) interpreted the the constitution the way they deemed it fit, to favor the persond they want to win.

That's why whole lots of discrepancies in their judgements.

The way teenagers involve in charm and ritual these days is frightening


As near as late 90s, his age would even be scaring of hearing babalawo name alone. Now 15,16 ,17 looking for most powerful babalawo up and down.

HIS DEATH HIGHLY SUSPICIOUS THAT HE WAS INTO OCCULTIC WORLD ........

Several years ago wen I was in SS 1, me and my Friend went to visit my girl,. (she hasn't even accepted to date me) I sneeked out around 8pm, for a distance that's up to 4km o, wen we got thr, her parents were with her outside the compound around 9pm, me and my friends were just whispering and wandering at the back of the house. After about 30mins of wandering cum merry-go-round her house, we left without even have a single talk with her, this is girl I risked by sneeking out.

I was disappointed not being able to talk to her ,and same time sad for what I would meet if I reach home........ luckily for me, I escaped cane from dad that day.

Think9ja:
So for your America, autopsy report go de ready less than 20 hours after him don die abi?. Because as at 6pm yesterday, this news never break.

I'm very sure by this time yesterday he was still alive

Make una de get small sense now Haba

I know say most of una na under 30 but E no mean say una no go get sense. And btw, you don go America before? Abi na the normal lies for film?

Rubbish!

Abi ooo, someone would just die on his own, without being reported to police that they suspect foul play, America govt would rush gragra to hijack his corpse and starts autopsy.


Many of their comments don't need to be replied tho.

Basicend:
But the minister has already cornered the young student na. . Na intimidation be dat. . She doesn't have a choice now than to say what the minister insists. .

Well, let the truth prevail. .

During Nnesoma with Jamb u said more than this until truth prevailed, ....in as mush I dnt in any way support nonsense from lecturers, students cause more of nonsense perpetrated in the university.

Oga, as at now, the students have not for once come out with a single smallest evident to nail the man.

It's only evil idiot like you that craxy by social media emotions to nail whoever girls come out to allergy without doing thorough findings to know the truth.

Go and read about great footballers in recent past that they accused of rape.

How I lecturers can stand tall in face of sexual appeal and bribes from students.

If they do that, 2/3 of students won't graduate.

StUriah:
They are Seriki Sugomu!

Their mumu never do!

So, next time learn how to comment without prejudice on gender, ..... people stupid not bcs of husband or wife (gender) but emotional intelligences

Pukkalolo:
Quick Warning:

To be crystal clear: I have no responsibility for how you choose to use this knowledge you are about to read now.

Let's begin....

Years ago, I was curious to test out how women would respond to me being a nice guy vs me in a total asshole.

I took out my phone and message 6 random girls online.

I sent the first 3 girls the regular nice guy message.

I sent the first one, "Hi dear, good afternoon."

I sent second one, "Hello, sweetheart. How is your day going?"

I sent the third, "You look beautiful dear... Can I know you more?"

To be honest, I felt like throwing up while typing those nice guy messages.

Then I switch to being a total asshole with another set of three girls.

I sent the first one, "Go to hell...Bitch"

I sent the other one, "I still can’t believe you later bleeped that guy... Smh."

I sent the third, "so you also tattooed you vagina... It's a shame"


Don't be surprised by the results!

As expected, I got no reply from the girls I sent the NICE GUY messages. They all view the message but didn't reply or engage me.

What about the girls I sent the asshole messages Fellas, believe me when I say all 3 of them responded to the messages I sent them.

I was not surprised tho, I expected them to respond.

This makes you realize how superficial many of these ladies are; they’d rather respond to negative feedback than positive ones. It also goes to show why the nice good guys finish last but the so called "assholes" like myself always get the girl.

Now, you might be wondering...how did those 3 girls respond to the ASSHOLE message I sent to them.

They all seem surprised and confused by the message; their response was:

"Sorry, who is this?"

"Please, Do you know me?"

"I don't understand. What do you mean by that?"


I simply told them the message was meant for another lady who have a similar name, and then I quickly change topic... Guess what? I'm still talking and vibing with these 3 ladies up to this very day.

But the ladies I sent the nice guy message still haven't even reply my nice guy message up to this day.

Lolz... Funny, right

Like I said, this a sad prove as to why the nice guys who might probably have good intentions never get the girl...but the "assholes", jerks and badboys always get the girl.

Please, hold on....

For goodness sake, I'm not telling you to go send any girl those kinds of asshole messages... Please don't even try that.

I'm only educating you on the sad reality of many girls.

You are big fool with your analogy, you tested them by emotional "blackmailing" and not being nice or whatever.

If 2 persons simuteneously, one curses ur mother and the second just say good morning sir.

Will you reply good morning sir and leave the person that ccurses ur mother? (Even with respectful word "sir)
Does that mean you cherish the abuser?

Which one would you respond to immediately?


Not until you guys know that hundreds of guys swarming on girls social media (fb, whatsapp,IG etc) and disturbing them hourly.

How may of nice guys will they relate with and date? If they date them, the same coconut head like you would still come online to bad-mouth her.

StUriah:
Nowadays, Women are more closer to thier pastors than their husbands & God because they are, by nature, very SECRETIVE.

The reason why they OPEN EVERYTHING to Men of Gosh is that they can confide in them.

But, I wonder how they feel when the Pastors they sleep with talk about sins, living a holy life, and eternity.

Women don't know God (that is a fact); and majority of women will not meet heaven.

What about men who knows pastor sleeping with anything in skirts that still attending the church?

What about men that know that pastor is an angel in church but devil at home ,yet still listening to his sermon on weekly services

won't be surprised that his church will still be increased in numbers after catching him red-handed and total humiliation.

Gaulible followers everywhere,. ......they become slowpoke immediately the pastors/iman say that, God say this or say that. Yet they not fear the God they biliv pastor is hearing from.

Sharpsharp00123:
Oga pigs can eat anything

Any fruit, even banana n pawpaw leaves n co

Those days I worked in d farm as a manager they can eat anything, there’s nothing expensive about pigs

I could remember we buy a orange tree n pay village boys to help us harvest d fruits both ripe n unripe, same with pawpaw n others

Agric pigs will also eat anything like local breed, the way rottweiler eats anything like local dogs Abi?

I pity who knows pity you, yet youths should take over government in Naija .

mariahAngel:
I like how clean they are.
I wouldn't mind eating these, but what I don't get is why pork meat are quite expensive, when they're not chicken. 🙄
I mean, they should be the cheap alternative.

Its expensive because ,to feed it to maturity is very expensive .

Ditto everything produce in this nation, cost of production making all the prices of goods and services skyrocketed