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If the girl happened to be boy, won't she think outside "friend with benefits" mentality?

After the guy might have sexx her a couple of times, and now tired of her Vj, would he continuous giving her money?

If he stops given her money then, is she not coming back to square one?.

If she is collecting money from a questionable character,and the the girl latter got into bigger trouble, what would now be her faith? (Remember Chidima & TV CEO saga)

Man must be able to differentiate and acknowledged there is physical and as well spiritual problems


If you are a type who doesn't biliv thr spiritual problems you are a walking corpse.

And if you are the type who biliv every problem is spiritual you are not different from mad man.


Now, back to OP, in as much I blame ur neighbor more, I wouldn't totally blame him, perhaps, he might have seen you repairing ur Keke incessantly and bilivd, it might have defied all mechanical ways of solving it, hence asking u to go spiritual.

BUT AFRICANS MUST LEARN HOW TO SOLVE THEIR PROBLEMS OUTSIDE SPIRITUAL FIRST.

contigiency:
Honestly speaking, coaches who coach Real Madrid, Man city, Bayern and few others are not supposed to be counted as best coaches. If you want us to know your capability, come and coach Wolves and the likes. Use such teams and win leagues then we will sit down and talk.

I will advise you to use chainsaw to clear bush.


Several coaches have been in clubs that u mentioned above in which they performed poorly.

For u to be in top club, not guarantee you to win trophies.

It requires good players + a good coach who "have various tactical know how" to defeat opponents and win trophies.


Man u and Chelsea are top clubs, billions of dollars have been spent on them, ,yet they are middle-table teams. Don't they have coaches.

IfnobeGod20:
Now, if my definition is not correct. What causes exponential hike in the price of refined oil that made government subsidising it?
If the crude oil is refined locally, are we not going to be removing the cost of lifting the crude oil and the landing cost and this will substantially reduced the burden on government. Let me give this analogy below:
Let us even say the lifting cost and landing cost is ₦100.
If the sales benchmark is ₦700. Removing the lifting cost and the landing cost, we have ₦600.
Now if the government subsidise ₦100. Meaning the citizen will be buying the fuel at ₦500.
Note no consideration on the sharp practice within the chain of production, lifting and landing, which I know as Nigerian, they would surely add their own. There is no way there won't be price difference, if the crude oil is refined locally and this will help but the government and the citizens.

First of all, admit u don't understand the word subsidy.

2. Did u know the meaning of SUBSTANTIALLY?

"If just 💯 removed", is not substantially, again is not what they called subsidy removal.

IfnobeGod20:
I hope you will agree with me that what we call subsidy is the cost of export of the crude oil and the landing cost of the refined oil?
If the above is true. Then, what stops the government from revamping the dying refineries and make them work optimally. I think that will naturally take away the export cost and the landing cost. We are just chasing shadows, thinking we are doing the right thing. Every successive governments refused to revamped the refineries and make them functional. The question is, why do they find it difficult to revamp the refineries but instead take pleasure to go and refine the crude oil outside. No matter how, there will be little gap in price of the refined oil refined locally. The idea that there will be no difference is a big lie from the pit of hell. Even if the sales benchmark is ₦500 and the production cost is ₦350. There would be a gain of say ₦150 for the country.

Meanwhile, that Atiku, Tinubu and Obi says they would remove subsidy, that doesn't mean all of them would follow same pattern to remove it. Aside from Obi, he was the only one that explained what he will do immediately he removed it. He said, he will fight the corruption in the oil industry, empower modular refineries and revamp the existing refineries while the rest just say they would remove and never explain what they would do after removing it.

Ur definition of subsidy is wrong .

Subsidy = Actual cost - Amount sold it for citizens.

nairalanda1:
That is the problem with the article.

Mr Kperoogi, like most Nigerians believes that subsides are essential for our economic growth. Well, we tried subsides for over 40 years, and our economy has not grown as it should. Unless he wants to suddenly label all our past NIgerian leaders, the ones he blasted inclusive, as good leaders.

The problem with the subsidy wasn't even the corruption. It was the fact that we were running out of money to maintain fuel below N200 , talkless of below N100 even. It was getting to a point where our debt servicing was above 90% of our revenue.

But people like Kperoogi, and most Nigerians, including here on this site, are in denial. They want subsidy to be kept, and all they believe is that if we eliminate corruption, it would be ok.

Well, it won't. SO long as fuel consumption, production cost, increase, it means that government would be spending more and more and more money on subsides. TO the point that our debt would eat all our earnings, and grow larger than our earnings. Then the economy collapses.

That is why over the years, there have been partial removal of subsides, including by this admin. The problem is, the whole subsidy thing has discouraged domestic refining. And now we are about to have a domestic refinery...and subsidy has not yet been removed.

NIger, GHana, and many African countries have working refineries and no subsidies.

THe thing is, subsidy has to go. The annoying thing is that supporting subsidy removal means in the mind of Kperogi and most NIgerians that you are a supporter of the corn, or a tinubu supporter. Pardon. I no dey support APC. Or any other big party. But when I hear that our debt was , until this latest partial removal, eating over 90% of our revenue, what else should I support? Subsidies remaining, and a disaster happening? Or a total removal, and at least some hope we survive long enough for some sort of diversification to kick in (I don't trust that this government is even serious about it self).

Supporting subsidy removal does not mean you support tinubu, IMF, OBi, atiku, gej, buhari, obasanjo, IBB, et. It means you support NIgeria not being like Sri Lanka down the road, where we have no money, and are at the mercy of IMF . INfact, we are already there.

Venezuela has subsidsed fuel for over 60 years. See where they are. Dead broke.

........and who told u subsidy has gone on petrol? How much is diesel and kerosene compare it petrol.

You only succeeded in writing long epistle but full of fallacy.


With the policies that Tinubu embarked upon, the economy will destroy without redemption during his reign.

ncoolsome:
Hospitals don't take dollars as means of exchange they charge in dollars and take naira equivalent...Nigeria is a consuming country which is inport dependent even dangote still sources for dollar to import crude when we thought he wld help stabilize the market...

How many hospitals do u know?

Oga do ur research very well, some hospitals, schools, hotels, airlines etc take dollar instead of naira in business they do within Nigeria territory.

I think they should work on how people are transacting in dollars, Nigeria currency is Naira, still not understand why so many businesses are being done in dollars, even some hospitals take dollars as their means of exchange.

If CBN wants to monitoring the banks in Lagos now, THEY WOULD SIT DOWN IN ABUJA AND USE ZOOM OR OTHER TECHNOLOGY TO MONITOR THEM, according to Ndume submission......



Bigots would say anything to defend his foolish bigotry.

Shigireturn:
not all mad men roam the street. This is why everyone must be very careful with the next person to you cos you never know if the person just come back from psychiatry hospital

You are giving him what he wants.

By mentioning his post, he makes him feel like superhero .

The way to deal with this type of hysteria personality is to ignore them totally.

Sex is like imaginary fulfilment, the more you crave for it within you, the more your body would be seeking to make it comes to reality.

The less you give room for it in ur heart, the the less you crave for it physically.

Anything you train ur body to master, it would definitely adjust itself automatically.


Go and ask men that sleeping with their daughters, they started by not seeing anything wrong in sleeping with 2 close friends, then, 2 or more sisters , later daughter and mother, it would graduate to wife's siblings.

....... before you know, they start sleeping with daughter.

JasonScoolari:
The biggest pen robber in Tinubu's government...


He is a very deadly fellow, just like a rat that would eat your skin and blow you breeze to cushion the pain.... That's what Femi is doing with Bulaba. (Forget Dirty Loyalty)

Remi Tinubu has been his saving grace, but the day Tinubu will take overdose of his favorite, that would be a bad day for Gbaja.


For now, let him play the saint.

It seems Tinubu has started cutting him to size

Now Ndume is trying hard to say good things about Tinubu policy. Having opposed & attacked him on his previous policies and got backlash, even by prominent people from the north.

GreatAchiever1:
It's funny how even till now, people see Buhari as a hero and GEJ as a villain. Nigerians as a whole gave me a reason not to take interest in anything politics.

I biliv u re one of multitude who see Buhari as hero.


Oga, the fact remains that our economy started plummet from time of oga Jonah, the clueless and got worse during the time of oga bubu the lifeless .


The last time naija managed, at least by 60% effectively was during OBJ time.

Because you didn't fight ur fight like a wise man, moreso, its too soon to make it publicly.


A wise man would have waited for supreme court first.

Next, find ways to get majority of law makers to his side ( if you alone cannot win them to ur side, you should have sent very powerful emissaries and major stake holders within and outside the state to each of them separately to woo them with backing of huge amount of money and other goodies goodies)


Now, it's extremely difficult to get them to ur side since the fighting is already in the market Square.

You will fight for ur entire 4 years on the throne, provided you won't be thrown out before that time.

Gadafii:
a man who depends on Govt to marry for him is a weak man

A man who always criticising good things is what? A SATANIST.


if you don't criticise for just an hour , your BP would rise beyond normal level.


It seems by attacking helping you to regularise ur HPB

Radiant01:
Godfather meeting son.....hummmm
I told people then that this guy is working for tinubu in Atiku camp...

Rule no 14
Pose as a Friend, Work as a Spy
Pretend to be friends with someone to get close to them and learn their secrets. Then use that information against them.

He wasn't working for Tinubu then, but since he has noticed that, it's end of the road for Atiku, that's why he is running around to become errand boy of Tinubu now.

These type of people always pitch ther tent where they know free government money would be following continuously.

yommen:
OND II student is more focused on relationship than education.

Since daughter of man already knows she can only make it in life by attaching herself on man who she thinks he himself would make it in life.

immortalcrown:
God does not abandon what he started. He didn't abandon Israelites. He may delay the progression but does not reverse the movement. He delayed Israelites on the way but didn't take them back to Egypt.

Wen are you going to blame God for Satan that went astray?

Foolish people that crazy and masturbate for ordnary mention and likes.

Testiebobo:
I dont know if i'm alone on this observation, have you ever noticed that your girlfriend is always wearing english wears and have never approach native wears before? Because, i noticed mine has never put on a native dress before! Or are they doubting the beauty of culture?cuz english is not our own

Is it general public you will ask for her reason for not wearing ur cultural dress or ur girlfriend?

.....ok ooo, I'm expecting when you will go to market to ask people that she is not allowing you to put it into it from front oooooo.


Bunch of social media urchins,rats and cockroaches.

Meanwhile, if they start giving them roles, they would start making government ungovernable for their principals.


Naija people with their passion for power is second to none.


Everyone wants to become leader.

If everyone is a leader,who will be followers?

Okoroawusa:
Wonders shall never end...see Hakeem Baba-Ahmed representing the Tinubu government in an occasion.

In 2022 and early 2023 if you were told by a prophet that this will happen you would have stoned the prophet.

As far as Nigeria is concerned, I'm not surprised, everyone you see attacking govt on media or at gatherings, are doing it purposely for personal cum regional gains and not because of generality of Nigeria.

Today, Obi is shouting up and down not because of generality of Naija per say, but for Igbo to taste goodies goodies of highest office.

Daniel Bwala said rubbish more than Baba Ahmed, but today, he himself is prostrating on national TV if he can see part of national soup lick.

Exceed15:
You hardly see a female child do this to her parent. Always pray for a child that will give you peace. A child sex is not important

Go to getho side, you will see thousand of female children doing more than this to their parents

This one would soon rape his mother.

Anyway, is good for any parent surporting thr children for doing evil.

We4all:
I used to think this Simi was a church girl. Lately, she has been trying so hard to sound woke.

Co-habiting doesn't guarantee a good marriage. The most important thing is to be highly observant which can make you easily know the type of person your partner is.

For your marriage to last, ask yourself what you cannot stand in a partner. Can you stand a dirty, talkative or disrespectful partner? These are traits that are easily identifiable without having to live with someone.

People are having marital problems because they tend to overlook the bad habits of their partners before marriage hoping they will change or they can manage when they eventually get married. But it gets to that point where they can no longer cope and problems start to set in.

Abi oo, cos she stayed with Adekunle and was successful in her first attempt, let say she stays in succession with, like 9 guys and not be able to marry any of them, her senses would come back to normal.

Meanwhile, what about good man/woman turn bad? Thre are some type of people that are good before but after some time, they go bad, can co-habitation makes you know that one too?

Wen people talk, they won't check the other side of it to weigh the disadvantage of it.

How many people you will co-habitate with before you finally get ur husband oo? Maybe after 7 pre-husbands houses.

When you have co-habitated with like 7-9 guys before you finally packed in to ur final husband house, how you as a woman feels about urself? What about the final husband? how will him feel too?


For you to co-habitate with partners before marriage, does that make you know everything about her? Is Adekunle not showing new behavior in which Simi never aware after like 3 years of their co-habitation? Does she run away because of that?

I doubt if women even take cognizant of body count again.

INSTEAD FOR HER TO PREACH MORE ABOUT, FORGIVIN SPRIT IN MARRIAGE AND ABILITY TO BE ABLE TO REACH COMPROMISE.

if couples not learn how to be reaching compromise, no man/woman that the person would be able to leave it.

Go and check behavior patterns of "marriage not for everyone crew" . They usually lack COMPROMISE attitude which is integra part of marriage success.

The 50 arrested alive are supposed to lead the troops to communities they came from and make sure they arrest others that are involving in all these heinous acts, after that, the 50 together with others remaining should be executed without trial, . because, court will still release them, and if they dnt, their friends would still be mobiled and set them free in prison.

princepeter566:
Fubara shot himself ion the foot.
The masses were behind him but he greedily accepted tinubu useless offer

What would masses do oga? To shout and quickly rush inside when they hear just one tear gas abi?

You guys would just be talking the way words coming to ur mouth without sieving them with ur brains.

Is it not the same masses that are being controlling by moneybags?
Did masses were supposed to vote for any candidates presented by godfathers in the first instance?

Where were masses when they left candidates like, Magnus Abe, Tonye Cole etc before they voted massively for all candidates choose by Wike? Including Tinubu.

Don't they vote blindly for Wike candidates?

If you don't address the issue critically now, my friend, he would come back to hunt you.

Man must marry a woman who is ready to loyal with him not because Money and other benefits comming from her man, she too must be ready to reciprocate the same gesture.


My then girlfriend, who is now my wife, voluntarily gave me all passwords she has, (ATM, phone, Facebook etc).
Meanwhile, that doesn't make me to abandon my responsibilities at home for her or turn me to hunter watching over her social media o

I wish teenagers, most especially girls can learn from this story, often time, recklessly past usually destroy the future, ........but trust girls, it's me that I own my body, I'm free to use it to my fullest enjoyment


A teenager girl should ask herself why her opening cover by hyme?

I think God Almighty doing it for a purpose oo.

Only God that supreme for life

elasticlala:
Rape is not not good but I still don't understand why arrested bandits could be forgiven and a rapist is sentenced to life imprisonment in the same country... something is wrong somewhere

So, they should now be forgiven every sin that everyone committed?

If it's so, can u imagine how society would be? Jungle? Dungeon? Hell?

Pls think properly before you write plsssssssss.