₦airaland Forum

elasticlala:
Rape is not not good but I still don't understand why arrested bandits could be forgiven and a rapist is sentenced to life imprisonment in the same country... something is wrong somewhere

So, they should now be forgiven every sin that everyone committed?

If it's so, can u imagine how society would be? Jungle? Dungeon? Hell?

Pls think properly before you write plsssssssss.

marlow1962:
You're a foolish man (no offense), sometimes I wonder why men turn pussies after marriage.your wife send another woman to test your loyalty and still quarrel with you that why did you say only introduction, what a shame bro.
Guy if I were you( of course I can't be like you), that said wife go chill for her parents house for like 2-3years and that her counterpart, I will fk her (seriously that's what I will do). You people don't teach stupid women lessons, that's why the women makes you men look stupid. You dy test me, me wer put you for house cun still they pay your bills, rubbish.
Topics likes this are very funny and annoying.

Yet u think u re a man, the person that takes responsibility of household?

Anyone that marries you, marries slavemaster.

A strange girl would just called u from nowhere and you start fucking her mercilessly?
Is that how u re thirsty for vj? What a cheap he-goat!

Odingo1:
My Wife uses a girl to set me up to see if I will cheat on her. Note I am not cheating but my wife believes that all men are cheating and scum. I have done 4 test after each business trip as demand by her for peace to reign. She gave the girl my information and the girl told me that she know me and the places I have lived in Lagos and worked before, so I was surprised and demanded for a video call to see if I know the person. She ask me about my marriage and I said I did introduction. She said that she wants to come and see me in a private place. I said no that I don’t meet with strangers although she knows alot about me including we’re I have worked and lived but I couldn’t recognize her as someone I know before on video call. I didn’t chat the girl again although she keep on sending me greeting and asking me why did I forget her in a hurry. I didn’t reply again because is strange to me that someone knows a lot about my past but I couldn’t recognize that person.

After like 3 weeks my wife ask me why did I tell a girl that I did only introduction and not marriage. I told her that I said so to see we’re the girl is heading to. I told her that I have forgotten the issue. She said that she is the one that sent girl to tempt me and give her feedback. She started quarreling with me that although that I didn’t fall for it but I said I did introduction.

What I’m going to do in this situation, is it not betrayal

It's only a foolish and cheap he-goats that would fall for this type of cheap bait.

A strange person that u never see called you and you started melting for her, if not, why don't you tell her straight that she should stop calling or chatting with you.


If the girl know how to lure men, you would have fell yakata for her, u re afraid because she just called from nowhere and telling you several things about u,

Imotman:
Hello.

I'm 35 and right now I'm a little bit lost on choosing a potential life partner.. I went through a slight delay career-wise, but God came through and things picked up within the past 1 year. I met a lady also during this time and we've been dating. We both love each other with the mindset of getting married soon.. I was looking forward to tell my mom who I hadn't seen in almost a year about her.

The twist now is my aunt (a very close confidant) whom I told before anyone is trying to pitch me to another lady abroad. (I don't know how she looks or who she is as I write)...

My mum is also tilting in that direction and urging me to consider the other lady abroad, based on my aunt's positive recommendation.

My family absolutely mean well for me. Right now I'm a bit lost on the whole situation as my main goal for the new year is to get married and relocate abroad.

I'm concerned if I'll be able to get on well with this 'other' lady in question or should I just insist on settling with the current person I'm seeing.. this is the real dilemma.

So, it's general public that will choose the best lady for u at 35?
Little wonder why MARRIAGES not lasting in recent time, couple hardly married for love again but personal benefits that would come out of it.

Meanwhile, I think you guys saying it's ladies that normally married for financial security and other gains, when Naija guys turn to woman's ATM?

Jacksonk222:
Once you place your value in money as a lady,
There are men who are willing to pay to mess you up.
Be guided!

You must learn to accept your man's financial capacity,
else you will end up sleeping with every man that has money 👌👌

Having a female as a best friend is like having a chicken as a pet,
You will definitely eat it one day.🤣

Cheating is old fashion, the new style is to settle down with one partner, get close to God and make money together.

Is it only lady that marries out of pity?

Anyone marries out of 3 ingredients that can make Marriage work and blissful would surely going to regret it last last.

Love
Income
Understanding.


Beauty, Handsome, Famous, Wealthy, Elite etc can not guaranteed marriage to work, if the 3 above listed ingredients are substantially lacking.

Negative minded would still condernm the ranking, if they rank it worst,they would condernm, now that it's ranked good, they would still wail.

Can you explain to us why gov declared 24hrs curfew and still gunmen came to massacre score of people.

Under normal circumstances the security forces sent to impose curfew need to be sanctioned.

They should dealt with accordingly, even demolition that state gov carried, in a saner society he won't go unpunished.

Why would you destroy govt properties, built by taxpayers money because of political differences with ur godfather?

You find other means to deal with ur political enemy/rivals and not to be destroying govt properties/economy.

Thisisvenuz:
I met this lady early last year and we fell in love we were Soo close and she was like the type of woman I wanted at that time so instead of playing with our future I proposed to her and she accepted then we started planning marriage. Then I noticed after the proposal this lady started being to demanding she wants this she wants that which I try my best and provide but when I don't this lady will call me names this and that the wrist chain this lady wears alone is about 150k but she always tells me I did nothing so I decided to end it all yesterday. Did I took the right decision?

Many of you normally do what you know ur capacity won't carry going forward,wen u are about to toast women or just start the relationship newly, woman is like baby, the more you over pampered a kid the problematic is for you going forward.

I will advise you to look for other lady and start afresh, but now, with moderate spending you know ur capacity can endure for ur lifetime, for ur ex fiancee, you already started what you couldn't finish with her and she already enjoying it which she is not ready to stop with u again.

Celebrities usually have more problems in their marriages than others, not because of lack of money to make it blissful, but cos of fame and so much attentions that fame bringing.

A famous young guy/lady who is also rich, would be disturbing too much by people for sex and relationship, and if you dnt careful, you become "our" husband instead of "my" husband, same things goes to wife, meanwhile no partner would be able to endure it going forward, when the level of infidelity is becoming unbearable.

ObalendeCMS:
Your comment be like say you dey use style jealous the guy.

Women no dey reason all those tins so long she's getting steady orgasm.

Go and read the lady I commented on her comment before u start jumping to say rubbish.

From the post, its jealousy you point out thr.
In what way am l jealous? If u align my comment with "baby mama" situation they post on thread?

U guys think every man is a he-goat like you do with girl and woman you see.

CHoccolaTE:
I wish men would dedicate the same effort and time they use in criticizing women/females to calling out their fellow males bad behavior. Maybe then there will be less crimes and less corrupt leaders and less male violence in general.

Who would you blame in this scenario?

A lady of 26-28 in my area, now dating a guy who is jobless and came to scot with landlord son, who himself staying in her mother room.
the lady in question is a tenant in that house , and she open her eyes to sees and Knows how the boy normally stays indoors all days and smoke India hemp daily.

If the girl gets pregnant and born for the jobless, lazy and smoker now, what would be the faith of the girl?

Doesn't the girl know what might have befallen her before open her hole for the useless, lazy and jobless guy?
Won't the girl end up as baby mama if not single mom?

If she ends as baby mama/single mom would he blame men as usual?

NB: the guy has turned the girl room to his room, since the room free than his friend mum that originally came to scot with, whenever the girl go to work, he would sleep all day until she comes back.

As if lady not intended bringing themselves into baby mama situation

Fuadx1:
Then why not move the banks head offices to Abuja?

Is it govt that owns Zenith bank, GTB, UBA, first bank, etc?

The way you guys reason ehn?

Will govt relocate entity they don't own from one place to another?

Jogs1900:
You are seeing it as a political move ryt..Look at it, does it make sense to you sending Cbn staffs to Lagos for banking supervision for 2 months and lodge them in hotel and still pay them out of office allowance?Mind you, it's only banking supervision department they are moving to Lagos not the whole cbn.Dont forget that the banks they are supervising all have their head offices in Lagos

You don't need to reply that fool again, nothing u can tell him that he would agree, they are the type who always see things in a pessimistic way.

The foolish u reply and Ndume himself, can they be running their own company like that?

Since they don't see govt business as their own business, no matter how they waste money it's non of their business.

IamDora:
Yes! As a Nigerian Blogger, Note;

You should never have a business posting good and relevant news. Always make sure you're good and consistent at posting bad news or evil gossips about Celebrities, you'll thrive so much in it because that's what Nigerians Love to hear.

Good news don't excite them. Good luck

You said it all, when news of "mighty ones going down", naija ears would quickly open to hear about it. Even for them to cross examing to know the fact, they are not concerned about that.

No wonder Africa going backwards.

I know several people that leave in a room and from thr to their own house.

This room is even too beautiful in case of some people.


The most important is the character, today's income and his goals

Our president say ,thr was certain time he was security men, today he is leading Africa and black most populous nation.

Bible also corroborate it that, God doesn't despite a little beginner.

Ondo party primary is April, he needs to put his foot soldiers in various positions.

Russia will soon be surrounded completely by NATO members.

I think Tinubu will do work more than expected, most in area of tackling corruption.


Without tackling corruption properly, every other policies won't work.

To reverse the injustices ,I think doctrine of necessity is only solution now, cos thr is no constitutional provisions for them to be reabsorbed back to house.


All those judges sat on court of appeals that gave the injustices need to be sanctioned by NJC, fir them not to follow judicial precedent of court of appeals (Obi vs Tinubu about being meddlesome in other political affairs)

ProudNigerian01:
Thank God o.

May God protect his children in these evil times when men are so desperate to be wealthy without doing the right thing.

Matt.12.35 - A good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth good things, and an evil man out of the evil treasure brings forth evil things.

Matt.15.19 - For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, blasphemies.

Protect what goes on in your heart with all your might, it will keep you from doing the despicable.

Heaven helps those who help themselves sir.

May children of God learn how to flee from all form of worldliness. 2cor 6:14

May the sisters in the Lord know that brains hands & legs are the body parts that are needed to make money and earn incomes and not holes in between legs 1cor 6:18

When u urself talk too much

emkz:
This argument does not make sense.

They can as well move the Ministry to Kano as Kano is the home of commerce.

One thing the president must do is lobby these people to fully understand why certain decisions are necessary. They must learn not to interpret every move as an act of war.

Maybe it is time to discuss the vexed issue of restructuring. The north does not yet see Nigeria as one, but see themselves as the owners of Nigeria.

Even in the US, the headquarters of many federal agencies and regulators are not in Washington DC. It just doesn't make sense to centralize government powers in one location.

You think it's necessary to lobby? You think the man himself not knowing the move is the best for the country economically.

He is saying all these rubbish because of 2 things.
1. He wants his people to see him as tribal fighter, even if he is fighting wrongly.

2. He is less concerned if Nigeria as nation is wasting money, since the money is not coming out from his own pus.


The foolish man that is talking, if he has headquarters of a company in his home state in the north. Will he be spending money recklessly for transportation of staff from north to Lagos periodically, instead of moving section of those staff, which their job needed in Lagos down south?

Social media have made people to sit down at home and earn income, even if what they are saying are absolutely nonsense.

Walai:
That man too weak seriously. A governor of one of Nigeria's richest states for that matter. Fubara is constutionally 100% more powerful than Wike, he doesn't seem to realize the enormous powers he wields

Did u know what they say, my hands are tied?

I will advice you to study the exact meaning of that statement

OlujobaSamuel:
I don't think there is anything wrong with attending his or her wedding.
I attended my ex wedding as she was a friend before anything relationship, so when relationship ended, friendship remains.
She celebrates with me on my days of celebration, I do same for her.
I currently talk to her mum and siblings more than I even communicate with her. We don't do chit chat, just happy New Year, happy birthday, congrats on your baby, etc, and we have been good with it.
On the gift, I won't suggest you get any gift, your presence alone is enough gift, a gift might cause issues as they might still be seeing it as couples which might cause issues at a time of misunderstanding.

U guys would come online and defend an obvious foolish argument. The way u think myopically is painful to rational human beings.

What u are bragging u re doing now , if reverse is the case , would you accept 10% of it?

Use pin to punch urself before doing it for others pls.

Testiebobo:
There is one idiot that calls himself a barber in my area. His boss sent him away because of his unseriousness, troublsomeness and his grand theft attitude. We have never set our eyes on him for over 3years. Now he has returned to our area again, looking more worse than before. He even tint is dirty hair into indigo colour abi one stupid colour that did not even fit his skin colour. He has started disturbing the girls in my area, am waiting for the day he will disturb my girlfriend i will just behead him. Now he is wooing my sister, and i dont know if the idiot too has fall him. But she is complaining that he is always harassing her publicly and always into her way. Should i report him to my parents or take jungle justice #violence#

With ur gragra and blah blah ranting, u still report him to faceless forum? What u want them to do for u sir?

NkanuSon:
Sex is part of life,God knows why he gave us the urge

Because God give u nose to smell, I guess you will start smell anyhow!

because God give u mouth to eat and people must hungry, because of that, a day old baby u will give him rice to eat!


I think God also gives u brain to think logically and rationally.

We are in age that everyone is doing whatever pleases her ooo.

Often times, wen I'm going out in the street and see girls, who are still in their pre-teens stage of life, the kind of revealing leggings they usually wear ehn.

Even though the curve not yet comming out, the cloth would shoot it out by fire by force, yet these girls of 11-12 are leaving with parents.

Few weeks back I overheard 3 teenage girls discussing about sex openly, infact, me that is adult. I'm ashamed/shy with the way these tiny girls discussing it raw.

Still not know how Marriages would worthless in few years to come .