₦airaland Forum

TheGrandMaster:
Correct observer, Power guarantees money except he/she isn't motivated by money but money does not always guarantee power.

Except if he too doesn't want to use money to guarantee power, Tinubu as an opposition leader used enomours money to GUARANTEE POWER, that he used to fight people in power and defeated them, even when his party is in power.

chibestjerry:
Think of Tinubu (Power) vs Dangote (Money)
Think of Joe Biden (Power) vs (Elon Musk)

Which of the individual wields more authority and influence

Is then Tinubu (money) not used money to push out Jonathan (power)?

Meanwhile,Elon musk (richest man) and Tichiani (Niger president) which one wield more influence and authority?

Ladies and Gents can you accept/ endure this, going into marriage?

If you finally settled down with him or her will u be happy in the marriage till end?

Will you be completely faithful with him/her till end?

ebijimi7:
Good morning landers, its a beautiful thursday morning here in lagos,
Ok so straight down to the business without much hassle.

It goes like this, ok I have this girl I'm dating she has been a lovable soul a friend,partner,lover and mother.

She is caring also I have never met a girl like that in my life since I became an adult the only person that I know has those quality she possessed was my mum which is late now.

she is from kwale I think a town In delta state and I am from ondo so we have been together for couple of years now.

We had a heart to heart conversation she told me about her past and I also told her about mine.

[b]Though I've dated some substantial amount of ladies sha, I [/b]don't want to mention before una call me (Ashewo or brostitute ,

So in the long run while explaining she told me what transpired between she and some of her exes the ones that kept deceiving her and collecting money from her she mentioned about 10 of them which she actually supported to to travel out of the country but they neglected and dumped her after they got over sea, more of like she fell into the hand of bad guys.

What kept ringing in my head and making me scared was the fact she made out with some of them and I still get angry knowing that fact sometimes she would be crying that I'm using her past against her just because she was inlove and it didn't work out within she and any of her ex .

I love her but her past kept dragging me back and making me scared of taking the next step.

Not to mention all of what she has done for me but when I lost my mum she stood by me all through the difficult times she prays for me she was with me at the hospital for days until my mum passed out.

Looking at these are qualities I get confused the more because I dint know if I'm making the right decision by letting her go she rarely ask for anything

Please your candid advice I'd needed

But u too have dated ..... substantial amount numbers of ladies sha, what is different between you and her? Abi u dnt know the meaning of SUBSTANTIAL ?

Not until you guys accept equality in going to marriage, you won't have peace.

Infact, if she has alternative, I would advice her not to have anything to do with you, because u are not worth to be a good husband.

IF YOU ARE RATIONAL THINKER, YOU WOULD KNOW THAT, MAJORITY OF THOSE EXES TOOK ADVANTAGE OF HER, JUST BECAUSE SHE WANTED TO SETTLE DOWN. SHE DID WELL AS A CULTURED AND MANNERED GIRL, WHO WANTED PROSPERITY FOR HER HUSBAND TO BE, BUT INSTEAD, SUCH EVIL GUYS PAID HER BACK WITH EVIL. INSTEAD FOR YOU TO BLAME EVIL GUYS (YOUR GENDER), YOU ARE SHIFTING BLAME ON HER AGAIN.


If she is a type that doesn't use to support her guy with her hard earned money, you will also rush to nairaland to wail as usual.

The APC man only playing to the gallery , even though, the second man, went too far. If they insult judges, it's not the work of APC man to defend them, (not even when Abati has cautioned him), to the extent of attacking personality of the man that insulted judges on TV . Afterall, several judgements in Nigeria are enough for people to call out judges.


Though, several APC members already angry with Rufai, the way he has turned himself to Obidients spokeman.


I will advise Rufai to not only learn how to be neutral anchor man, but also how to control his temperament when interviewing visitors, the guests that your own Television station where you work invited.

Still surprising that people compare Seun with Rufai .

obembet:
20 years...how many years ur goat reign?

No wonder he quickly released statement ,that rivalry gone.

silvoclaira:




Humble yourself !!!!


From dust to dust. It all ends here.


All the gragra, from eighteen to eighty

From morning to night

Sunday to Monday

January to December

**
In a hundred years from now, all you reading this and all those in the Tribunal hearing will all be dead! **

And u? You will remain teenager til thy kingdom come.

tivta:
The truth is, girls will always be the major causality cause of gullibility, greed, thirst for material things or just natural body weakness.

Yes, I biliv you also know that several guys too, have eaten their destinies out, in the name of drinking and clubbing with diabolical friends?

The way girls need to be warned, is the the way glutonious guys in name of drinking beer should also be warned.

The person might not die physically but become living corpse.

Everyone (not only girl) should learn how not to trust anybody absolutely in Nigeria of today, even ur own brother, parents, or children. The way people looking for ritual money is worrisome and in dangerous trend.

In 90's when people hear certain person his into ritual money, neighbors did scare of him and kept him at bay, but now, they worshipping him and swarming around him.

May her killer not knowing peace till death.

moneyissweet:
When I looked at this Yul edochie I began to wonder if his father Pete really worth to be celebrating

Not until u realize that winning election must go beyond region.

And that you must respect personal opinion of people.

greenandy:
Propaganda unending. When nincompoops see the presidential election of 2023 as battle between Yoruba and Igbo, not battle to select a better president for Nigeria. In no country of the world except Nigeria will voters side-line a Peter Obi and go for a Bola Tinubu for president.

Going by track records , I dnt think Obi himself will make the list of a messiah.

They are birds of a feather.

Highlife217:
I hope and pray this country gets worse, it doesn’t deserve prosperity

Bragging as if ur elu p , will bring prosperity. oga, stop deceiving urself by having false hope. All of them are same, they only hungry for power but pretending to like messiah to come.

Several of tinubu fans are regretting today, if it's to be Obi or Atiku, the same scenario will play out

fatherjesse:
Be not deceived, they know what they are doing, trying to make it look they truly want to do the right thing.

Oga, as at now, the judgments are pure correct and unbiased........but u can never see anything good in it unless they push number 3 to number 1.

The same judgement acadabra you urself had condermed in ur locality in Imo.

Ndigbo not only at war without, but also within. Indeed, this is trying time for ndigbo within and outside Nigeria.

If you want to make any ndigbo goes toxic, just go against "Saint Obi the perfect man" in his/her present, the rest won't be palatable that day.

mbahdi:
They are all useless
Already bought judges

Oga, if u re a judge, what will be ur judgement on the matter?

Therock5555:
Madam you were not there so don't assume what you don't know. Ask yourself this question, if they had remained in Nigeria, would all this have happened?


No wonder some women are called snakes cause they could remain loyal to you for awhile, then go haywire when given the chance.


Make una dey change una mentality oh

Only insignificant of women that really loved their husbands fully, many love their husbands only because of financial security and to help them shapen the destiny of seeds that came out from them.

To buttress my submission, 8/10 of wives would poison minds of their children against their fathers, if the husbands having unresolved issues with them .

Kobojunkie:
Lol... so let me ask you thiz then. Was Osinachi's crime that she went gaga after gaining success? Was that why her husband killed her? Is that the same tale as far as other female breadwinner wives in Nigeria who met a similar end?

Hope u know Osinachi died of abuse and not direct gunshots? Besides, I bolded the word might in my post, I biliv u know the meaning of might

Obaaderemi2:
The man should have left her before she left him. He was a Uber driver. That should be enough to take care of his financial needs on his own. The kids already took sides with their mother. He bet big and lost big. He shouldn't have chased after his loss he should have cut his loss and start over again. There's nothing like "where do I start from".

I also see the husband, who started living above his means, because of his wife breakthrough, (I biliv the narrator deliberately expunged that one, in other to make husband looks "saint and wife looks devil" that's more reason it hard for him to detach himself from allegedly toxic wife.

Meanwhile, it's more hurtful for women to see husbands spending their hard-earned money on female gender like them.

Kobojunkie:
And you think if she had come upon the same level of success in Nigeria, this man would not have ended her life the way he did on the other shore?

If she was successful in Nigeria, she might not go gaga the way she did in oversea, the unlimited freedom that she latter exposed thr won't be available for her here, besides, it would have easier for family to wade in and correct any anomaly here than oversea.

I'm very sure that 90% of people that available to advice the woman thr, would advise her to treat her husband anyhow, since that is common occurrences over there.

pansophist:
If this story is true, then why kill her?

Just move out of the house and let her be. Offing someone's light won't bring light to oneself.

But situations like this are solved from the foundation. As a breadwinner, he should be the one to go first, and not put himself in a position of weakness, where he will start afresh in a new country.

To just uproot yourself as a man from a place where you have economical dominance is suicidal. And not many woman can respect a man they earn more than. A thread in the front page today even validate this.

I pity the kids. They are the real victims here.

The man is a very foolish man, who sets up himself for marital slavery and eventually destroy himself.

In the story, I see him became leech and parasite shortly before the tragic end of once beautiful family.

If it's me, immediately I see handwriting on the wall, I would have moved out quickly and found way to stay on my own and contented with little I earned, but he choose to glue with her and see nonsense (what you don't see cannot make you sad).

AllBlack:
You are a big pile of vulcanized shit.
you want to correct your father? Look for your mate and go back to primary school. Shit is an absolutely correct word and I chose it because it best describes you.

Semi illiterate professor, see your life.

I'm very sure shit eater will also correct dictionary.

AllBlack:
Yes and I chose to use the word because that is exactly what you are.

If you are not shit, you won't be eating and digesting it on public forum.

I doubt if you are not having nightmares, because of feaces

AllBlack:
You are a big pile of vulcanized shit.
you want to correct your father? Look for your mate and go back to primary school. Shit is an absolutely correct word and I chose it because it best describes you.

Shit , it's vulgar word like pussy.

If you want to write thesis, going by what you claimed, will you write shit or pussy? Instead of feaces or vigina.

AllBlack:
Fly must support shit feaces.
no wonder.

You wrote less than 10 words ooo


I imagine if you wrote full page, readers heads would burst, before you argue blindly, check appropriate words instead of vulgar above, make sure you use phone in your hand, provided you know how to use it positively.

HarunaWest:
Me I even feel the Final itself was rigged. The French coach used players from the bench to start. France a known attacking team was busy defending. Na later on craze enter Mbappe head and the others followed suit. If not ball to ball, Argentina isn't a match for France, but what do I know?. I may be wrong, I may be right. Its just my own silly opinion. I sha expected France to do the brace I rooted for them throughout the tournament.

It was fifa that instructed, french FA or coach to bench players abi?

If indeed you are real football fan you will know football is highly unpredictable.

Liverpool vs AC Milan final 3:3
Nigeria vs Seria lone 4:4

I guess CAF also bribed NFA to draw seria lone from 4 :0 down to 4:4 in our own stadium

I doubt if u guys think before writing gilberish.

AllBlack:
When you put out a topic that seeks public engagement and interraction then you have to make it, at least, READABLE. So please don't defend trash.
there is a difference between ledgible writing and readable writing. this one is only ledgible because of computer fonts. I can bet her calligraphy is crap too

Can you imagine out of thousands reading it, it's only that can read it and understand.

What is different between her post and every other posts on front page in term of speech writings?

Oga, u only wanted to call a dog bad name in other to hang it jare.

Posts here are not official writing.

UDUJ:
Very terrible command of English language. Bombs everywhere

Which school did you finish from?

You want to attack as usual, hope you know she is not writing PhD thesis? What she wrote is comprehensive enough.

Read the message and contribute and stop attacking messenger.

Funkybabee:
Good morning to my beautiful ladies here and our fellow brothers though una can wail like you normally did before. This post is not for you but for ladies to share their opinion 👎👎

I saw a post on instablog where a ladies share her opinion on why you shouldn't marry a man who cannot afford the thing you can do for yourself.

Back to my own view, I think it's not about how much he earn but how much he can give, a man can be rich and be stingy at the same time while a man can be rich, give and still not care about cheating thereby disrespecting your feeling.

I met a guy this year, got to his apartment saw there are no things there when I asked he said he just moved to this state with a new job but still setting up small by small, I said that's good to me for the fact that he's going to one of the old disciplined church while also he has completed is Master unless he has no ambition that he will be definitely good to go.

Later I discovered something about him, he don't used to call unless you chat don't know how it look somehow to me because I don't like calls too but I feel somehow, if you ain't online, he will wait till you come online to chat whether two or more days, he's after sexual thing though he said he's a believer, our house is not far to his place I normally trekked that's why I don't care about tfare at all so one day, I loosed my hair, went to his place to greet him omo he doesn't even look my way but after his satisfaction and later on he began one filmsy excuse of waiting for his brother to come that I should prepare to leave now. it didn't bother me too much until I got home and call my brain to order that am I for real with this guy, I later left him but he keep begging me it's not what I think, but I told him to come and see outside for him to spend assurance while herefused to that

Omo ladies come and share your experience concerning this una guys are welcome with your bashing

A love without giving is a lust. It's not about be material or how much he can give but the willing in his heart and to love someone without caring about his materialistic is not an offence

My advice for u and all single ladies, we are in 21st century and not years back.....every lady should be having things doing to fetch her income, that's how you can have peace in marriage.


Going by ur post, it clearly shown that you are the one pushing urself on that promising young lad, (you were dating urself for that short period you were together) and this is result of what you saw in his apartment,.......the guy didn't see any quality in you, the one u can call quality (boobs and ass) not qualities in real sense.

The era where women think they can become rich owing to be someone wife is almost gone.

Work hard and be something useful, you will see how husband would respect you alot.

Two things make women melt and ignore red flags fast.

1. When guys showering her gifts and money.

2. When guys tall and well built.



In as much those attributes are very good, settling down with a man should go beyond that.
ACCORDING TO OUR OWN AUNTY, IF THE GUY IS BOMBARDING HER WITH GIFTS, SHE WOULD BE WORSHIPPING HIM, EVEN
IF HE IS DEVIL IN- WAITING.

Niniowo and Edochie's wives would be able to say much about how women sweat inside men's AC

Flier:
Fought my friend just now because of this issue,he met this lady 3 weeks ago and already spent like 2 million plus on her while his main chick he has been dating for 5 years is very broke and that 2 million could have changed everything for her,infact 500k
This life isn’t fear I am very upset.

If main chick cheated or abandoned him for another guy now, the satanist would come online and say all sorts of nonsense on entire female gender.

I'm still saying it that, we men are the biggest reason why marriages are collapsing

fasho01:
The status quo will be maintained. Sentiments aside, the election was won by Tinubu and none of the petitioners were able to prove otherwise, hence I expect the election results to be upheld.

He won indeed, but to be fair enough, that 25% requirement in Abuja , wasn't satisfied according to electoral law, thoug the judges will overlooked it.