₦airaland Forum

Bobloco:
These are no speculation

These are the "best brains" Tinubu will bring forward

El Rufai as NATIONAL SECURITY ADVISERS?

Definitely a round peg in square hole.

.....and Bagudu as CBN gov, definitely Tinubu not ready yet to fix Nigeria.

DMerciful:
God does not support thieves! God cannot be mocked!

Put Ur self in position of God and install Obi ok.


A well known thief like Asiwaju you are conderm. Infact his own even worse.....no achievement to point to and no army of followers who are today achievers that he breed in the past.

Alaigbopress:
A serious president Elect would have even started working but this one is just strolling in France. Nigeria is in for a long thing. Hide and Sick president again

I guess he should start issuing executive order, even when sitting president still on the throne.

In other not to get HBP, I will advise you to accept faith and pray for God that has installed him against all odds to make him successful in steering the affairs of the nation.

If you biliv Tinubu is not good in ur eye, but God sees him as person to rescue the nation,what will you about that?


Oga, when God says yes nobody can say no

Shedrack777:
1. lack of job opportunities for the ladies.
2. ladies now love prick more than the way men love pussy.
3. all social media platforms now promote sex as a necessecity for singles

All ur blames are on women and no single blame for men.

....... imagine u are in position to be a chief in ur community, prejudice would be order of the day

Dizzyyish:
A church, irrespective of denomination, is perhaps the worst place to find a wife.

When women are done with 'having fun' or "living their truth" they know where to settle in to get a man, and all they'll have to do is 'play the sanctimonious part'.

Also, where one meets her may not be relevant if she has already lost her virginity (shout out to virgin Mary!)

Also also, the women in the first and second images are wearing "bad bxtch" uniforms, so that one follow for 'wifey material'?

Make sure you go to club house to choose ur wife ok, infact, make it obligatory to select among stripers ok

I think he needs to be torture maybe his brain will be reset.

I'm now reason why bubu totally schemed them out in his govt, they started again.


They would soon wailing marginalisation as usual.

Kobonaire4:
All in all, the agitation for Interim government shows that people are angry with APC led government

The harsh truth is that more people voted against the ruling party than for the ruling party. The ruling party won because the opposition vote was divided. They should sit up and do better...

Who do you think they/Buhari will handed power for in case of interim govt?

Better say u don't want power to come to south west.

JasonScoolari:
That's one thing I admire about the Afenifere leader, Chief Ayo Adebanjo, He doesn't give room for any silly tribal slurs from his own people.

The suspended Publicity Secretary and National Organizing Secretary maybe one of those miscreants championing the hate towards Igbos...

God bless Chief Ayo Adebanjo with good health and wisdom.

........but for "ohanaeze, no matter what Igbo man or woman does, they will either back him or reluctant to speak out, that was how south east fell for Monday intimidation.

Neweramify:
Op your wife was wrong, but try and understand her fear. Most women feel inconvenient around their mother inlaw. Not because she hates her mother inlaw but for the fear of the unknown.

Let her know how you feel knowing she wanna bring her mum in when she rejected your mum. I'm sure she will feel remorse of her action.

Permit her to bring her mum, cause if anything happen to the old woman, she may accuse you of one thing or the other.

If indeed you are a woman, I pity the man that will end or has ended up with you.


....and for the OP, it's time you proofed that you are in charge of your home.

I will not be surprised if ur siblings are not coming to ur house again just because of wife who has succeeded in fencing you out from ur own siblings but now bring her people to replace ur family.

Islandboi:
Yes I said what I said. That thing called marriage is not for guys that are still struggling. 3 of my neighbour pikin are not going to school again as I speak. The man is even owing 7 months house rent and it’s draining him.

Landlord don come house use vex throw them outside. His wife is working as well but the money is just not enough. Love is just never enough. It’s really a tough one on them.

Note : I’m not using my neighbour predicament to laugh or anything. I’m only stating the fact and to advice young men out there not to venture into marriage when you don’t have money.

Yet the African richest man married and remarried, still not be able to hold on to a woman in 60s.

Neverslumber:
Seems this man is just jobless. He doesn't contribute anything to whatever party he belongs to. Don't forget, he lost even his polling unit and ward.

Meanwhile, u haven't commented on what he says ok.

Where is differences that obi was clamouring for?

Rokiat:
Many women are not gonna like what I am about to type.

But before you get married to anyone you have to check for red flags, and certain patterns or behaviours. and if these are red flags you can live with for the rest of your life.

We all infact have red flags but you have to see if you can live with this for the rest of your life or not, the problem with most people especially women is that they think these things will changes after marriage or that the person loves you so they will change no nobody changed just because they loves you.


So before you rush into this thing called marriage think, study and don’t rush just to settled down or because you are desperate because marriage is not like dating where you can just up and leave because now you are not happy. You are ripping your whole family apart especially if you have kids.


This is why there are so many divorces nowadays because people are rushing into it and ignoring all the red flags thinking marriage will change their person. No it wouldn’t.




I really can’t give you a solution because I am not in your shoes, so you have to take this decision by yourself. You have to think of all the pros and cons of leaving this man and decide. So ask yourself,
how is this man with you? Is he a great husband? a great provider? and only the cheating has been his down fault so far? Can you trust him again? Are you willing to look pass this?

Ultimately the decision is yours and yours alone because we are not there with you and him behind closed doors.

Good luck.

I cherish ur advice, but hope you know, sometimes, new friends/colleagues, new job, financial progress, overnight fame,etc do influence husband/wife and make him/her does what he/she not known for from Adam?


Husband can start drinking/smoking even though he is not doing them before.

Husband can change religion.

Wife may start attending parties.

Wife may start going to babalawo places.

Jobless wife might get job in which salary triple husband.

Husband may loose job.

All these as a result of influences and not behaviors from very beginning o

Omobithousand:
My hubby cheated and has been begging me to forgive him but i can't find it in my mind to cos the messages and everything i saw really messed me up... never knew i could feel this way
Please I'll welcome Ur advice and bashing and if you also have a
Marriage counselor please share his or her number with me.. thanks.

Ok oooo, leave ur husband and become single mother, afterward you can now become side chick for married men.

Obidientyoruba:
Seriously?? That means if the new government is inaugurated they will ban social media entirely

Will citizens die? Or human beings had not been existed before social media?


You want to sit in one corner of ur a room and be throwing bombs to the entire country , claiming freedom of speech!

....long arm of government will surely catch you......

imagrg:
This beautiful young lady asked me in confidence how she could treat her smelling private.

She stressed that she washes her private well when taking her bath yet it stinks to Aso Rock.

What's the solution to this embarrassment?

She asked u in private u carry her private to world : wide : web:

doublewisdom:
I for talk o. Na urchins misconstrue the whole thing. Keep fanning the embers of war, we go cure una madness soon.

Hopeless person/people like u have little or nothing to loose in the event of crises, burning of property and business, infact, that is when frustrated and porn addicted guy like you will be able to steal whatever you will eat for few days before normalcy restore

limeta:
How is that eve possible when you meant to be fasting.
Muslim by the end of Ramadan put on more weight the fasting part seems to only be on their lips and angry faces but the add weight is constant year after year .

My friend, we are just observing it because one ancient warlord impose it on us oo.

This is to tell the whole world that it's Ramadan time, u guys eat like gluttony.

The Way women/ladies worshipping all these men of God atimes, making me believe women have fish brains.

How can a mature lady moved away from his family and moved in with unrelated man with functioning dickky and not expecting sexual harassment just because he tagged himself, "man of gods"


.....I pray other living females learn lesson...

Still surprising that that labour party is shooting brim and stones everywhere, ........if the election re-conducted 10 times, Obi cannot win, infact, he can't come second, yet keep claiming what's obvious to the blind that is not his.

Anyway, he still needs post election to
cash out from the gaulible.

Racoon:
When did justice Ariwoola became wheelchair bound if not that he is up to something sinister here? How can he fairly dispense justice if he has challenges affecting his health? This is so shameless, disgusting and totally unacceptable.

What is the reaction of the NJC, body of benchers etc to all the allegations that have been flying around this corrupt man. From his unholy romance with Wike, corruption and high handedness in the SC giving rise to controversial rulings by the apex Court?

It is time the NJC should remove this disgrace of a CJN from office. This People Gazette may have been right after all. Bayo Onanuga the usual bloody fucking liar.

Meanwhile, Bola Ahmed Tinubu can't even rest in the Lagos he claimed he birthed and developed into a world class centre of excellence or any other part of Nigeria to rest.

But choose to travelled many miles across to a sane and cosy country devoid of the anti-social miscreants he gave landlord powers in his modern day Lagos to rest.Then later he will tell you he is doing you a favor by providing dividends of democracy. Meanwhile continue to rest in peace.

Oga go and re-read and purge urself from prejudice, dnt read gragra and come online misleading dumb people like u, who cannot read and comprehend.

Houston8:
Nigerians are the problem of Nigeria, why we a sensible well thinking person say he wish it's wike, let the truth be told one of the person practicing true journalism today in 9ja iss Mr. Oseni, it's said that the few evil in the land must be against anything good. Mr oseni is Apolitical and non partisan he's for the people bros oseni Keep ur good job on, men can never reward you, but the almighty God will.

Still waiting for rufai to ask Obi about "pandoragate" that's when I will see him neutral, if u re watching ARISE TV regularly and compare him with other TV stations globally, you will know rufai is too partisan, even the dead knows except Obidients.

press9jatv:
you are out of your mind with this your hatred to the erudite journalist rufai. He’s really hit you guys on the media well. Truths must be made known joor

Why won't u, since u re part of defeated Obidients.


Rufai that attacking people when he, himself would do worse if giving slightly opportunity.

Google is ur friend! You can Google how he went against traffic law in Lagos and his utterances wen he was caught. If not cos of Sanwo-olu that he is attacking on daily basis, he would have been an ex convict by now.


If we are in USA or UK, he would have been in jail by now.

press9jatv:
lol rufai was once worked in the east before, he worked in a private radio station for more than 15 years and nothing happen him. Rufai Na investigative journalist. We need more of him in the journalism department

Rufai that worked in East is he same rufai of today?

When did he come to limelight?

Is Rufai attacked Obi then? Is Obi going for president then?

Learn how to understand and comprehend ok.


Rufai a Yoruba guy, base in Yoruba and attacking prominent Yoruba man going for president on national tv on daily basis.


Oga, who did that in south east?

Just little Ígbokwe is doing, can he go to south east without escort and come alive?

Answer the question within urself

Iamgrey5:
Where's the knowledge?

You mean his terrible knowledge of history? Or extreme divisive comments? Or his bias questions?

Seun of Channels is the best Journalist in Nigeria in my view. He ask tough questions of everyone.

U need not to reply kid that has access to only social media through his phone.

Rufai is making so many people hate Arise TV, I'm taking about great people who are completely apolitical in nature.

Rufai needs to go to Seun for tutelage, too arrogant and bias.

If this guy currently base in south east and conderming Peter Obi the way he is attacking Tinubu, ipob/igbo would have wasted him.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Well, there’s nothing I can’t do for a husband but won’t ever do anything for a boyfriend lailai

Yet u think you won't enter trap last last?

Husband's material won't stay long with you during boyfriend and girlfriend palaver, having known u as a girlfriend who would not be helpmate.

Any boyfriend that knows you for ur character and still go ahead to marry you, ...... beware of him, he is a wolf in sheep clothing.

I heard about a young married christian lady, that almost push her faithful husband outside, cos she had a mentality, "sex is only needed for procreation".

Thank God for husband friend that noticed on time, having noticed,his friend has started having "romantic playing with ladies at work", in which he wasnt his behavior from the beginning, this made friend to force husband to report his wife to her mother in law.

When the mother in law intervened, wife said, after they born already,husband still wanted to be having sex with her when she is not a dog.

ifihearam:
Keep fooling yourself..so 5 is not a good number to make your personal opinion?

If you buy 5 rotten mangoes at a shop 5 different times would you still go there?

If I were you, I would question the character of the guy who dated 5 and all have same character, it says alot about the guy himself, but since you and the guy have same same character and defaulted way of reasoning, u believed him absolutely.

Polynek:
I don't like when someone generalize a behaviour simply bcox of his/her experience,
There are good educated ladies and there are bad one's.
That you met few bad ones doesn't mean they are all the same.

I know several illiterate or jobless educated ladies that are extreme difficult to control by man, at least I have dated two and by God grace married to employed educated,who she is not only humble, I also have access to all of her passwords,..... social media, bank app etc.

Though I hadly spend her money o