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nairalandkachy1:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8PfqUjxAeqA
Only a foolish man will think one day I will have issues with Governor Yahaya Adoza Bello - Smart Adeyemi.

Adeyemi represents Kogi West Senatorial District in the red chamber.

Previous Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7654405/adeyemi-ocheni-audu-ajaka-reject#122537278

(Speaking on behalf of the aggrieved aspirants at a press conference in Abuja, Senator Adeyemi claimed that no election took place to have warranted the declaration of Ahmed Usman Ododo as the Governorship candidate of the APC for the State.

He called on the President-elect Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu, Vice President-elect Senator Kashim Shettima, National Chairman of the APC, Abdullahi Adamu and the National Working Committee (NWC) of the party, not to allow the results of the primary election to stand)

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onthehill:
LP's Gbadebo Reacts To Lagos State Government Criticism On “Gangs of Lagos” Film

Labour Party's governorship candidate in Lagos State, Gbadebo Rhodes-Vivour has reacted to Lagos State government's criticsm on the “Gangs of Lagos” film/series, IGBERETV reports.

Lagos State Government had condemned the “Gangs of Lagos” film/series, stating that it mocked the cultural heritage of the people of Lagos.

Taking to his Twitter handle, Gbadebo wrote;



https://twitter.com/GRVlagos/status/1646967328163201024?s=19[/quote]Everything isn't supposed to be playing with politics. This is animal thats trying hard to be gov of the state o.

One shouldnt serve in government before giving back to society.

Vivour should come out and highlights what he and rich family has/had done for Lagos to improve welfare of people in the past.

Suspect33:
forget talk, provision in marriage is SOLELY the responsibility of the Man

eazzzy1:
WWHD-What would Hakimi do?

On a more serious note, you are married to her so your options are really limited. This is why women want to marry ASAP. They tell you a real man knows what he wants, he can marry you 2hrs after meeting you. This is why most long term relationships seldom leads to marriage. When you know someone enough, the idea of forever with them starts looking scary.

Your wife may not like the guy but she has to keep him happy if the money is to continue coming. One day he will lure her over with a gift, then what?

When men discover things like this and out of distrust decide to hide things from such woman people start shouting mummy’s boy, not a real man bla bla.

Bekeey:
Good morning my people, please pardon my grammatical errors and long writeups. I'm curiously in need of your help to help me decide if I should confront her or not. This is the problem, traditionally I got married to my wife this January 2023 and by grace of God our wedding is coming this July 2023, our IV is already out, we have got 45% of the Wedding needs already, like Asobi clothes, her own clothes and my clothes too, we have also booked for Decorations, DJ, MC etc.

So, here is the issue that I need to confront her or probably council the Wedding because since I got noticed what has been going in my absent, I wasn't myself for past 3days, I am emotionally exhausted. Here is the problem, there is thus guy that always call her late in the night from 10pm, whenever I asked her who was that, she always tell me is just a friend that they have known right from secondary school, that she knows her girlfriend that nothing is between them. I asked her,did he know that you are married, she said of cause, he is aware. I said OK, that day passed, so the call kept coming same time 10pm but not everyday. Later I began to notice that the guy doesn't call in the night again maybe because she have asked her not to call her by that time again. So 3days ago, I had access with her phone, my brothers and sisters, I was shocked, behold the person that told me she has nothing to do with him that is just a friend. All there conversation in that chat was sweetie, sweetie, that's what they call each other. Though, I found out my wife doesn't give him that chance that she's only interested to eat his money because I saw a receipt of 20k he sent to my wife. The guy was seriously asking for her nude videos which she didn't send to her but she instead sent him stickers. The guy will send her some videos showing her how he will sock her breast, and one hot round of sex, my wife will just replied him OK. Last chat my wife chatted him was where she is begging him for 50 to 100k to pay back by June. She don't have anything doing, I wonder where she will get the money to pay him back. Till now the guy have not replied him. I can say she has not started cheating on me because, she just relocated from Awka to Abuja where I leave and she doesn't know anywhere yet. She is always at home. So where I'm confused now is, is she sending him her nude and delete it at instant or she is just playing ▶️the guy? Even at that, as a married woman 👩did she suppose to engage in such conversation with a man? And she is already pregnant, 16weeks pregnant precisely.

Please house, what should I do in this situation, should I confront her or to keep monitoring her but the fact is, it still disturbs me why my wife a married woman should be having such discussions with a man.

frozen70:
I don't need to blame anyone one rather I will caution the woman

Besides when a man plays his role at home, I can't see any reason why a married woman will seek for help from a married man who plays his role

And if she is still misbehaving while you as a man have played your role and you ha e a prove that she is misbehaving

Take her back to her family and defend the reason of bringing her back

No one will blame you

But if a man is really irresponsibile, what do expect

You should expect nonsense

zanebaddo:
I don't really know what's going on in Adamawa as I've stopped following or reading political news in Nigeria however, what INEC led by Mamood and Apc are doing is right. It is democracy and nothing you can do about it. If you don't like it go to court.

frozen70:
Read second to my last paragraph

frozen70:
The truth is that, there is nothing like harmless date because one day that harm will go down

So if you are married don't go for any nonsense and just don't go on any harmless date because that's where that nonsense will start

Before you know it, you will start feeling for him

Men these days doesn't want to know If a woman is married, once they liked you the next thing is to go down with you

If you are discipline you can resist them

Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….

Armaggedon:
Journalism has changed. Seun okigbaloye is good but he doesnt go out of his way to grill his guest like Rufai and nigerian politicians are weaponizing Channel tv's to much journalism conservativeness. Nigerian politicians are peculiarly wild and need to be held accountable.

Rokiat:
Lmao the psychology of men is quite funny. Most of them see a beautiful woman they know they can’t get and they just hate her. there are some men when they see you and like you but know they can’t have you they get big mad and they will literally hate you and dislike you.

They just hate her guts….they assumed you are up your self right away. Sometimes they try harder not to even check you out or look at you thinking you will now think you are all that……omg the trouble they go through.

But there are some men that will see a woman and knows she’s attractive and goes “oh she’s attractive” and just keep it moving, they know this don’t cut nothing off their masculinity.

fabolouz1:
The police has come out to clarify that the alleged killer is not an internet fraudster .

Josephamstrong1:
You are right! My ex without my consent visited a guy she borrowed her laptop with the excuse of collecting it back. I asked her how she got back the laptop, she said she went herself. I laughed, she was like... why laughing naa, nothing happened o. I told her to just chill! If nothing happened, why didn’t you tell me before going? If I have the time, maybe I would have accompanied you. She was like she’s an adult naa. And they’re adults, too. They’re mature enough to handle issues. That she had to give in, in other to collect the laptop naa. I was like give in what? That the guy refused with the demand of no sex no laptop.
I giggled and that was how I let the spark between us to gradually dwindled on its own.

OlaBlaize:
But you weren't married to her yet nah. Being her boyfriend doesn't change the fact that she's still single.

Legitisreal:
no be lie

As a kid we read things fall apart for waec because Nigeria government really helped Achebe career by making it mandatory

But you can't read soyinka books even for some adult it still got too draining intellectually then

N3TRAL:
I understand that I'm quoting an individual whose first thought about the Nairaland platform is the untimely death of its founder, Seun.

However, you need to learn that Soyinka has done more for democracy than Peter Obi.

When he was about your age, he was incarcerated by a military regime for almost two years. Just before the restoration of our presidential democracy, another military regime wanted him "dead or alive" during his necessary exile from Nigeria.

The venerable statesman has contributed more to Nigerian progress than most of you would ever do- in words and in deeds ; in theory and in practice.

As the heyday of Obidiotism is gradually coming to an end, I am proud that my convictions about the totalitarian movement were genuine and have been proven even to the least objective Nigerian.

One of my fears was the institutionalization of cancel culture. Another one was the giving of villain tags to Nigerian heroes who are not of the Igbo extraction.

I am vindicated for taking a stance against masked fascism.

igbsam:
a professor from a generation that ruined Nigeria and did nothing to stop it would sit in the confers of his comfort zone to write against a new generation of people wanting things to change from the old ways.