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NaijaCoverBlog:
Source: https://punchng.com/court-jails-couple-two-years-for-drug-trafficking/

It seems 90% of people caught on illegal drugs related crime within and outside the nation are from east.


Yet they claim victims at all times.

Having more than children u can cater for is a journey to depression and suicidal.

Women should take the warning strongly, the man would japa fast and leave you @ children behind to face the hardship.


How many congos" of rice would feed 9 children?

I imagine the year the "colony of pigs" would have eaten meat last!

[quote author=benuejosh post=126842274]Mumu! I said she has been meddling in issues not for her. And the ending part of my statement i said my comment has nothing to do with the post. Learn to read and comprehend. Igbos and thinking people hate them.[/quote



U don't need to reply clown who only defend base on tribe.

Unical and and toothpick contract are few of her controversial engagements less than 6 months on the seat.



It seems she doesn't have clue of governance.

How would ministry of women affairs, allocated land? Even federal min of agriculture lack such power, it's State government that solely has such power.

benuejosh:
Uju Kennedy will be the first Minister to be shown the way out. That woman seems confused. It is either she is meddling in the matters of another Ministry or she is quarreling. My comment is not necessarily about the post.

True talk, u re following the woman antecedents since she became minister, even ordinary interview on live TV she would be angry in her responses

During boyfriend and girlfriend relationship,when u re supposed to have studied her nagging behaviour, u ignored but focused on different styles she was given you, thinking that's most important aspect of marriage. Now that her nagging has metamorphosed to nasty attitude.

You run to a forum to announce for the whole world.


On more serious note, you haven't been in charge since the relationship began and now she doesn't see u as her superior and someone she should accord respect.

To correct the anomaly, thou it's harder, but you can still, next time she does that, either you sent her parking or you leave house for her, make sure people intervene before you reconcile.


WOMEN ARE LIKE KIDS, THE WAY YOU HANDLE THEM FROM VERY VERY BEGINNING SAYS ALOT ABOUT YOUR GOING FORWARD WITH HER.

During

ecolime:
The true story behind his death lies with the wife, the nurse and that friend.

Every other sensational narrative na smokescreen. Unfortunately, most Nigerians are emotional beings.

Nothing lies behind anybody, there is 95% tendency that he died from wrong admiration of drugs from fake nurse, nobody gangedup to kill him.

A guy of such caliber should have gone to qualified health practitioner for health care.

I tot they say Muslim don't use to involve in miracles

itsValo:
As a young guy, you had a sexual relationship with a girl and you wake up to find out she is dead, what will you do??


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KQD7RCLhg1s

As a young boy, u face ur study/work in other for ur future to be Rossy and not looking for skirts up and down.


Meanwhile, if u wake up and see her dead, get sniper and drink full bottle of the smallest quantity, with that, no case would be established in court on your behalf.

RedAlert08:
They're no different from those attending Adeboye's church.

Even you and me.

Hendrixky:
If not for tribalism and religion that is killing the masses in Nigeria

Tinubu and atiku are both not supposed to get up to 100 thousands vote

Especially that tinubu knowing fully well he was part of Buhari administration and he brought upon on us Buhari's administration
What we complained about and regretted in Buhari's tenure was exactly what we knew tinubu will repeat in his administration if he wins like parkinson disease, old age and sickness
But because Nigerians are too tribalistic the people of South west gave him their vote again.
Sane people are plenty in lagos, abuja and south south who are exposed and not tribalistic reason he didn't win those states

Most Nigerians don’t hate bad government they just feel mad at the government when he’s not from their religion or tribe
That is the reality of Nigeria

We are doomed

What's parentage of votes given to Obi by South Easterners compare to others? Now, compare it with percentage others gave Obi outside South East and others.

Going by ur submission, who is more tribalistic more between south east and south west?


Again! Going by performances, what's different between Atiku ,Tinubu and Obi?

If Atiku and Tinubu not supposed to garner 100k votes, the same thing should be accorded to Obi if not less.

I sympathize with people going to this conman church.

Anyway, sheep would still be rushing to his business center to part way with their hard-earned money for him to look and feel like almighty.

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying to deceive your fellow humans using the name of God who washed His hands off marriage from right after the beginning - Genesis 3 vs 16 - and reminded you in Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 that your marriages are of the world of men and not of the Kingdom of God.

The verses you quoted, how did it against marriage? Just like that guy said, u really sick upstair. I will advise you to give your Bible for Bible scholar to sit you down and purge you off of heresy.


If Muslim see this now, he too would go out and be misleading people.

In Luke, Jesus was talking about the dead who have ressurrated , and expecting to enter paradise, ............now, is dead do marriage? Did they do marriage in paradise?

Even at that, Jesus still not condemn marriage.



If you are impotent or not being able to marry for whatever reason, you should have come clean on I rather than misquoting Bible to cover up your problem.

Domaining101:
I don't have to penetrate before i cum and it's depressing. My own case is even worse than 1 minute man.
I was just passionately kissing my girlfriend and pressing her stuffs in a standing position, before you know i don release
Is it like this for everyone or is it just me?

So many herbal concortiond full town, ask from those that have tested it.

Pls don't don't kill someone daughter ooo

ahnie:
No need ..I don't like going backward,just fast-forward the reply.
Lolx

Why would you? I knew you deliberately laid emphasy on english just defend gender, even when she is wrong.


Only a devil will defend people's actions no matter how bad it's , just because they belong to same gender, tribe or religion.

If you find urself doing that, you are worst than devil and you are heading towards toxic marriage in future, ultimately, it would end in single mother. Thank God people shared their experiences today.

ahnie:
Your English is englishing me sir,would you want me to read your write up horizontally?
Because your English dey one kain
...e ma bi nu sir.

Go back I corrected it even before u jumped forward.

ahnie:
I said it in the other thread...women don't just dump their husbands like that.

We masked our feelings n hatred alot and always wait for the right time to strike, underestimate a woman at your own peril.


Immediately I read the topic,I already knew our bobo was a toxic
Person who must have dealt massively with his wife...some naija men and toxicity.

When you start hitting on your wife she channels all atom of love she has for you to the kids and that ends it all,she may be giving you her body,and patiently waiting for you to slip then she strikes.

If it were me....I would do same to him no hard feelings.

This wife is deadler than husband, infact she is a serpent, the level of blame I gave the husband reduced wen I read the extent the wife dealt with her man, who is also father of her children. In future, how will she stand and face him if occasions call for it.

Did she even think, if she can still need his assistant in future?


Woman will take decisions without thinking twice.


A wise person would have given him last chance in UK to try nonsense before doing that, at least to able to justify her actions .

What the girl did now worse . Which means,she herself, if she is stronger than the husband she would be beating the husband in Nigeria.


Atimes, I dnt blame some guys that are dealing with women mercilessly.

On many occasions, they only respect and loving guy/husband because of what they stand to gain and not real love.


Girls will ask u to come her side, in which after stressing and wasting time and money to see her, she would just off phone or telling u she is not available,but if it's other way round ,just 5 minutes of not coming out, she would be angry and complaining

Ilamina:
I expect less divorce in Islam

Because Islam looks less Westenized than other christainity

But that's not the case

I'm short, i expect islam to be as primitive as other black cultures

In every form of immoral or bad behaviour, Islam worst than all other religions, but they pretend or coerce adherents to look good.



Go to army barracks and see immorality but they pretend as if nothing is going on, unlike Christians that do show it off.

MuslimIgbo:
EVEN USELESS NIGERIA CAN'T VOTE FOR VICTOR OSIMEH

SHAMELESS PIGS

Wen Osimeh himself said before the poll that it's either halland or Messi?

KarinaSlim:
I heard Messi can not speak English.

Is it true?

I heard you cannot speak Spanish.

Is it true?

Yet ignorant would be wailing FIFA do ojoro

Single mother never surplus yet, still looking forward to litter ever nook and cranny.



Go and check statistics of single mothers today, 75% were deceived thinking the guy/man is rich, having entered the marriage, it now down on them that the guy is average or even below average. And for those that rich, after impregnated them, they dump them for their faith.


Go and ask Actress Bisi Ibidapo Obe and Dino MELAYE.

Flesh10:
Shut up. If it was a court marriage they had that man dared not abandon her and the kids.

You have brain but don't reason

If u married, i pity the woman in your house, .. ...."for she married one of beasts in man form. Such woman only leaving in bondage called marriage.

Meanwhile, why should you even married with mindset that the marriage will not last.

Anyway, I have diagnosed and also told you, ur problem in my last comment.

Bye.

Flesh10:
This is where I get angry at ladies and parents that force in-laws to do elaborate church wedding that doesn't protect them or their daughters when what they should be pushing for is court wedding.

I have had serious arguments with ladies who insist that they cannot marry a man that insist that there will be no white wedding.

Whenever I hear a girl say that or their parents say that I shake my head and marvel at their ignorance.

I lost a good friend of mine because of her abusive husband. This man so tortured her emotionally and ended up sending her packing empty handed after years of labouring and suffering with the man, he decided that she wasn't good enough when money came.

My friend went back to her parents house empty and died from frustration after 5yrs.

I remember their elaborate white and traditional marriage all for nothing since her experience I vowed never to allow my daughters marry any man that is not willing to bind the marriage legally.

To hell with white wedding, you can skip it but you must go-to marriage registry and seal the union with my daughters.

Earlier we realize that it is only the court that protects wife's right in the country the better. An average Nigerian man is domineering and has the tendencies that traditional men have.

Abusive and egocentric like what we watch in nollywood where at the slightest provocation the man throws the lady's bags out shouting leave my house, at slightest provocation he hits her, at slightest provocation in-laws meddle in their lives. The court brings checks and balances.

If you misbehave there are consequences both the man and the woman must behave themselves and make their home work else there is a law waiting to punish the guilty party.

What's correlation of wedding with story u narrated? Hope u re not a toxic man oo? A man who will never shift his ground?

Such a man will have problem in marriage, and his marriage failure has nothing to do with "wedding, his own personal behaviour cause marriage failure.

Mysteriousworld:
The problem with women is that they wont listen while the man was warning them... Change or ill.....
Women just believe you're trapped because you married them... Now its too late... Remember how you argued with him, remember how unsubmissive you were while he was warning you... Even begging you to honor him , or at least mot disrespect him... Its well. May you find yours.

In fact, I gave u 70%. Apart from beasts in man form, several times, wives are the one who make marriage toxic, several of such attitudes u highlighted up thr.

when the husband final left, it would now down on them, that, no man can take care of another man's kids like him, and that, ...... other side not always greener as they thought.

Several emotional abusives they normally subjected man to, they won't mention it but claiming victims as usual.

Just look at the single mother of 4 kids that her story was posted on front page , which she wanted to leave her husband for reasons which are not solid enough, if she stepps out and latter realises her foolish action, she would still blame man and exonorate herself.

Chiquitq:
I've been there. Not divorced but separated. It's been over 6yrs. It was easy despite that the relationship was extremely toxic. I mourned for the wasted time and abuse tolerated. I was bitter about financial and material things lost in the course of the union. I was distraught by the embarrassments and insults metted out to my family and friends. I relocated to a new city and started totally afresh with my children. Got a job and started a business.
The man that I was married to was the evil of the earth and a fraudster and womanizer. To top it all, he was grossly manipulative. Being extremely manipulative made it hard for me to leave early or even set boundaries thoroughly.

When you say this your husband left suddenly, I believe you totally. He might be a narcissistic. sociopath. That's what he did to all the women he dated during our marriage. Many did not know he was married. He would promise them heaven, use them and disappear suddenly from their lives. Read more about narcissists.

Don't be in a hurry to remarry and if you date again, don't be in a hurry to procreate. I chose celibacy as a means to be totally free and live my best life. I have concluded that all relationships are challenging judging by other people's experiences and mine. On few occasions, one may be lucky but I'm too lazy to and lack motivation to try again. That works for me but it might not work for you.
Find a hobby and most importantly, improve on your finances and network. You would be fine in the end. Many nights, you would have flashbacks of events and be bitter but time would do justice. Try to have as little contact with him as possible. If he wants to speak to his son, doesn't have to be through your phone. Don't allow him to Hoover his way back into your life because he would just hurt you a second time. Stop listening to gist about him. It would help you to move on.

Many of you usually blind by lust, pressure or material things, before marriage, what u cannot take in marriage do not take it during relationship.

A guy or lady who is narccsist , did he/she suddenly become a narccsist after marriage.

IamANigerianMan:
But your brother Atedola that gave him bribe is moving free, let me tell you, if it is developed country they don't take that evidence , the reason is because the bribe was given for a motive to stop the probe of Subsdy thieve your brother was involved , the bribe was an induction, he never asked of bribe, he was induced , go and check why Ekweremadu was sentenced not because he had a contact of the body but the judge said he was aware and pretend not to be aware...

Even when DSS knew about it? So, in advanced country, DSS can't use civilian to set traps for politicians or anyone whose action is suspicious or questionable?

U guys, I imagine how u re sleeping and resting on tribalistic and ethnicity issue.

HBP IS NO RESPECTAL OF AGE OR TRIBE OK.

Ur sense of judgement would fly out immediately other people who are not ur tribe or religion involved.

Meanwhile, when you want to do business, seeking medical help or education advancement, u forgot religion and tribe quickly.

Nazgul:
The worst is that they're the ones suffering the most.

The average Igbo man I wired to adapt and survive in any condition he finds himself. But you see those scar face people, their case is something else.


Go to states like Ekiti, Oyo, Osun...etc, you'll see poverty in all its Glory and splendor. Yet Igbos are their problem.

More than 99% of those posting account details here on Nairaland to beg for money are yourbas. Yet their all mighty strategist is in power.

Go and check front page, they posted underage of igbo girls that were arrested in Anambra, maybe Anambra not igbo again.

I know u won't find time to ask, because ur mental stability needed to be treated, going by the way one yoruba guy is fuckkkin ur mama, and little money is giving her ,she is not given u from it, and that making u angry and crazy.

........ I will help u by telling u reason,why anambra girls full brothel, poverty has completely swept igbo, a third class tribe in Nigeria, in other to feed, igbo now send their teenager daughters to the street. I think people have tired of their mama pusssssy already.

Millimann:
I think it's the other way round.

Igbo girls allow only the wealthy yoruba men to marry them while the poor ones like you are left to marry the Yoruba girls. Do you see Igbo men going to marry yoruba girls? Mention Igbo men that you know that are married to yoruba ladies. But to the yoruba men, marrying an Igbo girl is like winning the World Cup.

Go to brothel near u and do urself good, Igbo girls litter ashewo joints all over the countries, Igbo girls and women are hot cake for aboki and bambiala


While Abokis beg in the afternoon to feed, he must branch to where Igbo women litter, to select in other to release tension before he crawls back to slum to sleep for the second day hustle.