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Peer pressure most especially during the time of youthful excuberant, it's a big factors that destroy life and destiny.

Many destroyed during this time, hardly recovered again in life time.


Another reason is devil/spiritual factors.


Meanwhile, though some parents are good, they refuse to train/displined their children for them not to go bad. (What I passed through, I don't want my children go Tru them)

Inyaky:
The moment I said let's get to know each other first before doing something my guy vex, I no send am, being single is not a crime.

Your ["let get to know each others"] means...... Even though,no access to my hole for now, it doesn't stop me to be swimming in the pool of ur cash......

Flier:
Does he look like someone they tortured? As mad as he is,police will probably fear him because of his little connections.

So, their efforts are in futility if they can't give him small displined while in the cell.

Becos court case issue has failed even before it started.

internationalman:
Steve Holland
Frank Lampard &
Graham Potter

Those are the only English coach to have coached Chelsea since the acquisition of Chelsea by Roman Abrahamovic.

I hope to never see any English coach in Chelsea again henceforth..

The fact that in their own League, non of the top 6 clubs have English managers or that no English manager has won the EPL in 31 years tells a lot about their coaching capabilities and capacity.

Don't even get me started on the UEFA Champions League. No English manager has won the UEFA Champions League in 39 years.

They are only good at criticizing or telling managers of other countries how to do their jobs while they themselves never do it.

The new owner also needs education in "football club management", 50% of current Chelsea problems caused by him.

Im very sure, a little torture would have reset his brain to some extent,. Let see if he will act normal in next 4 months.

ChybuzzDD:
I believe you urgently need a new life.

You have been so much damaged.

If ur brain not damaged, you would have told her nothing but pure truth,in other for her to be able to leave peacefully,not only with her in-laws but also neighbors.

Keep on pampering her ego here, while in reality, home is hotter for her on single second, mainly because of her character. She would soon come online to narrate , life as single mother.

Emmapub:
You need to watch TVC program called journalists Hangout at times and see the impunity they do there and nobody has sanctioned them…

I wonder if Nigeria we remain one if APC continues the way they have been going since 2015.
God help us …

If u are updating urself on daily basis, you would know that TVC news still fined not up to 2 months, though prejudice would not allow you to read that part of new.

U shall continue paying fines........ infact, that's another way for govt to raise revenue not even when naija is broke.



You want freedom that would throw Nigeria into 94 Rwanda genocide

When it happens, you enter plane and fly to America leaving people like us that are not opportuned as you are, in crises ridden country.

Olamidegal:
he's supporting his family by keeping malice with me in the house, he always supports his family , his sister can never do any wrong in his eyes. I live like an outsider in this marriage because my husband believes his father and sister are his family and they must be satisfied if I want ti see his good side

He just keeping malice with you because you respect his family ?

Every uncoth words you said about him and his family, did u remember to say it loudly here? Dnt u know he stay close to his people, before you agreed to be his wife?

Sorry for those that are supporting your one sided story and more pity for you, because only you will face bigger consequences if you don't learn fast how to humble enough to leave peaceful with husband's family.

ChybuzzDD:
Bros, as far as this particular case is concerned, you didn't write on behalf of the responsible men here, including the misogynous apha ones

You are on you own here.

That husband needs to be man enough and be incharge of his family.

A foolish man hears from one side and starts acting gragra, if u like belong to missogyny, gay or whatever. I'm less concerned.

Then, elders usually say ..... "husband house is the place where women learn" I doubt if you have proper upbringing for you to hear those words of elders!

Thank God u read where she said, her husband is now surporting sister and family.

When husband finally done with her and thrown her house, I biliv she would come to ur own house, thank God u re finding it difficult to have serious relationship with girls, .....she will come to your house to dominate you and ur family.

I haven't read half of ur post when I stopped reading, having realised that indeed u need marital tutorials, I pray ur marriage won't scatter before 5 years of ur marriage, I noticed of high ego in you and a wife who will not accommodate in-laws for whatever reason,and above all anger issues.

AN HUMBLE WIFE WOULD HAVE PICKED UP HER WRAPPER AND WASHED IT HERSELF AND LET THE SLEEPING DOG LIES.

I biliv that 70% of marital issues that are coming up in ur marriage are caused by you, because of ur domineering tendency.

if ur story is true, I will tell ur husband that he has succeeded wifed" his boss.


ANYBODY CAN SAY WHATEVER FROM NOW TILL TOMORROW, IF YOU ARE A WIFE AND YOU FIND IT HARD TO ACCOMMODATE YOUR IN LAWS , YOU WONT HAVE PEACE.

REASONS WHY SINGLE MOTHERS LITTER EVERYWHERE.

I start

Bobloco:
These are no speculation

These are the "best brains" Tinubu will bring forward

El Rufai as NATIONAL SECURITY ADVISERS?

Definitely a round peg in square hole.

.....and Bagudu as CBN gov, definitely Tinubu not ready yet to fix Nigeria.

DMerciful:
God does not support thieves! God cannot be mocked!

Put Ur self in position of God and install Obi ok.


A well known thief like Asiwaju you are conderm. Infact his own even worse.....no achievement to point to and no army of followers who are today achievers that he breed in the past.

Alaigbopress:
A serious president Elect would have even started working but this one is just strolling in France. Nigeria is in for a long thing. Hide and Sick president again

I guess he should start issuing executive order, even when sitting president still on the throne.

In other not to get HBP, I will advise you to accept faith and pray for God that has installed him against all odds to make him successful in steering the affairs of the nation.

If you biliv Tinubu is not good in ur eye, but God sees him as person to rescue the nation,what will you about that?


Oga, when God says yes nobody can say no

Shedrack777:
1. lack of job opportunities for the ladies.
2. ladies now love prick more than the way men love pussy.
3. all social media platforms now promote sex as a necessecity for singles

All ur blames are on women and no single blame for men.

....... imagine u are in position to be a chief in ur community, prejudice would be order of the day

Dizzyyish:
A church, irrespective of denomination, is perhaps the worst place to find a wife.

When women are done with 'having fun' or "living their truth" they know where to settle in to get a man, and all they'll have to do is 'play the sanctimonious part'.

Also, where one meets her may not be relevant if she has already lost her virginity (shout out to virgin Mary!)

Also also, the women in the first and second images are wearing "bad bxtch" uniforms, so that one follow for 'wifey material'?

Make sure you go to club house to choose ur wife ok, infact, make it obligatory to select among stripers ok

I think he needs to be torture maybe his brain will be reset.

I'm now reason why bubu totally schemed them out in his govt, they started again.


They would soon wailing marginalisation as usual.

Kobonaire4:
All in all, the agitation for Interim government shows that people are angry with APC led government

The harsh truth is that more people voted against the ruling party than for the ruling party. The ruling party won because the opposition vote was divided. They should sit up and do better...

Who do you think they/Buhari will handed power for in case of interim govt?

Better say u don't want power to come to south west.

JasonScoolari:
That's one thing I admire about the Afenifere leader, Chief Ayo Adebanjo, He doesn't give room for any silly tribal slurs from his own people.

The suspended Publicity Secretary and National Organizing Secretary maybe one of those miscreants championing the hate towards Igbos...

God bless Chief Ayo Adebanjo with good health and wisdom.

........but for "ohanaeze, no matter what Igbo man or woman does, they will either back him or reluctant to speak out, that was how south east fell for Monday intimidation.

Neweramify:
Op your wife was wrong, but try and understand her fear. Most women feel inconvenient around their mother inlaw. Not because she hates her mother inlaw but for the fear of the unknown.

Let her know how you feel knowing she wanna bring her mum in when she rejected your mum. I'm sure she will feel remorse of her action.

Permit her to bring her mum, cause if anything happen to the old woman, she may accuse you of one thing or the other.

If indeed you are a woman, I pity the man that will end or has ended up with you.


....and for the OP, it's time you proofed that you are in charge of your home.

I will not be surprised if ur siblings are not coming to ur house again just because of wife who has succeeded in fencing you out from ur own siblings but now bring her people to replace ur family.

Islandboi:
Yes I said what I said. That thing called marriage is not for guys that are still struggling. 3 of my neighbour pikin are not going to school again as I speak. The man is even owing 7 months house rent and it’s draining him.

Landlord don come house use vex throw them outside. His wife is working as well but the money is just not enough. Love is just never enough. It’s really a tough one on them.

Note : I’m not using my neighbour predicament to laugh or anything. I’m only stating the fact and to advice young men out there not to venture into marriage when you don’t have money.

Yet the African richest man married and remarried, still not be able to hold on to a woman in 60s.

Neverslumber:
Seems this man is just jobless. He doesn't contribute anything to whatever party he belongs to. Don't forget, he lost even his polling unit and ward.

Meanwhile, u haven't commented on what he says ok.

Where is differences that obi was clamouring for?

Rokiat:
Many women are not gonna like what I am about to type.

But before you get married to anyone you have to check for red flags, and certain patterns or behaviours. and if these are red flags you can live with for the rest of your life.

We all infact have red flags but you have to see if you can live with this for the rest of your life or not, the problem with most people especially women is that they think these things will changes after marriage or that the person loves you so they will change no nobody changed just because they loves you.


So before you rush into this thing called marriage think, study and don’t rush just to settled down or because you are desperate because marriage is not like dating where you can just up and leave because now you are not happy. You are ripping your whole family apart especially if you have kids.


This is why there are so many divorces nowadays because people are rushing into it and ignoring all the red flags thinking marriage will change their person. No it wouldn’t.




I really can’t give you a solution because I am not in your shoes, so you have to take this decision by yourself. You have to think of all the pros and cons of leaving this man and decide. So ask yourself,
how is this man with you? Is he a great husband? a great provider? and only the cheating has been his down fault so far? Can you trust him again? Are you willing to look pass this?

Ultimately the decision is yours and yours alone because we are not there with you and him behind closed doors.

Good luck.

I cherish ur advice, but hope you know, sometimes, new friends/colleagues, new job, financial progress, overnight fame,etc do influence husband/wife and make him/her does what he/she not known for from Adam?


Husband can start drinking/smoking even though he is not doing them before.

Husband can change religion.

Wife may start attending parties.

Wife may start going to babalawo places.

Jobless wife might get job in which salary triple husband.

Husband may loose job.

All these as a result of influences and not behaviors from very beginning o

Omobithousand:
My hubby cheated and has been begging me to forgive him but i can't find it in my mind to cos the messages and everything i saw really messed me up... never knew i could feel this way
Please I'll welcome Ur advice and bashing and if you also have a
Marriage counselor please share his or her number with me.. thanks.

Ok oooo, leave ur husband and become single mother, afterward you can now become side chick for married men.

Obidientyoruba:
Seriously?? That means if the new government is inaugurated they will ban social media entirely

Will citizens die? Or human beings had not been existed before social media?


You want to sit in one corner of ur a room and be throwing bombs to the entire country , claiming freedom of speech!

....long arm of government will surely catch you......

imagrg:
This beautiful young lady asked me in confidence how she could treat her smelling private.

She stressed that she washes her private well when taking her bath yet it stinks to Aso Rock.

What's the solution to this embarrassment?

She asked u in private u carry her private to world : wide : web:

doublewisdom:
I for talk o. Na urchins misconstrue the whole thing. Keep fanning the embers of war, we go cure una madness soon.

Hopeless person/people like u have little or nothing to loose in the event of crises, burning of property and business, infact, that is when frustrated and porn addicted guy like you will be able to steal whatever you will eat for few days before normalcy restore

limeta:
How is that eve possible when you meant to be fasting.
Muslim by the end of Ramadan put on more weight the fasting part seems to only be on their lips and angry faces but the add weight is constant year after year .

My friend, we are just observing it because one ancient warlord impose it on us oo.

This is to tell the whole world that it's Ramadan time, u guys eat like gluttony.