₦airaland Forum

brunobaba:
I have been married for 8 years,every woman has their issues,patience and perseverance will work if one really loves his/her partner,even when we fight,we still eat from the same plate and sleep on the same bed.

I bilived you read all my comment and not just part A

Fulani will restructure naija


Anyway,maga will fall sha.

brunobaba:
I agree with you that even the ones sleeping on the same bed cheat,my assertion was based on the comment that as soon as he became a weekend husband,things started feeling better.

If u have married and more so if u married a nagging woman you will understand

PlanktonX:
Oga, don't be deceive. The devil is very cunning. That is not marriage. But the togetherness of the people to fulfill selfish desire.

In ur dictionary.

People like you(3rd party) are majority while marriages are collapsing on daily basis. What you want in ur life/marriage/career you will want others to like it at all cost.

My advice for you, learn how to leave and let leave

gorgeousnogo:
Where is this one from?

Ur village.

Again to rest dey ur hand ooo. And if u are rest cos of what guys posted about women, well, God will give you rest.

brunobaba:
One of them is cheating,you can take that to the bank.

And for the couples that are sleeping on same bed for years,....how many of them can you swear that, one of them not cheating?

Emergingnation3:
Ndigbo want Biafra, not presidency...

Let your Fulani government conduct referendum as requested, to enable us choice btw Nigeria and Biafra,

95% of Ndigbo wil votel for Biafra , against Nigeria and her presidency...

Obiurchins should better stop "noisemaking" here and there Biko.

gorgeousnogo:
Every day, woman this, woman that, abeg allow women to rest nah

To rest dey ur hand ooooooooooo.

Emergingnation3:
Eating your imaginery water beans will never stop him from being release, and imminent Biafra actualization, Which will lead your region that can't survive without Nigeria into Oblivion...

Chronic unity Begging stunts !

They say women don't know what they want, I think it will be proper if they say IGBO doesn't know what they want.

U want peter obi as president yet you want Biafra.
.you guys still need to wait a little bit longer.

oneMalik:
The same YORUBA Igbos hate so much ! talking trash about us all the time .

Hmm ! Ok .

I respect Yoruba Tribe a lot . if am gonna come back to this world am still gonna come from the most humble Tribe in the world .

That's why Yoruba is the biggest rope still pulling Nigeria together and Igbo characters biggest reason they are outcast in their own father land.


If it was Igbo man that left chair for Yoruba candidates now......hell would have let loose.

Danisaint112:
What's the difference between meeting her in a mall, hospital or bank etc and engaging her in a conversation.

I know a man who met a lady in a bank without the lady even realising he was staring at her, after they finished their task he said at that point he knew it was his wife.

He quitely followed her, wooed her and collected and number. The rest was history. They are happily married now. And he is even a Nairalander but can't really remember his name now.

Now tell me the difference between doing that and stoping a girl on the road if you mean well.
Note: The lady didn't even realize he was in the bank.

I don't chase women. As a matter of fact I have never done it in my life. But I don't see anything wrong with it unless for those that chase like dogs and for sex.

But if I sit from afar (maybe by the roadside) and observe this beautiful woman has a beautiful character that resonates with mine I won't sit back and watch that good thing pass me by.

What sensible people would do would be join her in the walk, tell her how you admire her character and not her butt or boobs and that you like to get her contact to know her better (be a gentle responsible man).

If you play you card well she will be smiling while giving you her number. And if she does, you thank her and let her know you will get back to her. Simple.

I don't see anything wrong in it.
Honestly it's just "understanding." And only your act would give her and people around you the impression of whether or not you are a nymphomaniac.

Not everyone must marry people they know for long or their friend.

Hope you know the meaning of coincidence?.

Coincidence can make you ask women out anywhere.

....but for u to just stop a woman on road and start asking her out for relationship, ....it says you are he-goat..... infact, any lady agreed on that, ....watch out for her, either she is covertly/overtly olosho, or she is desperate for relationship.

Danisaint112:
If it's about wooing them as in asking for sex, then that's bad but I see no wrong in stopping a lady and demanding for her just to get to her better.

Many married married couple today met that way and are living happily.

Nature of the holy books never stated you must meet a woman In a circle else she won't be responsible or it would end up making you look like a humanizer.

Holy books didn't say that, but a cultured man will not just walk into random ladies and ask for relationship, it's odd, only tout/women hunter do that.
........... coincidence is supposed to link two of you together before it leads to relationship/ marriage and not just .......hey u girl.

Prettygirl200:
Sister what are you saying? There's nothing wrong with that.

Any guy/man that just stops you on the road, asking for relationship, just know you are dealing with skirts hunter, though, it's left for you if you ready to date/marry community husband o.

But in future, do not generalise every man with community man you married as a result of your carelessness.

In ur own way abi?


Some marriages last mainly because they sleep in different room.


I av seen a couple who were always fighting then, wen they were under the same room, after some time, hubby rented room outside and normally come home every weekend, ever since they start leaving in separate places, their marriage experiencing sweetness.

Allison012:
Why give telecommunication company road to construct.?


When did MTN turned into a construction company?

Read it again before you crictised again and again.


Meanwhile,let me educate you if u reread and still not understand.


MTN will construct the road with their own money. (The tax they supposed to pay in future, not tax that has been incurred o).

MTN will now give the contract to construction company to do.

Federal government will now supervise it and make sure it worth the amount in TAX they gave it for MTN.


(This type of policy is the best for country that corrupt like Nigeria, .......if MTN pay money in future, what give u assurance it won't end in private pockets?

If it's federal government that wants to award it directly, bottleneck and bribery, down the line, will reduce quality of the project far more than, if its MTN that do it directly.

3. Where is the money currently for govt to award it itself, conserdering financial mess we found ourselves and yet people are suffering on secondly basis on the road.)

Democracy goes with huge amount of money being wasted here and there.


This guys now will go home with different sizes of brown envelopes , courtesy of state government

Olori is an adult and free to vote and be voted for like every other candidates, u don't need going public to endorse or disown, not even traditional rulers that expected to remain neutral.

In a saner society Tinubu and Atiku would have disgraced if they attempt to contest for election nothing even all economy and security indices not favouring masses

But our own banana republic........we go for bad people to lead in the jungle.

Mrkindness:
Why not government confiscate it and turn it into national asset. Black man is a disaster to himself. This belong to Asari Dokubo and Tinubu join business

Government don't behave like that ok.

Embarrassed? Instead for you to be tanking God you didn't cross border as a result of that.


If it happens at home and nobody was there to rescue, did you ever imagine what the outcome could be?

Is only a full time olosho will fall for this gimick.

Guy that u didn't know from Adam will just enter ur number and asking for hangout, even for her to chat with u to that extent surprises me.

So many girls will keep on asking u where and how u got their number and if you can convince, s
Thhe would not continue any chat with you.

This ur girl loyalty is just 50/50

Viraltrends123:
Government ehnnnn, the jobs and investment, they won't do, people that are ready to do it, they will still be disturbing them. If Dangote leave the site for them can they handle it, the imo government palm kernel and coconut farm, where is it today. What message are they trying to pass to other investors.

Dangote keep investing in the country despite it's Downfall, this is unlike most billionaires, even Nigerians don't appreciate, some hate to see billionaires succeeding from other tribes, all they have is fake social media billionaires that 90% of them cannot say how they made their money, and still they are naira billionaire that have never enter Forbes list. Let's try and appreciate good people investing in the country, we always ignore our governors that few days after leaving the office, they are already out of the country, years later, you will see them enter Pandora's paper of having secret investment abroad, and we the followers will say nothing is wrong with it.

if I'm the one, with my temper, I will even stop building the refinery, the government should keep importing fuel and cement,

Yes, but you can just throw away ur daddy property away freely just bcoz u can handle it.

ezegold4we:
Anybody who read what obasanjo Said about Atiku in his book titled Under my watch will Know that Atiku will be the worst calamity that will befall nigeria after Buhari,

Those saying atiku is the most experienced are correct, yes,

Atiku is the most experienced in stealing, corruption, and buying Back all our national investment when he was the chairman of BPE, atiku that can't stand on his Twitter Post of Deborah Samuel, atiku that can't unite wike and pdp for months now, Atiku that spent $16 billion on power sector yet there's darkness everywhere, atiku that lives in Dubai, Atiku that has been contesting presidential election since 1993, atiku that has not for once condemned banditry in the north, Atiku that has Never condemned herdsmen killings in the middle belt, atiku is everything evil and backwardness, atiku that was dismissed from custom's for stealing and massive corruption,

Only ignorant babies in adult body will be proud to mention Atiku that is already outdated,

Only criminals and corrupt souls will be rooting for atiku.

Apart from health and probably same faith ticket, to me, Tinubu is the best among contestants, though not best in nigeria to occupy the position.

ochejoseph:
Read it again

I will advise u to reread. Maybe I should rinse ur face water to clear ur eye from dozing or sleeping.

ochejoseph:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/10/2023-why-atiku-is-miles-ahead-oche-otorkpa/

Ur analysis is only meant to discredit a certain individual among them.

So, no area where tinubu is better in all factors u listed.

Quinex2:
Hardly sleep indeed..lol.

Hope u Know number six talk about guy who purposely going to church for girls and for girls going thr fir guys

Nazgul:
It would depend on her age. If she started the business in her late 40s or early 50s, she'll definitely be faithful, her male customers would cast their perverted mind towards her female workers and not her.

But one thing is certainly about allowing your wife manage a bar business even though she doesn't cheat on you...your daughters would be whóres cos they'll become the delight of her male customers.

I laugh and still laughing in swahili.....I guess u re learner in women parole.


Some guys like ages 30s do hunt such ages to swell up their egos.

Atiku despirately entered the race only to nail the coffin of PDP for burial.

Instead for northern PDP govs to behaved like their counterpart in APC if truly they love Nigeria, they were proofing that they are intelligent in area of politics, most especially Tambuwa , if they had supported Obi, by now, the days of APC in government will be numbered.

I think Atiku will receive total humiliation in next year election and opens door for evil party to continuing rulling banana republic.

Quinex2:
I'm a mix of all aside number 5. I hardly sleep in church, no matter how boring the preaching gets. I hardly use my phone too, though unconsciously do, sometimes.

Number six, u also engaged in it, little wonder u hardly sleep.

Reasonwithme2:
I was having couples conversation with my girl. And she told me that she don't want to change her last name after marriage.
She wants us to emulate Olu Jacobs and Joke Silva.

Please what are the consequences of not changing her last name..

Tell her to marry one of her brothers, it would give her automatic way to bear the name.


Saying that is a red flag that she may not be a submissive wife and ready to be a single mother anytime.

AndroBlaze:
No mind them...na children fill this thread with their imaginary generalisations.

The answer is a capital YES, dated one for ages and we had problems, but it was never about infidelity (easily the most faithful lady I have ever known) or even her closeness to male customers (who they will normally see at their weakest state and thus can easily take advantage of). Our problems was more about her stubbornness and independent spirit....since she owned her own business and men of all calibre (customers) respected her for it, she expected her partner to show the same deference...that description of deference for a lady is not me, lol!!

"Problem was stubbornness and independent spirit".......yet u still carry ogun to swear with ur ball about her fidelity.

Since you claimed to be older, I guess u re totally naive man,when it comes to beer parlor paroles and women manipulations.



I have heard,seen and involved in uncountable issues like this in drink places for years.



I dated a married lady in a joint for a year before I left the place, no single soul ever known or thought that we were going out, including my closet friends that we normally met thr for drinking and playing everyday.

Infact, they could swear that such thing wasn't going on.

The lady husband sometime played with me,and always respect me, even though he is one kind hard guy, he was respecting me bcoz he didn't ever imagine such thing was going on.

Attention seeking man, masquerading like madam.