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Promzy99:
Its very disheartening to know that a lot of men go through a lot silently in their relationships.

Open your eyes when you are dating you said no, many of you would say, you dnt believe in man taking woman money for any reason, this is one of outcomes.

..... For me in my marriage, sometimes, I would reprimand my wife from buying things for me, I dnt know how many clothes, shoe, bag etc she bought for me in the past..........

If you guys really meet good woman and if the two couples ready to compromise for blissful marriage, you guys would enjoy marriage maximally.

OgunLaakaye:
I will use this medium to tell all and all, if you in the class of people who don’t believe powers exist on Earth, please detest from it.

Before you make claims to your imaginary, unfounded and fictional assertions, please try to do a “PERSONAL STUDY” before coming online to say voodoo does not exist.

I tell you one truth that was never writtten in any holy book, “When the Almighty created Earth, he placed it in the hands of humans, giving them limitations.”

Those who don't bilv, they themselves had been used and the most pathetic is that, they are not aware, possiblity that they would die in that situation

BadNews:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/2022/07/02/yahoo-boys-police-react-to-viral-video-of-lady-stripped-naked-barking-like-dog/

See The Previous Thread

https://www.nairaland.com/7206800/lady-used-money-ritual-runs

At the end, if ever got convicted, he would be convicted for 2 months, why won't they continuing in their wicked acts?

Ndibuna:
You know nothing of election winning small boy. Ọya take this ball and go play in the rain, your food will be ready before dawn so you can eat and sleep off.

U need not to reply clown in other not to pamper his ego indirectly.

An opposition candidate that neglected his biggest weaponry and want to unseat party in government.

That kid thought it is only Wike that his fighting Atiku, not knowing that several serving and ex govs are with Wike

Ayinke93:
The fact that you people spend the most part of your days bashing women, speaks more about your joblessness and lack of purpose in life. If you all were busy, and have something going on for you, women and what they choose to do with their vaginas** won’t be the only topic you people knee jerk about at every opportunity. You can shove your unsolicited opinions up your a$s. I only care about the moderators and how they allow so many low lifers get away with the bullying everyday.

Joblessness? Not me.

Meanwhile, let women stop that mentality.I insist the bashing will die naturally.

From the point I listed, you didnt counter one and proof a point, instead, you keep talking and lamenting about bashing.


Doesn't many naija ladies dnt make relationship as source of income? Yes or No

Ayinke93:
Something is definitely wrong with the operators of this forum and the way topics are titled to insult women in order to drive traffic from low lifers that call themselves redpillers. So anybody that is mentally unstable was used for money rituals? Has this claim been verified? What other form of reactions were the mods expecting if not another round of women bashing and misogyny. @seun I don’t think this path of endlessly promoting topics that give avenues for women to be bullied on this forum is healthy. It’s very unfair that you have something this toxic attached to your legacy and you are doing nothing about it.

It’s not enough to only curb tribalism, political and religious intolerance in this platform because I see you have methods in place for that, but the misogyny on this platform stinks and you should really do something about it.

Cc Seun, lalasticlala

Preach for ur fellow women not to make relationship / VJ as a means of livelyhood and see that bashing will die of natural death.

After all , they bash women and not Ayinke.

OriOko88:
Na rituals those yahoo boys dey do now. Na so one guy suddenly becomes rich in my neighborhood,within three months he had build a gigiantic shopping complex.. Infact all mouths were wowed at d speed and pace he built the shopping complex.. In less that two months. He later bought a venza. And was a talk of d town. A very young boy oo...like 28 29.. At last he died suddenly last week.. Very shocking death. People could not even rent d shops again.. That that scenario makes me believe that ritual truly exists. D guy case really surprised me.

Rituals truly exit? With time u will understand philosophies of life fully.

....... people are taking and trading with destinies, it's complete slowpoke that claimed ignorance of existence of supernatural powers biko......

IamAsiri:
That's how some of you add 2+2 up and come up with 20. How sure are you that the husband is not aware of her message? Or don't you know that it's how women think? The least the women thought she could help with is the house chores, because she believes that the family is indebted to the man. The man can choose to politely decline and laugh it off, that the help he rendered is not a big deal. Else, they'd will be acting as if they are walking as if on eggshells around him.

Common sense will tell her that such assistant would be communicated through her husband. That's how to show clean mind ok.

akenzua74:
. My friend's wife did same to me severally, we're like brother and sister no corrupt feelings towards her. Pls control your mind abeg. Will think of sex if she was your sister?

That ur friend wife doesn't have single respect for her husband. Infact, you too have no regards for your friend. Bye

MITCHELL96:
Will they ever learn ?

Stop following these Yahoo boys up and down

If Client no pay them, they'll be left with no option than to do rituals on top your head, But these girls want to drip and slay without any hardwork, Mtchew!

If you see girls/ladies/women mind (mentality) when dating guys ehn, you would know this type of narrative will keep on growing.

I dnt have single sympathy for her

Many see men as only mean to get money, when they have functional brains, and when legs and hands are not deformed o.

Infact, some ladies, if they buy expensive clothes,bag or hairdos, all their mind would be how to get triple of the money from guys. Guys who are not your daddy, uncle or brother. As if it was guy who forced her to go for what she couldn't afford.


If all ur mind and mentality tailored towards getting money from guys at all cost,why won't you be victim of such relationship.

If you can see what Yahoo boy/rich guys normally subjected some ladies to, you will weep for this generation.

killmods:
Modern marriages are not made to last because a lot of us see the institution as old school. So many woman want the "married" title but still live like singles without any measure of self control and discipline and the men are not left out. No wonder it's very easy to fûck married women lately. Our women used to cut off certain habits and ties once they're married but lately it's not that way. Modern life has confused a lot of people and they will never realise that it's all intentional to destroy the institution of marriage and family as ordained by God. Those who control how the world works are against anything Godly. Look around u and see what is being promoted. All nonsense is now normal. They term it woke or wtv. We are steadily heading towards destruction. All of us

Not only on women side but men too, men want to marry yet still want to do like single, carry different girls even to notice of wife, go out and sleep outside at will, some spend recklessly for women outside and refuses to bring money.

Think9ja:

Call it insecurity, call it low self-esteem, call it pride, call it any names you choose.

I will not have anything to do with a woman that has an advantage over me in any aspect of life.

If you're earning 50k, I must be earning 100k.
If your body counts is five, mine must be ten.
If you have five exes, I must have at least fifteen.
If you have a bsc I must be doing my masters
If you are thirty years I must be thirty five
If your family's net worth is 15M, mine must be 20M
If we both drive a Toyota, I must be driving the more expensive one.

Anything called "Couple's Twist" which seeks to answer many questions relating to relationship, courtship and marriage". is absolute rubbish to me.

And after marriage of 15 or more years with grown up children, God answer ur wife, her income triple ur own?

You guy should learn how to think in broad way.

From very first day you want to ask a lady out, know urself and who you want to ask out, from the day she agrees, make sure u re on top of relationship, after marriage, maintain ur headship, (even if she receiving millions as income, make sure you still doing responsibility of husband at home).

Wen marriage still going on smoothly, be orientating her time to time, It's completely tru that women have fish brains (inferior to man brain) though, only wen it comes to relationship with man o, I think God deliberately did it that way.

Berankis:
Some ladies are naturally and permanently born-stupid! And some guys too can be irritatingly daft.
Go ahead allow her to CUM ova to your house to show appreciation as a woman.
This is irritating! I dislike things like these.
And I sense you Op are an Opportunist & weak too and very immature. A married man acting like a Neophyte.
It's obvious this is just some women's antics. Don't mind all those bastard ladies saying your mind is going towards sex. Yes it is about sex! And if you allow her to come, please do come back to give us the gist of how you messed up your reputation and dignity.

Infact, I begin to believe that women have fish brain.
Indeed ,they are something else.
Going to wash man's clothes that is not ur husband, daddy or ur sick brother without wife in his own house.


If she is honest, why dnt she tell her to bring them to their house to wash them for him?

Yet, some people Muslim-muslim ticket to fly again, even though Muslim want to leave office

hopman98:
I think the north will deliver bloc votes for BAT if he picks a northern muslim gov as running mate but this will cost him southern nigerians votes, majorly christians. The country is in a delicate situation. I'm a muslim but a muslim muslim ticket is a time bomb, it'll further cause disunity and animosity

And u think south will vote for northern candidate?

For me, the problem would come after coming to power, will him be able to govern in peace?

Today, Buhari failure largely coming from bigotry and ethnic jingoism



If he chooses Boss Mustapha , he would definitely win, he only need to pacify them after nomination

Osinbanjo not strong as Mustapha in 2014 when APC as opposition won, how much more when APC is in power and VP is secretary to federal government

BloomingDale:
I wonder if the governors in those countries come to Nigeria for vacation.

Can you go to Afghanistan to relax?
Naija is in league of Afghanistan o

YoungLionken:
Radiography, you will thank me later...

How did he wants to thank you later?

How many job opportunities available for radiographer

PARADIZEPRIEST:
NA CERTIFICATE PAPER MENTALITY MAKE NAIJA COUNTRYNO MOVE FORWARD,THAT'S WHY PPL WEY GO UNIVERSITY THEM NO SABI ANYTHIN BUT COME OUT WITH CERTIFICATE DEY SPEAK NONSENSE ENGLISH FOR NYSC CAMP.
AND FOR EMPLOYMENT INTERVIEW NKO,YOU GO WEEP FOR NAIJA GRADUATES,THEM NO SABI ANYTHIN THEY CLAIM TO HAVE STUDIED.
LET'S CHANGE THE PARADYM LET SERBITICATE COME BEFORE CERTIFICATE O! SO THAT ,THE BEST PSN WEY SABI CAN DO THE JOB WELL FOR SOCIETY TO BETA

Even in universities, citadels of learning, go there and see PhD and masters degrees holders, struggling to impact knowledge on students, angry if students ever attempt to ask questions and do gragra on issues of attendance.

wolesmile:
Truth be told.... What do they teach in schools? You realize when you get to the labour market that, except for some professional fields of study, the certificate is just for prestige. What you need to do the job is experience.
I had BSc Geography, and I've been in the banking industry for like 15 years. Oya, where my certificate come for here?

If you really worth the certificate they awarded for you, it would help you greatly to do ur work with no or minimum supervision and higher productivity.

If you dnt worth it, u won't be able to think outside box, always relying on others to carry out responsibility

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. I noticed that, in Nigeria, most employers are more interested in ur Certificate and with less or no concern abt ur Sabificate. I once applied for a teaching job in a private school. During our discussion and interview, the proprietor made a remarkable statement. He said, We aren't interested in ur Certificate, we are only interested in ur Sabificate. I.e Ur ability or what u can do. He gave his reason(s) and instances for that. Now, to u, which of these two would u prefer as an employer? Sabificate or Certificate? Give ur reason(s).

It's reason university education becomes worthless, go to government institutions and see officers with various degrees.

They present certificates with nothing inside skulls.

Atimes, I dnt blame *competency test that Elrufai normally conducted for teachers in Kaduna state.

Holluwhakemmy:
Celebrities marriage not the best. At last jjc son was saying it then we thought it wasn't true.

Why won't you think it wasn't true.


Every right thinking person knows that Funke is person of strong character, such person would find it hard to respect man, not even when she is in millions, if not billion.

....toyosi, his step son and one other girl that worked with her said something of such nature.

franchasofficia:
When a black woman is richer and more popular than her husband, it always end in tears.


As a black man, pray for God's mercy and grace so that you will always be financially in charge of your marriage if not, you are on a very long thing :'

Stephanie Okereke's marriage has been largely successful because her husband is financially in charge. Same with Mercy Johnson.

Black women don't joke with money. Financial success is the number one quality black women look for in a man, when this quality is lacking, an average black woman will never appreciate any other good qualities of the man, she will then focus on the man's negative qualities to hold on to as a reason to seek out.

Omotola Jalade's marriage is working cos her husband is in good financial state.


So before you marry as a black man, make sure you have put your financial life in shape and have a sustainable means of legitimate income.


Money is the number one reason marriages crash. Followed by infidelity and lack of sexual compatibility

Giving like to comments is highly expensive for me, I give you big like plus mention


I pray Toyin Aimaku survives marriage crash too, ......"for, ..he would soon tire of spending for his man......

With this type of richer than husband wife,if husband mistakenly smiles with woman, even if it's just friendship, he shall smell his own body odour that day.

kenedy175:
You're the one hallucinating oo. I don't know your stand sha! Please who are Bello, Umahi and co in Nigerian political system?

I told u they did *gragra just like u re doing gragra now in ur analysis.

Ur nerve will come down more than their nerves after election

ityP:
Tinubu will even win in Kano. Forget all these your analysis. Kwankwaso will get massive votes in Kano but even at that Tinubu will win the state. Politics is local

Why responding to man whose sense of reasoning has completely blinded by prejudice?

As if, it's not Kwankwaso that Ganduje had booted out of party.
Kwankwaso will struggle to get 40% in Kano and that's only state he can win up to 30% in the north, for south, no state he can win up to 5% and for Atiku, he would struggle to win just 3 states down south.

Lagos, Katsina, Kano, Oyo are in Tinubu pocket already, these are massive votes o.

I think the only two remaining massive state's votes now, are rivers and Bauchi.....if rivers slip again!

kenedy175:
Lol... please where are you from and where are you based?

Atiku Won't split any vote In SE with Peter Obi. That's comical and funny to think of.

Okowa isn't liked by deltans talk more of South South people. Wike would have been a much better option to get a chunk of South South vote for Atiku. SS and SE are for Obi. It's a no brainer

Tinubu may have SW on lockdown. He'll definitely have more votes than the rest in SW.

Atiku has the core north locked down for himself. Obi can get something in the north central. It may not be convincingly.

So this is how I think it will go..

Atiku will take the core north. Kwankwaso will also do well in the north. People thinking that Tinubu stands a chance In the core north don't know how northerners play politics.

The north central will be a battle ground which I think Obi will do well in even if he doesn't get the majority.

SS and SE are already in the cooler for Obi. Wike would have done damage to Obi in the SS if he was Atikus running mate.

SW will be lockedown for Tinubu

My assertions are based on the fact that I'm from the SE, lived almost my whole life in the core north and currently In the SS.

Infact, I salute ur hallucinations, it's second to none bro.

....Yeye Bello, Umahi,Lawal. All did gragra by way of hallucinations more than this, less than a month ago, today, their nerves come down almost lifeless.

BrutusOj:
Women are by default blackmailers. She knows that some folks on the social media space will believe her reason(s) for breaking up with her husband once they hear abuse without hearing from the husband or getting any concrete evidence.

Fani-kayode wife said more than this, today she is back to the house of allegedly penis-less man

Marriage sweet when two of you really understand each other and ready to shift ground in other for the marriage to work and blissful.

SecretAgent770:
How My Journey to UK for a Job Turned to Organ Harvesting-Davido Nwamini narrates ordeal, shares amidst tears



https://www.facebook.com/101998624848732/posts/pfbid02ZpW7Lv9cvcunvpQduXbzRbjN4WCzkfpBgm1sDre72MAGRMcGDkSPKVbKAEkPrQ3Nl/

Thief, your facial expressions alone says alot about ur evil nature.

Though I blamed ekeremadu for not let you sign with ur handwriting of consent.

I think he learned in hard way now

CheapHomes1:
What is this one even saying? Complete off point.

Simple question: How did PDP offend Wike?

If a sitting governor who has seeing it all in politics said that, and PDP ,the main opposition party ,who was in power saying, they will go and beg Wike ,how much less you, ordinary nairaland urchin.

I repeat, sit down thr o, the real stake holders understand.

For you, you have nothing to loose rather than vomit ur myopic thought.

CheapHomes1:
Mr brother, it's the same question I am asking myself. Dude contested an election and lost. I don't know what all these emotions flying around is for

Sit down thr o, u will not know until wen election results are coming out.

The gap that would be, between Tinubu and Atiku would be unprecedented.

Rivers, Edo and Benue are out of reach for Atiku already.

Even south East states, I doubt if he will secure 2 states.

.......,infact Atiku nailed his coffin already.

Fahdiga:
Whatever that is the outcome of this case, Ike Ekweremadu has ruined his reputation.

How? Infact, I am beginning to fear for Nigeria youth most especially, set of humans beings on this platform, you and all other who like ur comment are not only crazy for wicked hearts.

Every new discovery is pointing that, the guy is evil and wanted to wreck entire family because of greedy, dubious, manipulative and myopic mind, yet u keep talk trash.

Just because ekeremadu politican and probably bad on his own doesn't make him to suffer for offence he didn't commit nah

Where did Sodiq got money to win party primary and the one he would use for main election? Obviously, money meant for bokoharm crises? Officers are dying on daily basis on the battlefield, while military hierarchy are smiling to the bank in the comfort of their offices.