₦airaland Forum

tutudesz:
Udom Emmanuel performance is out of this world, his Government is all about capital project and such project is already turning Akwa Ibom to a investment destination
Wike would be my second choice, he can deal with anybody regardless of your personal relationship with him. That what we need now

Wike character, is not good for president of Nigeria, he is too domineering.

I am very sure that 75% of those who donated the Money are not treating their workers very well. Infact , many would still owe staff salaries and many are shortchanging staff wen it comes to renumerations, these are staff that they are using to get money oooo.

But before a rich man, who is not necessarily need their money, they are coughing since yesterday.

[quote author=Candycrushy post=107719914]Please dont mind my typos...
Y'all remember my last post about h

Candycrushy:
Please dont mind my typos...
Y'all remember my last post about how a guy threatened me because I didn't ask his proposal. He works at gigm. Well...after much considerations on how to go about the issue, I decided to send gigm a mail to lodge my compliant, I was also able to gather enough evidence from our chats and sent to them.
Gigm promised me to look into the matter, he got sacked few days after. The guy in question chatted me to beg me to send gigm another mail telling them that we have settled so he can called back.....he sha called me to apologize and all..that aside...
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I sit back sometimes and ask questions to myself...like, why am I always unlucky with guys, I wouldn't deny that I haven't met the good ones, just very few of them..it ended in a very bad way
Ever since, its been from frying pan to fire...just when I decide to give my all to one person, boom...everything goes bad...I'm happy for one thing tho, I have something that keeps me busy, I'm not an idle person. But sometimes when I'm alone, back from work, need someone to gist and laugh with...there's no one...I have friends tho, but there's always a difference with that special one...I'm not desperate for anything, this just me thinking my life while lying on my bed after a stressful day's work....
Lalasticlala please push to front page

Even though ur post is figment of imaginations

Adage says bird of a feather flocks together. You ask urself, the type of person you are, most especially ur mentality and dressing in relating with guys.

If you are bad, no matter how good the man is, it relationship will surely end messy, meanwhile,for guys to be given you gift and money, it's definitely not a yardsticks to being good as majority of women believe.

But for majority,they heavily rely on hole in BTW.

Infact, the way they claim entitlement ehnn........

adabaraabdul:
You are a very stupid person and I pray for forgiveness for you. Do you know the lady and what she does? You are amongst the numerous stupid and reckless people on nairaland, you guys open your dirty mouths to spill shit and dirt here. Very unfortunate.

If you that still alive not caution, the same faith will befall on you soonest.

Why are you bereaved more than the relative? Since you are bird of a feather that flocks together.

Doradorwa:
Your comment is totally disgusting sir... So people only go to club to prostitute abi?.... Or is there a written law that women in their 30s should not enjoy clubbing?...... You just commit a libeous act by tagging her runs girl...

Wish her well in death, that's what normal people do.

95% do go thr for sex. Infact, for the ladies, 99% go to club for runs, covertly or overtly .

Stop deceiving urself or hide under one finger.

That girl is a confirmed escort.

Meanwhile, it's abnormal people like you who wish every dead well in death, normal people will warn before journey of no return. My comment not for her again but for you and me.

I don't even know which one will can defeat among the 9 available countries

If there is hell indeed! What would she tell baba God?


I think the girl would have been in her 30s, yet still hustling dicck here and there for life achievement. Anyway that is one of occupation hazards attached to runs.

SundayNightGist:
These days it seems there is a growing number of men with the ideology that getting married either in your 20s or in your 30s as a guy is tantamount to getting your "player license" withdrawn permanently.
 
Although word on the street has it that married man wey go bleep outside go still bleep freely regardless.
 
My issue however is with the other group that simply believes that getting married is a form of bondage that stems a guy's "adventurous" side, limits his chances of maximizing his singleness and also spoils his "record".
 
Married men, na so?
 
Nairanlanders, abi how una see am?
 
Is marriage really bondage?

It's prison for them, cos freedom to bring different "nyanch" home to pound no longer visible, It's prison cos money they waste for frivilours must stop/reduce and re-channel to their family. It is prison, cos if he stays more than necessary outside, most especially at night, he will start receiving calls from wife.

All these are not prison for mature, who knows what marriage entails. That's, a call for higher responsibility.

Smartb0y:
"You people" must sha include religion and superstitious beliefs into everything

If you say that, before you know, spirit of negativity will hijack ur mind, hence you keep misleading people and pessimistic on certain issue.

The last time I checked, Satan is the chief in command of such thought

Tonnyray:
September 30 this year he was a 21 year old law student, November 16, 2021 he's a worker and married (?with kids).
The things we swallow hook, line, sinker, fisherman and the whole damn boat though
But what do I know? it's nairaland.

Yet foolish and hopeless guys on Lamentations thread will take such fake story as yardstick for their own relationship and future marriage.

Instead for them to work on themselves and open their eyes wide when choosing partners, in other to enjoy relationship and marriage, they keep on lamenting on someone relationship that is not working.

If guy has toxic mentality, his relationship or marriage must be toxic and exploded soonest, no matter how good the partner (+lady+) is.

Any form of relationship in life is give and take. I mean reaching compromise if you want it to be succeeded.

Dliquidmetal:
I went through that thread and I can only shake my big head "self induced prison" that's how I see marriage. I see no benefits in it except headaches and an Avenue for most women to have simps to dominate
Some people fear they dont wanna be lonely at old age but marriage isnt even the answer to that if that's ones fear,if at all you wan marry just make sure say no be yeye love dey carry you enter am o because love is also an emotion just like anger and sadness is and as you know with emotions change is constant

I shake my head for you too, infact the way you guys reason is something else. No's . The post you qouted , thre is high tendency that it's fake.
2. Even if it's truth, is that solid reason, not to get married?
What about those whose their wives are dishing more than enough for them? Is it a sin to tow that lane? Must you copy those who have problems with their marriages?

I pity you and ur foolish way of reasoning, thou you reason with ur age, 10 years to come, you would look back and shake ur head for ur myopic way of reasoning now, provided u are not satanic agent who is hell bent to mislead hopeless people on faceless forum.

RomanGreen:
Benefit of doubt actually, I condemn in strong terms his behaviors towards the lecturer

If lecturer did acadabra with students, you will also come online to rant that naija lecturers are not impacting positively


For a lecturer to insist that students should do needful, for is wrong thr and where does she go wrong

RomanGreen:
I feel sorry for him, the Nigerian system failed him given he said Police made him miss his papers, this does not in anyway justify what he has done .. it's totally condemnable, now Saludeen...forget everything called University, get a laptop and learn tech skills, be committed and trust me in six months you will be able to provide value which in turn brings cash to your pocket, if you must got to school...enrol online period. now most importantly work on your attitude while at all this and you'll become a better person in future

And u biliv what he said,

Romanoff:
You will still serve her breakfast.

Abi?
Una go say Nigerian girls no sabi love, this one done love you sotey she done turn Robin hood, thieving from her privileged mum to give to you the less privileged, you still come here dey complain.

Which advice you dey find gan gan?

If you no want make she dey thief give you, tell her make she stop na.

Thre are some ladies who use their money to buy love from guys who don't send them

I pity .......I want kids and not wife crew

You will hear wen at old age, in fact companionship is enough of enjoyment with ur wife u married from youth, if God gives two of u grace to live long

Overnight billionaire.


I think it has been mirage now inside government wall

Afriqan:
She was wrong too for throwing a mug at another adult. Most Nigerian lecturers tend to forget that their students are also humans who are going through their own challenges, so they misbehave at will and go scot-free.

I was enrolled in a master's program recently where the prof who was lecturing us was seemingly fond of talking down on the students. Normally these are things that should be dealt with cos respect is reciprocal, but our society is usually tilted to one angle.

You and foolish people who liked ur comment, where did you read ur own version that says the lecturer threw mug? Did you also read part where he said, .......he don't know what came over him?

Myexdisturbs:
You're obviously sick in the head

Foolish people seeking attentions from thread to thread.

Kobojunkie:
This story reminds me of another story from some months ago with a dude claiming his ex somehow in another country keeps wanting him though she is married to another man.

Look, if you are serious and you want to end the relationship with your ex, it doesn't take much to get it done, you simply cut all communication. This doesn't mean just changing your number but cutting all communication. This one wey you still dey talk say she dey come sleep over means you are not ready to end it with her.

So, spare us the epistle, if you are not ready to really end the relationship yourself.

She doesn't need to cut a single communication,if he really needs to end nonsense.

Myexdisturbs:
Hello house. This is my own story and not a friend.
I broke up with this ex of mine some months before I got married. I definitely told her I was not going to marry her bc it wouldn't work between us and we accepted that. Now more than a year after my marriage she still doesn't want me to rest.
Now you will say I should block her in all communication channels, yes I have blocked her allover medium to communicate but she still doesn't give up, she will use other numbers and as soon as I block them she gets new ones. I definitely asked her to get a boyfriend and she did get one but was still unable to flow with the guy citing that I'm always in her mind and she can't flow with any guy. It's been more than a year and she is getting me exhausted. She tricked me one day on the basis of coming to see her sister in the same town that I live without knowing she wanted to pass the night in my place. Of course I didn't agree to that.
Funny thing is that she's been offering me lots of money, that we should use it and travel out but this infuriated me and I blocked her in all channels again.

Why do some ladies find it this difficult to just move on despite knowing I'm now married. She has been tempting me to have sex with her but I'm married is that I'm married and my heart is completely with my wife. Infact I don't even see what is special in sex that will warrant me doing that with any other woman.
I have finally blocked her again and no way this time will I ever speak with her again.

If you are not hallucinating, you are the one that is not let go of ur ex.

Still waiting for new thread in future......my ex has destroyed my marriage pls I need ur advice.


Moral lesson: what you don't want to eat DO NOT SMELL IT.

Cyphar:
Just tell your heart to stop loving her. You already know it can't work out. Or do you think you can't love a younger lady the same you love her?

Even if she eventually agrees, she would be using her as assistant boyfriend, I mean errand.

Solofresh2:
Hello fellow Nairalanders, there is this lady I really love.She has a skin care spa and I do go there in the evening when coming back from work.
Her house is not very far from mine so I know her well.I have also asked her out, but she turned me down saying she has a boyfriend, which I later found out is false.I decided to distance myself from her but it seems not working.
She always call me to come keep her company her at the spa at weekends so,if I have no where to go,I do join her there.The more we see, the more I keep falling for her.

So yesterday,I told her how I feel about her,then she told me her parents won't be happy dating someone younger and moreover,I can't marry her.

There is no way I can stop seeing her because,we can see each other coincidentally

Please what should I do?

Can u toast her? Take good care of her? Fence off bigger boys who might come and hijack her?

And most important, ready to carry responsibility of fatherhood?

Ok oooo,. Since he said he cannot cover his big yam to eat

You guys will give all these urchins mouth to talk,

Man must be on top of relationship at all time

For a wife to bring another man to her matrimonial home says a lot about simp the husband

Hurt:
Sorry for correcting you, my mistake.

Oga, I knew it was wrong, after all, my phone showed it that spellings were wrong.

.........the forum is for unofficial comments and posts, I don't need to brainstorm more than necessary because I want to comment.

Thou I understand you, checking spellings and grammar still "dey intoxicates, I too was in that stage years back.

Candidlady:
I will make this really short

a friend of mine just got off the phone with me and she feels a friend of ours is having an affair with her mum.

How she got to know? She said she saw some crazy chats on her mums phone with the guy.

her dad is late, she's the third kid and only girl outta four. To add salt to injury she's into this our friend

what can she do?

She should leave the guy for her mama, thank God they haven't started having affairs.

She still young to get different kinds of guys unlike her mama

Ur life, ur hole. You owe nobody apology or explanation whoever you give ur hoe to drill for you madam.

Living ur life (most especially relationship) on social media would do u more harm that good,:;I guess ooo.

Hurt:
It's 'compatibility' and 'compatible' not 'compactability' and 'compactable'.

Professor


Hope you accepted my point, meanwhile, keep on foolproof on faceless forum , at least we will give you project supervisor chieftaincy.

Only 1 percent of people around you that would not disappoint you when u open up for them, the guy u called ur confidant , if God opens ur eye or ear to see/ ear, his mind towards you and what he or she saying behind?

Trust no one


.........The guy I called my best and close friend then, what I heard that he was saying about me for my side chicks, were unhearable, just because he too wanted to have a taste......

ahmthankgod:
You need to get mind for wetin i wan tell you. Go near the alter where their they do offering carry microphone and kindly call her out, do some little speech and you put one knee down by that time people don they shout with joy and ask her that proposal question surely it will be very suprising and romantic

The church authority must have aware of it, I guess o.