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Group of Lamentator (redpiller) would also blame Nigeria girls for this one for him to be single (baba n dagbe) by now

edunaragold:
A woman that says she is beautiful and ready to marry but the men are not coming only lies.

Tell me about it?

You see, a beautiful woman always loves handsome men, looks aren't enough to alot of woman.

Imagine a romantic caring young guy with a good job but has a bald head, loving and caring for a fair and beautiful woman he wishes to marry, only for her to turn down the offer. Years later, the guy is married to another lady and they both have beautiful kids, but the same lady is still single.

I always ask my self why, but in her phone lots of guys are always calling her. Most girls go for looks.

So any lady that says she is beautiful and still single never ready I beg; and why is it that lots of ugly girls or the girls that aren't beautiful are always the first to get married? You do the maths and me.

A lady may have 20 guys disturbing her and yet no single one will ready for serious relationship, only to see "hidden treasures and fly", ............. meanwhile, people like you, would also start counting for body-counts of such lady.

I know "friends", who would carry ladies to their mums' places just for the ladies to get assurances, yet they are placing them on toilet roll, with collaboration with their mum. Fellow woman for that matter, wasting the girl precious time, what I mine even saying, a guy went ahead to sing hit song (assurance) for a lady, yet refused to walk her to the altar ( last ,last single mother)

Ok ooo, ur post says alot about ur inexiperience and I pray you don't see other side of the world oooooooooooo.

What you are doing with easy, if you see another person doing it with great difficult or unable to do it, thre is high tendency for you not to understand his/her predicaments, since you are seeing it at different perspective.

So many ladies out there, who don't see a single guy/man woo them.

The more you look the less you see ooooo.

COOcewa:
Wow!! After seeing this news, I felt so motivated. It changed my whole life , now I'm a successful person and became a trillionaire at a young age. I'm an engineer, pilot, medical doctor, architect and an astronaut. I got 20 Olympic gold medals, 10 Oscars, 7 Padma shree awards , 3 Noble prize award and 5 nominations. Next year I'm planning to buy moon. It all happened because of this, thank you so much IaIasticlala

Die many times before eventually die, pray against heart attack oooo.

Truvelisback:
Good day, Fellas. Why do ladies feels they are doing men a favour regarding sex? But they rarely see ur spendings, ur effort to meet their needs as a favour.

Why can't you do for just an hour without issue of women? Why are so concerned about ladies all day and night? Why won't they think so if 95% posts here are all about girls and pusssy?

Yet ondo millitry command still not biliv Fulani carried out kidnapping far more than any tribe in Nigeria. No wonder security has fallen completely understand their watch

Mivici:
Initially I thought Nigerian girls are too demanding and materialistic, yes they are but to some extend.
My baby now really don't bother me......we share any money she has and we share any money I also get......seriously am surprise but know that any girl that you can't benefit from money wise is stingy and only think about her self or probably given your money to her main guy.....I type this because I saw a recent post on nairaland about what we have benefit from our relationship.
Nigerian girls are also kindhearted may be you haven't seen but they are.

U never meet woman ooo

There are some women, it's in their DNA, I mean genetic make up to task man to last limit, they biliv love starts from money man can spend and end with money he can offer her.

Even after getting married,they continue tasking. This is why some ladies not be able to have serious relationship.

You will see some ladies, they can't have serious relationship for just 3 straight months, before son of man in such relationship disappears, ask details the reason, it's because of that task woman.

Why ladies in the house go underground??

Jodha:
95% of men think money is all women want...and that women will flock around them if they have money. Well I'm sorry to burst yhur bubble they're actually hard-working and contented ladies out there...and if money is all yhu have to offer then yhu have nothing to offer..

Guys should learn to work on their personality, attitude, general approach. I'm not saying yhu shouldn't have money ..but if yhu think having money is all there is...or if yhu have money yhure a total catch and ladies will flock around yhu regardless of how yhu behave...then yhure wrong.

Money makes guys a catch but might not be a good husband pls

People (man and woman worshiping money in obodo naija since 1759 jare)

Tan ina si ori orule sun....(put on fire on room while sleeping)

ThinkSmarter:
i am speaking on the context of sexual relationship

I'm trying to tell you that, you shouldn't be gender bias in ur opinions.

The way female disappointed is the same way guys do. Try to learn how to balance ur opinions on issue raised.

It's lust......I mean infatuation, it's takes more than sex appeal or money in the pocket to proof love to ur partners.

........but in this part of the world, that is our only criterion.

marsup:
I don't think any right thinking mother, will leave her children in a hospital to get a quickie. She might just be overwhelmed, tired and frustrated by certain things you might not know. All you can do now, is talk to her gently. No accusations, just ask her if everything is okay. Sometimes, when a woman is acting funny, it doesn't mean she is cheating on you.

You think so, woman can be easily twisted, wen house wife love towards her husband died and found another love outside which is still intoxicates her, she does all forms of shit.

* Hope u know married women do send nude to concubines Sha?

* Concubine will instruct wife not allow her husband sex her

* Concubine will tell house wife to poison husband and she will oblige .

Yoruba says woman that carry concubine if she doesn't kill her husband she would kill herself, they know what they are saying oooo

FourElements:
Is he expected to be beating and battering his wife to have been in charge...

If thats what you call in charge.

I think in ur own reasoning, even if the wife bring concubine home, husband should look like slowpoke.

ThinkSmarter:
I'm not a married man but from my experience with the opposite sex so far, I have learnt not to put my trust in any woman, even my future wife.
I have configured my mind that my girlfriend or wife may cheat on me.
No matter how rich, handsome or good in bed you are, a cheat will always cheat.
You can't change that, it's a basic animal instinct.
I hope you are not that family oriented man.
Because most responsible fathers, husbands are the worst treated people.
This is because, women are animalistically (permit me to use that word) wired to assume a caring, responsible, home-oriented man as a weakling.
Women tend to respect and impress irresponsible men that doesn't give much Bleep about their lives.
Women respect men that doesn't give them attention.
Women love men that make them feel less insecure about their looks.
Women love men that bleeps them like a stallion.
My advice: Ignore her suspicious moves.
Stop stalking her.
Don't be emotional attached to her.
Don't beg her for sex.
Instead of you to beg for sex, you masturbate in your privacy.
Treat yourself right, wear good clothes, nice perfume.
Eat good meals groom yourself.
Act like you don't fancy her beauty again.
Provide the home basic needs like foods stuffs, house rents, light bills, etc.
Stop! giving your kids too much attention( over pampering)
This is a motherly instinct.
A man that does that is not an alpha.
But still be a responsible man, not a weakling.
Stop! Attaching emotions to relationships.
It is unmanly to attach emotions to a relationship.
Stop alcohol consumption, include fruits in your daily diet.
Reduce ur sugar consumption.
Bleep her like stallion.
Be an alpha, be in charge.
Build your self confidence.
Stop making yourself so insecure in the presence of a woman.
Good luck.

Are u putting ur trust on ur gender? With my experience in life, friends, I mean male friends have disappointed me far more than female

hashbag1:
Nlanders,
I have been married for 9 years now, amidst several incidences that gave me suspicions over my wife's infidelity. The one that happened of recent gave me nothing more than great suspicion over any other.

My daughter and son got infection, they were admitted into the hospital. On this faithful day, I was there with them and I left the hospital in the afternoon to get something for them to eat, I got back with the food and quickly rushed down to my office to tidy some work. I felt hungry and decided to drive out, on my way to the restaurant leads to the hospital, I was in traffic when I put a call through to my wife whom I asked how she was coping and how the kids were doing, while on call with her, I heard sounds of car horns so I asked if she was out, she said yes that she was going to get water across the stree, so i was like you shouldnt have stressed yourself since
the house maid was with her, next thing she yelled at me saying why am I making ascertion as to who should go get the water or not, I was like but that isnt a big deal to ask, she was like well the house girl have been the one running errands all day, I responded saying instead of yelling at me, you would have just responded by saying the above.

As a responsible and concerned father, I decided to suspend dinner and branch at the hospital which took me 8 mins to get there because of traffic. On getting to the hospital, lo and behold, my wife was not there, just the kids and the house maid. I asked the house maid where madam was, she said she stepped out without saying where she was going. I immediately put a call through to her. "Babes where are you at, just got here now and you are not here". She immediately hung up on me, I called back, she didnt pick, called her again didn't pick, waited few mins and called, she picked and yelled "why are you looking for me" I was like but you claimed you went to
go get water but its been up to 15mins and you are not here yet, next thing she said was I'm in a uber car, Wow uber car when you just said you went across the street to get water, how does being in uber car relate to that. I requested a video call, I hung up the normal call and called her on whatsapp call, she didn't pick, I called her back again on normal call and said you aren't picking, she responded saying am in uber car now, call me on video again, I did but she still didnt pick. So I decided not to bother since declaring her whereabout seems frutile. She called back on normal call saying she was on her way home to pick some her items to quickly do an advertising shoot to model to her customers in the hospital room, that she didnt want me to get mad at her reason why she didn't tell me before she left, I was like its not a big deal telling me that after which I have found out she never did go out there to buy water.

Husbands and fathers in the house, in this kind of situation, what could have been your thought? As for me, something was not just right, and the most damning part of all these is leaving the kids at the mercy of just the house maid, I feel if there is something she is hiding from me and leaving the kids like that is what
the issue of trust has led us to, I am left in amazement and total disappointment.

You are not in charge of ur home as a result of that, your wife had lost regards for you.

If she has not been doing it, just a step to start doing it, and to stop her,it remains a daunting task.

Dogwhi:
Tinubu will never taste presidency

Decree from almighty gods! I guess.

Phut:
This is a big lie. One of GEJ’s appointees (Stella Oduah, I believe) was who gave Enugu Airport International statu. She even lined up two carriers (Ethiopian being one of them) to fly direct flights to the airport. Certain sections and segments of the Nigerian populace were very upset at that. They came up with trumped up charges and made sure she was hounded out of office. Even this shutting down of an airport for 2 or more years, all in the name of “fixing” runway is a big farce aimed at frustrating the only International airline flying into Enugu. But thank God Ethiopian airways recognized how lucrative that route and has expressed interest in resuming that route, once the airport is fully operational. Every hurdle put in the way of Enugu International airport shall come to naught. Enugu airport will jump and pass. That Airport shall flourish and attract yet more international carriers, same for the fully funded Anambra International airport. Whom God has blessed, no man can curse!

Ur comment is full of bias and prejudice, I'm it's too early for defending or attacking.

For previous and present regime, none of them is my enemy or friend. Bye

In as much I biliv in all round appointments for all geo political zones, but If BUHARI completes 2nd Niger bridge indeed, I think that is far better than putting all igbos in appointments but no show in term of physical infrastructures.


Jonathan favored igbo during his tenure, today those people he appointmented had long been forgortten while infrastructures still lag behind.

To me, infrastructure legacy far better than my tribe in government ooo.

Stephen2324:
How can you have sex with another guy just because the guy was nice to you, when you’re getting married in February.

How does this gender reason?

How can guy chooses to dig every how that comes his way? Is our gender (male) animal?

(I biliv u read a married man who carried gf to hotel, yet rape receptionist in toilet) is ur gender can't reason again?

.... Foolish Stephen who don't have work to think about women 24/7.

Power too intoxicates my man, it takes God grace and interventions for people in power not to misbehave ooo.

Wen ur yes is yes and for no everyone must obey.


2ndly, On many occasions people that are aspiring to get to power, when they get thr, they now realized that they can't do better than those they chased out, hence they change" since they can't deliver all their sweet promises before assuming power. (Subsidy as a case study)

oyatz:
Well, the courts rule only on evidence and not perceptions or feelings. To prove a case of massacres in court, you will need to first establish that a particular person with known and verifiable identies has been killed by Lai Muhammed at Lekki Toll gate with hard- cast evidence.

When ICC comes in , the evidences will nip them.
If government within the government can agree that there was massacre? The head of government who is the only one that can order military has no escape route.

oyatz:
Only the courts can jail a citizen and this must be after conviction for a crime punishable by imprisonment.

Lekki genocide is enough for them to go behind the bar ok.

Cerebellum:
I'm very sure you'll soon deactivate your account when depression sets in and my daughter won't use her youthful days doing.... Upandana

Check ur family u will see ladies that ripe not yet married, perhaps they too are retired oloshos.


Foolish guys too many on Faceless forum

triple996:
Christianity is a big joke .
Can you imagine, the same religion that criticize Islam for marring multiple wives is also doing so. Religion of jokers

What a pastor does is now what religion says

Of a truth, alot of human beings on Earth. They talk with reason a minute

Niiade:
Please i do know whats happening out there, Most people sorry alot of people date without intentions, random dates, sex mates, friends with benefits.

if you date with intentions of marriage on its premises of a good marriage not wedding day you will see bull shit from a mile away except that man is a master pro or has deadily narcissistic personality disorder, once you see it keep it moving but yes as always we will not take accountability or responsibilty for decisions made we will blame the other party forgetting you agreed to be with them thats what i call unnecessary excuse. if you agree to be with a man that subjects you to to ill treatment its on you and noone else.

Easier to say than do, how many of u guys ready to date a month without sex, wen some are even putting pressure on women to get pregnant before ordinary introduction, oga wake up to reality and do urself good sir

Niiade:
Hell no to enduring, The main fact is there are three things involved for people like your sister.
1. She is avoiding or friend-zoned alot of the men that could or be suitable for her (he is short, doesnt have money, he doesnt have a matching executive job, etc etc all those classes we place good men into and seek them wrong men with non important factors)
2. She is attracting those wrong men, so she is a relection of what she is getting and cant blame those men for approaching as thats what she is giving off.
3. She is relaxed and waiting, Women esp those that we tag as loose are ready and are out there looking for men, good men to settle with and will go to place where they can be to get them. how much time does she spending socalizing or being in gathering of where responsible young men will be, or she is at home or working and expect to meet her suppose wonderful suitor there, she needs to get out there, be available, approachable and in some cases ask the guy out for a date or drinks, abi we are now modern no more green light, go for the man you like no time o. you think side chick get the men from working and sitting at home after work na they are out there.

My brother you don't know what's happening outside oooooooooooo

Many don't do the 3, yet no man to walk them to isles

You and me know how we guys treat women with disdain most especially when it's time to get married. I know what some guys subjected ladies to, let us stop giving unnecessary excuse

Brightw278:
I was discussing with a friend of mine during one of his visits this past weekend, we talked about politics, football and a whole lot of interesting topics. We were in the middle of discussion when we tuned in into this popular reality tv series on dstv, “finding the one”. So we switched topic

I was trying to explain to him why we have many ladies looking for suitors in Nigeria and the main reason being this harsh economy. I told him no man would want to settle down until he has something to fall onto and has a good job that can sustain a family but my friend thinks otherwise.

He said the reason why some ladies get really old without suitors coming their way is because they must have ignored a lot of guys during their prime (20-28) and once reality set in they become desperate.

I told him I have a sister who is perfectly fine and doing well but good men ain’t just coming her way, but he just wouldn’t agree. I can’t believe people still think this way in this 21st century. He was telling me no matter your looks and all someone must approach you, I had to calm him down what if those coming your way ain’t even somebody you can settle with. Guess his reply? You just have to endure and get married like that.

This a guy went on for some hours before I just decided to call it a quit and told him we should just enjoy our football match.Personally to me I think nobody should be forced into marriage when he /she ain’t ready.

I just want to seek you guys opinion, he will also be on nairaland reading this. Should the sole reason of not being able to find suitors be attributed to youthful exuberance alone? Do girls who find it difficult to find a man must have been to choosy in the past? Your opinions will be highly appreciated

The biggest reason that I think (75%) is because of men, only few guys ready to go into marriage and mainly cos of economy situation, also, few who are ready financially are not ready to carry responsibilities that attached to marriage, and for few guys who entered it, when they see the huge responsibility that attached to it , they ran away and that results to single motherhood.

If you are not man enough you will see marriage as a complete prison, cos thre is wide gap BTW be single and married.

Youthful exuberance, the restaurant effects await in future. ..........I thy know............

All the energy and agilities of the youth will start going down sooner or latter, by then, it would remain you and ur falling health. To reverse hand of the clock, no way. Going forward, difficult. Stay in one place, brings ugly experiences. A word is enough for a wise.

How I wish the liar spend just 1 year behind the bar after they park their bags and for his principal to die in jail for his incompetency as a leader.

Vickym1:
As the messiah of Nigeria or what?

As a president of Nigeria from October 29 2023.

It chokes you? Sorry it will soon calm down.

Mad everywhere, lunatics on the loose