₦airaland Forum

God1000:
Sad, and the killer ran away instead of surrendering himself to the authorities.


I understand why the driver drove off, probably for the fear of being killed, but he should have reported himself to the police.

I just hope it's not an assassination. This should be investigated.

The red apple is Adam's apple or love apple. It's the apple the serpent gave to Adam and Eve in Eden that led to their down fall. As for the green apple, I don't know where that one came from.

Am I communicating please?

Kewtt:
Tribal bigotry
I am a Yoruba Christian and my vote is for the competent and capable candidate Bola Tinubu.

Yours is tribal bigotry to power of 2 lol.

Tinububalls:
True bro.
I'm just confused. He should demand a DNA test from their family lawyer too.

When Tinubu meets with muslims and muslim leaders to help actualize his presidential ambition, it's never a problem. But, whenever Obi attends ordinary church events, some unfortunate characters will begin to troll and bully him. They even accuse Obi of playing the religious card. Bunch of hypocrites.

Tinububalls:
The lawyer look more like Suwera Sanwo olu than the dude on yellow.

The truth is, the dude on yellow look more like the lawyer and the lawyer look more like Sanwo olu lol.

Alexiiydon:
you must be blind not to see that man prick and the woman in full nude

The thing self tire me oh. I wonder how some people think. So the ritual involved the witch doctor (thank God he's no more being called a prophet) going naked with an erect pen..is behind the woman in a dogg.y position as well?

Moh247:



Na wa oo, there is always a way out, don't let her fustrate you...

While you have it at the back of your mind that divorce is inevitable in the nearest future, due to incompatibility

Limit your investment on her, both emotional and financial... Just see her like a room mate, or someone under your care

Try and avoid having kids or more kids, infact deliberately push for a family planning, so that in case of divorce, the billing won't wreck you

Ditch your wedding ring when you are out of the house and start looking for a younger side chick., You'd be amazed at how young girls love married men .

The intresting part is side chick are cheaper than all this lability housewife, and they are always humble and caring, because they hope to get married to you some day and turn monster like your wife.

A low budget small girl side chick with just 10k weekly and some urgent 2k, would knack you, cook for you and practically adore you

Once your wife start noticing you are more lively and less miserable, you are chatting all through the night with your side chick and you are looking good, she would panic and have a change of heart

Ohh!! And remember Polygamy is perfectly normal in Africa, the white man only decieved you with the idea of one man one woman just to turn you to simp and also turn you to Bobrisky

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You badt lol. Op don't take his advice oh. Most of those side chicks are polished herbalists and very diabolical. Don't go near them oh. Prayerfully work on your wife. Try and be friend and teacher.

NigeriaIsGreat:
Obi is the best repackaged fraud and monumental failure



Prof Chukwuma Soludo

"I'm 94 already and may not be around. Nigerians will be the ones to suffer it if they make the mistake of voting for Tinubu"

Pa Ayo Adebanjo

tinsel:
Go to TVC and watch live before you guys come here to write nonsense

Let's be frank the atmosphere is not as charged as is always the case whenever Atiku attend rallies. Atiku is a better crowd puller than Tinubu.

Dreambeat:
This one loud o if na true

The woman is lying. She just wan use Dire save face.

bennybuhari:
Diri is a pastor. He can't do anything like that

Seconded o jare

In fact, Dire is not just a pastor, he's a G.O. pastor.

MichaelSokoto:
A billionaire son of a billionaire Father just passed on recently (God rest his soul), then who are u?.

The gentle soul hasn't even started his life yet, but u, u got a whole lot ahead of u, weda u have bn doin well or not!

Wow! This is powerful.

fman:
it takes a day for life to turn. Around

A whole day is even too much bro. One phone call can catapult one from the valley of a nobody to the mountain top of somebody. Thank you Jesus.

Your husband's name must be Mr Randy Randy

LeoDeKing:
Not holding brief for her superior but I have reservations. Additionally, physical assault against an erring subordinate is sheer act of irresponsibility and very pedestrian.

Having said that, ladies trying to gather sympathy with these stories of turning down sexual advances being the reason for their woes shouldn't be taken lightly again. Already getting out of hands.

Most ladies are very indiscipline and always in the habit of playing the feminine cards when sanctioned. Some of them will shout on their superiors and the ogas are always very careful because they know what ladies are capable of doing.

For the oga to damn all consequences and go ahead to sanction an erring female subordinate, her indiscipline must have attained the greatest height.

All the same, physical assault on erring subordinate, male or female, is a very condemnable act and the oga need to be taught a lesson for such. The lady should also be punished if found guilty of whatever offence she must have committed imo. Feminine card shouldn't be an escape route for indiscipline.

You pretended to be neutral but you are very biased.

Akinzola:
What do you want us to tell you?
Pls advice urself

He should please advise us on how to advise him.

ebexofficial:
I know a relative that discharged his brother and wife and child by renting an apartment for them, carry them for some time and link his brother up...

If that is the meaning of discharge, then it makes sense lol.

advanceDNA:
Tables have turned.....this is something women do on a normal day but they cant take it..... thank God you are doing well...enjoy yourself ....you dont need a husband anyway

She doesn't need a husband truly. God forbid. I thank God for my wife. Na woman she bi.

Rozross:
You readily forgive those you love without a doubting spirit. You are kind of toxic, even me that like trouble dont know how to keep grudges, before the next day as e long reach, i've forgotten that we even had issues. Marriage isnt relationship, learn to accept your partner's flaws and weaknesses and forgive them each time their weaknesses is taking it's toll on them. This one isn't even a big issue sef, its you who has been complicating things. He's sorry and begging you for forgiveness and you still dont want to forgive him, what else do you want? His head? Abeg work on your unforgiven spirit.

You just said it all. The woman is very toxic. She's treating her husband like a boyfriend and her marriage like an ordinary relationship with no commitments. Haba all these because the father of your children who paid your dowry spent just your 200k? The poor man never had a wife.

ebexofficial:
Discharging code

It's easier said than done. Discharge a widow with her fatherless children and the widow is a twin sister to your wife?

I'll suggest the raise money to rent one apartment for the widow and help her get a job to be doing even if it's menial. Other family members can also come in to help financially till the women gets a meaningful source of income m

gift2xl:
Total of 11 person's.
Dude I put myself in your situation and realized I need advice too.

Loooool no bi small advice oh. Me self need advice pass you and him as I put myself for una positions oh

GeneralPula:
You need to know something. And that’s the person you’re quoting may not be Yoruba..

Majority of them are impostors wanting to cause division between Yoruba and Igbos..

I watched the video. This seem like a street fight between yorubas in Alaba. Attaching Igbos to it is just a mere work of impostors working for politicians..

I do sincerely hope you are right but the mods still need to do the needful

Tinubuwins2023e:
Tenants want to send land owners away?
This animals are chewing more than what they can swallow.

Visitors in yorubaland dey beat chest
Wotowoto na him una go collect.
We go soon see videos of you people crying soon

I'm not Igbo but what you posted here is nothing but hate speech and if the mods truly know what they are doing, your account ought to be suspended. Who are you referring to as animals? How are the touts and extortionists land owners? Are those you referred to as tenants not paying for their rent? If for whatever reason they have defaulted in the payment of their rent, is thuggery and self help the approach by the so called land owners? Mind you most these non indigenes you referred as strangers legally acquired landed properties in Lagos even with C of O and these so called land owners and touts still go about harassing and extorting these law abiding Nigerians. And you are here whipping up tribal sentiments. Please you can do better.

robinso01:
While some legends are busy advertising betting to youths. Is you is God ooo

Chai! This is epic.

madridguy:
Since she has a good job with flourishing side business can you dm her number

Hmmm ok. Please when you do finally get her contact, pass across to someone needs it.

Those of you who are fund of doing bestie with other people's wives, just continue, monkey go soon hang himself.

By why did you provide her with the time, atmosphere and relaxed environment for her to misbehave and share abominable trash with you?

Go check yourelf, you are not pure. You are already guilty of messing with another man's wife. You are a weakling.

Dshocker:
Guy it is not over, until it is over, you have to wait for additional 2 more month to be sure.

With the way you are jubilating, you sound like some that has hiv, because i can see it.

Loool you be enemy of Progress but, seriously that guy dey deceive himself. He had better go to a proper lab for a proper test for his own safety.

Efuaye:
He should have at least stepped out and walk around and identify with the people!
What is he scared of?

You want them to mob him to death?

chatinent:
It's a difficult situation...

1. You can't let her alone suffer in this condition with your baby.

2. It's quite difficult and almost impossible to feed four extra mouths, yourself, your wife-to-be, and her unborn baby.

Anyways, needless to judge you, let's do the positive.

I think she loves her sisters so much and don't want anyone to exploit or abuse them. But of course, she shouldn't make it look like your responsibility.

That aside. If you can, can you discuss renting a place for the other two clearly stating the degree of inconvenience it will be for all four to be with you both? Maybe, starting sth like a small-scale business they can manage and sell? Even if two of the eldest manage the business and the other little two stay with you? If you can?

Is it sth you can afford?

There are no rules in love.

Don't get me wrong. I know it's not your responsibility...but like you said, she's an orphan. Maybe she feeds her siblings..and of course, this condition will prevent that. I don't see any wrong in helping people if I have the means either.

Also attempt to erase the thought of you doing her a favor, maybe by sending her money for upkeep. Yeah, I know it's common for folks to advise you to stop sending the money since it looks like a favor...but man, remember it's your life that happens not theirs. It's your baby.

I see you only have a problem with their staying with you..but haven't a problem helping them. Whilst it may look impossible, if you are in a situation to help them from your heart, you can do so without inconveniencing yourself too.


Nice of you to take responsibility!
Ignore the irritants!
Be the man.

I wish you success.


Lalasticlala, mynd44 come help this OP

I wondered why your comment has not garnered hundreds of likes by now bro. You made a lot of sense up there.

But I think renting an apartment for the girls will give them the kind of freedom they may not be able to manage since they are all under 18 and may even end up becoming preys to paedophiles out there.

The op's ex girlfriend is like a mother to her siblings and I perceive a very strong bond between them due to the death of their parents. The ex girlfriend sees it as a core duty to take care and watch over her younger siblings in the absence of their parents. Though I also believe she be diplomatic in making op understand her plight.

Op I'll suggest if you are financially capable, please let them all stay with you. I know it will be at a great cost especially in the area of privacy. Just see it as service to humanity and the price for love and well being of your unborn child. I trust that you will maintain high moral standards and discipline in dealing with the girls. Never stop seeing them as younger sisters.

Anyone getting married to a first born whether male or female should know what they are going into because first borns are like second parents to their siblings.

Cypress042:
How? Can you please explain.

It's our heart/mind that DECIDE/CHOOSE the type of clothes we wear. True or false?

BRATISLAVA:
I'm the type of man being that wants to dominate you. You have too many rules around you, and you don't keep to other people's standards but want them to bow to yours. You will be good to make submissive. I have a feeling you will enjoy it, too. There's much love in sharing. Nobody owns anything, anyway. We just use and rinse and repeat.

Oh I can you are now. You are one of them lol. You obviously need help even though you may deny it.