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bennybuhari:
Diri is a pastor. He can't do anything like that

Seconded o jare

In fact, Dire is not just a pastor, he's a G.O. pastor.

MichaelSokoto:
A billionaire son of a billionaire Father just passed on recently (God rest his soul), then who are u?.

The gentle soul hasn't even started his life yet, but u, u got a whole lot ahead of u, weda u have bn doin well or not!

Wow! This is powerful.

fman:
it takes a day for life to turn. Around

A whole day is even too much bro. One phone call can catapult one from the valley of a nobody to the mountain top of somebody. Thank you Jesus.

Your husband's name must be Mr Randy Randy

LeoDeKing:
Not holding brief for her superior but I have reservations. Additionally, physical assault against an erring subordinate is sheer act of irresponsibility and very pedestrian.

Having said that, ladies trying to gather sympathy with these stories of turning down sexual advances being the reason for their woes shouldn't be taken lightly again. Already getting out of hands.

Most ladies are very indiscipline and always in the habit of playing the feminine cards when sanctioned. Some of them will shout on their superiors and the ogas are always very careful because they know what ladies are capable of doing.

For the oga to damn all consequences and go ahead to sanction an erring female subordinate, her indiscipline must have attained the greatest height.

All the same, physical assault on erring subordinate, male or female, is a very condemnable act and the oga need to be taught a lesson for such. The lady should also be punished if found guilty of whatever offence she must have committed imo. Feminine card shouldn't be an escape route for indiscipline.

You pretended to be neutral but you are very biased.

Akinzola:
What do you want us to tell you?
Pls advice urself

He should please advise us on how to advise him.

ebexofficial:
I know a relative that discharged his brother and wife and child by renting an apartment for them, carry them for some time and link his brother up...

If that is the meaning of discharge, then it makes sense lol.

advanceDNA:
Tables have turned.....this is something women do on a normal day but they cant take it..... thank God you are doing well...enjoy yourself ....you dont need a husband anyway

She doesn't need a husband truly. God forbid. I thank God for my wife. Na woman she bi.

Rozross:
You readily forgive those you love without a doubting spirit. You are kind of toxic, even me that like trouble dont know how to keep grudges, before the next day as e long reach, i've forgotten that we even had issues. Marriage isnt relationship, learn to accept your partner's flaws and weaknesses and forgive them each time their weaknesses is taking it's toll on them. This one isn't even a big issue sef, its you who has been complicating things. He's sorry and begging you for forgiveness and you still dont want to forgive him, what else do you want? His head? Abeg work on your unforgiven spirit.

You just said it all. The woman is very toxic. She's treating her husband like a boyfriend and her marriage like an ordinary relationship with no commitments. Haba all these because the father of your children who paid your dowry spent just your 200k? The poor man never had a wife.

ebexofficial:
Discharging code

It's easier said than done. Discharge a widow with her fatherless children and the widow is a twin sister to your wife?

I'll suggest the raise money to rent one apartment for the widow and help her get a job to be doing even if it's menial. Other family members can also come in to help financially till the women gets a meaningful source of income m

gift2xl:
Total of 11 person's.
Dude I put myself in your situation and realized I need advice too.

Loooool no bi small advice oh. Me self need advice pass you and him as I put myself for una positions oh

GeneralPula:
You need to know something. And that’s the person you’re quoting may not be Yoruba..

Majority of them are impostors wanting to cause division between Yoruba and Igbos..

I watched the video. This seem like a street fight between yorubas in Alaba. Attaching Igbos to it is just a mere work of impostors working for politicians..

I do sincerely hope you are right but the mods still need to do the needful

Tinubuwins2023e:
Tenants want to send land owners away?
This animals are chewing more than what they can swallow.

Visitors in yorubaland dey beat chest
Wotowoto na him una go collect.
We go soon see videos of you people crying soon

I'm not Igbo but what you posted here is nothing but hate speech and if the mods truly know what they are doing, your account ought to be suspended. Who are you referring to as animals? How are the touts and extortionists land owners? Are those you referred to as tenants not paying for their rent? If for whatever reason they have defaulted in the payment of their rent, is thuggery and self help the approach by the so called land owners? Mind you most these non indigenes you referred as strangers legally acquired landed properties in Lagos even with C of O and these so called land owners and touts still go about harassing and extorting these law abiding Nigerians. And you are here whipping up tribal sentiments. Please you can do better.

robinso01:
While some legends are busy advertising betting to youths. Is you is God ooo

Chai! This is epic.

madridguy:
Since she has a good job with flourishing side business can you dm her number

Hmmm ok. Please when you do finally get her contact, pass across to someone needs it.

Those of you who are fund of doing bestie with other people's wives, just continue, monkey go soon hang himself.

By why did you provide her with the time, atmosphere and relaxed environment for her to misbehave and share abominable trash with you?

Go check yourelf, you are not pure. You are already guilty of messing with another man's wife. You are a weakling.

Dshocker:
Guy it is not over, until it is over, you have to wait for additional 2 more month to be sure.

With the way you are jubilating, you sound like some that has hiv, because i can see it.

Loool you be enemy of Progress but, seriously that guy dey deceive himself. He had better go to a proper lab for a proper test for his own safety.

Efuaye:
He should have at least stepped out and walk around and identify with the people!
What is he scared of?

You want them to mob him to death?

chatinent:
It's a difficult situation...

1. You can't let her alone suffer in this condition with your baby.

2. It's quite difficult and almost impossible to feed four extra mouths, yourself, your wife-to-be, and her unborn baby.

Anyways, needless to judge you, let's do the positive.

I think she loves her sisters so much and don't want anyone to exploit or abuse them. But of course, she shouldn't make it look like your responsibility.

That aside. If you can, can you discuss renting a place for the other two clearly stating the degree of inconvenience it will be for all four to be with you both? Maybe, starting sth like a small-scale business they can manage and sell? Even if two of the eldest manage the business and the other little two stay with you? If you can?

Is it sth you can afford?

There are no rules in love.

Don't get me wrong. I know it's not your responsibility...but like you said, she's an orphan. Maybe she feeds her siblings..and of course, this condition will prevent that. I don't see any wrong in helping people if I have the means either.

Also attempt to erase the thought of you doing her a favor, maybe by sending her money for upkeep. Yeah, I know it's common for folks to advise you to stop sending the money since it looks like a favor...but man, remember it's your life that happens not theirs. It's your baby.

I see you only have a problem with their staying with you..but haven't a problem helping them. Whilst it may look impossible, if you are in a situation to help them from your heart, you can do so without inconveniencing yourself too.


Nice of you to take responsibility!
Ignore the irritants!
Be the man.

I wish you success.


Lalasticlala, mynd44 come help this OP

I wondered why your comment has not garnered hundreds of likes by now bro. You made a lot of sense up there.

But I think renting an apartment for the girls will give them the kind of freedom they may not be able to manage since they are all under 18 and may even end up becoming preys to paedophiles out there.

The op's ex girlfriend is like a mother to her siblings and I perceive a very strong bond between them due to the death of their parents. The ex girlfriend sees it as a core duty to take care and watch over her younger siblings in the absence of their parents. Though I also believe she be diplomatic in making op understand her plight.

Op I'll suggest if you are financially capable, please let them all stay with you. I know it will be at a great cost especially in the area of privacy. Just see it as service to humanity and the price for love and well being of your unborn child. I trust that you will maintain high moral standards and discipline in dealing with the girls. Never stop seeing them as younger sisters.

Anyone getting married to a first born whether male or female should know what they are going into because first borns are like second parents to their siblings.

Cypress042:
How? Can you please explain.

It's our heart/mind that DECIDE/CHOOSE the type of clothes we wear. True or false?

BRATISLAVA:
I'm the type of man being that wants to dominate you. You have too many rules around you, and you don't keep to other people's standards but want them to bow to yours. You will be good to make submissive. I have a feeling you will enjoy it, too. There's much love in sharing. Nobody owns anything, anyway. We just use and rinse and repeat.

Oh I can you are now. You are one of them lol. You obviously need help even though you may deny it.

Cypress042:
C'mon , i can see where you're driving to but see, it doesn't work that way. Our appearance most times doesn't matter, God is only interested in our hearts not on things we wear.

Do you agree that the state of our hearts influences what we wear?

Cypress042:
I don't think wearing leather jeans to church is a sin because she isn't seducing anyone.

The earlier we christians admit that serving God is in our hearts, is the better for us.

How do you differentiate between ripe and unripe oranges?

BRATISLAVA:
Oh, please.

Dictators online, serfs offline.

You will be good to dominate and remould, to break all your machismo to pieces. I say that with 100% masculinity intact. Some of you here that post all the "never, good forbid this and that, she dare not, she'd be a gonner" will even enjoy the submission you'll be shaped with.

By the way, I don't even know whether to address you as he, she, transgendered or hefemale lol because you've not indicated your gender in your profile. Let me assume you are a male. I'm very sure you are the type that type of man that share his wife with neighbours and friends and call it civilization. I weep for you.

If my wife tries 2 percent of what you did to your husband, she will be a gonner. Oh no my wife can't even try it. I don't beat women oh, in fact I will never do it. And I don't cheat on her, in fact i'll never do it. But in my house, I'm in charge 24/7, I call the shots 100%. I'm the king and she's the queen. As a matter of fact, the fact I'm wrong does not even give her the right to misbehave. My wife? Hung up on me? And went on to ghost me? Ah Jesus! God forbid.

TimmyTen:
The unpardonable sin is blasphemy against the Holy Spirit. Blasphemy includes ridicule and attributing the works of the Holy Spirit to the devil.

You just hit the nail on the head. You said it all. Every other comments I've read so far are not it all.

BIAFRONIGERIAN:
The queen will rot in hell for this!!!

Jesus Christ!!! I honestly have not seen images before. Even though I'm not Igbo, I can now understand why most Igbos, especially Kanu/IPOB are filled with so much bitterness.

But guess what? Forgiveness is the best and cheapest form of vengeance. Please let's forgive.

I just came back from the East Enugu to be precise on my first ever visit there, honestly the Igbos are not doing badly at all.

Esseite:
What then has worked for B?

Excellent question.

Amotolongbo:
Are you married?

If not, there is nothing conjugal about your right sir

Agreed, the rights may not be conjugal but he has the right to knack her since he's been financing her. I don't Support fornication though.

yinkus6750:
Kyari has so many bottlenecks in his cases
Different issues coming up simultaneously
Difficult to super impose extradition above NDLEA case, which is the main trial his facing
Everything is to Kyaris advantage, he will be tried and prosecuted in Naija for now.
Which is better for him.
We await Hushpuppys sentence by September.
Let's see if any reference or 8ndictment on Kyari will be mentioned.
Malamu ought to know better

Malami surely knows better. Everything about this particular case was just arranged to stop Kyari from being extradited. The joker was the NDLEA case. The drug case was brought in to twart the extradition case. That was why Malami deliberately delayed the extradition case until the drug case was hatched. Dem just dey teach us bad things for this country lol. Let's wait and see how the Americans will react sha.

gasparpisciotta:
A hand to hand combat with the lion would also have been good idea

You be enemy of progress

TMKsouth:
King Misuzulu kaZwelithini had to kill a lion and face a black bull head-on in a kraal two days before being crowned the ruler of the Zulu nation in South Africa.

His traditional coronation was held this past Saturday in KwaZulu Natal.

CLICK BELOW TO SEE HIS CORONATION

https://www.nairaland.com/7293270/pictures-south-africas-new-zulu

Video or I don't believe