Please I need you to help me have a third eye into a personal matter. Although, I have taken a position, I just wanted to be sure I never overreacted.
I am a guy based in Europe and my wife is in Nigeria. I have only been away for a year.
There was a day I was calling my wife on phone and her other phone was ringing which I asked her to pick up but she never did only to say that it was my friend calling her. I was surprised and asked her immediately how did my friend get know her other number. She gave some not-so-convincing explanation but I let it slide.
Curiously, when I returned to Nigeria, I discovered that this friend sent money to her and she never told me about it. The so called friend also didn't tell me anything. In fact, he has always acted as if he wasn't having any contact with my wife.
When I saw the transaction, my wife wanted to manipulate the situation to make it look like I was invading her privacy. I stood my ground to know what purpose the money was meant for but no reasonable explanation.
I called the friend too to know what the money was meant for but only retorted if he couldn't give my wife money as a friend. He couldn't offer any reasonable explanation. With high sense of modesty, this is a guy that would wish to be in my position economic wise and I have always been very generous to my wife when it comes to money. Therefore, financial lack could not be an excuse.
After this experience, I severe my friendship with the guy and rein in on my wife too. I felt that was not the kind of friendship any reasonable person should keep because I felt betrayed by his actions and inactions in relating with my wife behind me. I also see both of them (friend and wife) to be dangerous to my well-being.
Please I will like to know if I overreacted.
Thank you.
MOD please take it to front page for wider views and opinions
If u are just returning...u better do Medicals on her,perhaps She may be Pregnant...trying to Discharge.There is no Excuse...He was holding Brief for You.
Please I need you to help me have a third eye into a personal matter. Although, I have taken a position, I just wanted to be sure I never overreacted.
I am a guy based in Europe and my wife is in Nigeria. I have only been away for a year.
There was a day I was calling my wife on phone and her other phone was ringing which I asked her to pick up but she never did only to say that it was my friend calling her. I was surprised and asked her immediately how did my friend get know her other number. She gave some not-so-convincing explanation but I let it slide.
Curiously, when I returned to Nigeria, I discovered that this friend sent money to her and she never told me about it. The so called friend also didn't tell me anything. In fact, he has always acted as if he wasn't having any contact with my wife.
When I saw the transaction, my wife wanted to manipulate the situation to make it look like I was invading her privacy. I stood my ground to know what purpose the money was meant for but no reasonable explanation.
I called the friend too to know what the money was meant for but only retorted if he couldn't give my wife money as a friend. He couldn't offer any reasonable explanation. With high sense of modesty, this is a guy that would wish to be in my position economic wise and I have always been very generous to my wife when it comes to money. Therefore, financial lack could not be an excuse.
After this experience, I severe my friendship with the guy and rein in on my wife too. I felt that was not the kind of friendship any reasonable person should keep because I felt betrayed by his actions and inactions in relating with my wife behind me. I also see both of them (friend and wife) to be dangerous to my well-being.
Please I will like to know if I overreacted.
Thank you.
MOD please take it to front page for wider views and opinions
If u are just returning...u better do Medicals on her,perhaps She may be Pregnant...trying to Discharge... There is no Excuse...He was holding Brief for You.
Wike would have become PDP presidential candidate if his friend didn't betray him — Wamako (Video)
Former Sokoto State governor, Senator Aliyu Wamako has said that Rivers State governor, Nyesom Wike would have been the presidential candidate of People's Democratic Party (PDP), if his friend didn't betray him, IGBERETV reports.
Wamako made the comment while commissioning the Ogunabali/Eastern Bypass Road in Rivers state on Tuesday.
Recall that Rivers governor, Nyesom Wike, lost the PDP ticket after Sokoto's Aminu Tambuwal pulled out of the race to endorse Atiku.
Some southern PDP governors were also said to have chosen Atiku over Wike.
because of his Arrogance...That's God's Will for him...he isn't meant to be there...Wamako,Collect ur Money and go...We know Better,Pls
H100: According to the trends data, using the past 7 (seven) days' filter 03-08-2022 to 10-08-2022.
OVERALL AVERAGE
Bola Ahmed Tinubu (49%) Atiku Abubakar (26%) Peter Obi (48%) Rabiu Kwankwaso (3%)
There are still about 6 months before February 2023, but I can tell you that the significant contest will be between Bola Ahmed Tinubu, Peter Obi, and Atiku Abubakar.
There are also going to be lots of surprises, more swing states or battleground states are emerging.
Bola Ahmed Tinubu leads with about 15 states: Ekiti, Oyo, Osun, Ondo, Ogun, Kwara, Lagos, Jigawa, Plateau, Niger, Kogi, Kaduna, Bauchi, Borno, and Taraba.
It's good to share that in Lagos, Bola Ahmed Tinubu had 41%, while Peter Obi is at 38%.
Can Lagos be a swing state?
Next, Peter Obi leads with about 13 states: Edo, Delta, Benue, Nasarawa, Rivers, Akwa Ibom, Cross River, Imo, Bayelsa, Abia, Ebonyi, Anambra, and Enugu.
Do you know that the FCT will also be a battleground?
Bola Ahmed Tinubu 37% and Peter Obi 37% each, according to the trends at this time.
Next, Atiku Abubakar with about 8 states: Kebbi, Yobe, Katsina, Sokoto, Zamfara, Gombe, Adamawa and Kano.
Yes, I was equally surprised with the traction from Kano - Atiku Abubakar 33%, Bola Ahmed Tinubu 26%, Rabiu Kwankwaso 24%, and Peter Obi 17%.
It’s good to share that Kwankwaso’s highest traction is from Kano, but they also have been growing in Jigawa, Katsina, Yobe, Bauchi, and Borno State.
SWING STATES OR BATTLEGROUND STATES:
(a) Katsina State - Bola Ahmed Tinubu 40% and Atiku Abubakar 41%.
(b) Yobe State - Atiku Abubakar 47% and Bola Ahmed Tinubu 41%.
(c) Lagos State - Bola Ahmed Tinubu 41% and Peter Obi 38%.
(d) Kebbi State - Atiku Abubakar 51% and Bola Ahmed Tinubu 49%.
(e) Edo State - Peter Obi 43% and Bola Ahmed Tinubu 38%.
(f) Plateau State - Peter Obi 37% and Bola Ahmed Tinubu 39%.
(g) Jigawa State - Bola Ahmed Tinubu 40% and Atiku Abubakar 39%.
(h) FCT - Peter Obi 37% and Bola Ahmed Tinubu 37%.
(i) Borno State - Bola Ahmed Tinubu 37% and Atiku Abubakar 36%.
(j) Benue State - Peter Obi 41% and Bola Ahmed Tinubu 36%.
(k) Nasarawa State - Bola Ahmed Tinubu 36% and Peter Obi 39%.
(l) Taraba State - Bola Ahmed Tinubu 36%, Peter Obi 34%, and Atiku Abubakar 30%.
LIAR...CRS APC GOVERNOR...CIVIL Servants are Suffering terribly, especially LG Workers...not Paid Two Months Now June and July or some even More...and U are Telling Lies in d Church...Prof Ayade....e no dey Fear God again O!.. My Friend and Others have been Languishing in Wants
cowboyvs: Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.
Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.
So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.
So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.
But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.
There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.
So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.
Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP.
Stories for d gods...Test her further to be very Sure...though Immaturity and desperation is her Problem. Edo is some how for me O...because of their Fetishes and Pestering Spirit of their Devilish background or heritage. Be Warned. "I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else." - So what do U Want again?
Lastborn0074: Very true. She has become very disrespectful.
She has been in d Act...if not She will not be so...However, Get d Family involved Pls. Dont be Rash with ur Decisions on this Alone...So beyond Nairaland.com... GO TO D FAMILY ELDERS OF BOTH OF YOU, WHO CAN MEDIATE ON D CONCRETE POINTS U HAVE GOTTEN ALREADY,PLS.
Lastborn0074: Please I need honest suggestions. My wife has had several male platonic friends ever since we met. She became friends with others through me. I trusted her because she's a very sociable person, so I wasn't bothered because I know a lot of ladies that have male friends too. She's been open to me about them.
Recently, something happened. A close female friend of hers (also married) started keeping her at arm's length. My wife didn't know what the problem was until information got to her that this friend of hers was going about telling people that she could no longer be friends with her because she's sleeping around with men indiscriminately.
My wife confronted her with this information, for which she denied. But the informant, who was also invited, insisted that she actually said it. Before this time, my wife would always complain that each time she visits her friend, she would knock on the door but nobody would respond. This happened repeatedly until her tenant told my wife in confidence that his landlady was always around each time she visits.
Recently, I discovered that my wife was actually having amorous relationship with her male friends. I have access to her messeinger and I have seen those amorous chats. She would delete the ones that could implicate her. A male friend of hers even sent her adult videos and she told him to send more, that she was enjoying it. This man went further to send her his masturbation video.
I confronted my wife with these and what people told me, but she denied. After putting much pressure on her, she said she was about to do it, not that she actually did it. I asked her the reason and she said that it was because of the hardship we were facing. Since her business collapsed, it's been very difficult to survive with our four children. I'm the only one fending for the family. Even after confronting her, I discovered that she's still into the act.
Given the above scenario, what should I do? Please I want only healthy comments that will help me make my decision. Thanks.
NA WHO U DEY ASK KWANU! NA WE MARRY FOR YOU...PLS DO UR WORK FOR HOUSE JOOR. FIND OUT WHY SHE IS CHEATING AND SETTLE IT AMICABLY,PLS. IT IS FAMILY MATTER NOT SOCIAL MEDIA MARRIAGE...BIKONÛ
DONT MIND THIS LOUD MOUTH FOOL WHO HAD LOST HIS DIRECTIONS... Their Tatics Reveals Obvious incompetence and Loss of Directions in Governance. The APC administration is a Clearly inept and Confused Set of People, who have Clear Cut Roles in Government... JUST OCCUPYING SPACE AND WASTING NIGERIANS' RESOURCES.
Realtvnigeria10: A Nigerian lady has gone online to mock a club big boy that wooed after she discovered what he does for a living.
She said that the guy was repairing phones at the market just a day after he was spraying money on her at a night club.
The young lady shared a video showing when she was walking towards his work and she filmed him in the market.
She thought about going to greet him and make him feel embarrassed following the events of the previous night where he took on the role of a big spender.
Reacting, captainjeffgoodvibe said; How is that your business na
doctall_kingsley; Olosho Dey yab person wey get handwork nawaooo
the.estherrr; What na happen Did he steal the money Nawaa
myhairven; So what is funny now he shouldn’t hustle again?what is the essence of this video now ?
[quote author= post=115370141]Source: https://punchng.com/lagos-man-tricks-baby-mama-disappears-with-three-year-old-twins/[/quote]Very Unfortunate indeed...but NPF will always Deny d Truth of Corruption and Cover up for their Corrupt Police Staff... I Personally Paid d Police for a Report I made at their Station in PH...to enable them take ACTIONS on my issue. Though it was amicably Resolved after the Suspect was Arrested ... SO THE POLICE IS LEADERSHIP/SYSTEMIC DECAY... AS ITS PROBLEM.
Their are many murderous minds on this forum, I was have a friendly discussion with someone on this forum yesterday and look at what he said. Hello, Oga killer, good afternoon oo! I pray you will be the next person to be sentenced to death.
Pls Why Did he make such Mischievous Statement...?
Video Of Rufai Oseni And The Policemen That Stopped Him On BRT Lane
A video of Arise TV journalist, Rufai Oseni and the policemen that stopped him on a BRT lane has surfaced. In the video Mr Oseni can be heard calling the policemen "Bleeding bastards" as someone tries to calm him down and take him away from the place. Mr Oseni went back to the policemen and repeatedly threatened that he will call the governor.
Broadcaster Threatens To Call Governor On Cops
The video of the altercation between a popular TV broadcaster, Rufai Oseni and some policemen have surfaced.
On Monday, Oseni, had revealed that a policeman threatened him with a gun for driving on a dedicated BRT lane in Lagos. pic.twitter.com/nwqYGpGvyy
Parachoko: In the UK, Boris was force to resign because he broke his own covid-19 rules.
If this man is a senator in a sane country, he would have been forced to resign, and prosecuted for assaulting a lady. Just imagine is in Europe he committed the crime.
And So he Should Not Bear his Mind on the IRRESPONSIBLE Decisions of Bola Ahmed TINUBU...Abi?
ImperialYoruba: Who was Wike, and what was he doing between 1999 and 2007 when Atiku was already an accomplished man, financially and politically?
Wike is a cult-minded, narrow-thinking, self-centered buffoon.
Atiku should ignore him and install a workaround to isolate and pen Wike into his local constituent. Wile insists Atiku must come to Rivers and beg him before he will reconcile. What a freak idiota he is. Atiku does not need Wike at all.
Atiku is dealing with party barrier This is test to see how politically sagacious Atiku is when faced with a political barrier.
Wr know what Tinubu would do if in same situation, but what would Atiku do? Let's wait and see.
You are indeed Naive and Closed up to only what you know. So u are Limited and Narrow Minded.
Unfortunately Less than 60...He is Weak and Gradually Dieing...O my Brother Shed ur Weight and Contend with Iur Appetite for Survival... Hellfire is Real for Any Life without Jesus Christ in this World...No Matter Ur Acquisitions and Attainment Now,Pls
Politics › Re: 2023: Anxiety Heightens In PDP Over Wike’s ‘Defection Plan’ by fof1: 6:25pm On Aug 14, 2022
Did he steal the money