₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
I’ve always felt that if I had boobs like Dorathy (the ex BBN housemate), no way I won’t reduce it.

pocohantas:
Anybody wey get money, make e run am. She tried to be moderate about it, just like Annie Idibia and MizNwaneka. Ini Edo’s own is too fake.

Layormiii:
Tiwa don do yanshhhhh now o. Her bumbum bigger Dan Bombay bayi

Nbotee:
Intelligence is very important.. Dis overated gangstar wannabee cannot tell what's figurative from what's literal

pocohantas:
Yes, you can genuinely love someone and cheat. However, you should admit you gave room for it and not put yourself in that position again. The problem is not just men cheating. The problem is they normalize it and try to force you into accepting it. No, I don’t have to accept that, especially when I don’t want to.

Emola12:
u can eat garri 4 times a day now and #50 biscuit 2times nothing bad

BoldConcepts:
Dressing actually cause rape...

What enable a kongi to rise is good to cause problem to mankind if not attend to.

Generalwoodz:
All those Nairalanders claiming Animal right activist now is time to show your love. Buy your duvet, blanket all snake .

MMotimo:
This is not for the OP, I wish her nothing but the best. These tips are for young people out there. A stitch in time saves nine .

Young women:

Value yourself, build your self esteem, never be desperate with/for any man.
From an early age, have a vision of your independent self doing well without a romantic partner so that you don’t spend your life chasing a man (or men) that has lost interest. You can be single, successful and happy. Marriage would just be jara.
Get as much education and/or blue collar training as you can. Build yourself up before jumping to marriage.
Learn about finances, how to budget, how to plan, how and when to spend wisely, how to save and invest.
Don’t go and get pregnant in poverty, do your suffering alone, not with innocent kids.
Never stop looking good, remember that poverty and stress will age you real fast. Do the absolute best you can with what you can afford.
KIDS ARE EXPENSIVE


Young men:

Have a sound plan for your future and stick to it. Sex is not worth future years of poverty induced lost dreams and frustrations. Don’t end up using money for your GRE, your master’s, your trade,/business to buy diapers and baby food for unplanned pregnancy.
Beware of girls that are willing to shirk family planning/contraception. You may already be targeted to become a baby daddy, whether you like it or not. Some girls are simply looking to hook somebody, anybody, rich or poor, ready or not.
If you did not intend marriage, don’t be forced to accept a baby mama to move in with you. Consensual sex is just that, don’t be railroaded into marriage.
If you are still struggling, flee from girls that are ready to get pregnant and “manage with you.” Let her manage without adding extra mouths to your already lean budget. A girl that is soaking gari with you and getting pregnant in poverty is not likely to be an asset.
Don’t sleep with a girl you cannot marry, one time is all it takes to become an involuntary baby daddy, forever yoked to a girl you may not respect nor like.
KIDS ARE EXPENSIVE


Both:

Never stop praying

wumi2017:
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