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What really went wrong?

10years already? Nice.
Wishing them longer years in marital bliss.

MMotimo:
This is not for the OP, I wish her nothing but the best. These tips are for young people out there. A stitch in time saves nine .

Young women:

Value yourself, build your self esteem, never be desperate with/for any man.
From an early age, have a vision of your independent self doing well without a romantic partner so that you don’t spend your life chasing a man (or men) that has lost interest. You can be single, successful and happy. Marriage would just be jara.
Get as much education and/or blue collar training as you can. Build yourself up before jumping to marriage.
Learn about finances, how to budget, how to plan, how and when to spend wisely, how to save and invest.
Don’t go and get pregnant in poverty, do your suffering alone, not with innocent kids.
Never stop looking good, remember that poverty and stress will age you real fast. Do the absolute best you can with what you can afford.
KIDS ARE EXPENSIVE


Young men:

Have a sound plan for your future and stick to it. Sex is not worth future years of poverty induced lost dreams and frustrations. Don’t end up using money for your GRE, your master’s, your trade,/business to buy diapers and baby food for unplanned pregnancy.
Beware of girls that are willing to shirk family planning/contraception. You may already be targeted to become a baby daddy, whether you like it or not. Some girls are simply looking to hook somebody, anybody, rich or poor, ready or not.
If you did not intend marriage, don’t be forced to accept a baby mama to move in with you. Consensual sex is just that, don’t be railroaded into marriage.
If you are still struggling, flee from girls that are ready to get pregnant and “manage with you.” Let her manage without adding extra mouths to your already lean budget. A girl that is soaking gari with you and getting pregnant in poverty is not likely to be an asset.
Don’t sleep with a girl you cannot marry, one time is all it takes to become an involuntary baby daddy, forever yoked to a girl you may not respect nor like.
KIDS ARE EXPENSIVE


Both:

Never stop praying

Nice one Mama! .

wumi2017:
There are two bloggers in In World ,Gistlover and others

No cap, Sis.
Even LIB and InstaBlog nor dey do reach Gistlover.

The part where she said her fart blows up the microphone .

Anybody that tries this challenge in Nigeria should know that Hospitals are on strike oh.
Just dey prepare money down for orthopaedic and physiotherapy sessions daily.

Freelancing/Remote work pays if you know your onions well.
I have one church member who has not done any physical work since 2015 after his Nysc. Niggar has been freelancing since that time, from that remote work, he's built his family house, car and also done some really impressive work. I'm happy for him.

Meanwhile headache, back pain and body pain wan kill me for here say because I dey do 9am-5pm . Rubbish!

That's because Anita knew he had a future.

Lovely family pictures .

This man ehn .

Ayomarcel:
Where una see this kind guy date or friend. Lol

I just tire oh.
I over weak sef .

My heart goes out to all the innocent souls suffering in Afghanistan especially women and children.

Carchoice:
Bread and tea wey everybody dey manage for breakfast, e reach your turn, you turn adviser Onuwabhagbe.

Lmao.
It's spelt Adviser Nowamagbe (it's a Bini name).

So many paedophiles around. What is wrong with this little child's dressing now.
Y'all need medical help if a 3yr old baby girl's thighs turn you on.

Potbellied:
I love your optimism. Good luck, sis

Thank you Sir.

ukaface:
Maybe op never chop breakfast

Sis, you're mean

pocohantas:
You know we have one of the largest (I dare say the largest) representation of black immigrants abroad. So we are well represented in good and evil. The ratio is just grossly imbalanced.

I've replied .

pocohantas:
To think some people are already here to support such barbarism. Is crossdressing a crime? Homophobic people do too much.

I sent you a PM, Ma'am.

The5DME:
It's all a strategy.

Folake4u good morning.

Good morning.

Richdee1:
Very Lucrative and it's part of the Shortchanged Occupation in UK( Healthcare and Work Visa) and also pays higher in Canada and the UK

Oh I see.
But I dont have a BSc. in social work.
And it's not my focus at all.

pocohantas:
Had to read again sef. I dey your back. If you commot, you try come carry me too.

This Madam, you won't kill me with laughter .
Abi na me suppose be your handbag .

pocohantas:
Lol. This my babe sef. It is the certainty for me. Speak it into existence.

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Madam Poco, I had to use probability ehn cos unexpected things can happen oh and plans will just scatter .

daintyprincess:
Looking at Finance or business inclined courses(business intelligence, something in that line)

Still researching courses and schools, tho
Have you found a school yet

And do you have a deadline to this travel thing. Like by year ......, I should be out of here, lol cause I do

I hope it works o

Oh okay.

No I haven't found a school yet. Still doing research.

I still have a long road before I leave Nigeria sha. I have Law school and Nysc ahead of me right now.

Probably in 3-4yrs time, I should have left Nigeria.

amajato:
go and study social works...my 2 cent

Why?

Women who are good at what they do.
I forever STAN! PakiSTAN, and even AfghaniSTAN them .

daintyprincess:
Lol, your zeal can't be as low as mine

Same timeline for passport too

We'll be fine

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What's your course of study.

Alright. Amen oh.

daintyprincess:
Do you mind if we go through this journey together
I'll need the extra push

What course are you looking out for for study and when are you starting the passport journey

Uhm okay. I think na me need the extra push pass you oh .
Masters in Law.

Passport journey? I don't know yet but soon. Probably month's ending or in September.

Japhet04:
yeah I have actually, I did my orientation camp at Zamfara, so I traversed Kano to get to Zamfara.

Oh and I have to tell you... I'm a big fan of your diary

Oh I see. That's nice.

Aww! Thank you very much .

daintyprincess:
https://nigeria.diplo.de/ng-en/service/visa/student-research-and-language-course-visa/1015536

Here, you go

Thank you very much Ms. Dainty.

daintyprincess:
No problem

Where are you based and what category do you belong to (referring to the admission categories)?

Benin City.
Masters.

Thank you Sis.

GodsGabby:
Read through the previous pages. There are links for daad scholarship

Okay thank you.