₦airaland Forum

nah una they attract police.

RodgersAkpafu:
Things are really getting out of hand
To be frank with you

If you have the resources to move don't waste time, this life is per head, "Nigeria" is not your surname.

RodgersAkpafu:
Na wa

A know a family, the guy was doing well as a banker and the wife a medical doctor (consultant in one of the teaching hospital), them japa go Canada. All my engineering coursemates back in school over forty in number are outside the shores of Naija, majorly in Canada (express entry). Not exaggerating.

These ladies that do "my friendship" upandan. I met a Nigerian girl based in the US on FB, we were doing lovey-dovey on FB, an old classmate started interviewing me on how I met her and all that. Due to happiness, I have explained everything and how it is going. Later, I had a misunderstanding with the girl and she blocked me. So, I had to check her profile with another account then I found this brother's comments. Baba block me and added the girl up.

This Life trust no one, the only people I trust are my immediate family.

They just want to gossip about their ex trying to feel good about it, but deep inside they are hurting.

annisy:
Na two class dey Nigeria the rich and the poor nothing like middle class!! And if you are not among the rich and you are 38yrs and below please think and plan towards leaving this country.....

A friend of mine said even at 45 y.o he go still japa lol

More will be leaving, thank God, the immigration officer just called me that my passport is ready. Na to start my phD waka.

Toluwanise247:
You are single because you choose to......
Your dream man don't exist

Exactly, their expectation are too high. Only few men can meet up to it, unfortunately, those few wouldn't date her.

We all want the finest thing in life, but know your level. She probably thinks "a Dangote kind of guy" will want her because she has a good shape.

Xilsbridalhouse:
You called her ex a lost gem ? I’m no fan of Tonto but I don’t see how Churchill who was accused by Tonto of sleeping around especially with this same girl he denied and eventually got married to is a lost gem!

Churchhill might feel this is a way to revenge on Tonto or he the accusations against him were really true, but you see the foundation of everything in this life matters a lot. No one knows tomorrow but no matter how we try to justify this union, both will surely reap what they have sowed and it will only take the Grace of God for the punishment to be less severe.

God isn't from Tonto's village just because she doesn't like him that doesn't mean their marriage wouldn't prosper, you guys should wake up from this mentality.

Our politicians receives curses everyday, las las an them they reach old age.

Sonnobax15:

Mennnnnnnn,this is what I call--"paper bag marriage".

The guy just wor invite see-finish come him life . Personally, I've refused to spend even a night at my gf's house....Not because I'm rich or I'm proud,but it's because of the numerous outcome of it I've witnessed and seen with my two eyes......Men moving in with women ain't supposed to be like that.........How you wor take get peace of mind at the first place self? . You dare not question her actions,nor even do anyhow,if not,na outside you go find your paper bag of clothes . Guyman suppose to always be like a guyman and man up to act like one...

"As a guyman,No let brokenness bring see-finish come your life,no matter what"

I don talk my own finish......Make who get ear use am hear word......No be only who get long ear like goblin suppose to dey hear word

There was a video of a guy trending that was locked out of his house and his things thrown.

I heard most Abuja boys are jobless, they try to look good searching for single ladies to syphon.

The way my people like govt job, they just want to play it safe.

Do you want to be an employee all the rest of your life?

ZINIX:
Millionaires mansion on YouTube go watch it
Daniel mark YouTube channel go watch it ,
Our neighbor came back from Germany during that covid period he said we need to see Young Germans that mere looking at them their age can't be more than 17 to 21 and their driving Benz in Berlin . this your pover mentality na naija cause am if you travel out you self go fur or better still try go airport..

This man I can feel the frustration in your voice, if them leave you. You go sell Nigeria. This money none be hustle pass they make am, las las none be everybody go be millionaire. That's the reality of life.

Don't be too desperate, millionaires and billionaires today never thought they will be. They just do what they love. None go do blood money, my only advice for you.

You can still leave happy life. That's why I like the the western word, they aren't that desperate like Nigerians. What make you feel I'm in Nigeria?

ZINIX:
One main reason why you're still broke and will forever remain broke cause you think everything is not money. Go watch Instagram reels you gon see small young Americans that are not up to your age rocking gold n diamonds driving dope cars to Disney and here you are saying money is not everything. Its your mom I pity cause instead of you to remove her from the ship of poverty you'll sink her into it. Telling me having gold is pikin mentality . if poverty has feasted on your brain that shit is 36,000 kilometer far from me..

Lol, those are rented. So, you believe those things you see on Instagram. Wealthy ones don't even show off on social media. Google these names; Warren Buffett, Larry Page, Elon Musk, Mark Zuckerberg, Bill Gate, Jeff Bezos go check if any wears gold and diamonds. These names among the first 15 richest in the world. You they here they shout gold and diamond.

Kriss216:
Women and Gossip


Nothing about this gender is worth emulating.


Tue!

If a woman doesn't like you, she will talk bad about you to whoever cares to listen. I had a first-hand experience with two ladies in my workplace. This babe just they run the other girl down.

Brothers and sisters, always listen to both sides of the stories before concluding.

So nobody can reset his brain in the family.
His mates are hustling, he's fighting for food.

matrix199:
It's about time!

Imagine giving loans to pay back in 2weeks with 50% interest. That's not even a shark loan, that's a killer whale loan.

And they will still borrow. Where they forced?

ZINIX:
You wey sense like, see your life 96 hours to 2022 and your life is still the same . car you no get , gold you no get, dope apartment to sleep in you no get, nobody to spray or give you dollars , who go even give you dollars who sabi your papa ? You don't know anybody , you're hopeless cause within the space of 96 hours nothing good can happen to you again . my best advice for you is to commit suicide now ..

He said "gold you no get". Small pikin mentality. Everything is associated to money reason why Nigeria is so corrupt, we are never contented.

ZINIX:
Stupid fool we should say no to grace too

Everything grace, he will soon be locked up in the psychiatrist.

Guyman02:
The guy outsmarted Tonto Dike on this one, kept the original owner certificate in his name and presented fake documents with her name to her as if he knew the relationship may not last.

When things went South between them he requested for his Lexus and Tonto initially claimed it was a gift to her from him, she presented the vehicles papers to Police which confirmed that the guy was with the original purchase certificates in his name.

Recall also that Tonto gave him a Hilux for his birthday with original documents bought in his name.

Now the guy has the two cars to himself

But in another angle, Tonto despite been a loud mouth was sincere to him while they dated but the guy is a player who was out to use her ab initio like he has done to many other Yeyebrities and that's why she is seriously pained upon realising she has being used and dumped

Ladies hate being used, funny enough they do use men every day. Remember, they can be so patient and go at any length to pay you back.

KiNg0G:
He's an OG, who understands the game.
Keeping the original papers in his name, says it all.

What a real nigga.

He is a real nigga, the car is for the office of the gf, not the gf. That's why most women hate him. He knows how to play the game.
Ma Nigga

People have being in worse situation, I non wan just begin talk. Man why did you get married when you don't have a stable source of income. I have no gf at my age is not that I'm scared of girls or I'm gay, I don't want unnecessary expenses. I will definitely next year.

They love BAD boys, unknown to them it comes with cheating and heartbreaks.

Every decision in life has advantages and disadvantages choose your fight wisely.

tutudesz:
Una keep quiet since O! Na were Ed Sheeran ft for the remixe body dey sweet una

Another angle.

I trust no one, except my immediate family. Every other person Nah third eye I dey use watch am.

This country everybody they street.

Eriokanmi:
You fall to rise again and never to fall again. Just check where you got it wrong and mend it. You'd come back stronger. It's very risky to employ these days because nobody wants to work. Rather they want quick money. Each time I collect a resume from any of my relations, trying to see how I could fix them, the first question they'd ask is...uncle, please like how much can they pay me? . When they don't even know the nature or their job description yet. It's getting to a state where prospective employers will be asking for a collateral from guarantors before one could think of employing anyone.

So far, we've not had such experience. To an extent , my colleagues( I don't call them staff) are God-fearing and our relationship has been mutual. You can imagine investing in your employees up to sending them on training overseas...Western countries to be precise and now japa afterwards, e go be tinz oo. That's always the case nowadays.

OP, whenever I see a story like this, I always back it up with a similar story which ended well, as a means of encouraging people in similar shoes. I have a cousin who travelled to America for the first time early 2000s. He was going to a computer institute. On getting to POE, he was asked the normal question of his mission and that was after he had been admitted. They contacted the training centre who said, due to low turnout of participants, the session was cancelled but they didn't mail my guy to inform him...strange. This was around November that year. They also said the applicant ( my cousin)registered with a fraudulent card and the owner had placed a charge for fraud on the card so, my cousin was taken in for secondary inspection. An agent in Nigeria registered him for the training at New Horizons US. He saw the advert inside a newspaper so he contacted them since he would soon commence his annual leave. He wanted to use the opportunity to do something before resuming. He was earning a good salary here as a mgt trainee in a multinational company. It was his first annual leave ever, so he didn't want to be idle.

Long story cut short, this guy dragged it with CBP that he didn't know what they were saying because he paid the right amount in local currency to the agent who registered him for this computer training on Ms Windows Server, 2003 Enterprise Edition. He already had some certification like CompTIA locally. This guy was arrested and dropped inside a cold cell. Later he was deported to Nigeria. On arrival he went to the agent's office. The place had been closed. A couple of other candidates too got involved in the mess so the agent had to japa.

My cousin went back to American embassy a year later but this time, he had arranged payment directly by himself . On approaching the VO, his offence was read out to him from the computer, to which he all denied and explained what happened. The VO now said he'd been banned permanently from entering US from the information he had on the system. He wanted to commit suicide. I called him and calmed him down. He listened to me , embraced God and moved on. I took him to one of my pastors who said he shouldn't worry that he should keep praying and the road would be clear again. But he would pray very hard .

A few years later, my cousin was having a programme to attend in Washington DC so he applied. The man of God said the right time had come and his visa would be approved. He was in doubt he told him to have faith because that's what was revealed to him. He gave him 3 days to fast and pray all alone with some words of God to back it up.

He appeared and the VO engaged him for over 25 minutes while my guy was sweating as he was explaining things. Those on queue behind him were already complaining...you know our people and impatience. The VO now said there was a mark of ineligibility on his profile which only the attorney-general of the United States could remove. He said but he would apply for a waiver on his behalf but he wouldn't know how soon the outcome would be but they'd send him an email once a decision was reached. Barely 4 weeks after the appearance he received a mail on a Friday morning titled Lagos NIV and his passport number. He called me and I told him to open it. Behold his waiver of ineligibility had been approved. He was now asked to send his passport through DHL and fill a form which came with the mail and send it altogether. 4 days later, his visa was approved. Though he missed the Washington DC yearly event. He used the visa the following year and since then, it's been easy entry and exit for him. You too would bounce back OP. Wipe your tears.

Why would he be so desperate to travel to the US to the extent he wanted to commit suicide? When he has a job in a multinational company?

Your story get K leg. He was hustling to travel out for greener pasture.

KiNg0G:
too many weak men in our generation who can't man up to speak when need be..... thank you Lord for creating men like us different.

I'm telling you nobody can threaten me. The uncle is not ashamed of himself. He should concentrate on his children.

Amumaigwe:
He did no wrong. While the client might be busy partying, the engineer was busy reading up and searching for more knowledge. He has just converted the knowledge he painstakingly acquired into cash. These days, what you know rather than the size of what you can do is what brings value

I read something somewhere, I spent 15 years getting a knowledge so I could do I particular job for 5minutes. You aren't paying for the 5 minutes but the values the 15 years brought.

druxlazu:
A lot of Nigeria are terrible human beings but they still believe they are not the problems. A lot of fraudsters here.

I know a lot more than but I am into programming.

If you ask me to repair something for you and I realized that thing is simple to repair, what we usually do is to ask you for your price and if you can't, we give a fair price and show you what we did.

These terrible Nigerians learned from the knowledge others are sharing but they can't share with their fellow Nigerians.

Who is the wicked person here? The Niggas and negro motherf*ckers commenting in this thread that this is business. Bunch of illiterates with no ethics and morals.

To see how the westerns are giving out knowledge for free on YouTube, though they are getting paid through views.

That's why if a Naija guy/girl tells me there's a way I could make money my next question is what is in for you. Nobody in Nigeria will just wake up one morning and wants to help a random person.

CrownOfClay724:
Sadly, this thing is everywhere.

In fact , na their kind mindset I wan take enter 2022.

Nah wetin you know, naim you go use take chop. Knowledge is power.
Everything nah billing, we ain't running charity organisation. Enter government office an so so settle you go they settle.