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ChiefAzubuike:
There's a reason I love tiwa, she's a cheerful giver and very very generous. From all male members of the mavin crew to wizkid, she made sure no one lacked anything and met their needs one by one. May God continue to bless her and give her the strength to give more to the needy.

It it your give?

Lovely car.

Good day, please do you buy from eBay? If the answer is yes, how long does it take to arrive?

ApolitiCal:
By giving a superficial look at this issue, one will say the man should resign and join his wife where she is because of the huge difference in their salaries. Giving it a deep look, and with the kind of women we have nowadays, the man should make up his mind to be, errand boy, puppet, servant or at best, he assumes the position of the wife and plays the responsibilities of the wife and the wife plays the roles of the husband. This is not going to augur well for the husband and the family as a whole because his natural ego and authority will be challenged. Please, there is nothing like being an understanding or being a mature woman. Virtually all women are the same. It's just slight and insignificant difference that exists among them. In essence, there will be definitely, role switch-over and his ego will be trampled upon. So, the man should make up his mind for that before making the decision of whether to relocate or not. For me, I will not relocate and if they choose to live separately, there is risk of having extramarital affairs from both sides.


My opinion!

Too much sense.
Women are all wired the same way.

I will contact you soon

Nice car. Can 2.7m do it for me?

You went to meet him with a camera man and you deliberately triggered fight by annoying him to the extent that he could not help but to hit you and you now told your camera man to edit where you deliberately instigated and triggered the fight so that you can use it against him all because he had made you a complete human being and you have seen another mumu who is ready to pay your bills and Bleep your tokunbo pussy . You think we are fools?

The mumu will soon realize his mistake.

Stupid woman!

Let us assume he is my fiance or my husband and he is telling me he is not expecting anything in return by sending money to another fine girl consistently every month , am I supposed to believe him?

Adamummya:
are u my father ？
are you my mother ？
are my your child ？
why should you beat me ？

Don't mind the guy. What he should do is to take you back to your parents' house where he marries and ask for separation if he cannot tolerate you again. He cannot force you to be in the marriage you don't like due to one reason or the other and you cannot force him to be in the marriage he doesn't like due to one reason or the other. There is room for peaceful separation.

Ishilove:
Oyb is well [/b]versed[b] in the art of conquering so I'm inviting him here so the op can sip from his fountain of experience

Vast

Otedoda bridge again?

Good day nairalanders! Please, there is a friend of mine who is interested in becoming a dental surgeon(dentist) but she is skeptical of her chance of getting to the peak of medical practice in Nigeria such as becoming consultant, heading a hospital as Chief medical director, medical director, chairman medical advisory committee, principal medical officer etc, as it's obtained in medicine. Is Dentistry inferior to Medicine? Are there sub specialties in Dentistry where one can specialize, and most importantly, do dentists earn less than other doctors in Nigeria?
Please, doctors in the house, shed some light on this matter. Thanks!

Can 2.7m fly the car?

Hmmm

amSTARboy:
Toyota Rav4
2008
Mint Green Exterior
Cream Leather seats
Automatic Gear transmission
4 Cylinders
Factory AC
Perfect Condition

09060005750
Lagos
3.2M negotiable

Can 2.7m change the owner of this vehicle?

Cosplay:
Next time find provider, pay small money and buy history report.

Please, how can I get such provider and buy history report?
Thanks!

You have refused to let us know the details of the whole issue. How on earth do you expect us to be able judge right and advise you rightly and properly? Your case is pathetic. What exactly is the cage? Who put you in the cage? Who fabricated the cage.? How did they put you in the cage? Let us know the details and next time, don't come and give us half information if you know you are not guilty. OK?

How much will bring a high grade(1) 2007 rav 4, (2).RX330 with legal clearance.........non accidented, non flooded with full options? Thanks!

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Cosplay:
Silliness on display.

Please, I will make this as simple as possible.

There are multiple adverts for similar model Toyota Camrys and Corollas in this section that have the VIN displayed, sellers that have nothing to hide, sellers that are upfront with necessary information.

If you come across an advert with the seller refusing to post the VIN,

Save yourself the headache. Use your sense. Which person with nothing to hide would not provide all the information he can to achieve the aim of advertising here in the first place, to sell the vehicle?

Just quietly exit the thread and move on.

Don't mind some of these wicked dealers. They are trying to devise some ways, as much as possible, to frustrate you.

TolaniLuv:
So, what me I want to know is did you have sex ? With her ? If yes. Good if No, you are maga. And the bf will still break up with her after he found a girl who is rich. And she will come back begging you to forgive her..

This is not nollywood movie. Stop deceiving yourself. Don't invest in a lady that is not yet your wife. She can come up with a funny attitude later. Even, your wife, know the limit of your investment in her. Women are very funny human beings.

Innobee99:
U can see that I was still the one that had to beg despite everything she did. Even after accepting her, she's d type I knw can never change. What if I leave beating her and collect my phone. That's just what I need. Same phone I bought with my sweat dat she's using to insult me.

I am the guy that snatched your girlfriend. We just set you up. We have arranged how we are going to deal with you if you do anything funny. You saw a fine girl, you think you have seen your wife

Cosplay:
FLOODED FLOODED FLOODED

Kudos to Cosplay
You are doing a great job.

ImaIma1:
A woman can handle the bills when her husband is unable to without even the children knowing. That is why they are a team. But when a man maltreats his wife when he was the one with the money, it will take God's grace to make her still remain the same.

The man doesn't actually dictate what happens. A couple should make decisions jointly even if the man's final decision will superceed in the end. Except the man married a puppet that has no mind to reason. They are a team. But a lot of men like to milk this authority.

But if your love is patient,kind, not proud or self seeking as the Bible commanded, you will not have ideas of dictatorship at all.

I know how to make the decision in my home. I don't force it down his throat. I make suggestions and give him reasons. I am glad i married a man that had the kind of background that he had. Rather than relegate me to the background, he values my opinion and thoughts even in his own affairs.

Maltreating women ... I don't support that and that is not the topic of this discussion


If you allow your husband decisions to supersede at the end and you allow him to have the final say...... Thumbs up for you.

If you believe you can make decisions for your husband because of what you consider as reasons whether you force it down his throat or he sips it himself ........ You are wrong

If you make suggestions for your husband and he makes the final decision himself regardless of whether you think you are right or wrong ....thumbs up.


I repeat, your husband is the authority, he is the head and he dictates as the final decision maker. That is the teaching of the Holy Bible, the Quran and our rich culture.

ImaIma1:
If the roles are switched and the woman takes the role of the man as the provider (according to the bible) don't you think we can also switch up the submission and authority part too?

And nope...the man is not a dictator in his house. It is not the way the Bible described it. The woman is meant to submit but the equation does not end there. If you read further, it says the man should love his wife.

Then when you read 1 Corinthians 13 that talks about love, you will realize that a husband cannot be a dictator if he claims to love. You will understand how a husband and wife should live.

See, the worst disaster that can befall any man is-"not being able to perform his responsibilities at home" and no responsible and right-thinking man will want his duties switched and be performed by his wife. This is because it is a shameful thing and the dignity and respect for such man are under serious threat. But if conditions or circumstances warrant it, it's pertinent for the wife to rise to the occasion and perform the duties of her husband on his behalf IF SHE IS CAPABLE without letting the 3rd party to know about it. Even, while doing that she still has to see her husband as the authority and the head with the right mannerisms and attitudes towards the husband ...... That is the true definition of women of virtues.

About the husband being the dictator, what I mean is that it is the man that dictates what should happens and what should not happen in the family. He has the final say. Where there is need for the wife to be carried along in the decision making, the man will carry her along . I repeat, the husband is the authority, he dictates, and he is the head. That is the teaching of our Bible, the Quran and our rich culture. Being the authority does not mean he should not love his wife and children. If I dictate what happens in my home as the final authority, does that mean I will not love my wife? Of course, No! I dictate what happens in my home and I ove my wife, I pamper her and she doesn't contest the position of authority with me at home even though she is self sufficient. Our one daughter is learning from her very fast.

My advice
Just marry the man that has high sense of reasoning. A man that makes good judgment of things, a reasonable man and submit to him. Where there is need for you to support him, please do and don't say because of the supports (which might be financial) , you want to contest the position of authority with him. No! It won't augur well at the end of the day. Maybe, that is my "mumu button" that my wife is using for me. I wish you good luck.

ImaIma1:
Culture, God and morality don't support the woman footing the whole bill. Let's start from there.

In all i have said, i have not said a woman should not submit. In fact i said it is not negotiable.

It is just that some men bully and maltreat their wives and pin it on submission. That is not how it works.

I didn't say anything to polish my point. It is the attitude of a lot of men to lord over their wives and show their authority as the husband and man of the house and i have seen it happen.

Men that are always enforcing their authority have most likely done something to lose the respect of their wives.

Nobody is saying God, culture or morality support woman footing the whole bills, but if she is capable of doing of doing it and the husband is not, God, culture and morality demand she foot the bills on behalf of the husband. Even if she does that, she should still submit to her husband and see him as the authority. It's such a woman you call woman of virtues. Nobody is supporting maltreatment of women and living an irresponsible life as a womanizer, drunkard or smoker. But I repeat, the husband is the authority, is the dictator and he is the head that all the other family members should respect. Where there is need to carry his wife along, he will do. That makes him a man.

sunjai:
I feel pity for whoever that will be your wife. You are the type that knows nothing but thinks he knows it all.

Whether you take it or leave it, the truth is that men are the authorities in their homes and the wife and children should submit to the authorities. That is the teaching of the Bible, the Quran and even the culture of the land. I don't believe in maltreating the women or relegating women to the background, but let us call a spade a spade. Like I said, your husband is the authority, he is the head and you should submit to him if you want to have a successful marriage. For your information, I don't smoke, I don't womanize, I don't take alcohol. I just bought a new venza for my wife and I am still using my "" drop light camry ". This is so, because my wife see me as the head and the authority. She respect me. I don't fail in my responsibilities and she doesn't fail in hers too. Our children are doing fine. If you want to have a home please see your husband as the authority and the head. Where there is need for you to be carried along in decision making, he will do. And don't inculcate the mentality that women are equal partners with their husbands in your daughters. If you do, it will affect them later in life.

victorian:
Do you think all men are authoritative and a dictator like you.
News flash not all men.. And the matured ones who treats their wives with respect last longer in marriage than people. Like you.

Go to the village and marry a maid u can talk down on. Not nowadays women.

And people are marrying every Saturday. You can't stop them from. Marrying.

Whether you take it or leave it, the truth is that men are the authorities in their homes and the wife and children should submit to the authorities. That is the teaching of the Bible, the Quran and even the culture of the land. I don't believe in maltreating the women or relegating women to the background, but let us call a spade a spade. Like I said, your husband is the authority, he is the head and you should submit to him if you want to have a successful marriage. For your information, I don't smoke, I don't womanize, I don't take alcohol. I just bought a new venza for my wife and I am still using my "" drop light camry ". This is so, because my wife see me as the head and the authority. She respect me. I don't fail in my responsibilities and she doesn't fail in hers too. Our children are doing fine. If you want to have a home please see your husband as the authority and the head. Where there is need for you to be carried along in decision making, he will do. And don't inculcate the mentality that women are equal partners with their husbands in your daughters. If you do, it will affect them later in life.

sunjai:
You didn't read the part where the bible says husband's should love and respect their wives? you can't get what you can't give. talk to your wife with respect and not with a commanding tone. treat her like your partner and your companion and not like a house help, then watch house she listens and obey your words.

This is where you are getting it wrong. The husband can command his wife. That is the simple truth. If the Lord can command the church, husband can command his wife. If you cannot take to his instructions and be submissive to him , it's better you don't get married.