₦airaland Forum

sweetonugbu:
I have observed something, Ghanaian are more open about their sex life and habits than Nigerians ?.

Yes they are because their women owns the authority while our men are claiming to have here

In Ghana, children belongs to the women

If a Nigeria lady should come out open to say this same thing, all men will tag her a hoe or expired prostitute

That's why you see Nigeria ladies doing so many bad things in secret

But am glad our women are coming out from the slavery olden days men put them through

Thank God for civilisation and western education

He is even lucky he was not used for roasted meat

Crystalclara:
Good day everyone.

Please, my daughter has been itching her hair for some days. I just got to find out she has hair lice and it has been transferred to her brother. Her hair is neatly cared for so I wonder how she got in contact with this.
I was advised to use insecticide on her hair or use relaxer since it's a virgin hair.
Has anyone ever experience this?
How did you go about it.

Please I need your suggestions to get rid of this thing completely.

I advise you use relaxer on her hair, every month for 3 months, I believe it will kill both the eggs because those one's are survival

As for the brother, give him a clean cut or use razor blade

Go to their bed, remove the beddings and wash them take the foam out to the sun for lije 3days and make sure you turn the foam for sun to heat both sides

Get their pillows and do the same then mix sniper and kerosene and spread on it using a sprayer

You too be watchful if any one is scratching their hairs including you

They are gotten from school through other children living in a crowded compound like face me I face you

greatmarshall:
Nonsense... Why didn't you send him abroad?

At what age ❓

Her madam's action may mean to keep her safe and hand her over to the police before she rans away, but the method of caging her, was extremely wrong

And she did so out of anger to punish her

People should understand that once your helper makes up her mind to go home

Talk to her and if she insist, allow her to go

AXYZ:
I saw a tweet (on twitter) from a certain Ronald Nzimora and later supported by his friend, Hon. Akin Alabi as regards the above subject (as attached).

Thus, I'm compelled to ask if it's actually right for a WIFE to own properties in HER name.

1. What if the wife is richer and kept everything in her name. Don't you feel the husband will feel 'detached' and maybe unhappy?

2. What if the husband is richer and kept all the properties in his name. Don't you feel the wife will feel 'detached' and maybe unhappy?


PS. My wife and I work, and are financially independent of each other. She's been supportive
though and we buy properties in our names, e.g. Mr Kenneth Cole and Mrs Grace Cole. This is rational and not abnormal.

Reasons best known to her, but I don't think all is well in that marriage

9jayes:
Any good news from America is always from Igbo men.


Igbo amaka

I thought you would have said, this is the first time you are hearing a calabar man's name achieving greatness outside the shores

That's not an igbo name

aro1:
Please is toilet disease real,or ladies just use that word to play their lovers? Is it actually std?

It's real

My doctor one told me that for the fact that the anus is very close to the virgina, women must experience infection

For the fact that when women poo, it drops in the water and may splash water while dropping, infection must occur

For the fact that women virgina is an open flesh, it breaths in infection once its open by squatting or bending

Evercurious:
PLS DONT ADVISE THIS... HE SHOULD SEPARATE HIMSELF FROM HER ASAP IF HE LOVES HIS LIFE AND DESTINY

Any kind of advice is needed, his choice is to pick reasonable points

And you think it's easy it's just to sepate and move on just like that

Woman never deal with you before

kingxsamz:
And you're telling him this after three years?

That's when I saw the post on family section

It could be one of the seized vehicles from yahoo guys or unclaimed vehicles and it can't be left packing just like that

But to maintain it is where the problem will be

AlphikkaTech:
How would you tell your wife the food is salty without offending her?

Are you aware that too much salt causes hypertension ❓

Just tell her politely that she should reduce her salt in the food

Simple, are you afraid of talking to her about it

If you continue this way, you will be afraid of telling her the reality of life

darling4real1:
I agreed with you but not my son as pratical case. I cant withstand him running temperature.

Lol
Am glad you are convinced now

ST305:
This is not a Joke. I married my woman about 6 months ago. We dated for about 4 months and I married her. She insisted that I marry her otherwise she moves away. And she was my perfect type of woman so I had no choice.

After our wedding she refused to make love on our wedding night. She said she wasn't in the mood for that. I let her be. For 1 month we did not do anything not like I married her for sex but it's unusual I confronted her and she agreed. We started making love normally.

About 2 months later I started having weird nightmares, seeing all sorts in my sleep sometimes I wake up and find myself under the bed. I asked her regarding me under the bed she said I usually roll and fall then roll under the bed. It's sounds funny but it's not a funny experience. For 2 weeks straight it happened consecutively. Then i changed my sleeping position to the wall so I cannot roll off. I still find myself under my bed. This usually happens when we make love. If we don't it doesn't.

She goes to church with me, prays with me and acts normal but sometimes she is not normal at all. It was Last month, I noticed that she Does not use the mirror and yet her make up is perfect, she does not bath with the shower water and she comes out wet. Excuse me, your wife enters the bathroom you do not hear the sound of running water at all and she comes out wet. How is this possible? I'm running mad. She Does not sit in front of a mirror because there is no mirror in our room and she comes out with a beautiful face.

When she sleeps at night, it takes hours for her to wake up. She might sleep 8pm and wake 11am. When she wakes she looks so stressed and tired (someone who is just waking up).

Last 2 weeks, I was to attend a party my friends organized for me to celebrate us. She told me not to go to the party that she won't go. I went alone with the hope of lying to my friends that she called in sick. Because it doesn't make sense. I got to the party it went well but coming back home I was involved in a motor accident though I survived unhurt it was this morning I started to read meanings into all this. Infact on Sunday, she told our house assistant to fetch some box of matches from the nearby shop. The house assistant was yet to come and I saw my wife cooking rice.

I asked her if she has found some matches, she said no. I don't know what came over me I was dumbfounded. How in the world did she light the gas? Without a match. I did not ask her because I am afraid to ask her. It's as if she can read my thoughts. I was planning on a silent divorce with one lawyer I did not tell her yet. She came to me and said i want to divorce her..hw did she know?

Please if I start counting all this tin it will take a whole day. Please I don't know the section to post maybe religion i don't know.

Please is my wife a witch?

She might not be a witch but belongs but may have mystic powers

Sit her down to tell you more about her and the way forward

Spman:
What's all this behavior with ladies..
My baby which I met last month and she was all over me but now she I'd actin weird..
Despite my busy schedules I do call her daily to see how is she doing and even as well find time and chit chat her on fb....
To the extend it seems she is the one that even love me more but recently I can see there are changes and yesterday I arrived home from school to sort things out and she was supposed to come visit me UT today I called her to ask her how is she doing and her phone hanged up and I sent her a message on fb she didn't read it,so I called her angrily knowing gully well that we human out emotions are different and I have never reacted like this about why she don't reply me she said 'oh where so I told her what u are doing to me now is not fair that a time will come u will seek for my attention and u won't see...' so after this she doesn't pick my calls nor reply my chats..
Thought I have another babe though but why must she get my attention to love her when she knew she will misbehave later?


Is she doing this just to test my emotions or I don't just understand her changes recently.....


Have any of u had dx issue too before with ur girl?

Just give her a break

GreatResearcher:
my ex needs my help. she wants me to lend her some money with the promise to pay back even with interest. There was a time I lend her money and when I requested my money back, she told me she's going to calculate all the sex we hav had and I wil pay her for the sex also make her to go back to her normal state (virgin) . Since d money was something I can path with, I left it for her. Now she is disturbing me to lend her money that she will refund it even with interest and that this time there wil b a documentd agreement. Am just confusd becos the amount she's asking for is too big to let go. Advice pls

Kerp getting confused until you give her your ATM card and pin number

Palace32:
Hello fellow Nairalanders.

I have a very strong issue bothering my mind, there is this lady I'm in love with, the love is very mutual as she is also madly in love with me too. She's everything I want in a woman and I am planning on getting married and settling down with her next year.

The issue is that, I am Igbo but my girlfriend Yoruba. Personally, I have no issue with that, she doesn't too but my parent does. This past week, mum overheard me speaking to her on the phone in Yoruba language and with the way I sounded over the phone, she knew we were dating. Immediately I ended the call with my girlfriend, my mum asked if that was my gf I just finished speaking yoruba to on the phone, I nodded in affirmation, mum said it's over her dead body will I marry a Yoruba girl, she was warning me when my Dad entered, my Dad being a Pastor, I thought he would reason with me and see reason from my perspective, but instead, he supported my mother.

They both gave me reasons why the idea of me marrying my Yoruba gf is dead on arrival. One of it is how my gf will cope anytime we travel to our home town and she's invited to the Igbo women meetings, will she be hired an interpreter to interprete bits by bits whatsoever they are saying? Or will she forced them to speak English instead of the official igbo language being spoken at meeting?

Another reason they both gave me is that, no one in our lineage has married to anyone who is not igbo, both from my Paternal or Maternal side and I won't be the first. My Dad once said that if eventually I marry my Yoruba gf, I will forget my roots, I won't be coming home regularly and with time, she will force me not to come home at all.. and so on and so forth.

It's so glaring that my parent are TRIBALISTIC. There is no two ways about it.

I really love this girl, she's very decent. Her mum is aware we are dating and it seems there won't be any problem or issue from my gf's family side. I really want to marry her as she's my ideal type of woman, however, leaving her can be mentally and emotionally damaging to us.

How do I cope with my tribalistic parent? How do I convince them that my love for her knows no boundaries, tribe or race? Is there anything my parent are seeing that is still blind to me?

I'm in dire need for mature minded advice.

Thanks in anticipation

pls take it easy before you injure your self

Time will heal you

Just respect your parents in any way you think you can

Their happiness lyes in you and your happiness is their priority

2Ebisco:
Lady explains what her mother is actually doing with her boyfriend, states what she will do Next.

READ BELOW:

my mother is sleeping with my boyfriend or should I say our boyfriend. My father is still very much alive but down with a stroke.

I introduced my man to her after he proposed, she even said he was poor but I insisted that I love and will marry him since he has a good job and can take care of me.

My boyfriend came into town yesterday and I insisted that he won’t lodge in a hotel but our family house, so I cleaned up a room for him, only for me to come back home this night from church and saw my Mum on top of him, it was my Mum that was on top not even him .

i am just driving helplessly now with death in my head, wondering what will be the explanation, I guess I am sorry is all they owe this abomination .

What can I do ? What should be my next step, what is still shocking to me is the fact that my boyfriend does not like fat women, he does not go close to fat people, then how come he was attracted to my own mum, with fat all over her body and Christian mother hand.

I hate my mother so much right now, I will kill her and face Jail or I will just K*ill myself too, i’m so broken I just had to vent my heart is full I need help .
Am dying in pains

https://www.mcebiscoo.com/my-mum-is-sleeping-with-my-boyfriend-i-will-kill-her/

Get another man for her

setobaba:
Good morning @all

Thanks you all for your kindly advise last week. It exactly 7 days now someone (Ex) wished me dead. I brought the issue here and I was able to pick out reasonable advice. Majority said I should ignore her and move on, other conclude I must file a report.

A day after she posted the picture, I went to report her to a sarz officer holding the posted picture as evidence, they were shocked to see it, but it was already late in the night, so they told me to call them very early the following morning, to perfect the arrest.
I had made up my mind, I had never arrested anyone in my life, this had to be a very tough decision for me, especially someone that once showed me kindness.

That night, I had a dream, saw a particular person that wanted me to make sure I repot the case, warning me seriously in the dream never to involve the Sarz.

I was confused while waking up, I dailed the policemen contact, and immediately my battery went from 9% to 0% while calling. I had never experienced such on my phone.

I started feeling scared, but kept all to myself, that's how I refused to call the policemen. So I moved on as suggested by many. 3 days after she started calling and dropping messages, I taught it was another form of threat, I recieved her message, only to ser her apologizing. I tried not to respond, as my instincts keeps saying she's up to something, I was seriously angry from within, after reading her apologises and rejecting her several calls, my heart became very bitter, was feeling sick and couldn't think straight since then. I taught I was going to actually die.

This became persistent, serious nightmares. So this morning I decided to listen to a radio program, only for the sermon to keep addressing me and pointing at all my situation, like it was arranged for me. Lastly the preacher said I may end up dead if I refuse to forgive.

I don't want to hear her voice, so I decide to forward a Mesage to her on her Instagram page, notifying her if I've forgiven her.
But God this is something that forced tears out of my eyes.
I pray I feel better soon, been weak since yesterday due to severe loss of appetite.

Your brain
Your emotions
Your heart
Your mind

They are all playing games with you and your head

St this stage, you have to forgive it will nit be easy for you to forget but you have to forgive for you to experience Peace.

Once a while send a message to her and just said I wish you a happy week

Gradually, you will be fine and she too will have a healed heart

But avoid her the way you can avoid Ebola and use your senses while doing that

NwaAmaikpe2nd:
Happy first sunday of this month to you all.

Today suppose to be a happy day for me as it coincide with my mum's birthday which we have planned to celebrate.

But it turn out to be a dissapointment because my fiance broke up with me 6 hours ago.

I don't know where i wrong him o.

My only pain in this breakup is that he may withdraw his support financially in regards to my sibling schooling,which we now be my priority.

I have never fallen in love with a man before except him but he decided to break my heart.

I don't think i will ever love a man again for a very long time because it seems they are all same.

If you are not a virgin, deal with it

Daniwak:
I finished service 2016, got my 1st job 2018 April. Though the salary wasn't big, it was just 40k on 6 months contract. In this 6 months, each time i receive salary, the 1st thing i do i transfer 5k, sometimes 7k to bae. I never failed any month. At the expiration of the job, i got another with a 60k salary, i send 7k to bae, 7k to mum, 5k to younger sis. I save the rest for my masters and feeding. I never failed to give bae money any month but i failed mum once. We had issues around May this year, i was complaining to her of not giving me time, all she could call me was a stingy guy, that she has bin wanting to tell me since and its better she told me now. We broke up anyways. We reconciled 2 months ago. I love her i won't lie but each time i remember that she said, i just feel bad and hurt. This is a gal i can categorically tell u apart from sex, ive gained absolutely nothing from here. I want to know if m a stingy person 4 not giving her more

Stingy or no stingy, it time you tell her how much you can afford to give her because you are still looking for who will give you money too

Besides you have your family to give to

If she us dating you for money, she will go and never to come back

If she us dating you fir love, she will question you for doubting her over the money you ate giving her

Can't she even dash you a gift as a support for being steady

darling4real1:
My wife just took in but refused our son to sleep to close her, reason being that it will increase his temperature and make have fever or run high temperature. Even her mom and mine has the same opnion with her.

I am confused now. Can this be scientifically proven or just a mere superstition? Mummy in the house over to you.

It's true, a pregnant woman's body feels hot all the time, sleeping next to her makes you sick not even her

Yes, pls keep your son away from her whenever she is sleeping

But if you doubt, sleep close to her throughout the course of this pregnancy, come back and tell us your experience or you can use your son as a practical case

yeyebrity:
Hey peeps! Please, I would like to know how possible it is for a single lady to officially change her name in Nigeria. What I mean is, changing your first and last names without being married.

I did a quick google search and part of the requirements is a marriage certificate. The question is, is it possible to take a completely different name without being married? Your contributions will be deeply appreciated. Regards.

As a single lady or guy, you have your reasons to change your name as you wishes

Marriage is not the only reason to change name

But bear in mind that you already have a certificate that bears a name you want to change

Whatever your reasons is what you have to defend anything it comes up

LadyBeee:
I had a child in 2015. Her father abandoned us and ran away, so I took up the responsibility of taking care of her till she was 4 years. Was staying in lagos with my mum. My mum later relocated to the village and requested that I bring my daughter to stay with her since I was still single and need to get married. My daughter has been my good luck charm since I had her. Things became so easy for me. My bank account trippled and God's Grace has always been with me. Everything she needed was provided for. Since I took her to my mum last year, I've been so lonely. I miss her so much. I plan to bring her back when I travel for Christmas but people re advising me not to try it because it would block my chances of getting married. But it's been one year since she travelled and yet, I haven't even seen the husband that I'm searching for. It doesn't make any difference if she were here or not. I even had suitors when she was still with me but now i dont even have any serious person asking for my hand in marriage. My mum doesn't want me to bring her back. I am also undecided about bringing her back. Please i need your mature advice on this issue. Thanks as I await your opinions.

Wether she is staying with you or not, once it's God's time for your suitors to come they will come

If she is staying with your mum and your mum can't let her go, pls leave her with your mum as that's the only play mate she has at home

If you bring her down, and you need to go clubbing or parting over night, where will you keep her

Any man that comes to you, he must be notified of your daughter and if he loves you, he will love your daughter

Once in holiday times, she and mum can come and spend the holidays with you

Your mum have all the time on earth to train her for you I terms of discipline and correction

Keep making the money you will need when you finally get married

Lastly, lower your standard to get a man that you will be complacent with and start life with him

If your standards are high, you may not start with a one room man

Forget about her dad, he is not coming back and don't wait for him, move on and carry your child and mum along

I like your pictures how much do you install and where is your office located

Do you have wall papers too for rooms

izzou:


Bedbug is the next worst thing after corruption in this country

The solution?

Pack into a new apartment...And take nothing with you

You and your household should move into it in your birthday suits.

Thank me later bro

Who told you ❓

The next falt has bed bugs and they do creep in or crawl in because they are so flat

They climb walls to enter apartments you might be killing yours and your neighbours are not doing anything about theirs because it's expensive to handle them

damesilver:
It's been more than 4 years now we have been battling with bedbug infestation at home. Even at school or other places a member of the family moves to they follow.

Several methods have been employed yet they do not go. Whoever has experienced bedbugs would know that these little creature are as deadly as Boko Haram.

They aim for your blood, hide in dark places and crevices. They disrupt your sleep, your life and you begin to live in perpetual fear. This is serious.

I've tried the traditional science of taking some live bugs to the market, yet doesn't work. A lot of money has been spent on Sniper, DD force, etc, despite that they come with their attendant health consequences due to exposure.

Please help oh..

Very simple, get those fumigating houses to come with a sample for you to know the strength

Once you are OK with the odour, arrange for them to come and fumigate your apartment

BEAR in mind that you won't sleep at home that night or two nights because the odour can be very harmful

They will Bring out the foams and fumigate both from and back

Then fumigate the beds because they also leave where there are screws holding the bed

Your chairs in the parlor and everything apart from kitchen

Close the doors and spend the weekend else where

If you inhale the odour pls take tin milk after the fumigation

Collect the remaining one from them and every weekend, do same

Then exactly one month call them again and do the same exact fumigation

Do it for 3 consecutive months

They will vanish

Do you know that their egg is worst than the bed bugs itself

Do you know that a single bed bug is a hermaphrodite

Do you know that bed bugs survive without blood for 6 months

Do you know that they stay in woods, wall cracks and the most tiniest cracks in the room

Do you know that they can be very quiet any where they are but once they perceive a body odour they come out
They hardly feed during the day but at nights

Take my advice and the odour will choke them to death, always collect their left over of which they will give it to you to do follow up every weekend

Good luck

Duggedised12:
Just one center in states,this is just not fair to the masses in terms of convenience.

Imagine having to travel three hours to get to registry within your state lets not even talk of states where you don't have federal marriage registry at all

Like Bayelsa state

They are use to that kind of life

Yinibixema:
I’ll continue beating till i find the one who’s more respectful and very submissive to her lord

Na you go tire, na your type women dey put inside bottle