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ValCon888:
Your physical challenge is karma for insulting your wife's legs in the beginning.
You didn't like her because 'she was annoying and had little bow legs'.
Today the 'annoying girl' has accepted you despite you having no leg.

Be careful who you insult before it comes back to haunt you.

And you think this trash made sense ❓

Those days, you must be a celebrity and you must be a known person with good characters and a model for children

Even the dreadlocks have to be neat that you won't get tired of looking at how beautiful it was made

It was even expensive that only those who can afford to maintain it have it on them

But now every dick and Harry is wearing it, it became common appearance

eagleu:
Did someone do DNA to link these children to the parents?
Strange behaviour

Who will pay for it ❓

This is what we want

If you feel that you have a spiritual husband, go for aggressive deliverance

Adamumd:
Do women really experience the high urge for sex the way we guys do, am just asking for a friend.

They do if they are ovulating

They do when the see a guy that admires them the same way she admires him

They do when they are with the person they love

But they can hold it or suppress it when they cant get the real thing

Your work is good

Pls be proud of yourself,

You are a beautiful girl and a man that appreciate your beauty will come for you

But live a low life and be humble with yourself and those men you come across

Stealing a bay you are part of ❓

So their fire service is even functional ❓

Once beaten, twice shy

Those days that you can buy original shoes and it won't peel till the shoe finally spoil

They type of children shoes in the market now is flashing beauty

After 1yr that's the end

NORSYK:
It's a good gesture and commendable, but he should also provide her something that will be earning her income

Read the post again and again, you will see it there

peteruuu:
Another yahoo yahoo plan

What's your problem ❓

His choice and his decision

They are aware of that, once a human being falls into it, gbaam ❗❗❗

They will rush and cover it

A new born for that matter, who did this to this nation

That particular state, is always associated with human rituals

Ohhhh, little angel, rest in peace.

God pls protect the family and give them the grace they need this period

igwegeorgiano:
Friends on NL I greet you all. Trust your day is going well? It is with very heavy heart and confused state of mind I sent this post on this platform so you can advise me on what line of action I should take. Pastors and genuine men of God should also advise me on what to do as well.

There is this lady i have been dating for about a year and 6 months now. We love each other to the moon and most importantly we respect each other opinion and decisions. She is a born again christian who appreciates the things of God more than she appreciates me which of course I have no issues with.

When we agreed to start up a relationship after being friends for about 6 months, it was agreed that there will be no sex until the wedding night but at a point I asked her "what if we are done with traditional marriage rites are we still not gonna have sex? To my creates surprise she said we won't until church wedding is done. I did not actually took her serious.

Fast forward, on the 15th of July 2019 the traditional marriage was done in her father' compound in the east and all I was asked to pay and give was paid and given without any remainder . after the traditional marriage we went back to my house in abuja. Note that we were not staying together before now. I am base in abuja while she is in owerri. When we got home that night I told her we can now make love as husband and wife hence the traditional rites has been done and most importantly the bride price paid. To my amazement my wife bluntly refused. She told me she will never compromise her stand on pre marital sex

I have been very faithful to our agreement based on her claim that she is a virgin. But refusing me my right over her body after every thing including the bride price has been paid is something I can never subscribed to and to this end I have I have involved her parent and her pastor her decision however, still remain no sex till the wedding night. I am putting the wedding on hold for now until she willingly allow me make love to her and she seems not to be comfortable with my decision as well.

This is the dilemma I have found myself please I need your wise counsels on this. Thanks and remain bless. Moderators kindly push this post to the front page so it can have adequate views it deserves thanks

If you love her and she is a virgin as she claims, sort yourself out and let her know that since she is not responding, you have to seek elsewhere

But bear in mind, she is going to be very stubborn as a person, I hate it when she uses church as a disguise to everything she does

Assuming you don't have money to do marriage now, then you will have to wait until when you are capable of financing wedding

Go and sort yourself and don't ask me how, if you are not a virgin

But if both of you are a virgin, keep waiting

id2019:
What's stopping you from fixing date for the white wedding. She told u all this before the relationship started.

Give him the money he needs

Brother wey mumu

You need her to perfect your paper's yet you beat her

I don't even know how men feel satisfied beating a woman

Just because she based in Dublin, assuming she based in Ijora or Ajegunle

Will he show case her ❓

frankyskyboi:
I started a relationship with a lady in March this year and it's been going on well though she works in Lagos while I'm in the eastern part of the country.

When we were at the introductory part of the relationship, I asked about her family and she told me they are separated. I asked what's the reason for the separation and she said its due to irreconcilable differences and they separated when she was a toddler that it's her dad that raised her up tho she keeps contact occasionally with her mum.

She stays with her aunts in Lagos. I asked if she asked both parents to know why and she said she only asked her dad and he said he doesn't want her mum to be working class and she insisted to be One that he wants her to be a stay at home wife. I asked if she heard from her mum and she said no. She also said her aunts said same thing her dad said.

The reason really didn't go down well with me as it's too flimsy and I've told her to ask her mum and she keeps procrastinating or giving one excuse or the other. It beats my imagination how a grown up adult can't know with conviction why her parents separated or I guess the truth is being hidden.

I'm bringing this up here because my brother married from a separated home and it was war before my parents gave consent. If she can't give me concrete reason why the parents broke up which I'll present before my parents, I really don't know how the relationship can move forward because we detest divorce in our family.

Please I need your advice if I should continue or quit.

You are just paranoid for nothing

What if she was a child if rape ❓
Pls concentrate on your relationship if you live her to take bullet for her

Even those from complete homes still get separated in their new marriage

You can go behind her and do district investigations into her family home in her village

GreatResearcher:
am talking about change in character once they get marriedso how is any of those factors u mentioned a reason to lie?

Any of those factors can trigger a change in marriage

Both the proposer and the acceptor will learn when the time comes

They are about swimming in an ocean without life jackets

Who send them

If this guy can humble himself, he will enjoy their relationship

They both went for the race, though she won, do they can continue loving themselves

kellypara:
Guys I need your advice pls. I have been dating this girl for a year now and just when I thought I have found someone that I love and loves me back, She infected me with Gonorrhoea.
Pls guys, what should I do now?

Both of you can go for test at the same time, done in the same hospital and both if you can read the test results together

Don't be surprise she might not have Gonorrhoea, that's women body for you, it can hide infection

DameB:
Of course, some even still eat Uncle Benz long grain rice.
There have been and will always be different rulesets for the elite & the masses

I believe they eat uncle Ben's and basaltic rice

Now forcing us to eat anything we can lay our hands on

iamJ:
Nigerians don't pay life insurance

If not the other children will have benefited from this tragedy

Instead na to fatten pastor pocket kind of insurance una dey pay


Last last nothing join am, mama is gone


May her soul, can't say if it is gentle or not rest in peace

Stop it naw,

You don't just comment careless comments, it a way of showing how prematureand in experience you are

A woman that was said to be be childless after years of marriage and finally gotten this child, only for the devil to take her away

What if the husband is in this forum, reading your harsh comment

Let's show maturity in every thing we do, it could be you tomorrow

You always like to comment nonsense and hate speech

Is that what you came to do in life ❓

So those assassins ha e the whole time to drag him out from the salon, kill him with several gun shot and drag his corpse to where he packed his car and displayed it there.

Why are people behaving as if they own this life ❓

You can imagine the pains the parents had by witnessing their son's death

I don't think it's skipper they took or probably they just sip it.

The snipper I know us quick action not slow action

iamadonis2:
My Girlfriend still reaches out to her Ex Boyfriend for financial assistance. I admit it gets me really upset.

I want the best for her and want her to grow financially, but I feel help from an Ex is going too far and quite disrespectful.

Please advise, guys, is my anger justified and reasonable?

What kind of help is she seeking for, which you can not offer her❓

Who wants to return back to such homes after staying without trials for years