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Stephen2324:
Is it wrong to crush on others while in a relationship??

For men they don't see anything wrong with that because they don't love with emotions and for women, they love with emotions and once they are satisfied with a guy, they don't look else where

Unless the relationship is based on material gains not true love

Hopeless man

vivalavida:
Naaa
This their entitlement mentality gets me annoyed jare.

Lol, that's why they said that women are made for men and children are made for women

Once you understand women with their game of getting things to their advantage, you will be happy because you won't allow it to bulge you

That's our nature anyway and every woman has an atom of it no matter the pretense

vivalavida:
Typical woman. Take me there

Get off Ur ass and go there yourself.

E bi like say woman done deal with you several times

fk001:
Pls I need answers.

I have never use my waec certificate because I have 2 deficiencies on it, so I have been using my NECO from different seating all this while.

NB

The Neco that I am using, I reseated it the following year after my secondary school graduation in an entirely different school. I didn't even bother to collect my WAEC original certificate from the school I graduated from.


Should I be worried?

Would they require my WAEC certificate even with the deficiency in the future?

I need answers pls

Every one knows that waec comes before neco

Just go and collect the result deficiency or no deficiency, its the only prove you went to secondary school

They are your results and your names are there
It's even the deficiency tgat will prove to anyone that can it's the reason you registered for another exam and it must not be same school

Fat na fat no matter what you want to remove

Both the step mum and the herbalist should be amputated from shoulder down

How can the dad an okada ride get emergency money to cone home from lagos to Nassarawa just like that

PasD:
An okada man hit my door and damaged it...and though he admitted its his fault I let him go cos of mercy.
Parked my car (Toyota Corolla 2004 model) outside cos there were truvks blocking my gate that night and before morning thieves came and stole my brain box and many other things.

Now I have fixed other things remaining the brain box. The one I got today did not start the car. And the mechanic and electrician assured me that they will get the one that will fit.

My question is this, when I change the brain box will the car start giving issues or it will still work as it was before?

THE CAR IS JUST FEW MONTHS OLD #sobs

It will definitely work if theu get the one that matches it especially the year of the car same brain box

Those buglers doesn't know the pains they make people go through whenever they steal or bugle

Just leave it as a burnt offering for them

dottozil:
Thanks alot, how do the COT work, cos am interested in upgrading my savings account into current and I won't want unnecessary charge.

That unnecessary charges that you don't want is the exact thing you will get

Geminita1:
Humans are so weak. Once you are down they run away and hide, the minute you get back they jump out from nowhere singing your praise. Why are we such cowards. Humans are overrated, i''ll rather be a flower.

They do that because of selfish interest

They only hang around you because of their gains

What concerns her with her mother's ministry

Every time, they will be flying half dead object

As if they are using the duplicate of themselves and the real life is at home with the family

byna:
We got married in 2012 and ever since then we have been blessed with 3kids (3,boys).
I have a monthly upkeep of 130k for my wife as she only comes to our factory and goes home without doing much for the day aside taking care of kids and cooking.

I noticed that each time we have a misunderstanding, we both keep straight faces for days and she behaves as though she is less concerned to make up. It doesn't affect her chores or cooking as for me I hardly reject food served.

Now, after a couple of days, she would come for sex without wanting us to discuss and resolve the disagreement first.

Even when I feel rudely insulted, this happens. She feels whatever she does doesnt matter as long as Las Las na sex go end am. But I feel it's wrong and issues should be kept straight and fun time separate.

So we had same issues last week and we have been keeping straight faces yet I've been eating her food. Sometimes she joins me for mng prayers, sometimes she does her privately ( we do together before any misunderstanding)
So this mng she appeared stark nude to my room and demanded for sex after almost 15 days. I told her it would be unfair if we sweep the pass e events under the duvet. She got up and told me she wasn't ready to discuss any past misunderstanding that she came to f*uck. I told her I wasn't ready till issues are ironed out.

She taught it was business as usually as my John Thomas always disappoint me each time I see her nude but today I was ready to turn her down.

I Want to know if it's proper to always treat ur spouse the way you like knowing fully well that sex is their weak point for reconciliation?

Mature minds pls

You guys are comedians

It's easier and less risky to deny a man sex than to deny a woman when she comes around for it

Women are good manipulators and if it doesn't favour them, they will make you uncomfortable getting the one that favours them

She knows her game and the way you play your card determines are goals in the game

What am trying to say is that since you can't tell us the exact issues that you guys are having

Always give her listening ears and see reasons with her

She looks unbothered because whatever the issue at hand is not to her favour

As it is, at times take the decision if you truly knows that you will cone out successful with it and go ahead to execute it without her consent or approval, if she ask you why tell her that she doesn't always support your ideas and you are OK doing it so

But bear in mind that if you fail, she will nagg your life out if that house and keep bad mouthing you until angels cautions her

Simply, he committed suicide

Pafoma:
Guys! I need serious, real and honest contributions.. Thanks to all that will contribute.

I have a lady whom i am dating. I truly love and care about her but she has been with people that are in my circle and this disturbs me. She didnt used to be a straightforward and totally faithful person but i see that she is making efforts towards being completely honest and straightforward but still i dont have rest in my spirit about taking the decision to marry her.

I have observed she is soft with guys and is not firm, although i am aware it takes time for someone used to a particular pattern or lifestyle to adjus. I need help because breaking up with this lady will mean that i have to look for someone else to start the entire circle with again and who knows what if the new one also comes with even worse baggages.

My questions are these

1. What do you advice i do?
2. Who has been in similar situation where you fell in love with a lady your friends and circle have been with then married her? What was the experience like including things to look out for..
3. How can be sure i wont regret the decision to go forward?

Please feel free to ask me any question and i’ll answer if they are not sarcastic or jokes..

Thank you.

If you do much love her that you really want her

Teach her how to be sensible and live a decent life

The person you are talking about is a woman that will be the mother of your children

But if within you, you are not really comfortable with her, stylishly withdraw from the relationship

Make sure you don't break her heart

Once it's guaranteed that it won't capsize any how

Meaning the stability in the water matches with its balance

My opinion is that there is no sense in that, what concerns an illiterate driver with bank transfer

Fraud has made people to lose trust in people

Chidexter:
Its a lie. you wont do as instructed, i know how it works.

You are a discourager ❗❗❗

Rednaxelot:
These women that look like sey dem no get goods for dem market again.

They must have had kids with him in the relationship and decides to marry them just because they lost hope

Look very well, non of them are bellow 25/30yrs

abc115:
God bless PYO
God bless BAT
God bless APC
God bless President Muhammadu Buhari
God bless South West
God bless Enemies of Yoruba
God bless Federal Republic of Nigeria

You didn't ask God to bless you because you voted your destiny to the people that you mentioned

ChristmasBells:
Lord Have Mercy May This Man Never Go Unpunished
WOMEN ARE PRICELESS
She wakes up by 4am, gives you sex,
You sleep back, she will move straight to the kitchen. She would join morning devotion by 5:30am, start preparing kids by 6:00am, serve everybody food by 7am, take the kids to school and move to her office by 7:30am, go for school runs by 2pm.
She would come back to the house by 5-6pm, start washing of clothes and cooking dinner by 6pm. Serve dinner by 7:30pm, start home work for kids by 8-9pm, Shower and meet you the husband in the room by 9:30pm, discuss with you and catch fun so that you will be in the mood for sex.
And you the husband with your big head will sleep like a king, She will get up to check on the children if they are sleeping well, off the light, Start praying for you and the family by 12am -1am..
Sleep a little and wake up again by 4am to start all over again...
And yet we don't respect the ladies in our lives.. Oga change your ways.
Good women are to be celebrated.
Sometimes I feel nature is unfair to you.
But you are a miracle.
It's you who bleeds blood every month with severe pains and crams. Even in those pains, you still have to put things together for a normal day. The cooking, washing, etc.
It's you who carry another human inside you for 9months. The inconvenience, the discomfort, the sacrifice, and carefulness. You sacrifice what makes you happy just to keep another life healthy.
When it's time to deliver, your life is on the line. It's a 50/50 chance for you. You may live and you may die. But being the life-giver you are, you will choose the life of a new stranger over yours. Even the process is not favorable to you. Either the pains of childbirth or surgery.
After it all, you still carry yourself up and continue life activities with bandage and pains. But what is miraculous about this all is the smile you put on your face while facing all this.
May God bless every woman out there.
Good women are to be celebrated.
Amen and shar
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If men can understand the real meaning of your write up, there will be absolute peace at home

The man is frustrated, simple

iaamxavier:
Thank for this wonderful advice
I promise you and my much that I'll come out with this distinction by God's grace

By the way I be guy o

OK, guy, I will hold on to your promise

Those that made this importation and arrangement are as stupid as the idea of closing the borders

BluntBoy:
And you think the Alaafin will allow her work? I have never heard about an olori working in all of my life.

No government agency would dare employ her.

She will handle that with him, no be woman she bi ❓

Officialgarri:
This one can't work with her Certificate. Her grammar and use of tenses proves that.
Thank God she's married to a king and she would have all the money to spend

I hope the king's will shall be enough for her to start business when the king eventually dies

I bet you she is getting employment from any government establishment soon as she finish from service

iaamxavier:
I'm writing this post with a heavy heart

So I'm 21 and I finished secondary school at age 17 (2015) and to be honest I just got admission this year to study pharmacy while my mates are in their final year and it hurts alot because my mum keeps telling me that my cousin is in final year and is about serving next year and I'm just gaining admission to a university, she even uses her friend's child as an example and it made me go into a Little depression, I actually felt sad because for the first time a comparison actually hit me...

She claims they (my parents)are supposed to be resting and not paying school fee. That I'm stressing them and ever since I was a teenager I always vowed that I wanted to leave my father house before 25yrs of age

Now I'm studying a 5 years course (7 years to become a full graduate) and by then I'll be 28 I actually feel ashamed because this isn't what I wanted since I left secondary school
I wanted to finish on time and remove the burden from them

I've never failed jamb, my least Score was 245 but circumstances kept dragging me back

I finished my ND program in 2017 (Distinction in SLT Yabatech)

So it feels more like I'm parambulating up and down and don't know what I want for my self but I actually do!!

I need an advice or something to make me feel better or confident about my self

My dear, you just want to get disturbed because you took her words personally

What if you are gone, she would have preferred having you around her in whichever way

Your mum is preparing you for challenges and you are here allowing your emotions to detect for you

Shake it off and start going to school for registration and classes

Make sure you don't come home often and try and come out with distinction so that she will be humbled

Mothers can tell you things that will make you locate your placenter where it was buried

Drop those feelings before you take a decision that will affect you and she will still tell you the worst words

Nickisindigo:
pls help me ask her which program can see code with then the result can be justified

This same low life and low esteem has been putting you a life full of obstacles

Where is this couples getting money from, to do wedding abroad ❓

helinues:
Mumuness of the highest order.

He should have sent snake instead of sending millipedes that cant hurt

The sight of the millipede is a horrible sight

He doesn't mean to kill the man yet that's why he sent millipedes to threaten him, if he meant death he will send snakes to invade his living room, you can imagine what it will result to

If its because of doubt, let her go to licencing office and check the status of the car to be sure that the name and other data corresponds

Registering of car is not allowed because of the computerization

qualityGod:
Through my window I saw this pretty creature waiting for prey but I just took a shot ,life if indeed beautiful

Please Stop animal cruelty.

Am glad you might be his next meal