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Politics › Re: WAEC Scratch Card Confirms Sanwo-Olu Submitted Fake GCE Result To INEC - Jandor by gare(f): 5:45pm On Apr 11, 2023
Saao:
and the deputy will take over
They both are one ticket, they will leave office if found guilty
Travel › Re: Johnson Arumemi-Ikhide, Arik Air Founder Barred From Airline’s Premises by gare(f): 5:34pm On Apr 11, 2023
Spaxon:
In as Much as he's in debt.

The creditors are behaving rudely.

It's painful to witness something of this sort
How do you want them to behave? People that collected bank loans to supply your company and still can't pay back the loans should behave nicely, when he should be in jail for not managing the company well
Events › Re: Nigerian Lady Dances In A Daring Outfit At A Wedding Event, Causes A Stir by gare(f): 2:31am On Apr 11, 2023
Ndlistic:
Busty Nigerian Lady Causes A Stare At A Wedding Event With Her Daring Outfit People Reacts


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=efeM8AOJjbs

A video from a wedding reception has gone viral on social media as it captures an asoebi lady's daring outfit

In the viral clip, she is seen dancing, dressed in a gown with a thigh-high opening at the front and a lowcut neckline.

Several fashion lovers on social media who saw the video have slammed the lady for her inappropriate dress choice.


When it comes to asoebi fashion, ladies tend to be as stylish, classy and as daring as possible. Sometimes, a little too daring - as is the case in a video currently making the rounds online.

In the clip, two asoebi ladies show off their dance moves with what appears to be one of the groomsmen.

While the dance isn't out of place for a wedding, the dress design of one of the asoebi ladies has left many people appalled and some, angry.


She is seen in a burnt orange dress - the same as the other lady.


Only hers featured a more skin-revealing design comprising a dramatic thigh-high opening in the front with a low-cut neckline staying put with the help of a single tulle strap.
Take the tailor to court
Family › Re: Frustrated With My Wife by gare(f): 2:26am On Apr 11, 2023
tomi4life:
I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl. We didnt court much during our courtship because of long distance.

I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.

My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance

My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.

Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens.
[b]
Finance:
I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.


I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.


I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.

Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.


I expect my wife will support me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.

Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me.
Take her for deliverance
Politics › Re: Daily Loud Reports Tinubu's US Drug Case by gare(f): 2:22am On Apr 11, 2023
Raskimonojendor:
Summary, we are going to embarass and disgrace Nigeria and Nigerians because our candidate did not win or get the highest number of votes in the election.

#Tantrum.
Yakubu and Tinubu didn't disgrace Nigeria by conducting a shameless election with 300billion and Tinubu by threatening people to vote him and rigging, make you de play
Politics › Re: Daily Loud Reports Tinubu's US Drug Case by gare(f): 2:19am On Apr 11, 2023
XerXers:
grin
Remaining CNN and BBC
That one go br Breaking News
Politics › Re: Bishop Kukah's Message To Buhari, Tinubu, Obidients, Supreme Court On Easter by gare(f): 10:02am On Apr 10, 2023
Deltafirstson:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/easter-bishop-kukah-sends-tough-message-to-buhari-tinubu-obidients-supreme-court/
I see comments of fools here and I wonder if we are all in the same country called Nigeria, do you think Tinubu has anything to offer Nigerians just wait and see by the time he is done it's going to be 1500 to a weak dollar. Governors that failed in their respective states are warming up to be ministers, why can't we learn for once.

PMB could not fix our refineries in 8yrs but it will take maximum 4 years to build a new one. We all we suffer but those that voted or did not vote, those that supported and those that didn't support we all will use the same market, same petrol station same hospital, so we all suffer together.
Travel › Re: This Is The Oyedepo Hangar They Plan To Demolish by gare(f): 10:33pm On Apr 03, 2023
confirmIt:
you are a muslim thats why u are talking this rubbish, i blan=me that my boy u people worship as God u call mohammed musa ,
Respect the religion of others.
Politics › Re: 2023: Obi Introduced Religious, Ethnic Politics In Nigeria – Chimaroke Nnamani by gare(f): 10:27pm On Apr 03, 2023
Ylink4sure:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/04/2023-peter-obi-introduced-religious-ethnic-politics-in-nigeria-chimaroke-nnamani/amp/
I can see this man is so pained, please shut up and go to court, what's is your problem with Obi, are you the only one that lost to labor party?
Politics › Re: FG To Demolish Bishop Oyedepo’s Hangar At Lagos Airport by gare(f): 10:18pm On Apr 03, 2023
Nigerialabalaba:
FG To Demolish Bishop Oyedepo’s Hangar At Lagos Airport



https://journalist101.com/2023/04/03/fg-to-demolish-bishop-oyedepos-hangar-at-lagos-airport/




https://punchng.com/fg-to-demolish-lagos-airport-jet-hangars/?amp
What about the airline he promised us ? That one no come again. Instead he de cash out with fire engine.
Politics › Re: Rivers Federal Lawmakers-elect Will Support APC Consensus Candidate For Speaker by gare(f): 10:14pm On Apr 03, 2023
wanimo:
Wike will be history by May 29. He should enjoy it while it lasts.

Obigbo massacre must be accounted for. Wike must be brought to justice
No wahala, you can go to court, there you will get justice
Politics › Re: DSS Statement Is An Agenda To Arrest Opposition Leaders In Nigeria – Pa Adebanjo by gare(f): 2:06am On Apr 02, 2023
BuhariAdvocate:
This man antagonist will really affect his children later.
His children are doing far better than you, they are not looking for handout
Politics › Re: INEC Chairman, Wike And Fayose And Others Included In USA Visa Ban by gare(f): 1:31am On Apr 01, 2023
ruffhandu:
source: https://ibomfocus.com/visa-ban-3/
So if they have an existing visa it will be cancelled, and if there kids are schooling abroad the visa cancelled and they will be sent back home.

I think that's a starting point. To teach them a big lesson
Politics › Re: Timipre Sylva Resigns As Nigeria’s Junior Petroleum Minister by gare(f): 10:16am On Mar 31, 2023
seanfer:
I’m his four years as a Governor he got over 50 building properties and many were seized by EFCC. Only God knows how many he will acquire if he gets to the sit this time around. Wicked human being.
Why would such kind of person hold a public office, for EFCC to have seized the building it means he admitted to the crime of illegally acquiring them
Politics › Re: This Is A New Nigeria, An Alliance Of North And South-West - Femi Fani-Kayode by gare(f): 10:11am On Mar 31, 2023
meum:
Abeg pity am otherwise he will abuse Tinubu & reveal all he knows, even what he doesn’t know. 😂😂
Fani is a bad market, his is use and dump, at most they will make him a board member in any of the federal parastatal, he can't be minister because he is very controversial
Politics › Re: Mc Oluomo Replies Angry Lagos Driver by gare(f): 10:09am On Mar 31, 2023
Zionmdde:
Why are sikiru, musliu, kayode and Co complaining when it's only chinedu and Emeka drives danfo in lagos. Governor elect oluomo has spoken and nothing will change it.

Danfo drivers should be charging apc supporters 100 naira, ellu P supporters 1000 naira, then once u wear BAT cap or logo, free ride
Go wear BAT cap and enter bus no pay na the cap them go tear first before beating you 🤣
Politics › Re: We'll Resist Plot To Stop Tinubu's Inauguration - NANS by gare(f): 10:04am On Mar 31, 2023
afroniger:
https://pmnewsnigeria.com/2023/03/31/well-resist-plot-to-stop-tinubus-inauguration-nans/
Which Nigerian students? I know for a sure that 98% of Nigerian students are Obidient.

You are just using your office wrongly the same party that kept you guys at home for almost a year, now you coming to resist what ? NANs president, you're nothing but a disgrace to your parents, you should have been aborted if only they knew you would make such comments in future
Politics › Re: Obi-datti: Tinubu Petitions NBC, Wants Channels TV Sanctioned by gare(f): 2:11am On Mar 31, 2023
oyin44:
Obi and datti are just constituting nuisance to the public.

Especially that datti, he speaks like someone that doesn't learn to use brain to talk.....

Let them go to court if the vexed by his comments, charge him to court simple, not running from pillars to post
Politics › Re: Mc Oluomo Bans Illegal Agbero Taxes In Part Of Lagos, Following Protest by gare(f): 2:06am On Mar 31, 2023
Quest7777:
Are these Agberos indispensable?

Why can't we do away with them or find a more civilised alternative. huh
You can't do away with them, Lagos is Agberos, Agberos id Lagos, any attempt to do that Lagos will be no more, it's a major trade mark for Lagos.
Politics › Re: This Is A New Nigeria, An Alliance Of North And South-West - Femi Fani-Kayode by gare(f): 2:00am On Mar 31, 2023
meum:
This short fuse man should just SHUT UP!

Why make such comment in a country trying to unite in spite of previous & recent happenings?

APC please withdraw his food. The man don Dey mis-yarn

P.S. what if FFK doesn’t get an appointment in a Tinubu government? Your guess is as good as mine😂😂
And he will not get
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Congratulates Solomon Arase On His Swearing-In As PSC Chairman by gare(f): 2:06pm On Mar 30, 2023
Rahmat1:
Obi knows how to win the hearts of people, but he should've just been a gentleman and wish Tinubu a happy birthday, it won't take away nothing from him.
How many people did you see wish him happy birthday? even from his party. Just leave Obi alone, before that useless SAN will say Obi want to steal his age
Politics › Re: Rivers Guber: How Voters Were Whipped, Forced To Vote PDP – Apc’s Cole by gare(f): 3:36am On Mar 30, 2023
Africonji:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/03/river-guber-how-voters-were-whipped-forced-to-vote-pdp-apcs-cole/
Go to court brother, it happened in Lagos too your party threatened, killed people at the end they asked us to go to court, so do the same
Politics › Re: EFCC Invites Akpabio For Fresh Questioning Over Multi-Billion Naira Fraud by gare(f): 3:33am On Mar 30, 2023
2mercy:
https://saharareporters.com/2023/03/29/efcc-invites-former-niger-delta-minister-godswill-akpabio-fresh-questioning-over-multi
It's confirmed he can never be Senate President, the north/Moselm would hijack everything, they kept quiet when the sold the Moslems/Moslems ticket. So let them have it we don't have worthy Christian leaders in the country now that this have to stay it will continue like that, would they the moslems agree to a Christian/Christian ticket? I guess No. Akpabio and Kalu since you all failed to speak when you should have spoken now you will pay the price.
Politics › Re: Gov. Ademola Adeleke Speaks Igbo To Spread The Message Of Diversity (pics/video) by gare(f): 3:10pm On Mar 29, 2023
HilcomTech:
He may still win 2nd term since he doesn't insult the Yorubas. Osun people knew his mother was IGBO and they still voted for him

What killed Chinedu Gbadebo Rodes-Vivor political career is not because his mother is IGBO but because he was openly supporting IPOB and insulting the Yorubas
When did he insult the Yorubas?
Politics › Re: Protests As Agberos Increase Daily Fee For Buses To N13k In Lagos by gare(f): 2:56pm On Mar 29, 2023
LibertyRep:
13k daily?
A perfect definition of monkey dey work baboon dey chop.

The burden will now be transferred to the masses.
Let them suffer, they voted for APC, so why are they complaining breakfast has being severed already that should eat bunch of idiots, they can have their dirty Lagos.
Politics › Re: Governor Sanwo Olu Hikes Bus Fare For Chinedu Supporters. by gare(f): 5:59am On Mar 29, 2023
domDva:
Now that elections are over , it is time to deal with Chinedu and his supporters, the governor just hiked bus fare for Igbos and Chinedu supporters. 😀😀😀

People are usually brainless when issues of ethnicity is involved , they easily forget that we are all United in the suffering.

Please show your APC card to BRT driver to carry you for FREE.
It's very good, supporters of APC you guys have been served breakfast, una never see anything.
Health › Re: Help! Dark Spot Won't Leave My Face Despite Using Many Antibacterials Cream. by gare(f): 2:26am On Mar 27, 2023
Ehinjuola:
Hello NLders.....

I have this issue I'm dealing with which seems to be taking ages now.

There are these stubborn black spots in my face which refuse to go after using different antibacterial creams yet the spots are still much visible, will have to wait till dark before I go out.

Help! , its really killing me slowly as well as demoralized me. Even my confidence is no more there as I typed this.

In between I'm oily skin person.
Eat well it will clear out, you're are not eating balanced diet
Politics › Re: e by gare(f): 8:18am On Mar 26, 2023
yarimo:
How about the rigging obi did during presidential election?
Ok make una women go naked too
Politics › Re: We Are Investigating One Ministry Over ₦‎4 Billion Contract Scam – EFCC by gare(f): 2:52am On Mar 26, 2023
Racoon:
Don't divulge this kind of Intel. Quietly do your detailed investigation, get sufficient evidence then bootstrap the case.
Forget these people, they want people to see they are working, with corrupt politicians everywhere still stealing and none is convicted at all
Politics › Re: Osun Assembly Replies Demola Adeleke On The Change Of The State's Name by gare(f): 2:50am On Mar 26, 2023
lutheran:
The State of Osun House of Assembly has contradicted Governor Ademola Adeleke on the usage of the State Anthem, Crest and Flag, saying it is an enactment of law and as such, it's usage is a matter of law and not choice.
Don't worry it will be changed when PDP has greater number of seats in the house, state of Osun, how does that affect the living standard of the people
Politics › Re: Attacked House Not Mahmood Yakubu's Property - INEC by gare(f): 2:46am On Mar 26, 2023
God1000:
Okay, but why such attack in the first place?
Why did he do the wrong thing or are not living in this earth ? It time this people are made to pay for their crimes, so the next person that will take over will not the consequences of such bad decision
Politics › Re: Senator Shehu Sani Gift To APC Supporters by gare(f): 2:43am On Mar 26, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
grin It’s not good, you help people irrespective of their offense
At least he gave them tooth pick, is that not help.
That is the problem with most Nigerians you mortgage your future for just a meal and now you asking for more from your opponent.

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