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Is this how the road truly looks or this is just some photoshop? Hopefully, the project is not over inflated as we have in most cases.

A better way to go. I wish there wasn't so much corruption in ournation. We have great tendency for growth.

Hopefully, this isn't one of those scams. Should the refinery fail too soon, all those involved should be prosecuted.

Trying to understand what the police are meant to do. Why not strive to put an end to banditory.

When people list achievements with so much explanation, there's some lies to it. Bullet points are enough to list accomplishments and if they need explanations, they should be succinct and straight to the point.

It is well. My experience in the cell was in 1998 and it was about 4 hours. The police picked me up during their raid at Tincan Island. I was slapped by a useless police officer because I asked for his warrant of arrest. My mom had to bail me with N2500. She was there when I was picked and asked the question. She had to beg me to follow the police men because for me, I felt I was been humiliated on my right.

The cell was pretty empty and sincerely, I slept off where I sat. I guess it was because I knew my mom was surely coming to bail me that very day.

Sorry about your story but 13 months was such a long time. Were you able to pay back the money?

Onyiiobi7735:
🤣 I am yet to see a mentally sound human attending that church.Their doctrines are so bizarre that I wonder if it's the God we know that they worship.
The atmosphere of the church is a perfect ground for incestuous relationships like this.
This church of lunatics has caused the avoidable deaths of accident victims and chronically sick people,due to their demented extremist doctrine of avoiding all forms of contact with blood which include blood transfusions.The unfortunate religious fools will die due to refusal to blood transfusion and other fools will tag it God's will.
Lol! These religious lunatics are very argumentative, always trying to win people over but never visiting other churches, very fanatical about their doctrines.
No wonder Russia in times past declared them an extremist group and persecuted them very well.

When you don't understand something, it is very normal for you to draw such conclusions; however, it doesn't necessarily depict wisdom.
That said, let people decide what works for them and not you trying to help them make their decision.

Cyril009:
Normal na
No be say make you never see woman you go don dey imagine sex positions and how many rounds you go knack

Make pesin get self control

Don't let anyone let you lose focus by thinking about protection. Stay pure, condition your mind, and make the best of your time.

The topic, I have read it over many times and still can't make out the meaning.

The body, not sure I understand the writer's opinion as intended. Is the writing opining that it is a good car to buy because of its low cost of maintenance and fuel saving ability or a bad car to buy because of the high rate of theft/vandalism of the vehicle?

For the last question, I think one's intention of owning a car and one's maintenance budget for a car should guide. I have a Corolla and while the OP stated the maintenance cost is cheap, I do not think so when I compare it to my Honda. At each routine maintenance, there's always something to fix and this is just a 3years old vehicle.

Gerrard59:
What does Dr ChybuzzDD have to say about the bold?

Maybe, he's busy and hasn't had time to post.

Hopefully, the park management will be swift to take necessary actions.

Dinner:

Pounded yam and peanut soup.

Kobojunkie:
Again, it was the statement you made regarding values that got me chiming in. If values allows a man to have all the sex he desires to satiate his libido then the same values should apply as far as a woman.

Also, I stated that my response was not an attempt to hold brief for the other but to cut at what I perceived was based on some form of unrecognized bias.

You keep twisting the thing I said over and over again. I never talked about men having values or otherwise when it comes to sex. All I said about values is that she can't give herself away and then turn to blame the men for asking. If you don't get it at this point and want to keep arguing, I can't help any further.

Kobojunkie:
It's statements such as the one you posted that caused me to chime in.

Let me help you again. A lady cannot be succumbing to sexual advances of men and then blame them. What happens to she breaking off such relationships once the man feels he isn't willing to stay in it if she doesn't give in?

You can't accept to sleep with him and then turn around to blame him except it is rape.

ChybuzzDD:
Na mumu you be. I'm a surgeon practising abroad and i don't need to boast or lie about owning a duplex in Nigeria where the exchange rate is rubbish.

All na still noise. Whether you live abroad or not still doesn't make it different from noise. That part of your post was unnecessary.

That said, a sincere question is "do you have a mortgage where you live or you are renting?"

Kobojunkie:
How many men married at past 20 as virgins? Why judge men differently from women? Why are these values you speak of different for men? Why are women to live by values that even men don't live by?

Not trying to hold brief for the other but let's at least check our own claims before we put them out there.

Madam, you don't have to jump at my post and try to twist it. Read through the post again and if you have issues, rather than deviate, create a new post that addresses your concerns and let us discuss it on there.

Jewessgratitud3:
Nope not true. Men don't sleep around because there are women who want to sleep around. They use it to take advantage of women who want to get married. The women on the other hand do it to fulfill the man's conditions for marriage which usually doesn't favor them in end and in the process the body count is increasing.

You said she should not give in to the men's sexual advances but it if she keeps turning them down, they'll keep leaving her Meanwhile the clock is ticking and time is going. before you know it she's 35 and you say I should not blame the men?? The men take a larger share of the blame in all this. Let's call a spade, a spade.

If the men are really serious about settling down, they don't need to test run a woman or dump her if she refuses but no, they will always bring up sex to scatter the whole thing, sending a wrong message about their motives

If she has values, she wouldn't sleep with a man for marriage. Some women got married at past 30 as virgins, so what makes her different.

Learn not to be biased because that is what you are doing here. No one puts a gun to a woman to sleep with her before marriage and the last I know, sex is a two-way fun. Therefore, if she is cajoled and succumbs, she too wanted to have fun.

Berankis:
It seems you have not started renting apartments, you should know the pressure to pay rent most especially if you don channel your funds elsewhere. Building a house is an investment and security. Cost of building keeps rising. I took a little break from my own project for other things only to come back to very high cost of materials, now I wish I completed it at once, cos I had the money then but now a lot of it was wasted/lost to uncharted courses.

It's not about if I rent an apartment or not. All I'm saying is if you live and work in the city for example, build your house in the city and enjoy that phase. When you want to retire to your village, you can sell your city house and use it to buy/build a house in the village.

It makes no sense building in the village, leaving it empty for 350 days in a year and be paying rent living in the city.

ChybuzzDD:
Relax, if you don't have enough money to build in your village, allow those who can.

Village houses serve symbolic roles, and as Igbos, we don't play with it.

My first duplex was in the village and I'm not regretting it, neither are you more financially intelligent than i am.

Everything mustn't be for profit.

Your business where you choose to build your house, nonetheless, my opinion remains. I never said people shouldn't and only aired my opinion.

For the bolded, all na the usual noise.

If you find him cheating and he isn't remorseful, you should know what you want.
Use your tongue to count your teeth madam. You deserve to be respected, but you have to respect yourself if you want to be respected.

Dinner:

Fried rice.

Brunch yesterday:

Oatmeal and akara.

Jewessgratitud3:
35 never grow reach?
What does she need to do right for men to sit their butt in one place and get serious in life?

Why is it the woman that needs to have the right character for a relationship to lead to marriage?

Most men out there are not serious. They just want to keep sleeping around until someone forcefully hooks them down with pregnancy.

Whoever wants to get married should have their own principles and live right. There's no need bashing any gender. If men wants to sleep around, it is because there are women who also want to sleep around.

That said, she can't force anyone to behave the way she wants nonetheless, she can choose to control how she reacts. This for example will mean, not giving into sexual desires of the partner (provided she isn't engaging in same with others) and deciding on a man if and only if he ticks her major expectations and vice versa.

Why do we enjoy dealing on things that are not relevant? Still wondering why this thread though because it is very relative. For some men, 1 is a very big number and for some, infinity is irrelevant.

If she wants a husband, she should grow up, learn to do things the right way, and have her own principles otherwise, she would be tossed.

One thing I don't understand till tomorrow is why people struggle to build homes they are not going to live in or rent out immediately if it is an investment property.

He should thread with caution. And thus should serve as a lesson to all those rising to build homes in their villages they don't live in.

Contempt of court. At this time Fubara should go with the law, sue them and get them jailed.

Merry Christmas to all. Hopefully, it will help ease people's sufferings this season.

Wike will likely be disgraced if he isn't careful. He's no longer the governor, he should watch it.

Gerrard59:
Here: https://www.nairaland.com/7838620/over-25-tested-men-nigeria

Roughly 1 in 4. Turns out to be 25%. Areafada2, a Nairalander, has been preaching this for eons.

The dataset isn't representative of all to start with. Most of them had reasons to do the test thus, having 1 out of 4 in such a case isn't as bad.

I am amused when I read such threads as this. When will we learn to mind our business?

A grown up makes his choice and lives by it and we in our usual sanctimonious stance tries to pass judgment. Truth is I see these kind of post as being envious of the other person.

Namaster:
Paternity fraud should be treated like a criminal offence.

Wicked women are making men pay to raise bastards. That's terrible in the current economic situation.

According to SmartDNA, 25% of men in Nigeria are raising bastards.

On what statistics was this result established? It is generalization. Don't be filled by such.

Congratulations. Wishing you safe trip always!