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Also made a chocolate cake with peanut butter mousse filling. Used the remaining as some frosting on top of the cake.

Here is a slice I took for lunch.

Due to my tiredness from yesterday and today been a public holiday, I have my family the Nigerian dinner I should have yesterday.

Amala with gbegiri and ewedu.

FuckTheMod:
SenseIess oloriburuku
With your mentality, you can never progress in life and that's why you remain stagnant.
Most of you just open your gutter mouths to speak without thinking, same thing with writing and posting.
How would you feel for your father if your mother told you he ask for you to be aborted and ran away for 7 years?
Mumú

Go live on in your misery as indicated by your post. I'm not the cause of your misery I repeat. The earlier you try improve your life, the better for you.

FuckTheMod:
Oloriburuku na him you be.
Most of you don't deserve peace and happiness in.
You don't even deserve the gift of life.
I'm sure you're more stupíd than the retaɍded poster.
Someone asked for a child to be killed and even paid for the job to be done.
The mother refused.
The bastård ran away for seven years and now he came back few weeks ago and had the audacity to be requesting for the child.
If I were that girl's father, I'll definitely make an arrangement for that bãstard to be beaten to death.

I am not the cause of your misery. Go deal with your pains and then come back to have a civil conversation.

This is troubling. I can't imagine the kind of fear cast in people's mind when they go to bed at night.

Botragelad:
Apologies mate, what's the spoon here for?

To eat the pounded yam and okra.

Dinner from yesterday:

Quick fix okra with pounded yam.

Brunch from yesterday:

Home made walks with omelet.

Dinner Saturday night:

Oatmeal fufu with efo riro.

Hmm.... sounds hypocritical. When civilians priest, they are quick to disperse them with all means available to them, thus, what right have they to protest?

Evercurious:
😂 Sorry you were NEVER a banker... You lie

You don't know me and it is very foolish of you to jump into conclusions because you want to sound smart.
That said, it isn't for me to prove to you if I was one or otherwise.

Evercurious:
Oga if you ve worked in the banking sector, you LL know that that profile isn't impressive at all.. Her profile says alot... Just get that...

I was a banker for some years. What makes her profile less impressive?

mariahAngel:
You see? A lot has happened since then that money and gifts cannot just make up for.
There's a lot you don't know.

You'd have to have pray about it (while making the effort), and have patience, hoping your child's mother will come around (to letting you be in the child's life) eventually.

Is that enough to deny her of her father? She is not been fair to the daughter. I understand her pains but she needs look past that for the sake of her daughter.

Evercurious:
That profile isn't impressive at all for someone in the banking sector if you ve ever being there. That's just the truth

May I ask what isn't impressive or do you relate profile with education?

Biko, sha gree for God, na dat one mata pass.

gentleguy1975:
I think handkerchief is for wiping sweat from the face? imagine using the same handkerchief for blowing nose for wiping sweat from your face!

Can't remember the last time I had sweat on my face. Maybe I don't do enough water however, I am sure I do enough fluids.
I can tell I sweat bodily when I go for my long kinda brisk walks but that it is. Therefore, I don't think I need handkerchief for any reason.

Oga, tell her to get ready tongo with you to the market on Saturday and go get the things the baby needs ooo. Now that you know she can't handle things like this as you would like, learn to have a discussion and reach logical conclusions on how monies will be spent going forward.

Nice profile although, I would have loved if it was more detailed.

Very impressive profile. I pray she excels at lifting union Bank to loftier heights.

tensazangetsu20:
The H1B is a lottery. Even if the organization sponsors you, you have an 80 percent chance of not being selected.

Reason it is said you have 3 shots at it in the least.

Gerrard59:
Unfortunately, in an employers' market, international students are not favoured by firms as there are countless qualified people who have work authorisation. Also, the timeline to file for H1B is almost nine months after employment. Most startingly are the chances. Prior to COVID, it was 2/3, but now 1/3 and going down. Let's not forget that this is a visa class with 85000 visas for almost one million applicants. Out of which 65000 is for BSc holders. It is for that very reason we have more Nigerian students (first generation) studying at Canadian universities than US' universities. Ten years ago, the US was the top. Not anymore again.

Fact still remains that some organizations sponsor International Students for H1B. I think what you can say with respect to the employers' market will be the fact that most do not pay so great which unfortunately, is the trade off one has to go through.

Can't remember the last time I used a handkerchief and I believe your environment and perspiration level determines if you need one. I guess it is not necessarily needed. If I need to blow my nose, there's always tissue around.

benjsniper33:
List them up sir .. help a bro 😎

theamazonguru:
I believe you can hint us the number of ways here. You can't tell who would find it helpful.

One of them is listed below.

Gerrard59:
Apart from NIW, what other straightforward route?

P.S. NIW can be done from anywhere sef. What OP needs is the authorisation to work in the US, which is hard to get these days. International students with PhDs and stellar publications are finding it difficult. Most Africans do NIW to scale through, but the major group of foreigners - Chinese and Indians - are finding things not easy. Marriage offers the quickest route to GC which lays the foundation for authorisation to work. Work dey, but authorisation is the problem.

NIW is an option, H1B is also an option (particularly for those in STEM) since they have the opportunity of 3/4 trials depending on if they get a job before their graduating semester, lastly CPT 1 Day is another option pending when one gets H1B/NIW approval. At least, these are three different routes from marriage.

That said, for those who are single and patient to find love, there is no crime in marrying even if your ultimate objective is the GC.

Hmm...interesting to know they can protest. With the madness going on within them why haven't they protested? Or are members of NJC not also members of NBA?

There are many ways to stay back in the US besides marriage. In terms of what skills to learn, I will leave that to your passion.

It is difficult to say in this time and age since the record can be easily stored however, I think if it isn't a van, you shouldn't be too worried about it.

He supported Obaseki in betraying Oshiomole and APC, he needs not cry foul. He should have learned at that point Obaseki cannot be trusted. Wonder why he is feeling pained now. He should accept his fate and prepare for the primaries. He might pull another "Edo no be Lagos."

winner37:
I have not picked up any new friends , I don't even have any friend. I think my mind is only rooted on making money that is why I lost feelings on so many things..

At the other hand when I invited any of them they will not show up in my place and I think that has contributed for me stopping to visit them ..

Make it known to them that you felt the relationship was one sided with respect to visitations. I am sure they will understand and appreciate your sincerity. However, are you okay with your uncle and aunt visiting you at will? That is a question you need to ask yourself and be sincere with the response you come up with before bringing it to them.

While the slash is commendable, I am surprised no one is saying anything about the office of the first lady. I guess we just don't like doing things right and enjoy playing to the gallery too much.

Unfortunately, many would go beyond the message to either attack or defend personalities involved as it soothes them. I have learned that until we as Nigerians are willing to learn and ask right questions from the leaders, one can only watch and pity ourselves.

I have read it twice and I am not sure what to advice since you know him better. If you think you have moved on, biko, do him the favor of saying NO to his plea so that you do not get entrapped with him and perhaps cheat on him with your new love. That will make you seem worse compared to all he has done to you.

One part of your story I am confused about is why you allowed him treat you this badly and never took action. If you are so scared about the kids, what will happen to them now should you divorce? I will suggest you ensure that part is well straightened as you take the action that is best to you at this time.

I wish them success and hope this will help the people of Lagos.

For the blue line, do we have Park 'N' Ride stops close to the stations?

Lastly, I hope LAMATA will take the initiative of improving BRT efficiency, utilizing the train systems and using park n ride stations to help ease the traffic burden in Lagos.