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Dinner:

Eba with efo riro and stewed salmon.

Dinner from yesterday:

Pasta.

Dinner:

Beans and plantain.

It is okay to be extremely shy however, you have to compensate by being very knowledgeable in what you do and able to contribute positively when/where necessary.

Gadafii:
Every single day, there is always a an wailing about marriage/wife


What do men really enjoy from marriage these days, can someone just mention five things a man will benefit from marrying a woman in this present day and time

1. He enjoys been responsible (the choice he opted for the day he decided to get married).

2. He enjoys the privilege of providing the lead/direction for his household.

3. He enjoys the privilege of been the spiritual head of a home.

4. He enjoys the opportunity of been a mentor.

5. He enjoys the grace of God.

I chose to add more:

6. Your life will be more organized.

7. Companionship.

englishmart:
69% of first sons are a product of paternity fraud. If I didn't look exactly like my dad, I would have secretly conducted a DNA test.
Women are pretentious cheats. 99% of them are too smart to be caught.

Where is your statistics coming from? Please include reference.

Emaprince:
Women are naturally hypergamous ...and are not built to be providers

Forget the fake equality they are pursuing. They know the actual role of a man. And if you can't live up to the billing, you aren't man enough in her eye and all that attraction will die a natural death.

It's possible she will even start dating high caliber man and be denying you sex cos all that sweetness about you is gone. You think being romantic can take you anywhere as a man? As a man, your first purpose on earth is to work your socks off to be financially stable. Whether your wife loves you or not, your financial stability should come first. It is the only thing that can save you in tough times. No one loves you as a man. You came to the world to suffer and take care of people around you. Especially the women and kids.

Every man's prayer point should be lead by asking God to always bless the works of your hands..and put you in position to be able to provide for those dependent on you. You can NEVER depend on a woman. NEVER ever try it.

Are you referring to some women because the most I know don't think this way.

Dainy1:
But why?
Once she starts providing everything for the family, the se.xua.l attention becomes zero.

What's your opinion about a woman working hard to feed the family and depriving her husband intimacy?

Especially in a situation where she sees her man as a lazy man who is not putting on more effort to take on his responsibilities.

Does it mean she don't feel Hot some times as well?

Because nab6 ha e made it feel all she brings to the table is sex. For an healthy relationship where both are working towards a common goal, it wouldn't matter.

Unless the orientation changes, nothing will change.

This is not hard now. He should take back his children and return to Nigeria.

Customer service in our country us sham. Why would an hotel disrespect her customers?

They should please escalate to Protea as this is a dent to the brand image. Protea should fine them heavily and compensate the customers appropriately.

May his soul rest in perfect peace.

He could have take more measures of precaution. Hopefully, others in the business have learned a thing from this incident.

They all should learn to install soundproof walls to contain the volume within their building. You don't go about disturbing others for any reason whatsoever as that is witchcraft.

Dinner:

Wheat and black soup.

Ah! Indeed, this na "End Time Things!"

An election that will be marred with rigging.

Dinner:

Rice with stew.

amorprincesa:
Goodness! How will you post some?

Me sef wish. Just felt we haven't had efo riro for a while so I decided to cook same.

PinkNature:
You're being fed properly. Damn!

Na me cook am oooo. Anyways, we all dey try.

LithiumBa3:
We are a bit far, I'm planning to take her home first week of December that's if I later agree on their plea then return back to my base

The choice is yours. Provided you are married to her legally, you have the first right of access to her and vice versa.

If you were not informed before the marriage of such traditions, do it only of you think it makes you comfortable otherwise, you can choose not to.

Dinner:
Pounded yam and efo riro.

It is irritating reading such stories. We keep acting irresponsible.

Well, considering that you guys are from same plate 2 weeks ago, I want to assume you guys are very close for him not to at least mention it.

I would suggest you talk to him about it. Let him know you are happy for him however, you are disappointed he never saw you as the brother you saw him. This is provided he's always been open with other things with you. If otherwise, that's his person and you should have known that.

If incest isn't frowned at in their culture, then I have nothing to say on what two grown ups decide to do.

Still wonder why our markets are gutted by fire. With all the recent experiences, shouldn't the government ensure there is a fire service unit at least per market?

Why was he in custody? I thought the court granted him bail. Things cannot work if the government keeps working in isolation and some part feeling above another.

There are lady electricians, paunters, plumbers, mechanic etc. They are not much however, they are very good at what they do.

Avoid it as much as you can. It is not relatable in anyway and might throw up questions particularly, if the solution is to pay them and foster relationships with them.

I once talked about my ebanking experience where I worked on dispute settlement. A lady told me I was joking that it isn't possible to go to the ATM and not get cash. Walahi, I explain tire. If only I had listened to my mentor who had always told me to remove that from my resume as no one will believe such can happen.

kolaaderin:
You mean capital punishment.

Yes please and thanks for the correction.

May we not be at places where these psychos act. Unfortunately, if he's caught alive, he will lounge on tax payers money for the rest of his life. Sometimes, I feel corporal punishment should be meted on people like this.

Dinner:

Rice, plantain, veggies, chili, and sunny side up well done eggs.

I wish there was a written agreement before he went ahead donating his kidney. Some of our rich people are very wicked to say the least.

Deemamadee:
Hello wonderful people
I hope I get help here
Please I have a situation,My USA visa interview was 20th sept 2023 at Abuja consulate, F1 with my husband and my child
My husband and child were denied and I was placed on administrative processing
They took my passport and i20, Till now I've not heard from the embassy
Now my husband has gotten admission to a school in germany, he's on full scholarship and he can take us as dependants
Now my issue is how to get us consulate to fast track my administrative processing so that I can get my passport back as I need it soon to get germany visa, So is their a way to cancel my application at this point ? Because honestly I've lost interest in the outcome because I don't want to leave without my family
Please how can I go about this

I will suggest you write to ask for an update on the administrative processing and if they can release your passport while the process is on as you need it to apply for another visa.

Ayjay44:
did you read the fuçking article at all abi se o ti gbagbe ori e

Perhaps, you want to educate me more. So because he sent him his naked picture makes the teenage a homosexual like him, right? Are you privy to the other parts of the conversation that wasn't stated here or in your "I too Know" you decided to conclude without further evidence?

Kindly read again and realize that he was lured with a naked picture was what the article stated and that is not sufficient to label the lad.