₦airaland Forum

Marriage is not the reason for their gambling and it is unfair that we usually don't take responsibilities for our actions and always find something to hide under.

When the judiciary made a mess of itself what were they thinking? I hope those behind such messages are nabbed and I like how he suspended the judgment.

I don't encourage involving 3rd party into relationships however, since you value your home, why not involve both parents? If you do that and she insists, for your sanity, biko seek separation in the least.

Hear out the business owner and lease out the apartment once you are convinced and they are willing to abide by your terms.

Please involve a lawyer in the transaction.

My understanding was that she was stealing the kids to sell. I hope she was handed over to the police.

Hmmm....it needs be deliberate. Most importantly find a way to balance things. Having experienced both, work from home can be crazy and sometimes sets unnecessary expectations as proof of efficiency.

Ekabobo:
Pls I urgently need a recipe for coleslaw... A very simple one... Natin too bogus biko... Jus plain and simple... Iv got the carot, Cucumber and cabbage part down... Including d mayonnaise... My prob is in mixing it... It always comes out bland and tasteless sorta...

Add some salt, pepper (any ground one will work), and any acid (lemon or vinegar) to make the taste pop. You could also add some sugar/crisp apples and this helps ensure it hits all the palettes (sweet, savory, sour, and spicy) in your tongue.

omooba969:
Overall boss 🙌, you just dey pepper 🌶️ us every day - anyway God dey.

Dem say post wetin you cook for your house so na my dinner I dey post so.

Dinner:

Penne pasta

I haven't been in the situation nonetheless, my father was and I do not think of it as a big deal.

While he was a regional commercial manager, my mom would tell you how an excellent husband he was to her and also, an excellent in-law to her family and excellent brother to his siblings. Thus, when the tide turned around, she was a great pillar of support and stepped up where he couldn't meet up and outsiders may know but that is their cross. She will always say my husband said I should.....

Every good woman will treat the husband right provided the husband has been a good person. It is the law of sowing and reaping in my opinion.

Whatever it is, can the Universities be allowed to be autonomous? FG shouldn't be dictating the price of tuition and other stuff.
Lastly, the student loan act wasn't well planned and may likely end up as this government trying to score cheap points.

FalselyaccusedC:
Why are you people saying fiction? Because I'm getting frustrated. If I want to entertain, won't I go to Romance section where there will be more engagement?

I told my own side of the story to people offline, they chose to believe the girl's crocodile tears over my own explanation

I came online to tell my own side of the story, you people are calling it fiction.

Can't you get it? I need help! I'm frustrated here. Hello! Is it a crime to be a male in this world?

Why are you not posting what happened the exact way it happened in the groups? Let it be known you have never had sex and that was the reason you rejected her offer that you should 4ck her. Explain it this same way how she asked you for money and is trying to blackmail you because of it.

That said, do you know anyone in her family? Post her name on social media like this and find who knows her parents number. Call them to call their daughter to make necessary corrections ASAP.

Please, post her name on ALL SOCIAL MEDIA with her pictures ASAP and write your story in full. It is a case of HE THAT IS DOWN NEED FEAR NO FALL.

Report to the police ASAP and if you have links in the military, please make use of it. Someone needs be taught a very bitter lesson.

Globad:
Hope people can now see what is meant by purposeful and deliberate leadership

With this policy, more foreign exchange inflow will come in. Naira may depreciate in the short run but it will appreciate in the long run

In what backdrop are you anticipating the long run appreciation of naira? A country where everything is imported with very little exports. Hopefully, local production will be encouraged and this to a large extent is a welcomed development.

Dinner:

Wheat amala with efo riro.

This is surreal. Your teacher Wale reminded me of some great teachers I was opportune to have had from my primary school days till date. Some I cannot forget because they left indelible marks of joy in my heart and some, their memory has gone to oblivion.

I dedicate this post to the memory of Mr. Banji Oguntolu of the Department of Statistics, Federal Polytechnic Ede; who passed on 2nd January, 2003. He believed so much in me that I saw him challenge another lecturer for my sake. May he continue to rest in peace.

Please visit the neuropsychiatric hospital in Yaba. I am sure you might get expert clinical psychologist that can help manage your withdrawal symptoms as they try take you off the addiction.

Never knew it is a thing of pride now to sleep with a woman of certain nationalities. Anyways, both Malian and Nigerian na still same local league.

abc115:
National Association of Nigerian Student Executives led by its President, Mr Usman Bamrambu; National Association of University Students (NAUS) President, Mr Obaji Marshal, National Association of Colleges of Education Students (NACES) President, Mr Aminu Habibu alongside Mr Dotun Omoleye of the National Youth council of Nigeria visited President Bola Ahmed Tinubu today to declare total support for the Student Loan Act Signed by the President yesterday and also Fuel Subsidy Removal

I have seen foolishness and this is the height. If the condition states that both parents should make less than N500,000 annually, how many people will ever qualify for this? An average home where both parents are civil servants, they sure will make more than N40k monthly and this disqualifies such a person.

Las las, na audio policy.

Jorussia:
Epa wetin come dey my family/friends when my wife nor go know?

Many things. You don't discuss things shared with you in confidence with a spouse all in the name of love. You protect those you love by ensuring they are not involved in what is not their primary business.

otuword:
wen u are faithful u hav nothing to fear my phone is always with my wife whenever am at home I don't hav time with phone wen am at home always busy. she knows my password that is nt a problem. back to Ur questions it depends on u.

otuword:
my wife phone is always with m wife whenever am at home she knows my password I hav nothing hiding

I wonder why many only think the sensitive information you have on your phone is when you cheat. If you have friends who confide in you and you share messages, you are only exposing them and destroying friendship because in a bid to be a perfect husband, you lost your senses. Same thing applies if it is the other way round.

That said, marriage is never a concyclic circle. It is more of an intersection that grows over time. There is the me, you, and our in every marriage but when it becomes only our, it eventually chokes.

HayB100:
Like seriously, if the trust is there, I don't see any issue in it, and more so, if you are to do such, make sure say nah person wey get home training, I once did it with an ex girlfriend wey the were dey go find wetin she no throway, na family group text messages the were dey go read, and no family wey dey perfect, every family get hin own wahala. So, if trust is there, you won't have anything whatsoever to hide from your partner ✌️💯❤️

You see why a spouse shouldn't be snooping. My wife has access to my phone but not to the point of trying to go snoop and vice versa. There are many other more sensitive information than cheating that lies in our phones.

Jorussia:
If i don't have any infidelity i am keeping away from her,why should i be afraid of her checking my phone?

Is it only infidelity that people see when they read through phones? How about information about friends/family that are very personal and is shared with just you?

For a cheating spouse, they can always find ways around that so checking of the phone or otherwise doesn't stop them.

mariahAngel:
Not only has it become expensive, it has become scarce o.

It is not scarce here and it seems like it is in its season as my local Walmart now has it all the time. Just surprised the price doubled now that it is in abundance.

descarado:
Do you know u can freeze plantain?

I only know of fried plantain.

Akposy:
I bought 3 small plantain for 500 naira

It is well.

Dinner:

Rice and dodo.

MariahAngel,

Abeg, price is dodo go up for una side sef? For here the price don double.

Akposy:
It is not that hard. It didn’t take up to 15mins to wash the beans. I soaked in semi hot water for 20mins and washed…

Another way is to soak it in hot water for 2 minutes, pulse in the blender a few times and all the skin peels off. Most times it takes less than 8 minutes from start to finish to peel beans.

Since we love criminals leading us, we should please deal with this.

Guest911:
I suggest she use Facebook marketplace get a sublease when she gets here she can pay and move in. Tell her to budget like CAD$600-900/month

She's actually in Brampton at the moment but school starts for her in September.

Guest911:
I’m in Waterloo, Ontario.
The immigrants population here is astonishing. Getting a job in this region is an extreme sport.

Avoid places like Waterloo, Toronto and other busy places because the cost of living na die and scarce jobs

It’s better to move to other states like Alberta. Or even other small town in Ontario like Belleville @loyalist college

Hi,

A younger friend is trying to find a decent studio/one bedroom apartment in Kitchener, what website do you suggest she focuses on?

Selfkontrol:
Yes i understand you and trust me I read up on things about japa both the good and the bad but I needed to get a clear perspective base on my situation. Remember everyone’s case is different. My question is if relocation is worth if. I love to learn from person’s experience cos I hate regrets.

The challenge is that every individual's goals differs. Therefore, whatever you read might not be the best guide in it all. The essence is that life is not a straight way. Sometime, the whole essence of life is understanding why we are making a decision and sticking by it so that in the face of the storms, it is easier to bend and allow it wash over us instead of standing against it and it either washing us off or breaking us.

Selfkontrol:
It’s not a matter of seeking for validation. My brother having convictions or not you don’t just travel because of your convictions. Life abroad is life of uncertainty. U need to be properly guarded. Only fools travel without necessary information and so far Nairaland is full of many knowledgeable people home and abroad with wealth of experience

There is enough information on and off Naira land to guide however, coming to ask from people who have no idea what your life/plans/aspirations are is not proper enough.

How does privatizing education makes overall standard of education better in Nigeria? The government keeps trying to contract out their responsibilities while entrepreneurs are trying to cash in on a business they really do not understand.

I still don't understand how grown ups keep thinking they need people to validate their thoughts/actions. If you want to migrate, it should come from a place of conviction within yourself and not someone advising you on that.