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HeliosHay:
For the last 30 days...April 8, 2019 - May 8, 2019. Thats's why its projected earnings...not actual May earnings.

Cool

Soon you'll start earning that in 8days

LordKO:
Psychopathy: She's a typical psychopath. They gain maximum pleasure from draining and demonizing their benefactors - their dispositional gratitude notwithstanding. They can do anything for fame. It's advanced egoism - narcissism is part and parcel of it.

Unfortunately, they hardly conquer themselves, no matter how many times they're punished for their misdeeds.

When you've one as a relative - since blood is thicker than water - you must master the act of emotional squashing (carefreeness), but not alienation, in dealing/relating with him/her in order to preserve your dominion, dignity and sanity.

Psychopaths are akin to the devil.

Please explain what you mean by carefreeness?


I'm completely Averse to liars and manipulators

I can't even figure out lies told to maintain harmony in a group and this always gets me in trouble.
How can I then live with a psychopath?

I always wonder what motivates people to tell such lies against someone who helped them

fame?
psychopathy?
Narcissism?
Demonic possession or what ?

cc LordKO

HeliosHay:
Royalty Update (Last 30 Days )

At the beginning of this month, I feared May was going to be slow given that the month of May was the slowest month for me in 2017 and 2018. However, I've been surprised. So far things are going good (more or less business as usual)

Royalty

eBook: $1030
Paperback: $3640
KENP: $300
Audiobook: $4350

Projected Earning: $9320 (N3,355,200)

Earning for May alone ?

HeliosHay:
On my listening list for this week..The Compound Effect

"Success is not doing 5000 things really well. Success is doing a half dozen really well 5000 times" - Darren Hardy


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CockLb13_iE

Seems you make more money from Audiobooks than from any other aspect of kindle pubishing?

What about those of us in Nigeria how do we do it?

ubunja:
just call me and find out

Oh dear.







you know whenever I read your posts I imagine you have a receeding hairline and dress like this
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ubunja:
call me bitter again and I'll clap you

Oh darling, you mean you will clap for me

Emaprince:
You are wise.

thanks

JejeNaija:
Hey kissing is not cheating. It happened very fast and I had to nicely stop it to avoid anything further. I can't tell my wife such a thing because she might see it in a different way. However I resisted it 100%

It actually is

As long as from the bus ride you suspected the woman's intent you shouldn't have even followed her to that hotel

You are playing with fire thinking you are strong.

A real seductress would have slept with you before saying jack.

She would know where to touch you to make you feel helpless.

Don't entertain such again once you start suspecting it.

HigherEd:
It obviously has a design lol. But you want to derail the thread with irrelevant opinions.

Well this is a secondary school, the idea isn't to show off mind blowing infrastructure. Even in the West, the average high school isn't so much about architectural masterpiece.

The greatest seat of power in the world - the White House is so basic that Trump would have preferred to rule from Maralago if possible. The US can afford to build the biggest hi-tech villa in the world. But that's not their priority.

The priority of living faith is not to dream up expensive and unnecessary architecture but to provide quality education and biblical grooming to young adults.

I love how you always come up with this badass counter arguments.

RichDad1:
Hmm and no gastric bypass ? Hanty, you’re a legendary lair.

You got it

Momoney77:
You seem not to understand the point here. You are using celebrities as your case point, like seriously??. Celebrities male and female alike make money off their popularity and not how beautiful they are. An actress like Bukky Wright still doing things because of her popularity. Fame alone opens doors For them. Female celebrities are less than 1 % of the female population. Even at that do you imagine the transition of the average beautiful celebrities who you just mentioned paying fvckboys for sex. Imagine what will happen in the next 20 years if regina Daniels has to pay some fvckboy for the same sex she once had thrown at her by men who were willing to pay. Now how do you think she'll feel about it, not good i guess.

I understand Ubunja clearly

What I'm saying is women have gotten wiser now.

Whether she sleeps around or not she will still get old and wrinkled . So she thinks to herself, why don't I just use this to build something now. Its my advantage.

I'm telling you that with the rise of internet, runs girls have gotten wiser.

If there are 100 runs girls , I can assure you that about 50% use that money to build a good business for their future. Some are even among our motivational speakers lol. You won't know because all na packaging.

I only used celebs because we know them



You must be deluded to say the male actors are as successful

All the veterans who come out to beg for money to treat sicknesses , mention one females among them. Except for ngozi nwosu.
Its like 20 men to one woman

Non of the younger ladies will ever come out to ask for money for treatment

How much do you think they pay them in Nollywood to afford trips, expensive lifestyle etc

You mentioned Bukky wright. Chill make I laugh well. Bukky right dated Fashola while he was governor unku


While the beauty is there they use it to plan for their future

Stop forcing your moral views down peoples throat.


I don't support runs and will never persuade anyone to do it, however it pays to understand how life works and when you know someone has an advantage based on free things like looks don't be jealous.


Find something that works for you and have an upper edge too.

Op wrote this article out of jealousy. I can understand . Women to have aspects they are jealous of men too

We are all jealous beings

Women are jealous that guys get away with patriarchy . That a 45year man can Marry a 16 ear old girl while they can't

That men can sleep around and be praised but its the other way around for us.

Men are jealous that women get make so much from sleeping around while they have to hustle.

They are jealous that they put in effort to raise a child and women get the praise.

Its an imperfect society , understand it and when you do don't let the bitterness engulf you . Unless you'll be like the fake feminists and the MGTOW

Bitter, thinking one has it better than the other. Trying to devour wherever you have an upper edge.

Living a life of constant hatred of the opposite sex

Let me tell you a fact, when most of you guys here reach 40 and above with enough cash.

Y'all will do the same things these old men did. These same old men you hate so much that stole your girlfriends with money.

Open business and spend lavishly on young girls to feel happy and young again

Its a circle , why it happens like that I don't know


Women have an upper edge when they are younger men do when they are older. Its just the sad circle of life.

And don't think the full enforcement of patriarchy will solve anything.

How do you think men like Casanova became popular. When patriarchy is enforced you won't have bad guys screwing your girlfriends but your WIVES

Loool

Which is worse.

I agree with a lot of things Ubunja (not all) Says about ladies. Nigga has being with a lot of women and knows how women think.


However he is bitter and he is spreading that bitterness to you all too.

I don't know whether he is doing it deliberately to start a movement or he isn't even aware of the depth he has gone in being very angry with the opposite sex.

Knowledge and power can cause two things

They can either make you Mad ( petrye Baellish in game of thrones, every single Africa dictator)

or

It can make you a sage. A wise one who will be loved and respected ( Varys in game of thrones , Nelson Mandela , Ghandi etc)


With this knowledge Ubunja has , he can teach men how to hook up with chicks . Spot the bad controlling babes and wife the good ones without spreading bitterness.

A man can have this knowledge , still maintain his power, still be desired by many women and not sleep around or use people.

When most guys know this , the ratio of boys chasing a girl will reduce, men will spend less cash chasing women because they have the skills to make her fall. Society will be sanitized because the man has the better choice except the women come up with better tactics lool

That's real power.

One guy I love so much is Nick Strauss his books are popular among the the pickup artiste community.

While it helped other men get wives , it ruined his own life

He became a sex addict until he met his wife.

She forced him to seek rehabilitation and now they are happy with their son.

Imagine being a father to your first child, at 47 because you wasted about ten years of your life screwing around

Sex addcition includes waste of time, money and many times alcohol addiction.

Don't fall into the Abyss.



Ps: I made this article this long for Ubunja also. To answer his last mention

Peace

babyfaceafrica:
firstly,not every woman is a celebrity,look at other ladies and how they have faired ,not celebrities and also that is a messed up way to live...giving cash to fvckboys...when you can marry and be responsible.. well every mallam to his kettle..las las we go dey alright

If you read my post well You'll clearly see were I mentioned other ladies
I only mentioned celebrities because we all know them


There are many ladies who did high grade runs and opened high class beauty parlours on the island. Started hair business , became interior decorators , got jobs in oil companies etc


op thinks all girls who sleep with rich men don't know what they are doing but I'm telling you many ladies are well calculated these online 30 years back.

They know after a few rounds the men will leave them so they demand for bigger things than cash while the man is still Hot.

About sleeping with fvckboys you can't tell a person what to do with their lives


Stop taking other peoples choices personal



Not every woman wants to marry because of her old experiences.

Not every divorcee or widow wants to remarry too.

He even said they were in love .
Ahahaha

Op which kain mumu you be. Don't you know that kind woman na chop and clean mouth

The story about the cheating husband might even be a lie. Some women use that to get sympathy from their sidebobo's

she can't tell you she's married to a great man and wants another Mans something. You'll see her as a hoe

I'm sure you must have felt special

Now you are feeling used and dumped

I'm glad not only women feel used and dumped too.

Op the person who's supposed to feel most terrible is the Lady in question


She's not only and evil person who used friendship to stab her friend in the back she's a slut

Except you want to loose your job just avoid her totally at work.

Accept you have been used and dumped and move on
Go do tests to ascertain your health status

Confess to your wife and ask for her forgiveness because your wife has to know she's friends with a dangerous woman

That woman is a narcissist


She can kill your wife to get your attention back

Your wife must know what happened. For her own safety and health safety too.

ahiboilandgas:
weed smoking legend

you never answered my question

ubunja:
honest. I'm a girl. But I'm not like the others

Ubunja there is nothing new about what you wrote up there

Women have heard these stories for years and have learnt from it

Take a look at nollywood

The female actresses are 10 times richer than the males. The very few males who have flashy cars are either accused of homosexuality or sucking up to politicians

A lot of girls are smarter today.

They get money from sugar daddies and start beauty business and so on

Look at mercy aigbe the actress
She planned her life well

From her proceeds she bought a massive duplex, sent her daughter abroad to school. Her son has a rich father who probably takes care of all his needs. She has two boutiques, lots of endorsements and a brand that will never fade as an actress.

As much as I don't support promiscuity, Its still a win win for the smart lady

She figures why give my body to young men who will ravish it and offer heartbreak in return when I can give it to an older man who immediately offers value ( money )for it. They don't even have to cook , clean or suck up to these old men's moms. All they have to do is look beautiful.

Look at that former Tanzanian beauty queen who's billionaire husband
just passed away and left millions to her.

She can spend that money now to get fvckboys like you to screw and dump for the next one to lick her feet.


Its a mans world , but it will be nothing without a woman.

ciao

Someone said "Add 40secs to your bio , its actually a brand"

princefrank76:
thanks dear! at least this is coming from a female

I do not justify Promiscuity but my question is are you faithful?
An unfaithful man shouldn't desire a faithful woman
Even chatting flirtatiously with the opposite sex is cheating
If you faithful are sorry

If you are not , nigga what did you expect?

GAZZUZZ:
At all.... I don't even know the name, a Nairalander installed 2 units for me, one in the shop and one at home

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Did he install led or lithium batteries

GAZZUZZ:
I strongly disagree. My 930k solar/inverter/battery system has served over a year without issues, I will expand it by another 1m to take care of cooling appliances only.

Luminous?

franchasng:
There is nothing like romantic love....its all in our heads and mindset....marry whoever you are sexually attracted to and can condone his or her character, issues, etc......all humans decide when and where to fall in what you guys refer to as love....why don't people fall in love with mad people, huh

We allow our hearts to go fonder once our expectations are met.....so let's stop talking about romantic love cos it does not exist anywhere!

ROMANTIC LOVE IS A FALLACY

Exactly "once our expectations are met"
The lady might meet the guys expectation of beauty and character but the guy may not meet the lady's own

That's why more and more ladies are cheating on their rich partners and everyone is wondering why
Love ( whatever way you choose to define it ) is important.

franchasng:
Regina Daniels met most of my points.

Regina Daniels is a popular teen actress with lots of endorsements including PDP youth ambassador which made her stand out beside her physical beauty and skin complexion.

90% of black men prefer light skin glowing shapely women once they become rich, that's the sad truth, I don't know why

If you want to marry an already made rich man, aside your physical beauty, you need to be selective with your career choice as a lady.

You must choose career that make u appear on media often (acting, modeling/pageantry as a focus, OAP, TV Presenter, etc) and u must be sex scandal free and very beautiful/sexy to qualify to get an already made rich hubby, its the sad truth.

I am a guy, not rich yet but highly potential with some rich and close to rich friends and I know what we discuss and what they like

You are very correct

The complexion can be overlooked if she is a top beauty queen (mbgn and miss nigeria) and her intelligence has landed her a top paying job


A very good example is powede Lawrence
Who comes from a rich home
was a beauty queen
And a pilot


Even though she was slim and chocolate skinned

She said before she settled for her husband dozens of guy flocked her fathers compound for her hand in marriage.

Besides her hubby is light skinned.


Also happened to the husband of Dangotes last daughter. He dumped his light skinned beautiful, corper babymama to Marry halima dangote who wasn't as beautiful as the chick.


Everyone has a right to choose who they want to end up with
So there's nothing wrong in rich guys going for a trophy wife if they can maintain her.

The only ish is that there is very little guarantee for true Love in such relationships

The lady might marry the guy for status sake but not for love

The guy to may marry someone that meets his fantasy but after marriage there's no real connection because she doesn't love him and the infatuation has cleared from his eyes.

omale88:
There won't be any solution if he doesn't man up bro,school didn't make billgates or mark zuckerberg rich their ideas did, he can become a real estate agent and make money,he needs to wakeup from his delusions and get to work or else nothing can save him,he needs to believe in himself and the purpose of his existence which is to care for the earth and God would elevate him, it all starts with him.

can you explain more on this real estate agent ish

I want to start but I'm a newbie

[quote author=husbandsnatcha post=78139326]Tanks dear ! But it seems like is small boys we av here because my message is bigger than them ............ ........
And they will stil go suck a scarlet lady's pussy, because it smells like strawberry missed in rose flower instead of rotten fish ! Some of them are even boasting right now on the thread (which they are 2 lazy to read) that give topladies dollars n pounds after sex imagine stupidity and emptiness "talk much they will tell you "sometin must kill a man " tell the guys that Death is a great pleasure in this situation

So foolish of them,

it has physical and spiritual side effect

The physical side effects as it happens are sometin *Killing someone in lil misunderstandings

*Semi/Dynamic madness for the rest of ur life if you are not that lucky ,ur ironlady might luck you in her coven ,do her ritual wt u as she like till your dying days you might live longer than abraham( see their mouth somtin must kill a man)

*Destruction of anything you touch which might lead you to an outcast

Spiritual side effects is selling ur soul to hell and the departure of grace of God only a powerful man of God like bishop milingo of zambia or uma ukpai of akwa ibom can save you ,if she will ever allow you come outside because is a risk you coming outside. 1/3 of my juniorbabes are into this see latest cars you go scatter ,flashy carrrrrs

This indian abyss package has been onboard for the pass 4yrs ,Strictly for women because women hardly blow diabolical cover due to love for flashy things,
MEN ARE RULING AlReADY ......thats the only goodnews.
Am just doing it 2 help humanity ,because my sins are much !
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Loop junior babes .

So that means you are a mama in the field

Is it that these same women can't use their powerful jazz to get responsible men with cash to settle with or they don't want to loose the money flow from politicians?

I see a lot of these big babes on Instagram who when they clock 30 and above just have kids out of Wedlock and continue their lifestyle

For someone looking at them from outside it seems like they are balling but not all that glitters is gold.

Naija9090:
If only these people who spend 10 plus yrs in school understand how this world works, you will learn to work for yourself. How can someone live on 40k a month, with all that stress as a doctor and yrs in school? It's better to be a laborer nah, the ones I know make over 150k a month. Those tiny 10ft by 10ft Igbo business shops you see in the market you think are nothing, have over 20-30 million/yr in turnover, with excess 40-50% profit margin. I'm speaking as a fmr. banker because I know how much they deposit and collateral assets they put up for lines and loans; I personally underwrite these loans, visit their shops and warehouse to valuate these assets. After 5 yrs of seeing this as a banker and earning chicken change working 15 hrs a day like a slave, I sat down with one of these Igbo businessmen, he linked me up big time with big supplier clients he has in South Korea. I quit my bank job and have been happy ever.

You are lucky you are an IBO man if not you might still be in that bank today

ogawisdom:
Doctor that works in hospital

Ngige is right after all the supply of doctors is more than the demand, we have surplus doctors. It's simple labour economics once supply exceeds demand salary will crash lol joblessness among medical doctors is now a reality

Lol I never thought i would live to see a day like this

This country can frustrate any person and proffesion

Wasn't it a few years ago we used to hear that doctors were the highest ballers in university, and during Nysc.

Naija na wa

Hello is your no 12 2bedroom flat for sale or rent?

mabea:
One of the simple ways to test if a guy wants you for the sex or something serious is tell him no sex and try to observe his attitude towards you especially in the area of spending or hanging out.

Some men can pretend till they get it later