₦airaland Forum

emmaodet:
I love this and will really take advantage of YouTube going forward. Thanks for this idea.
Many people think until they have good cash before they travel or go on tours but this is a big lie because if you wait until you have enough before traveling, you will never have that enough and one day you look in the mirror and see that you are either old or already in the grave.
There will always be a bill to pay everyday so you have to squeeze out from it and catch your fun and experiences.

There is no perfect time.
Also, i noticed that many nigerians go on vacations alot but you won't know this until you change your circle.
I am in a tourist group and i know what is going on.
There are 10 nigerians presently in rwanda on vacation and will so be back soon while many more have gone or yet to go to countries like kenya, rwanda, south africa, Mauritius, Seychelles etc
Nigerians are really goingon vacations.

Do enjoy your trips sis.

Good to know. I understand how the reception might be, but do they share their experiences? I follow some black folks on Instagram (Nigerians and other black Africans) who share their experiences, and they are very lovely and interesting.

Your first paragraph is apt! Even if na twice annually, after having _{emergency savings o} admist the retrenchment these days.

Mstravelindiva:
Enjoyed several champagne bars!

You really do love wines.

What would the person use the 5K for? I thought of egunje, but you can always tell those airport officials that money is scarce or fly via NIA.

inoki247:
Lol na the format wey he use carry Benue People handicap....

So the genoicide ongoing in his state is not enough to disturb him, abi?

You lots are not only foolish but wicked!

Sowore is such a stoopid man! So, it is Ortom's fault that Fulani herdsmen are slaughtering his people, and he (Ortom) is complaining? If Fulani herdsmen were not butchering the people of Benue, would Ortom have anything to say, or, in the words of the foolish Sowore, joke about?

I have never taken the idiat to be a serious or intelligent man. Going forward, I will include his supporters as idiots and unintelligent people.

Nice advert for Runsgram even though more than half of your escorts' pictures/profiles were from the main player. I am curious though, how do you intend to monetize this new venture? Because even Codedruns has not generated profit. Now, here you are entering the same industry, but by coping every feature including pictures of escorts from the dominant player.

Klass99:
G-59, why am I not surprised that part thrills you? I like that you like self improvement and self development.

If the man is way above my league, it can be painful. 'Cos it means there is no room for Okafor's law to take place. OTOH, I will be happy for her if she is from a lower background than myself. For men in scenario 1, there are ways to work around it. However, I cannot reveal those strategies on NL as my detractors will blow my cover.

P.S. It is why a man must always increase his economic value.

tensazangetsu20:
I think you should go for strong deliverance. You are a wizard. Witchcraft isnt until you fly around and start eating people at night. You came from UK with a Uk passport. You actively discourage people from moving abroad and now you want to campaign for a drug baron and terrorist founder to rule Nigeria. Go and check yourself well, you arent normal.

Funny enough, in his previous moniker, he always quote the bible.

Modafvking hypocrites!

ednut1:
i trek 7km on a average for exercise and it takes like 1 hour to 1 and half. what is all this mushrooms 3km roads this guy dey build upandan. A whole professor.

The guy is a disgrace. Big one. If he thinks he has a shot at the presidency, he is joking. I rather have Akpabio there.

Say the "women I know" not "many ladies". The vast majority of ladies I know are married. The single ones decided to be so. Every now and then, y'all are worried about whether women dey marry as if Nigeria's birth rate is very low. Your mates dey build functioning society, all you do is worry about a woman's vagina.

Tomorrow, you go follow chant "men built the world" as if una follow for men wey build successful societies.

Klass99:
Lol, I have a few suspicions why this happens but like you OP I am curious to read the candid thoughts of the opposite sex, for the ones who engage respectfully, fostering a respectful exchange of thoughts and ideas. My thoughts;

1. He became emotionally attached and possibly fell in love with the mistress. The narrative that men are logical and not emotional is a false and inaccurate one, as far as I know, all humans are emotional beings irrespective of gender.

2. The mistress married a man who is far better than him, in looks, class, charisma, decorum and wealth. A group of Nigerian men were surveyed and one of the top things that really hurts them and they dislike or hate, is for an ex to end up with a man who is wealthier and better looking than them - e dey pain . This survey was on that new reality TV show Bisola hosts.

3. The sex was fantastic and mind blowing, he is possibly moaning the loss of it and the loss of what he felt was a good arrangement for his benefit. I think most men would prefer to call the shots even in an extra-marital affair, where they get to decide when an affair ends, they want to be the ones moving on from it first, perhaps to another mistress or back to fidelity and honouring their vows.

4. Some don't think highly of their mistresses or wish them well. They just want her available for their sexual needs, so it kind of rocks their world (like divorce does) when a woman is able to move on to something better in life, like an international Masters Degree, a prestigious job or marriage.

Brilliant submission! Absolutely brilliant!

The bold resonates more with me.

Udom caused this confusion with his dictatorial attitudes. He should have allowed a free and fair primaries. Let the popular man win whether OBA or Onofiok or Umo Eno. Now, see this haphazardness.

The last thing Akwa Ibom needs an Imo state Supreme Court imposition. That incident has made Imo the most unsafe state East of the Niger. Akwa Ibom shouldn't degenerate into such.

Mstravelindiva:
Beautiful town of Engleberg!

Bants aside, I can imagine the wealth in Switzerland. Being in an East Asian country (not even the capital city), wealth oozes everywhere. Let alone the country with the highest salaries in the whole of Europe and niche industries from commodity trading to to luxury watches to specialist dairy/chocolate agriculture to wealth management/private banking to sophisctaed chemicals/pharamceutical production to advanced industrial and scientific research.

Money is good!

Berrityga:
ehnn! If I had a wife then my wife would join me too. Bro I respect peoples relationship and marriages, I can't cross my boundary, any woman that suggest she wants to come on a date with her husband has had previous issues of infidelity

1 + 1 = Afang Soup.

She is not bothered about her security but had issues of infidelity?
She desires her husband accompanies her to discuss with you over lunch, but is as a result of cheating?

Let's be serious here for a bit...you request to meet a stranger on an anonymous forum while in Nigeria, she says her husband will join the meeting. Thus, she has history of cheating?

C'mon!

_{You never talk wetin dey your mind}

Borntosmoke:
Op pls just ignore my moniker. Is it possible to go to Switzerland for the purpose of getting a job or doing masters. If you know how I can go about it. Can you link. It is my dream to go to Switzerland one-day. My love for the country is out of this world. And also did they speak English??

Yes, it is possible. Your money and/or work skills matter. If you are very good at what you do and have a high-demand skill, you can get a job while outside the country. But it is very competitive because there are less than 5000 visas available to companies in Switzerland to employ foreigners. Before employing foreigners, employers have to advertise the job to Swiss first, then if there is no candidate, have to notify the government that she cannot see candidates for the opening. Mind you, this 5000 includes EU citizens and the rest of the world.

The dominant language is Swiss-German, a slightly different form of German. French is also important and official, ditto Italian. But Swiss-German is the dominant language. English applies to mostly software jobs.

For Masters, while Swiss universities are relatively affordable compared to peers in the UK and US, the cost of living in the country is very high. Items are priced higher in Switzerland than countries abut to her. Non-EU/EEA students can only begin work after six months of their program. So, if your program is one year, you can only work for half a year.

Berrityga:
I know your married so you don't need to rub it on my face like Mary Kay foundation. I just like your personality and I don't mind being a friend that's all, I'm a single dad with a lovely daughter.

She didn't rub it on your face. So suggesting her husband will join her alongside you for lunch don make you vex?

Abi you dey fear the husband? 🤣

Beautiful pictures, as always.

seunpinky:
It’s quite sad that most of our folks went to the UK to study a[b]nd after paying 12k pounds for a masters degree they are left with little or no option than to do care job after completion of their studies[/b]😥 I have guys/families who went through this route and they are regretting making such investments. Many of them are looking for ways to come to 🇨🇦

I no understand, work no dey UK? What kind of courses did they study and which universities?

Zonefree:
Conclusively, avoid Nigerian girls.

The way most of you Ikot Ekpene Andrew Tate lambast Nigerian ladies is mind-boggling. You think young Nigerian women are hypergamous? Then, you have not come across young women in other parts of the world. Their hypergamy is on steriods. Unlike in Nigeria, where there are social pressures to marry, these women can decide to remain single for the rest of their lives if they don't see their type[ of partners.

I would have posted links of Nikkei Asian Review and New York Times for you to read, but as a notorious alfa meil wailer, I doubt you would understand what is written on any of those newpapers.

Klass99:
There is a global cost of living crises and insecurity in .

Sure. I perfectly understand you. Japa newbies should assimilate into their new environments. On the other hand, sometimes, I think it's kinda of anger with the system in Nigeria. There's this anger one will have with the way things are done in Nigeria, after experiencing how things work elsewhere. It can annoy one that he or she has to leave his/her abode to enjoy basic amenities and a functioning system.

Klass99:
You mean before you left Nigeria for Canada, right? Please modify your first sentence to reflect what you mean so your username is not a reality here .

I enjoyed the account of your experience in Canada and I appreciate that you didn't spew negativity, trash talk or diss Nigeria, your home country. I can't tell you how sickening and off putting that behaviour has become from Nigerian diasporans who do it.

I have a friend overseas who migrated on a scholarship for study around the same time you did. Every conversation and interaction with her mentally and emotionally drains me, leaving me exhausted afterwards. She is full of the sort of bile, negativity, criticism and judgment of Naija I hate hearing. This is someone who gets moral and financial support back home, from Nigerians still living in Nigeria. Yet, her diss of an entire country and its people never ends, no be ment be that?

I particularly like the bolded parts of your text and wish you well on your new life in Canada. Thank you for not joining the herd or being part of the horrible statistics of Naija trash talkers.

She is being hypocritical and has not analysed the entire situation very well. Although, I can understand her issues with Nigeria, but Nigeria does have some good parts - good weather, communal system, people who look like you etc. My major issues are the poor infrastructure and lack of security. I really dread place where kasala fit happen anytime. It is why I am a big fan of places like Namibia, Botswana and even Barbados.

planetx:
Conji is killing most Nigerian men abroad, that is why they all rush home regularly to quench the conji. Most Nigerian men married or single visiting Nigeria from abroad are visiting primarily for sex and you better believe that.

For once, we agree on something.

ecolime:
This life ehn... You can't have it all.

Same thing my unmarried peeps abroad are facing. Always depressed & bored as fck.

What's the essence of working 247, no time to rest and no one to share life memories with?

Here in Naija, some make good money, are in quality relationships, yet the environment and government frustrates the hell out of you

Now imagine what people without good jobs face.

Whether home or abroad, just choose your type of pain and live with it if there's nothing you can do about it.

GBAM!

For a black African man though, with a stable source of income, he still has options in having sex or marriage.

ednut1:
they are clowns to me. You could not find a man while in Nigeria that had over 100m men. But you expect to find a man in a country where less than 200k 9ja men dey . People are not that crazy about marriage in the western world cos of the divorce laws. They also dont want to do 50:50, They also want religious men in a country where only old people go to church.One of my female friends dey tell me she is looking for a man from anambra that is a catholic too. This is a 32 years old babe o. 🤡🤡

She still dey look for that kind of man up till now?

Honestly, I find it very funny. Human beings are necessarily optimistic.

letstalksense:
She claimed it was because of the heart break with her ex, that made her had the sex with the guys which she regretted.

She said they are just friends now. And they have been helping her and inspiring her positively.

That she really cannot cut them off. That I'm giving her condition to cut off her friends before I can marry her.

She seems to like a good lady but at the same time, I'm not really sure what she could be doing with those guys now or in the future.

Except you would be with her 24/7, that is not going to work. What if she saves the contacts in Google Drive? Her diary? OK, she deletes their contacts, does it mean those men have deleted hers? Are you going to be following her everywhere she goes? What makes you think she cannot have sex with them even if she deletes their contacts?

She has to earn your trust, but deleting contacts or severing communication cannot be a metric to judge ones integrity. If you want a sexually chaste girl, marry a virgin.

traware:
Your posts from 1;26pm to 1;53pm was exaxctly what the monicker Gerrard.59 alluded to in a post of his on this thread a few days ago
where he was roundly told by two to three monickers to shut up and keep quiet despite his post being spot on.

Most people hate the truth. But I will keep saying it: the men who whine that women are sexually free or money conscious should complain to their wealthy counterparts or hustle to make money. Men perptueate the system. No demand, no supply. Women fit into the system the men create. Women do not create systems, but fit into what men have created. Arab women behave the way they do because Arabian men dictate how they should behave.

If well-to-do men stop patronisng those girls, they will stop doing what they do. It is that simple.

Have you ever seen financially comfortable men (whether yahoo or legit work) whine that modern women are too sexually free?

YungMillionaire:
Is there a scenario where Obi clears EVERY single SS and SE state? And then picks up maybe Benue and or Plateau and or Taraba? And then does reasonably well (=>25%) in SW? And put up some 10% performance in the core North?

If this happens, Obi does not need a re-run to win outrightly.

Not possible. If so, the combination of him and Atiku in 2019 should have done so, yet such did not happen. Tinubu knows, just like Buhari knew, that he cannot win states in both regions. But he can get the minimum requirement. I am willing to bet he gets that in at least nine states. His chances are high in Delta, Edo, Rivers, Akwa Ibom, Cross River, Abia, Enugu, Imo and Ebonyi. Atiku and Obi would have to share the spoils as any who wins them would have a pyrrhic victory. Tinubu gets his 25%, that is all. What PO supporters should wish is not aiming to win both regions outrightly, but Tinubu not to get 25%. The fewer the states he (Tinubu) gets 25% from, the better for PO.

Mind you, Obi needs more states to garner 25% from than Tinubu. Atiku will even get that needed 25% more than Obi. The minimum is 25% across 24 states. Could you mention those states Obi can get 25% from?

Ezeama400:
I thought he said Visiting the south south and . South East which is inconsequential Christian zones is a wasting of time before the primaries...

What's he looking for at the aforementioned zones now with his boko haram running mate ?

Oh I forgot, he didn't see Atiku and Kwakwaso coming.. He put so much hope and trust on only northern votes ..

He just needs 25%, that is all he seeks. He would get it in Rivers.

Honestly, it is his election to lose.

Creamypie:
Kikikikikiki. L laugh Una in uroboh language. Abeg the south and east no go give APC even 5% votes, if them like, share money. We hate bad government pass Satan. Forget whatever crowd pics u see. Instead we vote tilimbu, we go vote Tonto dike. This isn't to mean that PDP government in delta and bayelsa states aren't totally useless.let APC rule those states this time.

Buhari got more 25% in Imo, Abia, Bayesla, Akwa Ibom, Ebonyi, Delta, Edo and Cross River. He lost Rivers with less than 2%. Tinubu will garner more votes than Buhari. He is not as despised throughout both regions like Buhari. Remember, they don't need to win those states. Just get 25% and go. The best outcome Peter Obi can get is a re-reun not an outright victory.

pansophist:
How precisely is SA and Russia China's puppet? Please answer concisely.

I am curious to read his answer. The same SA where the president responds to every invite by a western leader and has the highest number of whites in Africa. Ignorant people go just open mouth say puppet without looking at the history. It is like saying India is Russia's puppet, but they forget that Russia stood behind India for donkey years when the west placed sanctions on India and supported her arch-rival - Pakistan. So, why should India now nod to every whim of the west regarding sanctioning Russia?

In fact, based on apartheid alone, today's South Africa should even be puppets to Russia and China, yet she is not.

But hey, open mouth waaaaaaaaa, even though the mouth is smelly.

cc: Kelvin3476, come and tell the house how SA is China and Russia's puppet?

Leoniine:
Like, for realllllllllllllllllll.

Damn.

Everlastingly frustrated girlfriendless things and always angry at the world.

Mad at things they wished they had but cannot get.

I don know say na lamentations go full they thread when I open am, lmao. I nor even bother to read comments at all.

But even if they are broke, dem nor get game? They cannot choose to be positive and cheerful and see the bright sides of life? Must they share their misery with a company?

And, and, while I get that well-to-do men are attractive and are top-picks for women, a good attitude and being rounded, with or without money (all of which these ones obviously lack) can get them a woman. If only they are self-honest enough to analyse their behaviours...

But, oh, well...

Nawa.

Actually, not only is it poverty of the pocket but also of the mind. Anyone who is educated and exposed would understand how men and women relate to each other. They should ask themselves how come married men don't create such posts? Don't they've friends who are married or in serious relationships? So, when you have misfits use their smelly fingers to type Nigerian girls are useless (the same applies to foolish women who say Nigerian men are useless), it tells you the thought process and level of exposure the person has.

Rather than wail online, they should use the time to learn new things and improve their net value. But nooooo! It's to scream alfa meil while inhaling generator fumes in Nigeria.

It's Seyi Makinde I pity in all of this. That man is too refined to be controlled and dictated by this Southern Nigeria's El-Rufai and garrulous modafvcker.