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abusola, you are ony 22 yet you find nothing wrong in abusing your mums age mate.

Gender: Male
Age: 22
Location: Nigeria

olutosine:
if he wants 2 marry her he should go ahead.i just think i wuld leave with my kids if i have any.i[b] will not re marry if i have got kids.[/b]

easier said than done

fellis:
Which one be Arab capitals again?
Besides that footage was not shot after 9/11. It was shot earlier and used for propaganda, (as usual).
http://www.indypressny.org/nycma/voices/83/editorials/editorials_1/

you dont know arab countries have capitals but you happem to know there were footage/s shot. m clever

[size=28pt]there is no harm in waiting[/size]

i see restless sinners sweating again. why does this virginity topic bring out the worse in people?

[quote author=Tudór link=topic=300302.msg4236229#msg4236229 date=1248345717]Brethren, are we not sons of God??
The bible says "For ye are gods. . ."
therefore as little god's we must emulate our father Jehovah shamah. Bless you.[/quote]father tudor nawao

posakosa:
How come people like Papa Oyedepo pray for fire and hails on the robber esp. when his church was robbed on several occasions. Pray to god is a good suggestion but my memories remain. Everytime I remember what this devil has done to me, I get soo bitter. I want him dead. I feel like going out there and just shooting him to death, Knowing that Karma may never get back at him.

No one is perfect but we are all accountable for our actions. Yes, I may have wronged people at one particular time or the other but I have never done anything this heinous and evil.

bible says be angry sin not.if i met the people u hurt they may desribe your sins as henious and evil.

just forgive cos we all need that bridge for our journey

do we have to immortalize other thieves killed in bar beach too?

nigerians have short memories

posakosa:
No I am not a Christian.

what are u then?

wbb

[quote author=Tudór link=topic=300302.msg4236107#msg4236107 date=1248344342]My brother you're not alone. . . Remember our Lord is a GOD OF VENGANCE, ride on coz you're doing nothing wrong. For vengance is of the Father and he'll be with you against your enemies.
Psalm 110 :5-6Brother in Christ, today is the day of your wrath go forth and proclaim death on that enemy of christ. Remember the Lord said "whosoeve ye curseth i shall curse and whosoever ye blesseth i shall bless". Jehovah shalom is solidly behind you. Amen.[/quote]you are one wonder of NL u are quoting the bible.

posakosa:
I always considered myself to be a forgiver,  not until someone hurt me beyond my breaking poiint, 

How do I forgive someone I HATE so much ? What steps can I take ? What can I do ? My only prayer since the day that I have being harmed is to see

this person DEAD, How do I stop doing that ? Is it bad to want to seek revenge ?

no one is worth you hating or carrying inside of you.   forgive becos it is good for your health and sanity

iReport:
Lol, those people have no single reason why someone should agree to marry them.

you are right

chychy:
continuing from aisha's post

Pride goes b4 a fall

adeboo:
TESTIFY!

you really need testimony

good boy. hope she finds someone nice

becos most are and majority of the rest simply support. i will never forget the images of people dancing in arab capitals when they 9/11 happened

yaradua is a disgrace. he is as calous as your typical nigerian rulers. how can someone come into govt for years and not improve the lot of the people?

[quote author=Aloy.Emeka link=topic=300249.msg4235361#msg4235361 date=1248337138]
Yar’adua’s Government in a new Plot to Save Ibori's Mistress, Udoamaka Okoronkwo from British Law
WRITTEN BY SAHARA REPORTERS, NEW YORK

https://www.saharareporters.com/images/stories/article-images/udo_amaka.jpg

Mrs. Udoamaka Okoronkwo(Nee Onuigbo)
Umaru Yar’adua’s Attorney General, Michael Aondoakaa, and former Governor James Ibori of Delta State have perfected a plan they hope would spring Ibori’s mistress, Udoamaka Okoronkwo, from a British court where she awaits trial as an accomplice in money laundering. As part of the move, Aondoakaa has filed an extradition application for the woman. She has also hired a new firm of solicitors in England to press the case for a new bail allegedly to enable her to voluntarily return to Nigeria and stand trial.[/quote]you know this is a very pressing issue in nigeria. this woman will put food on nigerians table and make the roads better

Lynxlex:
Can any body tell me how to register for ADULTFRIENDFINDER.COM. I Tried to register and they asked for an e-mail,tried using my yahoo,gmail & hotmail but they complained that the e-mail is unstable and without it I cant register.anyone who has been there will understand my pain.can anyone help me out?[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]

ashewo no plenty reach for kaduna? u want to get high tempperature becos of oyinbo hookers.

does any one resign for anything in naija? how can a policeman be this involved in business let alone an IG? this is unbelievable. i once saw a judge being sprayed money on bisi olatilo show.

nigeria is a failed state

[b]Halle B [/b]

jeeezzz,  thank u someone for bringing up this topic. God bless u plenty plenty.
truth be told- those girls suck and they demoralise the basis of womanhood. them no dey shame at all by bringing out their unscrupulous bodies and claiming they are models with likes - honesty/truth and dislikes-dishonesty/lies. they all sing the same tune.
come on girls who are we decieving? and at the end theyll proudly put down their hotline for randy chaps who liked wat they saw.
very funny.

my o my. u are very correct. tarting naija style

wbb

Theblessed:
[b]How could any body with a heart support domestic violence of any kind whether perpetrated by a man/woman?  You see, I hate it, I hate it and I hate it!  I grew up with my 6 brothers smashing me about because  I was the only girl in the middle of the boys and they can hit and tell me to shut up any time and that led to so many fights with them.  The challenge made me a strong person today as I can defend myself anywhere but that's not really how it should be, should it  Violence is learnt from childhood though, there are some naturally angry and aggressive people and as a result, adults should not do these things where children are about. 

Anyway, my childhood experiences, made me determined never to allow anyone hit me in anger.  Why hit any thing?  You can't even hit a dog, let alone an ADULT?  Why To show you are stronger or powerful?  The person hitting other people would not like to be hit by someone else so, why hit another person??  This was the reason, I was upfront with my fiance when I was getting married, I told him - you see, NO MATTER WHAT I HAD DONE, PLEASE, DON'T HIT ME.  If you want this marriage to last never ever hit me in ANGER even with the smallest finger on your hands because, the day you did, I'll kill you in your sleep with a HAMMER unless, you don't sleep and God knows I really meant it! My husband never laid a finger on me in anger besides, he's not a violent man and I am not a violent person either.  [size=18pt]I get angry, I shout and that's really it.  I detest people who smash things in anger, why smash things??[/size]At the end of the day, it's gonna cost money to replace those things you smashed, money you should have invested in other things for the family, how stupid! So, my dear, I do not condone violence in any form or shape because, it's not only wrong, it is unreasonable and unnecessary.[/b]

why must a blessed personbe angry & shout? it is a matter of time before you start lashing out. ever tried adding the letter D in front of anger?

it is good you know somethings cost money. how much do you think damaged emotions and raised voices cause? can i suggest you add not condoning verbal abuse to violence. it is all wrong. there are better ways to sort out issues than shouting.

Will You Ever Get Married?  -   An Invitation You Can't Refuse
Wednesday, 01 July 2009 06:27 PM EDT Serita Jakes SpiritLed Woman - SpiritLed Woman


What will you do when Jesus, your King, calls? As believers, each of us has a call on our lives. Each of us can expect to hear the voice of our Lord inviting us not only to enter His inner court but also to go and bless others in Jesus' name.

What will you do? The lives of Vashti and Esther—two women in Old Testament times who were a lot like us—illustrate the two choices we can make: We can refuse to respond when He invites us to come to Him, or we can answer, "I will." As we look at their stories, let's ask ourselves: When the King calls, will we choose not to respond and justify our decision with excuses, or will we rise to the occasion, obey His command and be the catalyst for great blessing toward others?

Summoned Into His Presence

The book of Esther tells us that King Ahasuerus and Queen Vashti were the crème de la crème of the land, and they were throwing a party—a royal banquet, to be exact. Everybody who was anybody was there. They were eating, drinking and making merry. It was a loud and raucous political bash!

The festivities were taking place in two quarters: The king was upon his throne with his servants all around while Queen Vashti and her court were being entertained in another part of the palace. In the middle of the celebration, however, the king's machismo apparently got the best of him, and he decided that his wife would be the next "dish" to be served! He sent his servants scurrying with the command, "Tell Vashti that I, her king, require her immediate presence" and then sat down with great expectancy.

When the servants reached the chamber where the women were gathered—no doubt giggling and acting like silly, young girls, chatting about their children and their husbands—they relayed the king's message. Imagine their surprise when Queen Vashti, in front of everyone, said no to the king's command! The queen telling the king no? A wife telling her husband no? It was unheard of!

We could question the king's motives and the "political correctness" of his method. But what he wanted and why didn't matter. What mattered was that he called Vashti and she refused to come. He was crushed at her disobedience—then angered.

How many of us have refused the Lord when He has summoned us into His presence? He's called us over and over and over again, and we've told him no just as many times in just as many ways. Certainly, just as King Ahasuerus called Queen Vashti, the King of Kings has called you and me.

What does He want? What does it matter? He has called!

How God's heart must be crushed when we walk away from Him, when we ignore His call! Queen Vashti lost her crown and was banished because she refused her king. Fortunately for us, our King is the God of the second chance. The Scriptures say that God is "married" to the backslider (see Jer. 3:14, NKJV), and even though we may refuse to appear before Him, His mind is still set on us. We must not think for one minute that because we've told Him no He has forgotten us! We can still repent. We can still say, "I will," and He will draw us to Himself.

Hand-Picked by the King

But Vashti was dismissed, and the king's servants began to look for a replacement for the queen. They looked everywhere.

They went to the high-rent district, where the top echelon of the community lived, and hand-picked some women for the king's "tryout." They went into the colleges and universities and gathered some women there. And they went down to the homeless shelter and the soup kitchen and selected some women there, too. They gave even those who were the least likely to succeed an opportunity to participate.

Where did the servants of the Lord have to look to find you? Do you remember where you were when the Holy Spirit came and tapped you on the shoulder?

Did He walk into a nightclub? Into an executive meeting? Perhaps into the middle of an illicit affair? Maybe the servants found you in the midst of some deadly habit, or lying sick in bed, or injured by the side of the road. Maybe you were even sitting in church. Where were you when the servants found you and said, "The King has need of you"?

The Scriptures are full of people like you and I. Abraham, the Arabic sheikh, became the father of many nations when he answered the call of God. Joseph, the boy who was sold into slavery by his own brothers, became the prime minister of a great state when he responded. David, the shepherd boy, became the king of Israel when he answered the call.

Esther was an unknown orphan when she chose to answer a call she did not yet fully understand. She became queen to King Ahasuerus, just as if she were the heroine
in a fairy tale.

No doubt Esther did not come into the king's presence offering a list of excuses. She didn't go in there the way I did when my preacher-husband, T.D. Jakes, and I first began to get serious. I told him, "I don't play, I don't sing, and I can't preach!"

He responded, "Well, what can you do?" Don't make the mistake of responding to the call of God by telling Him who you're not and what you can't do. He knows you. He knows—and He calls you anyway.

In the days of Esther and Vashti, it was customary to direct all the young virgins who were paraded before the king to one of three places. The women that the king inspected but chose not to become involved with were summarily dismissed and sent to the first chamber, which I liken to the "outer court." Just about anyone might dwell there. These women had a shallow, one-time experience with the king that led them nowhere.

The second chamber was reserved for those women the king thought had "potential." He entered into a pseudo-relationship with them, short of making a covenant. This area I liken to the "middle court."

I'm reminded of those of us who "brush up" against the glory of God, getting just close enough to know that it's real, but who stop there. The Bible calls those women of the second chamber "concubines"; today we would call them "live-ins."

The third chamber was designated for the queen. It was the place reserved for intimacy, for the one who entered into a covenant relationship. Once you've been there, you can never be satisfied in any other place!

That's where they put Esther—in the queen's chamber. They didn't even bother to move her first to one of the superficial outer courts, but placed her right in the "Holy of Holies"—in the presence of the king himself.

As the women were paraded before King Ahasuerus—the haves and the have-nots, the beautiful and the not-so-beautiful, the talented and the talentless—the king's eyes rested on Esther, and the Bible says he favored her above every other woman in the room. Do you ever wonder why, out of all the people in the world, God chose you?

Out of all of the people He could have selected—some more beautiful, more talented, more articulate, more intelligent, richer, thinner, taller—He chose you. In His infinite wisdom He sees not what we are, but what we will become. And just as the king favored Esther, God favors you and me!

Plucked From the Fire

When the king called Esther, she responded, "I will." Later when she asked to see him, he extended his royal scepter to her and declared, "Whatever you request is yours, Queen Esther." Rising to the occasion, she asked that her people, the nation of Israel living in captivity, be saved from annihilation. Her wish was granted, and she became known throughout history as a great deliverer.

Today, God is calling you "queen." You may not feel like a queen; you may not look like a queen; you may not deserve to be a queen. But the scepter is still extended to you. God is saying, "If you but answer My call, you can ask whatever you want, and it shall be done for you."

Sure, we could make excuses. We could pull out our negative resume. But why not respond "I will" instead? The third chapter of Zechariah tells how Joshua the high priest stood before the angel of the Lord, with Satan standing at his side to accuse him. That's how it is for each of us—Satan stands ready to accuse us, to tell us what we're not, to remind us of what we've done wrong. But when Satan pointed out to the angel that Joshua was wearing filthy garments—just as he loves to point out our sin—the angel replied, "The Lord rebuke you, Satan! Isn't this man a burning stick that I plucked out of the fire?" (see Zech. 3:1-2.)

You've been plucked out, too! Don't concern yourself over Satan's accusations. God is able to take away your filthy garments. Joshua the high priest, Esther the orphan—all of us who the enemy said would never amount to anything have been plucked out of the fire. Satan is a liar. God has called us.

You've been summoned to the King's chamber, to the inner court. Will you go? Can He count on you? Will you be there for Him like He's been there for you? Respond to His invitation today. Say, "I will."

Serita Jakes is the First Lady of The Potter's House church in Dallas, Texas, which is pastored by her husband, Bishop T.D. Jakes. She ministers frequently to her local congregation and to women's organizations across the country.  http://mail.google.com/mail/?hl=en&tab=wm#inbox/122a493dcdbc55bf

Abuzola:
Oh interesting, and what of your god that was delivered by a 13 yrs old virgin, huh, eventually he grew up and became a gay , always walking with so called disciple. What a homosexual man. This isn't my word but that of the bible

i am normally against abortions but when i hear people like you ocme defending 9yrs being matured for sex then i wonder why you allowed to see the light of the day cos it people like u abusing young girls all over the place with your warped and twisted mind.

you are talking rubbish here

javalove:
Now i know its not only islamic knowledge u need but also a bit of sincere science research. . .

how old is the youngest mother to ever give birth? still waiting for ur answer

you are looking for licence to continue molesting and abusing young kids. you call yourself religious yet you dont know what is right and wrong.

javalove:
@noetic and GEW

U guys are the greatest mumus i have ever seen in my life. . .

Can you tell us how old the youngest mother in the word is?

20yrs, 30yrs or what?

U guys shud be ashamed of urselves. . .u lie blatantly all in the name of trying to discredit our faith. . .

anyway, na una sabi. . .i don tell una my own . . . so dere wud be no excuse for u guys on that day

discredit your faith indeed. your mukina and other mole moderators are not seeing this. they must be AWOL

eghosaobas:
are we still on this tithing rubbish?

i bet you and your people are paying some form of tithe to ogun. olokun and oronmila for you so keep quiet. some matters are beyond your pay grade.

anonimi:
Will you mind saying how much (%) of your income that you tithe and how often? Thanks.

wil you mind telling us what % of yours you pay to whatever cause you follow. you guys dont ask yourself questions when you buy football idol T shirts at exhorbitant prizes or buy rubbish CDs supporting drug using musicians yet you feel obligated to tell the christuian how to spend his/her money.

go read the book whose money is it anyway you will see we all pay tithe it depends on who and how you pay it. some pay it willingly some pay it without knowing.

we are all tithers. the millions paid to air head footballers and actors and actresses are money coming from people like you yet you dont see anything wrong with that. God is not asking you for what He has not given you. i know it is hard for you to get your head around some of us came from zero and would never have had a kobo to our name except for Gods goodness and mercies.

i urge you to read

Deuteronomy 26 (Amplified Bible)

1WHEN YOU have come into the land which the Lord your God gives you as an inheritance and possess it and live in it,

2You shall take some of the first of all the produce of the soil which you harvest from the land the Lord your God gives you and put it in a basket, and go to the place [the sanctuary] which the Lord your God has chosen as the abiding place for His Name [and His Presence].

3And you shall go to the priest who is in office in those days, and say to him, I give thanks this day to the Lord your God that I have come to the land which the Lord swore to our fathers to give us.

4And the priest shall take the basket from your hand and set it down before the altar of the Lord your God.

5And you shall say before the Lord your God, [list]
A wandering and lost Aramean ready to perish was my father [Jacob], and he went down into Egypt and sojourned there, few in number, and he became there a nation, great, mighty, and numerous.

6And the Egyptians treated us very badly and afflicted us and laid upon us hard bondage.

7And when we cried to the Lord, the God of our fathers, the Lord heard our voice and looked on our affliction and our labor and our [cruel] oppression;

8And the Lord brought us forth out of Egypt with a mighty hand and with an outstretched arm, and with great (awesome) power and with signs and with wonders;

9And He brought us into this place and gave us this land, a land flowing with milk and honey.

10And now, behold, I bring the firstfruits of the ground which You, O Lord, have given me. And you shall set it down before the Lord your God and worship before the Lord your God;

11And you and the Levite and the stranger and the sojourner among you shall rejoice in all the good which the Lord your God has given you and your household.

12When you have finished paying all the tithe of your produce the third year, which is the year of tithing, and have given it to the Levite, the stranger and the sojourner, the fatherless, and to the widow, that they may eat within your towns and be filled,

13Then you shall say before the Lord your God, I have brought the hallowed things (the tithe) out of my house and moreover have given them to the Levite, to the stranger and the sojourner, to the fatherless, and to the widow, according to all Your commandments which You have commanded me; I have not transgressed any of Your commandments, neither have I forgotten them.

14I have not eaten of the tithe in my mourning [making the tithe unclean], nor have I handled any of it when I was unclean, nor given any of it to the dead. I have hearkened to the voice of the Lord my God; I have done according to all that You have commanded me.

15Look down from Your holy habitation, from heaven, and bless Your people Israel and the land which You have given us as You swore to our fathers, a land flowing with milk and honey.

16This day the Lord your God has commanded you to do these statutes and ordinances. Therefore you shall keep and do them with all your [mind and] heart and with all your being.

17You have [openly] declared the Lord this day to be your God, [pledging] to walk in His ways, to keep His statutes and His commandments and His precepts, and to hearken to His voice.

18And the Lord has declared this day that you are His peculiar people as He promised you, and you are to keep all His commandments;

19And He will make you high above all nations which He has made, in praise and in fame and in honor, and that you shall be a holy people to the Lord your God, as He has spoken.

omoruyilag:
Tithe collection is illegal,we have dwell on tithing alot in this forum,there are topics on tithe by Kunleoshob, segyemaro and others.so you people should call of the bullshit called tithing,that is the reason why we have church at every corner and also in hotels.

you wish they let you continue sacrificing your dogs and izobo at every junction dont you? iw ould rather have churches in every corner than the sacrifice and evil idols you have at your backyard. it pains you churches are every where you have not seen anything yet. the light is coming.

sistawoman:
And I pray and think God everyday for putting him in his mommies belly and bringing him here to this earth.

The one that God made for you is out there and waiting.

true but most would rather be doing try your luck with every boy and girl in town. good things come to those who wait as they say.

well done sistawoman

hubreality:
if the poster is a believer, he ought to know the realities the kingdom's financial system if he's willing to know than coming here to lament to mixed multitudes who will make mockery of his very self as a Christian for this.

it is allowed to mock Gods people on NL

why do u think u lost the money and how did u lose the money?

God said if i were hungry would i tell you?  most nigerians are hungry and greedy so the God dey know must be greedy.

the owner of heaven and earth cant possibly be waiting for your money to buy Himself food or recharge cards

omo oloye:
Why don't we ask these noisemakers (men) the same question

@ poster
methinks Nigerian married men are more guilty of this
else, we wouldn't have all these 'agbayas' parading
themselves as aristos. pulling off the ring makes the
adultery easier and it makes them feel less guilty

i bet you are one of those naija girls who need checking with a woli to confirm a 40+ old bank manager is married before you believe.

luxoire:
you went and saw one JAH JEHOVAH PROPHET!!  those ppl do not derive their powers from the same God us christians serve
women women !!! when will you learn - wettin carry you go PROPHET? wettin make u go dey seek help from the devil? because i am sure this is not an annointed pastor or priest! chai
Look follow your heart and draw close to God - the true one and only God - and you will find out He works in mysterious ways - He will show your signs if you pray and if this guy isn't your husband then you will know it - if he is, then God go allow una to marry without any dramas shebi He has kept you both as a couple till now?
open your heart and yoru eyes to God's wonders and signs and trust in Him. He will see you through
so because he is rarely wrong - means you have to go and entrust your life and future and that of your fiancee to this evil person?
infact you needs me to give you virtual slap!!

What can God reveal to him that He will not reveal to you, if you are a child of God and a prayerful and faithful Christian? He rules over our affairs and He will deliver us from evil and temptation - trust in HIM

i am tempted to agrre with you about 65%. joshua said

joshua 23:14 And, behold, this day I am going the way of all the earth: and ye know in all your hearts and in all your souls, [b]that not one thing hath failed of all the good things which the LORD your God spake concerning you; all are come to pass unto you, and not one thing hath failed thereof[/b]

14 “Soon I will die, going the way of everything on earth. Deep in your hearts you know that every promise of the Lord your God has come true. Not a single one has failed!

job 42:2 says

2I know that You can do all things, and that no thought or purpose of Yours can be restrained or thwarted.

obedience is better than sacrifice. if you are sure this man is a true man of God, it may look the hard thing to do but leave this guy you must becos it is not always good to know the will of God and willingly wish He wont keep His word. God does keep His word.

He always have you best interest at heart and if He knows the future He will gladly tell you as He has on this occassion it is left to you what you do with the word. i encourage you to let this guy go and wait for the best.

in my opinion no human being is worth risking your destiny for. ask any any married person they will tell you need the grace of God more than you know to have a succesfull marriage. you dont want to start one knowing He didnt send you in the first place. dont give yourself heartache it takes more than love to marriage work.

hope you do the right thing for yourself and life
[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=286184.msg4056482#msg4056482 date=1245418884]Well, in my honest opinion, I know bare peeps who have gone down this route, and were warned about what would happen if they went ahead, and surely these things happened. I think you should have probed the man of God further to be specific about what could go wrong in future, so that you could iron out the kinks.

Saying this though, every relationship has its challenges so visiting soothsayers is not my cup of tea and never will be, but don't blame you, even the white people have psychic lessons for anyone to attend in order to be able to tap into one's psyche, in order to be able to see into the future, so these things are real.

In all, just pray about it all, there is nothing God cannot change and no crooked path he cannot make straight, may it be well with your soul [/quote]you are right. you can still go probe more but dont go expecting to hear what you want to hear you might live to regret it. all the people i know who travelled this route lived to tell the regret story. no one ever willingly ignore thus saith the Lord and enjoy