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it is like the land is cursed

Neptunz:
It is a big shame to christains considering what christainity have turned into, Can you imagine  pastors buying Jets,they have fat accounts & properties.Would jesus christ have live this kind of life if he were to have this type of opportunity??.They(pastors) suck their congregation under the cover of tithe, No wonder Fashola decided to tax them considering the millions of Naira they make everyday.Pastors are suppose to be holy men & not FRAUDSTERS.Efcc should be encourage to investigate, They all belong to secret cults for their abacadabra miracle, What is the difference between them<christ embassy,redeem,cannanland,Trem> & Synagogue who also perform miracles but was indicted for using occult powers, What is this mess called ChristainityHoly crap

which of them was indicted and by whom? most nigerians are fraudulent by nature so using the name of God is just another means to an end for some of them like taking advantage of someone else stupidity and gulibility

Tracey121:
Guys, Some guys feel intimidated by [b]too much independent ladies [/b]so which one wud you rather marry and give reasons

who would you call too much independent ladies?
what makes a lady independent?
are you?

Abuzola:
Thats an injunction from Allah for we to remember our Great father, Abraham whom Allah tested and eventually replace with ram and not to slaughter ishmael, issac in christianity

mr confuscious

[quote author=frank3.16 link=topic=298990.msg4222450#msg4222450 date=1248169503]ladies deceitful, devillish?!! destroyers?!!

wow!! i wonder what the devil is?

to me ladies are tender and soft. my heart goes boom boom when i c the lady i love.

ladies are what the sociey made them to be.[/quote]i wonder where u got this your opinion.

@OP, u are always what you answer to.

vikkieb:
whats this controversy about? A guy feels its wrong to give to his "lover"(wen he can afford it), fine then go on being tite fisted and see the outcome. love naturally gives so if you claim to be in love n cant give then it could'nt be love. Even a gurl can give allowance to her guy if shes in the position to do so, i mean its all about the word LOVE.if only you know what it truely means.
@sugarbella's first post, thumps up!

in your book how does ashewos turn down gifts?

kokoA:
Dangote can never be broke. Ok?

kokoA:
OK. 4 Reasons why Dangote can never be broke:

1. He has diversified his business to cover the production of different essential household products that people will always buy no matter what.

2. He does'nt manage his business by himself. He has hired capable expatriates to call the shots in his companies.

3. He is no a tribalist (like typical Nigerian business men). He ha evenly distributed his companies accross the the country, that is the character of a strong entreprenure.


4. The Nigerian government will no let him go broke, because if he does, Nigerian will suffer. And lots more

you dont know the extent to which nigerians cook books so dont bank on publicity and ignorance. if all your reasons apart from no. 4 are true why did other well run companies go down?

UNLEASHED:
What kinda service(s) does my girlfriend, who I'm probably supposed to have a future with renders??

no services at least not quality service. 
[size=28pt]it is plain and simple love for sale[/size]

Ben20001:
The problems we have in Nigeria today is the church. sorry to say this.

The church is not united, the so called christians are the ones on power yet Nigeria is still under this punishment.

Every church wants to stand on it own, every churcxh has it's own university, every church wants a big name foer their overseer, every church competes for best in the ministry, the y advertise their prograames on TV, presents deliverance service on TVs.

All these are vanity.

If the church in Nigeria worships God in spirit and in Truth and in one accord just like the days of the apostles. I bet our country will be ruled by one force and not uncountable forces like we have today.

Everyone claims he/she is called by GOD, but instead of using th at gift to add to the growth of the church they already are, they'll go opening their own ministry.

The church is now like a business vent ure, Tithes and offerings has lost its real purpose and meaning.

The richest of Nigerians are the pat ors, everyone wants to go into the ministry.

to be continued. . .

which church does yaradua attend? christianity is not nigerian problem. it is nigerians abusing and troubling christianity. that is not to say there are no good christians in naija.

Abuzola:
Christianity brought adultery by reading sexual explicit on incest, rape in the book of numbers, christianity brought armed robbers in the society everyone wants to pay tithe, christianity adulterated the society with alcohol approval from the bible, christianity brought corruption to nigeria as the bible order the turning of cheek to forgive and forget, christianity brought lewdness most especially when you read the old testament, indecent dressing and ashawo bizness is pervaded, white christians brought slavery and invasion before they imposed christianity on our ancestors in nigeria, christianity brought many atrocities in the society for the fact the bible said once you believe christ die for your sin you shall not enter hell. i can continue till fade

you are skipping your medications again. it is take 2 X 3 daily you hear?[quote author=$osisi link=topic=299156.msg4221132#msg4221132 date=1248136888]The first  secondary  schools in Nigeria were built by Christian missions,if your father or grandfather is literate,he most likely went there.

e.g CMS grammar school
methodist boys,Lagos
Methodist girls Lagos
Hope waddel Calabar
ACMGS,Elelenwo
The zillions of baptist colleges from Abeokuta to PH
CKC Onitsha
Merchant of Light Oba
DMGS Onitsha
Hillcrest ,Jos
etc etc.


Western education was introduced to Nigeria by Christians

The first university in Nigeria was built in conjunction with the Church of England

Idol worship was practically abolished in large areas of Nigeria by Christianity

Killing of twins was abolished by Christians

Christians run the VVF and leprosy clinics in Nigeria(most in Muslim areas)

The  early hospitals in Nigeria were built and run by Christian missions

Volunteer Christian doctors still run charity Clinics in northern Muslim Nigeria ,the most diseased area of the nation

Christians were and are still the most educated group in Nigeria

The Christian areas are still the least impoverished areas,less polygamous,more stable family units,more educated quarters of Nigeria

The Christian areas have less homeless youth beggars aka almajiris

They are least likely to kill for their faith[/quote]why you no list the ones for my village my village na? this java hatred nawao

@ OP, a trial will convince ypu

huxley2:
All the corrupt christians need do is ask for forgiveness after they have been corrupts. Then sit back and enjoy the fruits of their corruption. Did not god say that he will forgive anyone who repents of his sins?

God!!!, the bar of morality is really low when you are a Christians, no doubt Christian are so corruptible.

confused.huxley

Lagosboy:
Certainly knows how to monopolise everything

that is the sharia way isnt it?

Lita:
I haven't read the responses, so excuse me if I am repeating what has already been said.  I couldn't not say anything.

An allowance, to me, sounds like a wage.

A girlfriend you are paying for sounds like no more than a prostitute (if you want to a prostitute, that's fine by me, just call it what it is).  Perhaps somebody can enlighten me of any differences.

Theblessed:
[b]But, what's our problem if the guy is prepared to pay the allowance. To me, allowance or no allowance why don't she earn her own money?  Is she crippled? This dependency mentality some women have makes me sick.  What happened to a sense of independence - taking charge of your own life?  Don't you know that when you are always given some thing, the giver can have CONTROL over you and dictate your life meaning your are his/her little SLAVE, huh  If I was a man, I'd not even bother - there are many fishes in the ocean to pick from. However, depending on the lady's emotional need for attachment, she should consider herself then lucky to even have a man and then have him run away due to her unnecessary demands.  It wouldn't matter if she has no such needs and has a career as not all of us are meant to be married afterall and, this is nothing new - the biblical times would vouch for this as not all the women in the bible were  married either so, nothing to be ashamed of if one hadn't because, as it was in the beginning, its now and ever shall be, world without end - Amen! [/b]

bluespice:
dang! why did i miss all of these?

must girlfriends demand an allowance?
i say an emphatic NO!

thanks guys for speaking up for the silent minority.  sadly you guys are a minority.
sugabelle represents the typical hooker in all but name lifestyle and mindset that most nigerian women have.  it is a shame.  

UNLEASHED:
Allowance ko, salary ni  

it is always good to pay for services rendered.

MrCrackles:
Topic
I dont really agree. . . . .

u have to agree becos shehu shagari, umaru dikko and the lovely kaduna and katsina maffias are all bible bashing christians.

nigerians and foolsihness.

i wonder how much the pastor got paid to say what he said

JeSoul:
Yes I understand but in attempting to make his point he ends up misrepresenting christianity - this is what I have a problem with. Call them hypocrits, who claim to be christians, instead of throwing genuine, hardworking and quiet serving christians into the same corrupt boat.

you know you are right.

russellino:
I have dated a policewoman and some of them are killer sexy. The only thing is that when you've been naughty they know how to interrogate your ass

lai i will never trust a uniformed person. never. shey naija police women take bribe like the men so what is the difference?

Aremugangan:
most of you guys have only a little or no knowledge about the bible. what you know is either what the pastor preaches or what you feel the bible is saying and that's why you will never see an error about the bible as an error. what if i tel you the bible prophecyzd the coming of the Qur'an and stated the way and to whom it would be revealed in conformity with the way our dearest n beloved Qur'an was revealed?
whether the bible says so or not, i will like you all to please do a thorough searching of this context and get yourself prepared as to how to tackle it when i reveal and try as much as possible to erase it from the unsold bibles. your HUMBLE suggestion is highly welcom as i don't know if i should post it here or create a new thread for it(its quite som time since last i created a thread).

did it also wolisized that mohammed will be shagging 6yrs old?  did it also wolisized that you guys will be strapping bombs to yourself and blowing peopple up.  did it ask you to be threatening seun with fattuahs too?  prophesy my foot. i beg go sit down jor.

muhsin:
Well said; extremism is what lead to all these probs.

extremists like you and your henshmen.

muhsin:
Welcome aboard, ayantan,

I see you are a fresh newbie here. There is a general rule up, which says respect others belief, i.e. practices inclusive. So heed to this.

Secondly, here is not a right place to ask such a question. There, right above this page, a section provided for Muslims. There you can get your comments commented on, your critique responded to and your questions answered by Muslims.

Thanks

bin mushin where is the right place? wjy not just answer the kwersion and lets see what u are hiding.

KunleOshob:
But christianity as a religion itself as been corrupted over the centuries and i am almost certain that pastor Joe himself is a part of the instituitionalized corruption.

i was doing rolll call t make sure u are present becos i know u dont miss opportunities like this.

Abuzola:
Here come the unprecedentent ignoramus, who doesn't use her brain but copy paste all the time. Hancouring cross worshipper

bin abusola you no dey fear?

mrsb:
Confirmation of the attack:

Attack on Atlas Cove on Sunday night:

• Attack was carried out by MEND faction loyal to Tom Polo, one of MEND'S factional leaders.
• According to intelligence report the men first assembled  in EPE , a town situated on river bank about fifty kilometers from Lagos.They had consultations with some groups presumably their kiths and kins, the Ijaws and carried out reconnaissance of Lagos waterways.
• They finally attacked the Atlas Cove in the night killing a Navy Lt. Commander, two Naval ratings and two civilians ,all were on duty in Atlas Cove,
• Ten civilians were wounded and are being hospitalized.
• Attackers came in three to four speed boats, heavily armed and tried to gain access to the facility but were repelled by gunfire from the Navy. They blew up the manifold and pipeline conveying refined petroleum, causing mighty  conflagration
• The fire was put out in the morning and repair work has commenced
• It is believed that the men have not left Lagos coast and may attack the facility again or carry out attacks on Government facilities or oil facilities
• This attack was not directed at any particular oil company, but oil and companies are advised to review their security countermeasures to ensure that their facilities are protected
• Expatriates are advised to consider suspending their trips to the beach, as some kidnappings could be carried out
• Personal security should be given attention
• It is reported that Sunday attack was provoked by the trip of the Attorney -General of the Federation and Minister of Justice to Sao Tome and Principe instead of hastening the presidential directive that Henry Okah, leader of MEND should be released.
• This attack in Lagos outside Niger Delta lends credence to the claim of MEND that it would carry the attack to Northern Nigeria, the claim which has triggered reactions from the North. If any part of the North is attacked  the country may witness a mini civil war. Already MEND has advised  indigenes of Niger Delta resident in the North to return home.

where are the NL arm chair war mongers now? didnt some of us predict this when these boys started

[quote author=Tudór link=topic=296219.msg4183698#msg4183698 date=1247568706]No thanks, i prefer reading from the OT where he commanded the isrealites to commit murder, genocide and ethnic cleansing in addition to looting, stealing lands, human sacrifices, slavery, rape and forced marriages. I think that gives me a better understanding of who jesus is.[/quote]your medication don finish again.  why you no go do likewise.  yeye fowl.

Fhemmmy:
There is a difference btw lies and withholding info

lie. dem be first cousins and school mate. dem dey waka together.

[quote author=$osisi link=topic=291251.msg4179667#msg4179667 date=1247504118]yes, I did 75 (54.7%)
I didn't 62 (45.3%)

Total Votes: 137
[/quote]madam na u cause the flood and na u dey complain. the arithmetic not be the one fingers and leg fit count. u know say some of us na ring road we go school plus na reckoner we use for our time.

not be this computer and calculator age dem born us. next time ask simple question wey only 2legs and hand fit count you hear. i beg make u no carry us go

how my bros and the family?

jennykadry:
@poster
im sure u've resolved ur problem by now,but incase u find urself in such a situation again ,follow dis my advise:


let me advise u,d easiest way to make her give u d attention u want,start keeping late night,if possible don't come back home for 2 days (but make sure you're not wt a girl)go to your friends place and stay,when u come back home act like u did nothing wrong by spending d night outside your home

if she cooks don't eat,tell her u've eaten or u aint hungry,pay her little attention,go out more often,try to make her work her brains out,let her suspect u wt another girl ,no big deal

Make sure u dress up in d toilet everyday wt d door locked,since she does not want your body,there is no need advertising it or showing it to her,and if she finally ask's u for sex,don't give it to her,suffer her small ,because if u just give her d minute she asked for it,she wont learn her lessons,if you're on heat,go and masturbate(which im sure u would have done countless of times),if she touches u ,push her hands away,or better still leave d room and sleep in d parlour


weneva you're going out don't tell her where you're going to(like i said before avoid getting into any relationship wt another girl),weneva she comes to d parlour to sit,leave d place for her,and if she comes to d room,leave d room and go outside,if she comes outside VACATE THE PREMISES

try all this and see if she wont bend,how can a woman be so hard hearted and starve her hussy for 5 months?how can a woman put her extended family first before her own husband?may God have mercy upon her

common sense dey your head for a very long time. u never change

Qaasim:
To be realistic and factual,having extramarital affairs or keeping concubines is in a real sense bad cos one can contract any of the STDs.Religiously speaking is ungodly.I think we guys should be sincere with our partners and stay out of the shit

what is the matter with you. cant people be foolish when they are single so long as they stay faithfull when they get married. dont you thing their parner and God will understand?

[quote author=$osisi link=topic=292860.msg4179647#msg4179647 date=1247503965]what do you mean?
are you saying that if a woman finds condoms in her husband's posession when they don't use condoms,she should cook him ofe nsala and serve it with big bottle of odeku (stout) ?
You're not serious

what will you do if you found condoms in your wife's purse?
will you be considerate too?[/quote]you know this is the era of allowing people to live whichever way they like so we can preach the love of God to them.  being seen with condoms dont  make no one "village whores" these days.  

knowing the naija man God help the woman but you never know some people are becoming liberals to the point of selling their souls to the highest bidder.  someone is giving the husband a jeep from condoms activities on NL.

Nezan:
[size=28pt]SCARY[/size]

what is scary there? listen to this young woman Thembi who was 19 years old when they gave her a tape recorder to make an audio diary of her struggle to live with AIDS sadly she is in her grave now. she wish she didnt believe the hype about casual sex.
http://www.radiodiaries.org/aidsdiary/story.html

Abuzola:
You mean consummating her by 9 is a crime or wrong ? Well she reached the age of puberty and was matured.

you know where you belong. this your mind na riot o.

topup:
[color=#008855]Yeah that's a good question, but I think the best person to ask is anybody apart from the person in question - people like to think they're more mature than they really are.
[/color]

you are my oldest person on NL topup.

Ejadamen:
@ GEW, i don't need your forgiveness. Swallow it. Where did i rubbish virgins? Where did i say being a non-virgin should be the norm? Do couples now wed without doing HIV test first? Is sex the only way the disease can be transmitted?

I see you conveniently deleted the part about "if i had bothered to remain a virgin for 3 weeks then i would know how easy it is to do so". No matter, I forgave you long time ago.

(This makes me wonder if all virgins never gave a Mouth Gig before getting married) You obviously have never met virgins who smooched guys before getting married. I have.
(it doesn't matter as long as husband and wife remain faithful to each other while married to each other.) To me it doesn't, a lady and a guy who have turned over a new leaf will remain faithful to each other while married. Pas is past,why bring it up?
(In fact i think it is an admirable trait. If i meet a female virgin today i'll encourage her to continue that way till she get married.) I really think it is a virtue that should be encouraged but i will not condemn a non-virgin.

Correction: I never double spoke, i said in my opinion [b]a lady being a virgin(as a criteria to marriage) doesn't matter. [b]IN MY OPINION. I also said a virgin(wife) could make an awful wife and vice versa.[/b][/b] Explain to me how the double speaking happened? We are talking about what makes a good wife, as far as i am concerned virginity is not the only contributing factor. A person's character also should be included but if a woman is a virgin before marriage,good! [size=14pt][b]it doesnt occur to you a LovePeddler i has a character flaw did it? what tablet are you going to administer to cure the licensous lifestyle?[/b][/size]

You know what? I think i have replied you enough. Unless you can find a logical flaw in all i have written then let's part ways in peace. We have derailed this thread long enough. I bid you goodbye GEW.

i like your ability to double speak. we are all coming to marry our quota of town hall whores.

you are on one hand supporting the right to be virgin and at same time flying flag for people who throw caution to the wind afterall they are going to marry and stop being whores. hope you get acccess to listen top this girl who never had the priviledge to marry let alone stop the lifestyle she enjoyed and tot could get away with.
http://www.radiodiaries.org/aidsdiary/story.html Thembi was 19 years old when we gave her a tape recorder to make an audio diary of her struggle to live with AIDS.

if i stretch your grace theology i should start stealing knowing God forgives and will stop when i get enough you know you are going to preach to me so let me continue stealing so you just have a convert. isnt that a nice idea? nigerians and indulgience.

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=293409.msg4167946#msg4167946 date=1247253110]Sisthren, I am glad you concur IT IS TIME LIKE THIS, I LOVE MY COUNTRY ^{AND PEOPLE} I NO GO LIE




HE DID NOT CHOOSE NADA, he was forced to marry her by his Pastors and the other elders in the family and he had to abandon the one he truly loved How many Nigerians can go against the orders of such individuals and their parents

You would be hardpressed to find 2% of people who will go against the wishes of their Parents/Pastors and this has been proven time and time in so many threads on NL

Anyhoo, nothing do me and richard10 make hin carry go on loving his missus, i just dey talk my own say and thank God say I no need to marry for love, na titles and status and wealth and bank balance be the koko from now henceforth [/quote][quote author=Busy_body link=topic=293409.msg4167946#msg4167946 date=1247253110]Sisthren, I am glad you concur IT IS TIME LIKE THIS, I LOVE MY COUNTRY ^{AND PEOPLE} I NO GO LIE




HE DID NOT CHOOSE NADA, he was forced to marry her by his Pastors and the other elders in the family and he had to abandon the one he truly loved How many Nigerians can go against the orders of such individuals and their parents

You would be hardpressed to find 2% of people who will go against the wishes of their Parents/Pastors and this has been proven time and time in so many threads on NL

Anyhoo, nothing do me and richard10 make hin carry go on loving his missus, i just dey talk my own say and thank God say I no need to marry for love, na titles and status and wealth and bank balance be the koko from now henceforth [/quote]bad belle. one moment you be preacher the next peace maker the very next yiu be agent provocateur.

2tait:
Deep down in my heart and mind, I think you are a very lucky man.

The best thing any man can get in this life is to have a loving and understanding/respectful wife. The opposite is called hell fire. You have a loving and understanding wife. It is even obvious to people.

Your situation seems bad to you because you THINK you have a better choice (option) out there! That's an error. You are already married. Any other thing is a facade.

I suggest you go back and re-build your life, your values, your priorities, your marriage and indeed your home. You can do it and enjoy your life.

2tait:
Deep down in my heart and mind, I think you are a very lucky man.

The best thing any man can get in this life is to have a loving and understanding/respectful wife. The opposite is called hell fire. You have a loving and understanding wife. It is even obvious to people.

Your situation seems bad to you because you THINK you have a better choice (option) out there! That's an error. You are already married. Any other thing is a facade.

I suggest you go back and re-build your life, your values, your priorities, your marriage and indeed your home. You can do it and enjoy your life.

maake una leave this pale alone. before una say jack robinson the bobo don give her another belle. wetin be una own inside this small matter. our brother be one run he no run again .