₦airaland Forum

placeofallure:
That's insensitive and rude.

Didn't mean to, thought I was helping to point out a disconnect. Reminder withdrawn.

placeofallure:
Biscuits and I are inseparable. From the days of Okin 4 corner to Pako biscuit. My bf now hubby would buy the digestive for me when I'm traveling back to school. He knows I don't eat on the way, biscuits and Coke is fine. His friends and relatives knew I'm back from school if they visit him and saw biscuits on the table or anywhere in his apartment. Till tomorrow, he still stuff the fridge with Pure Bliss and Cookies for me.

You must be fat from constant sugar

UzomaFC:
I like staying alone oooooooooooo, at least it has saved me so many troubles.
My wife at times will be talking and I will be looking at her, well she knows me very wella.
We are 12years this year and we don't go out.

This year marked my 19yrs at my work place.
these are my stats:
Company Party: 2
Company Bar: 2
Weddings: 0
Burial: 1
Birthday party: 1
Others: 0

Even were I work, they know me that Igwe does not go out. but funny enough when they needed someone to represent them,
they will call me.
My own is Work/Church and nothing.
I don't even like staying in crowd talk more of inviting anyone, Nna men the lower or fewer the better for me.
Low headache, low troubles to attend to, infact low everything.
infact if I have my way, I will just go inside the forest and build and live there.

I love the peace of being an introvert. The only problem is the social part of it.If one doesn't have any problem with that then no problem especially people like you in their late forties

How come this car is not sold for months now. Hmmm.

backbencher:
Well, if subsides went, there would be more than enough profit for all that is needed for making the refienreis run apart from TAM

Plus, two refienreis are being renovated. Five private refinereis are coming up.

Well spoken. But I think they should account for the ones already allocated. If not, the assurance of sustaining the refineries is not there.

To whom much is given much is expected.

Come to think of it, where is assurance that subsidy will be removed after increasing the fuel price? Remember they have dribbled Nigerians before, the reason why we are presently buying at 165 naira, after telling us to buy at 140naira per liter with the assurance of no more scarcity and subsidy

backbencher:
Low fuel prices due to subsidy led to breakdown of refinereis led to us refining fuel abroad in bad refinereis, which led to this

Subsidy must go so that profits would be available to build and maintain standard refineries.

If you want good quality you pay for it.

Do you know how much that had been budgeted for Turn Around Maintenance yet it was not done and the fund diverted.

Now they want to remove the subsidy without local refineries after corruption.

They should fix the refineries first before removing fuel subsidy.

MyVILLAGEpeople:
What if them come Win World Cup

Are you aware that they have reached quarter final in the senior world cup?

Only two countries in Africa have reached that feat.

andysmith123:
the rate at which sense is moving out of our celebrities head is alarming........

Is she really a celebrity? What is she celebrating? Stupidity? Smh

Kirkman:
First and foremost, congratulations o!. Do give us feedback review in the next 6 months to 1 year. Especially in the camera segment. I wan check something

Wetin you wan check again nah? Make una no give the guy BP oo


For me, any phone with less than 128gb memory space is still learning. That's the minimum.

Very simple, fix the refineries and stop fuel importation.No need for fuel subsidy.

This useless government is taking Nigerians for a ride.

Sunnycliff:
This is wow. Though the vine is feeding from its tubers and getting moisture from the room too. But it won't have a tuber over time

I wanted to say this. Correct.

Room moisture and food stored in the tuber. Once the limit is reached it dies

ItsGoodToBeGood:
, it's like you don't gerit.

Now I got the sarcasm.

ItsGoodToBeGood:
Nigeria

You mean the same Nigeria people do their roads, fix their transformer, have street security and fund it, drill their own water, buy solar power for their homes yet you say things are free?

I'm confused here.

Earlystar698:
While the world is moving forward, the miscreants youth of Nigeria is busy packaging drug adict as their president in 4 years coming, lmao and to think Elon doesn't believe in religion is another thing for Nigeria religious extrimst. I have failed as a father if my children have country of origin as Nigeria.


OP enjoy yourself

Don't be deceived by their religious misalignment gimmicks.Those people believe in humanity and uprightness. (Same preached by religion)

They also believe that the existing nature is bestowed with Good things and bad things,your power of mind determines the one you attract through Meditation, beliefs, mind( Which is prayer)

They are very grateful to nature and it's beautiful things (Thanksgiving to God)

Steve job before he died made a speech of life vanity (Total submission to eternal life devoid of material things)

So don't be deceived that they are not religious because they didn't go to any church to prove theirs. It doesn't mean that those that went to church to prove theirs are wasting their time. They chose the easier path for themselves.

You may not get this clarification easily like this. elsewhere, so know it now and know peace.

blackaxe78:
Smh….


You are lucky you have a matured lady who has all the qualities you looking for.

If you talking about age, the younger ones will get you to depression! They are only good on bed, maturity they lack.

Did I hear you say that younger ones are better in bed than the mature ones?

I will end it with just a question.

Ahmed0336:
Bros, you have done all is needed of a Gentleman. You made a mistake, had apologize to her and her family and most importantly you are remorsed about that act.

If I may, what was her reason(s) for sex starving you? What were her parents stand regarding it?

Oga no stress yourself, if she wan stay with her parents let her be.
If her parents want to change your daughter's school just to wicked you let them do it.

Use this time to develop yourself and save more. Peace!!!!

Exactly my advice. Simply ignore her now but don't negatively divert your energy. Instead invest in things worthwhile, get closer to God.

Just completely ignore her, at a time if she doesn't hear from you again, she will start being worried, Because she knows your decency, she might not think you would be another woman, if not it could have been a better tormenting thought for her

By the time you ignore her completely watch out how things will turn out positively.

Women are like shadow,follow them, they run, run they will follow you.
Especially in this your case you have profusely apologized. You have given her a serious hot coal that will always burn her.

Does the water have anything to do with those people that have name like the house where a bird builds and lives?

EgunMogaji2:
I wasn’t aware of Comoros. What are their citizens called?

Comoros dragons. Lol

Baba, it's Komori.

otipoju:
I for like go live that place for like 2 or 3 years ooo. ATL don tire me.

Even if you go there, e go soon tire you.

Life is always greener at the other side.

Even those abroad are still missing a part of Nigeria but console themselves with the economic and political challenges in Nigeria.

Fix Nigeria, many will run back home.

Sucolee:
35k small na... The man know what he is doing... mistakenly transfer 2million to him and know what next

You are wrong. If you transfer 2m to me, even though I will relocate to abroad in less than two days, ,I will give you back.

I have done like the OP severally.

Some people don't feel comfortable spending money that is not theirs.

I give people money, I don't take, especially someone's money.

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

All these indomie husbands sef.

First, how can your wife reject having intimacy with you. First offence.

Then why should you rape her?

Then how can you apologize for doing that and she is still adamant? You mean you can't be man up to ignore her.

Anyway, your Story is very SIMPle.

GenderMix:
Dear Esteemed Nairalanders of extreme wisdom, I have a 4+ year old daughter who is very curious and sleeps on the same bed with me and wife. Some days ago she almost caught me and wife having sex, so in the morning she asked my wife what I was doing to her…lol. Most times I hug and kiss my wife in front of her and do same to her (in her case, a peck and she reciprocates back). This is our normal lives. Sometimes, when I hug my wife before her, she gets jealous..lol

I think we made a mistake in not allowing her get used to her room from day one. We had tried to make her see reasons why she can’t continue to sleep on same bed with us but it’s all falling on deaf ears. At a point, we forced her to her room and when she woke up around 2am, all hell was let loose, I felt sympathy and told my wife to allow her into our room.


We can’t continue this way, so I need your advice (especially married couples with kids)

1. Did we make a mistake by letting her sleep on same bed with us considering she is just 4?

2. Is it too late to force her to her room?

3. How do we go about making sure she gets used to her room without disturbing us?

4. If she asks what we are doing at night, like the case where she almost caught us, what would be a good reply that would sound logical and educative for her own growth.

5. Is her jealousy normal?

Thank you

You are not yet ready to prevent that. It's very simple. When you are ready to prevent her from sleeping in your room, we will know

I constantly gave both when he was alive but presently it's her luck to have the whole thing now.

Besides, she deserves it, so I don't look back one bit when giving her.

ppogba:
The government is trying to say, we are going to do nothing this year. How do I mean? Sack people, get into wahala with labour for 3 months. Fast forward to June, remove fuel subsidy. Get into another bruhaha with labour, long industrial strike commences till July or August then either ASUU or NMA takes over till December.

On December 31, every body goes to church for cross over.

And the cycle continues again. Lol.

FIFApresident1:
I can't imagine someone else sleeping with the woman I married, how am I gonna feel after hearing about it or seeing it with my two eyes.
My life is not going to remain the same again even after divorcing her.

A SIMPle statement.

FIFApresident1:
When/where did I say am going to take my life?

Don't mind him. You just made a SIMPle statement and he "misunderstood " you

StylesX:
This man has been the opposite of what I thought he is, I thought he's a quiet and respectful someone, but recently he's hanging out with questionable people and doing vain things he shouldn't be doing.

He used to maintain a low profile earlier.

It's just a behavioural change .Sometimes
in life, people try to change some habits or behaviour, hoping on making their lives better and well managed.

A very introverted person could loosen up a bit to accommodate some behaviours.

A person with sedentary life could change completely to very active person, with hope it will do him some good.

He is an example.

FernandezPablo:
It's the parent's choice and there's nothing wrong with that..

Everything is wrong for a young child at that age to paint her nails. Location notwithstanding.

Let's call a spade, a spade.

Lovely picture though.

fineboynl:
RiP. But must they travel. Why can't people learned to stay where they are. We are now in digital age. With video call and money transfer you don't need to go to the village.

Stay were you are and celebrate your Xmas and new year.

With video call, they can do all the occasions they should have attended.

Just hear yourself and reason your statement .

efembaba:
When I saw ur text in italics, I first thought it was Righteousness that wrote this...

Bro you should learn the word and the power of God..

Christmas may be done on a pagan worshiping day, but we are not worshiping pagan . We are worshiping Jesus and God... Except you are worshiping pagans

You really replied him? Maybe because today is Christmas and it's a season of giving, including giving time to those that don't deserve it.

You have done your Christmas for him.

EndBuhariNow:
Audio achievement.... Internet billionaire, keep fooling urself, nah you go enter bed with empty stomach no be me

I don't argue with fools. Neither am I here to prove a point to you. I achieved it in the same Nigeria you ran away from ,like a coward.

I hate show off both on social media and in real life. Because it is meaningless to me.

The message is clear.

Nigeria may be facing challenges but condemning it every time is not the solution. Buhari and his regime made things worse.

Let's hope another president makes things better.

Get little sense and change your mentality.