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Wuchereria:
I am just quoting you to respond to all those saying I will definitely cheat. I am like, what the heck are these guys saying?

I married at above 30, yet my wife was the first woman I had sex with. I was also the first man she would expose her unclothedness to.

If I didn't sleep around as a single guy in his 30s who could afford to pay any realistic amount for sex, why will I sleep around when I am already married? Like I normally say, I have never really been so keen on sex. Men that cheat do so for sex. Nobody cheats because they are looking for perky boobs.

I know I will ultimately be alright. I'm only expressing the initial displeasure people get when they fantasize on something for a very long time and end up getting what they didn't desire.

I must say that the boobs are not outrightly bad now. If she was in her late 30s or 40s now and we already had all our kids, I wouldn't mind. I am only concerned because she is still very young and we haven't even had kids.

Like I said, I will be alright. I didn't marry her for any assets. Boobs was never one of the major reasons why I married her. It was only a plus. All the other reasons still stand, so I am very grateful.

Let me say it for the last time, I don't have even the faintest plan to cheat on my wife. I will rather spend the rest of my life unmarried than to cheat. I am very heaven-conscious, so cheating can never be in my dictionary.

Thank you all for your contributions.

Don't allow any of those unreal people distract you from your determination.

Even before reading this your post I quoted ,I just said it to my self that someone that didn't touch a woman till he was married, is the same person that they are already accusing of cheating in the nearest future.

I don't really see you doing that if you maintain your determination as it was before you got married.

By now, you are already above temptation to cheat and should divert the time to something very meaningful.

I can understand your disappointment but I assure you that even the best of a woman's anatomy will still change. So it's not about that.

No need of any disappointment. Highly uncalled for.

So simply love her and enjoy her company and her body.

Take my words, every woman is same it's just a stupid mindset that makes people to deviate and involve in all those undesired affairs that will take your time ,energy, money ,reputation and spirituality.


Take this advice from someone that knows all.

Not for all couples but most.

Most times what causes lack of interest in sex subsequently is simply lack of love or family economic pressures.

A woman that loves the hubby will never lose interest in their intimacy.

A woman well taken care of and protected by a man can never lose interest in sex too instead her desire for the husband increases daily.

When a woman loses interest in the husband for some reasons, the desire for sex goes down with it.

But as earlier said, not for all women, some are still as hot as fire with their husbands intimate wise.

Collinsaik:
but having sex is not the only sin dat god hate.. and he that is guilty of one is guily of all

Don't mind them, some people will do everything possible to justify why it's not good for a married woman to commit adultery or somebody to date a married woman but will justify a married man doing same, they forgot adultery is adultery.

Run away from evil whether you are a man or a woman.

simplepee:
I don't know about other tribes but where I come from, it is forbidden for a married woman to sleep with another man. This is very shameful and disgusting.

Will a married man sleep with another woman?
Hope where you come from, forbids that too.

If not, it's a double standard and it doesn't work.

osamz007:
CONGRATS TO HER SHE HAS REALLY WORKED HARD AS IN HARDER HARDER FOR THIS

HOW I WISH OUR MEN CAN WORK AS HARD HARDER HARDER LIKE THIS

So what are you trying to say?.

You didn't mention anything yet you mentioned everything.

Mind yourself ooo.

Mafuba:
Hello Nairalanders,

Why is it that after my first round of sex, I am unable to get erect and continue the second round. It takes not less than 2 hours for me to get erect again.

Is this normal? Any solution to this?

Hope you have stopped that masturbation that killed your zeal. I know you know what I am talking about.

jawalis:
All I see in picture is a man with a very low self esteem who bows at the hearing of a female doctor. Trust me, yes You have a low self esteem. I can bet you are one of the people who worship doctors, lawyers and engineers. I’ll advise you work on your self esteem, Work on it and you will realize you are been enslaved. Forget all these high value silliness. It’s just what you think in your mind. I have worked with a female doctor here in Lagos who is social too. All of these blah blah blah about sleeping in 3 different hotels before you could meet her is trash. It’s not as if she work with National hospital or is she the only doctor in the hospital where she works? I read you stated that she had colleagues. So she don’t just value you as you portrayed, you are only trying to comfort yourself by those jargons you wrote up there. Not having time for you and you moving from one place to another just to see the woman whom you claimed took you for her colleague is not an evidence of high value woman. She’ll definitely make time for you if she respects and value you like you did for her. The doctor friend I have got married in 2018. She works with 2 different hospitals and still balance up her social life. All I see in your case is a man who has a low self esteem and got flattened by a doctor. Been a doctor doesn’t make a woman high value, ok? Adesua Etomi is more career oriented and trust me, she made up her time for Banky. We all know Funke Akindele’s family. So wake up and address her or you walk away. We have lots of female doctors on Nigeria, infact; There are hundreds of them out there. There are female barristers, female accountants and engineers who earn decently. So stop the foolishness in your heart and confront her.

Not only low self esteem ,he is struggling to force us to like the situation, even though inside him he knows something is wrong with the relationship but he is pretending everything is normal, then he struggles to cope with the situation.

Rubbish.

2kurupt:
The former is less frowned at because there is the legality & possibility of the so-called sugar Daddy turning the side-chick into a wife if he chooses to while in the latter it's a case of Dead-on- arrival since this is not India, I hope you grab?

And if he doesn't want to marry another wife but still keeping the side chick, she is justified?

If she is justified, then a guy with married woman should be justified too.

Real double standard as far as I am concerned.

Like I said earlier, I don't support any of the two. But things should be balanced between the two.

Elxandre:
I have no advise for the OP but I have to mention that Women don't find anything wrong with keeping married sugar daddies but young men are always scolded for looking at married women.

Is the female gender stronger at heart what?

Good point mentioned.

I am not supporting either of the cases but to me they are same. They should stop crucifying men dating married women since girls dating married men are free and are hardly criticised .

I'm a realist. So I don't care about any criticism for my comment

Fly that can be very disturbing even when you have a fortune like the one fortune120 is dreaming of, the fortune that I really need for amarachibaby, I am even glad that fortune120 knows I could be in love with her

Agree to my determination now or not, I don't give a damn that I will start mentioning names, Amarachibaby, love your name, what does it mean?

Light up my life and make me feel so warm, I am all yours tonight because once I drop this phone I am coming for you, what do I do without my blanket in this cold AC room I am now.

Abiama from enquiry means omnipresent, abiama means presence always felt. Hmm that's a suitable name for our great Omnipotent.

Phases really exist, especially childish phase where someone could mention tomato and undertaker and pathetically relates it to great metamorphosis of a noble man, he sounded so meaningless and completely inscrutable.

Cockroach changes too from nymph to stages before becoming Imago, don't estimate the angry noble man, he could have his own fearless metamorphosis.

Remember that some people have very high self esteem and their integrity to protect,quit judging a loved soul before you budge from a hot coal

Think about what? think about some people coming here to talk rudely to noble people, that is real rubbish. and unapologetically unacceptable.

doctore212:
I want to stop dey visit olosho for 2021.

I go carry my bag enter my olosho babe for Ketu this evening and do cross over for her end.

After that I go change.

Make una pray for me

Start today, don't wait then

Bicycle 's french word is bicyclette

Referendum is a burning issue that must be doused for our country to move forward ,it's been overdue since 2014 considering the fact that there was an agreement in 1914 for it after 100 years of northern and southern merger.

Answer what transient is? no way. Even the death of Ubong King at just 48 years on 26th December is still a reminder how short lived life could be, even at 100 years we are going to leave one day. Yes, WE MUST, ONE DAY ,LEAVE.

World full of vanity, definitely we will enjoy it before we depart but let's all remember we must leave it one day, a sad reality remembering that our existence is transient.

binary007:
What if you run mad today?

Can't you see that he is already mad. The only thing that remains is for him to strip and walk on the road mumbling to himself.

Spanish language while doing what on a cold harmattan weather, please I don't want to have a funny thought I love being a saint.

Then children used to be more reserved and moderately exposed but now it's so bad that a child of 13 years could teach you what you thought you could have hidden from him due to age, no thanks to technology and development

flokii:
I don't envy folks living in those countries with extreme weather conditions.. If only we had good leaders and everyone doing what is right, who would dream of running overseas? instead the Whites would be the ones running to Africa to enjoy our weather.

I hope Blacks in Africa get their acts right someday.

I blame those fools that simply refused to fix Nigeria instead they struggle for their own selfish reasons.

If Nigeria is in the right state, who could have been thinking of how to migrate, apart from natural migratory tendencies like an Australian living in Dubai.

They messed up Nigeria and making those going to live in coldroom looking like king, when in the actual fact, they should be pitied for leaving a lovely weather to go and stay in a nasty climate like Canada.

No thanks to our useless politicians. Even Rwandans will not be in so much a haste to leave their country because it's well organised.

Candies is very deceitful and distracting to kids, it could make them to be vulnerable to kidnappers

Splazy:
Brethrens as we celebrate the birth of Jesus..his parents have decided to open an Account for him 0085215301 Union bank,.Pls let's contribute for his upbringing..

Thanks don't worry. God will take care of His son

DontBullshitMe:
I hate repititive celebrations/festivals. They bore me.

Christmas is one of them.

Which festivals are not repetitive? Even a repeated marriage ceremony was circumstantial.

You are the one boring your life not existing festivities boring you.

Country where you can not even celebrate Christmas with enough onions.