₦airaland Forum

Romanoff:
Abeg shut up. I am married. And I am not a slave to my husband.

My husband na man. A real man that is in complete control of his emotion and his mind and I respect him for who he is. I can't disrespect my husband and he can't disrespect me. He is my best friend and we are crazy about each other.

We have something called "Mutual Respect" for each other. You should look up the meaning of the word.

Shior.

If your sister's husband locks her outside for what was written up there, throw a party for her husband, clap for him and call fuji musicians to come and hail him.

"Dragging head" with my husband means I should be treated like a miserable orphan abi? That's what marriage is to you?

Put a dog collar on the neck on your own wife, make we know say na slave she be to you.

Who raised some of you here?

From your response, I struggled to see a reasonable married girl. It's obvious you will be "mutually arguing " with your husband a lot.

Things look OK to you because he is tolerating you and enduring inside.

Just passing by, anyway.

Probably due to popularity of the people involved because if you are introverted,many people will not be there for you.

Antoeni:
Such a caring Young Man, god bless Her for surprising His Dad, She is Such a Good Man. Happy Brthday Sir, You Have a Good Man as a Daughter

What a description!! I got more confused of the gender. Lol.

mdsne:
The majority of the northerners are christians I have been there

A bitter truth, most northern Muslims know but will be pretending.

Hoodyrich:
This goes a long way to show just how meaningless and lonely life would be without people.Preach love.

Very strong statement,only the wise will understand what you said.

Bmaster:
Why is everybody telling us about his/her neighbors attitude towards him/her,
And no one cares to state that one or two things him/her does to his/her which his/her neighbor Don't like

Did you read the topic before putting up the question. They are on point.

OKOATA:
You are no diff from the said woman, imagine the nonsense coming out of someone's mouth, so he should wait till the kids are 18years and who told you the guy could last till then or he might die of HBp before then, Even the Bible says it's better to leave in a corner of a roof than a bittch woman so why must he put up with her evil behavior cos of the kids? So you as a woman if you are in an abusive relationship with kids you would wait till you are beaten to coma or death before you know you need to japa? and why would he have to jump into another marriage if he sends his ex packing, all you females always think is that men can't do without women in their lives. If his mom is alive he can drop his kids there so it's not a must he conti
nues in the evil relationship.

Leave that guy, let him keep on saying what I don't understand. I really struggled finding a word for him to be as polite as possible and shield the way I felt about him after reading the trash, sorry I mean the stuff he wrote there

Why are you asking such a question, if I were you, I would do the right thing on earth and forget life beyond, let it take care of itself, as for your question, have you heard of the compound word "complex condition?

Day of decision and challenges that can only be conquered by self will.

Here and there, life maintains its move. A fully charged phone will discharge and a discharged phone battery will be fully charged soonest. What I am guaranteed of, is that I will never have a faulty charger.

Someday all our existence will be gone, may be 90 years maximum, 100 years maximum or probably 110 years maximum. Whichever one it must be someday, let's make our life very meaningful and touch mankind positively.

Know that your mind is a strong architect that determines the pictorial structure of your life, be mindful of your mind state to avoid getting worn out and old, it will worsen if you have gerascophobia.

Place of peace and tranquillity is desired by all especially me, no wonder I always experience positivity.

Austeeenxx:
OP, abeg give me your weedman number.

OP weedman just got another victim

omaclarry:
like play like play evening don dey reach.o

lol, so this is just your concern.

AdolfAboki:
Hmm..



IPOB, ESN and other unscrupulous elements in the South East region should NOT dare the NORTH!

Mark my words IPOBIANS, if anything bad should happen to Danladi Umar or any Arewa sons or daughters, we'll make Nigeria HELL for you bloody terrorists!

I repeat, NOTHING MUST HAPPEN TO UMAR! Limit your secessionist chants and sectional slogans to your region. Limit your uncouth behavior to your region! If you think we'll fold our hands and watch you humiliate our leaders like you humiliated Ekweremadu and co, then you must be joking!

I dun talk my own finish. Dare us and see!

God bless the North.
God bless the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

Who is this toothless bull dog? Are you talking about the same North that is being over run by bandits and Boko Haram ,why not save yourself from your own people that are killing you people before you face any other part of the country which Northerners still don't want to split from despite the daily increasing pressure.

Go and sit down.

PoloG:
where did you see tribe here?

Who doesn't have any tribe? probably you?

Dickson178:
The Muslims are angry, because we christians has taken over the country, forget about the rulership owed by them. To be sincere, christians has taken over Nigeria, because it's a religion of peace . God will judge them ,the Muslims has no peace ,no rest at all , nonsense terrorist Muslims,all they know is to kill . Thank God,no one died .

Didn't even see this post when I wrote mine.

Spot on.

In the northern states like Gombe, Bauchi, Adamawa, Kebbi, etc. They have good number of Christians that is a real threat to Islam.

41lady:
I wanted to insult you but as a matured someone, i restrained myself.

But I have to ask you, which court registered Nigeria as muslim country?

You could have ignored him the way others did. You just honored him with your attention.

Christians are more in Nigeria than Muslims, hence their complex and struggling to dominate.

All the Muslims know that we have more Christians in Nigeria than Muslims.

I can't believe the same tribe is fighting themselves because of religion. How can they allow religion to divide them?

sulaak:
I disagree with the Kwara state government position, student go to school to learn and not for religion, there is too much religion in Nigeria, that has not been the best the country.

The missionary schools must leave the state funding mechanism if they don't want Muslim students practicing their faith and values.

What are you saying? The mission schools are clamouring for complete autonomy but the Islamic government still wants to have a part control because of obvious religious reasons.

Ghostmode2two:
This Pinnick go like sucking kpekus too much. See hein beard like Dauda the sexy guy own

For you to know Dauda the sexy guy. You are above 40 years.

Noodles generation won't know who he was.

dipotepede:
Just because you are lucky to defraud the landlord, does not mean it can apply generally.

However, I doubt your story especially the part where you invited him to your house opening - the landlord must be really slow...

Hyperboles like this have placed a lot of tenants in a really dire situation where they end up losing more than they bargained for.

Don't mind AFONJACOW .He is not sure of what he wrote.

What kind of law did he use to stay free for two years, Maybe the landlord is an old man managing his life.

It sounds totally impossible to stay free for two years in a landlords house that knows his onions

Benbisco:
He did not mention the refrigerator. It wasn't the problem; though we monitor it and only use the refrigerator based on the weather ie, intensity of the sun.

We use the inverter till 7pm then put on the generator to supply power till 12am. The technician advised we never charge it with the generator as it damages the batteries. He was able to do some electrical works such that we can switch it off completely when the generator is on.

Thanks for the feedback. Hmmm, you mean you guys are courageous enough to be using generator after spending such a huge amount of money for an installation of that level (Of course I know the amount I spend to install 8 solar panels, 4 200ah batteries, 60 A controller and 2.5kva inverter.

I can't ooo, instead I will continue to manage it like that till I could get new batteries.

Benbisco:
We had to switch back to the 1.5kva. The technician said the 3.5kva was faulty.

You mean it sustains till morning before solar takes over and the problem solved. The technician didn't mention anything about the refrigerator causing it?
I have what you mentioned ,(capacity of (8panels of 280w,four 200 ah batteries ,2.5kva inverter etc ) but can't sustain till morning lately.

Benbisco:
This your "specs" is exactly like mine but we just noticed that it goes off in the middle of the night and we are left in the dark till the sun comes up on the morning.

We had a good time with the 1.5kva and 2 batteries without panels for 4yrs and decided to step up to 3.5kva last December to accommodate the refrigerator but it has just been falling our hand since this week.

Have you ever experienced such?

Sorry about the negative development. Please, were you able to solve this and how. We seem to have the same spec and I am observing that 2am shut down and waiting for daylight.

How did you solve it?

Wuchereria:
I am just quoting you to respond to all those saying I will definitely cheat. I am like, what the heck are these guys saying?

I married at above 30, yet my wife was the first woman I had sex with. I was also the first man she would expose her unclothedness to.

If I didn't sleep around as a single guy in his 30s who could afford to pay any realistic amount for sex, why will I sleep around when I am already married? Like I normally say, I have never really been so keen on sex. Men that cheat do so for sex. Nobody cheats because they are looking for perky boobs.

I know I will ultimately be alright. I'm only expressing the initial displeasure people get when they fantasize on something for a very long time and end up getting what they didn't desire.

I must say that the boobs are not outrightly bad now. If she was in her late 30s or 40s now and we already had all our kids, I wouldn't mind. I am only concerned because she is still very young and we haven't even had kids.

Like I said, I will be alright. I didn't marry her for any assets. Boobs was never one of the major reasons why I married her. It was only a plus. All the other reasons still stand, so I am very grateful.

Let me say it for the last time, I don't have even the faintest plan to cheat on my wife. I will rather spend the rest of my life unmarried than to cheat. I am very heaven-conscious, so cheating can never be in my dictionary.

Thank you all for your contributions.

Don't allow any of those unreal people distract you from your determination.

Even before reading this your post I quoted ,I just said it to my self that someone that didn't touch a woman till he was married, is the same person that they are already accusing of cheating in the nearest future.

I don't really see you doing that if you maintain your determination as it was before you got married.

By now, you are already above temptation to cheat and should divert the time to something very meaningful.

I can understand your disappointment but I assure you that even the best of a woman's anatomy will still change. So it's not about that.

No need of any disappointment. Highly uncalled for.

So simply love her and enjoy her company and her body.

Take my words, every woman is same it's just a stupid mindset that makes people to deviate and involve in all those undesired affairs that will take your time ,energy, money ,reputation and spirituality.


Take this advice from someone that knows all.

Not for all couples but most.

Most times what causes lack of interest in sex subsequently is simply lack of love or family economic pressures.

A woman that loves the hubby will never lose interest in their intimacy.

A woman well taken care of and protected by a man can never lose interest in sex too instead her desire for the husband increases daily.

When a woman loses interest in the husband for some reasons, the desire for sex goes down with it.

But as earlier said, not for all women, some are still as hot as fire with their husbands intimate wise.

Collinsaik:
but having sex is not the only sin dat god hate.. and he that is guilty of one is guily of all

Don't mind them, some people will do everything possible to justify why it's not good for a married woman to commit adultery or somebody to date a married woman but will justify a married man doing same, they forgot adultery is adultery.

Run away from evil whether you are a man or a woman.

simplepee:
I don't know about other tribes but where I come from, it is forbidden for a married woman to sleep with another man. This is very shameful and disgusting.

Will a married man sleep with another woman?
Hope where you come from, forbids that too.

If not, it's a double standard and it doesn't work.

osamz007:
CONGRATS TO HER SHE HAS REALLY WORKED HARD AS IN HARDER HARDER FOR THIS

HOW I WISH OUR MEN CAN WORK AS HARD HARDER HARDER LIKE THIS

So what are you trying to say?.

You didn't mention anything yet you mentioned everything.

Mind yourself ooo.

Mafuba:
Hello Nairalanders,

Why is it that after my first round of sex, I am unable to get erect and continue the second round. It takes not less than 2 hours for me to get erect again.

Is this normal? Any solution to this?

Hope you have stopped that masturbation that killed your zeal. I know you know what I am talking about.